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Author Topic: Well, it matters to me......  (Read 1236 times)

Offline Al Ramone

Whether I like the SP, and that I feel she likes me....

In life, I'm on the back 9 now I guess, and been punting since my mid 20s. For many years it didn't matter, as most of the WGs I visited (mainly in saunas) treated me as 'the next customer'. Thinking back, those that I remember most fondly were the girls that I liked, not only for the great sex but for their personality as well (and these were repeat visits).
I know, it's their job, but the little touches like remembering a conversation from a few weeks back, or bringing some wine into the room, have stuck in the mind.

Yeah, i know EAS territory and a fluff.

But these days, I do look for traits in WGs I can relate to over the years. It's mainly escort outcalls to my home (can be fairly top end) and over 35s preferred. I do find the experience of the sex, coupled with good conversation, is the ideal I'm seeking.
I have a couple of regulars, but take the chance of someone new from time to time. And yes, I did get too close to a woman once, but I've put that down to experience.

Anyway, long winded, but it does matter to me whether I like the WG, and that she shows a little liking for me. Just can't stand the 'nose in the air' attitude all too prevalent amongst the young WGs though.

What do others think?
« Last Edit: April 17, 2015, 02:03:23 am by Al Ramone »

richie

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All my regs have been ones I can connect with on a personal level not necessarily ones that are the most attractive or offer the best service. I guess I just like the slightly more warm, secure feeling you get with them, consequently I've found that I always performed better with my regs than with one off punts and I was able to enjoy it even more.

LL

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And yes, I did get too close to a woman once, but I've put that down to experience.

What do others think?
I think that it's perfectly OK to get close to a woman and it sounds like this is what you need - just not one that you're paying for sex.

Offline cueball

Op sums it up nicely for me (if maybe a little long winded ha ha), my best punts are with lasses I've clicked with and got on with throughout the punt, not just the podging but the chat and banter before and after.

Offline threechilliman

Op sums it up nicely for me (if maybe a little long winded ha ha), my best punts are with lasses I've clicked with and got on with throughout the punt, not just the podging but the chat and banter before and after.

+1 Love it when they're dirty slits whilst fucking and when youre done they talk as though nothing had happened, which in my case is probably true!

tcm

Offline Bikerboy

All my regs have been ones I can connect with on a personal level not necessarily ones that are the most attractive or offer the best service. I guess I just like the slightly more warm, secure feeling you get with them, consequently I've found that I always performed better with my regs than with one off punts and I was able to enjoy it even more.

+1 Yep, agree with that.
For me it's clicking/feeling connected+personality+sex+looks = Potential Regular.

The EAS caveat for me is that these girls are taking money from you to meet. That means EAS can't be a factor as it's just not the reality of the situation and not what 99.9% of escorts want anyway. Yes, there are exceptions that prove that rule of course.

That said, I do text and speak socially with most of my regulars between meets. Some will go well over the time booked, a few will go for a meal out or drinks 'off the meter', or cut me a heavy discount for a naughty weekend away.
One of the advantages of clicking and mutually enjoying each other's company! :rolleyes:


Offline sticko

+1 Yep, agree with that.
For me it's clicking/feeling connected+personality+sex+looks = Potential Regular.

The EAS caveat for me is that these girls are taking money from you to meet. That means EAS can't be a factor as it's just not the reality of the situation and not what 99.9% of escorts want anyway. Yes, there are exceptions that prove that rule of course.

That said, I do text and speak socially with most of my regulars between meets. Some will go well over the time booked, a few will go for a meal out or drinks 'off the meter', or cut me a heavy discount for a naughty weekend away.
One of the advantages of clicking and mutually enjoying each other's company! :rolleyes:

+2.  Spot on Biker Boy.

There's a lot of benefit in being human and friendly.  Because, although it's at heart a financial transaction, in punting you're still paying a person, and they react like any people do to warmth, generosity and humanity; or equally to coldness, selfishness and unpleasantness.  Some of the meetings with others relayed to me by regulars make my toes curl...

S

Offline Kingy28

Interesting topic & it strikes a chord with me

Type_O_Negative

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At the end of a day we all are humans and we do have feelings. It's nice to have lovely time with a WG who does "extra mile" for you. And that's why i return - and prefer now longer meetings. There is a time for everything when you book WG for 2 or 3 hours.

My the best meeting included fantastic sex, bottle of wine and nice photo session...

I do like a little bit more than wham bam thank you ma'am. :hi:

Offline Al Ramone

Blimey, thanks for all your comments, a bit of a relief.

It's not just me then, and I've also met regulars for 'off meter' drinks and meals.
Just wary of getting too close again though.

I've got a meeting this evening with a regular, and really looking forward to the whole experience (on the basis described) in the manner that a couple of the posters have expressed far more eloquently than me.

Great to know!!
« Last Edit: April 17, 2015, 10:14:27 am by Al Ramone »

Offline AgedCases

If I click with the WG and she is genuine, I can see my search ending and just seeing her. The WG I've seen does text me around once a month to ask how I am but that worries me in a way as she's probably just seeing pound signs.

Also I do get a little envious if a WG has gone further with another punter. Makes me wonder what's wrong with me?

Offline G-style

It also works the other way around for me. I had a punt not so long ago, young, pretty, good (not great) service but during the warm down she was chatting away, her politics, self righteous, self entitlement ... I just thought well I won't be back.

taplow

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Also I do get a little envious if a WG has gone further with another punter. Makes me wonder what's wrong with me?
Sorry, what do you mean?  Is it that she might tell you she did this or that with someone else?  I wouldn't think it's a good idea to get attached to them so that it would matter. 

Offline sticko

It also works the other way around for me. I had a punt not so long ago, young, pretty, good (not great) service but during the warm down she was chatting away, her politics, self righteous, self entitlement ... I just thought well I won't be back.

+1. 

Met with an EE WG once, and her views on 'foreigners' were way to the right of the lunatic fringe of UKIP.  She was a good fuck but I had to leave fairly quickly afterwards.  No point trying to debate the point, and I'm not sure she was aware of the irony of the conversation...

S

Offline Johnbean

Yes would agree with you and say I like it a good mix with attitude and service. Small talk to help break the ice or dirty talk (even if it's bollocks) just makes the punt much more memorable. There is nothing worse than undressing and dressing in silence.

Some of the best pints I've had in an hour have been 30 mins fucking and 30 mins talking about music, in which she had excellent taste!