How do you say no to RO?

[freddytb1]

This may come across as selfish I'm not into RO during meets. Some gents enjoy giving it and that's personal preference, I enjoy giving it in a relationship but during a punt I'm not paying to go down on someone else.
My question is, on the occasion where a girl will ask if you want to go down on them, how do you guys tend to politely decline?

[Bonker]

You feel awkward saying what you will and won't do on a punt? Come on fella!

[freddytb1]

You feel awkward saying what you will and won't do on a punt? Come on fella!

I mean I have always politely declined, but the reason I'm asking how you guys do it is because I don't want to set a bitter tone for punts as it could affect the service the girl provides

[Lou2019]

I mean I have always politely declined, but the reason I'm asking how you guys do it is because I don't want to set a bitter tone for punts as it could affect the service the girl provides

Just keep doing what you’ve been doing politely decline, trust me most won’t be offended, as we are more focused on pleasuring you!
You could always mention it in communications prior to booking, request OW/OWO for example, but state you do not want/require RO to avoid the awkwardness for you.

[Moby Dick]

“No thanks, I’ve already had kippers for breakfast”

[Picti]

This may come across as selfish I'm not into RO during meets. Some gents enjoy giving it and that's personal preference, I enjoy giving it in a relationship but during a punt I'm not paying to go down on someone else.
My question is, on the occasion where a girl will ask if you want to go down on them, how do you guys tend to politely decline?

I usually don't say anything as it's rude to speak while I'm eating 

Remember you're paying her for the services you want and you don't have to offer excuses for activities you don't want. Furthermore she may just be asking as many guys do want to give RO in punts.

Simply say "No I'd rather we / you did (insert prefered activity)". If you want an excuse there's one already in your post; simply say, as some WGs do, that you retain certain activities for your personal life and partner.

[freddytb1]

Just keep doing what you’ve been doing politely decline, trust me most won’t be offended, as we are more focused on pleasuring you!
You could always mention it in communications prior to booking, request OW/OWO for example, but state you do not want/require RO to avoid the awkwardness for you.

Thanks Lou! Great to have the insight of a service provider

[freddytb1]

“No thanks, I’ve already had kippers for breakfast”

 

[freddytb1]

Simply say "No I'd rather we / you did (insert prefered activity)". If you want an excuse there's one already in your post; simply say, as some WGs do, that you retain certain activities for your personal life and partner.

That would work perfectly, thanks man

[The man]

I either ignore the request and carry on sucking her boobs (or whatever else I'm doing) or simply say I don't do that in meets, never been a problem or changed the tone of the meet.

[Lou2019]

Thanks Lou! Great to have the insight of a service provider

you’re welcome

[B4bcock]

If the girl swings over into a 69 position, I sometimes say I just want to look and enjoy the sight.  Usually, though, I bury my face. 

[alabama1]

This may come across as selfish I'm not into RO during meets. Some gents enjoy giving it and that's personal preference, I enjoy giving it in a relationship but during a punt I'm not paying to go down on someone else.
My question is, on the occasion where a girl will ask if you want to go down on them, how do you guys tend to politely decline?

Selfish ? Its a business transaction, not a relationship 

[Fuzzyduck]

I usually don't say anything as it's rude to speak while I'm eating 

Remember you're paying her for the services you want and you don't have to offer excuses for activities you don't want. Furthermore she may just be asking as many guys do want to give RO in punts.

Simply say "No I'd rather we / you did (insert prefered activity)". If you want an excuse there's one already in your post; simply say, as some WGs do, that you retain certain activities for your personal life and partner.

+1

Remember too that some SPs will see this as an easy option so they don't have to do expend as much effort as other activities.

[Home Alone]

Selfish ? Its a business transaction, not a relationship 

+1

NEVER forget that!!

[Doc Holliday]

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[myothernameis]

This may come across as selfish I'm not into RO during meets. Some gents enjoy giving it and that's personal preference, I enjoy giving it in a relationship but during a punt I'm not paying to go down on someone else.
My question is, on the occasion where a girl will ask if you want to go down on them, how do you guys tend to politely decline?

I suppose the opposite might apply, if you wanted to rim the escort

[Vic69]

I have had Gentlemen not want to do RO, kiss do OWO, and it really isnt a problem, and I certainly wouldnt be offended or let it affect the service I provide, everybody enjoys different things.  We are providing a service, and on the whole most SP want you to go with a smile on your face.

[Home Alone]

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[dubhcarr]

interesting perspective OP I find that if I invest in the foreplay it is paid back in a better punt for me. an odd exception but I always ( if they speak english) confirm what I want before contact. I have no confidence that anything I agree with a maid will be relayed to the girl. (why would they spend unnecessary money?) so if you do not want RO just say NO.   

[Doc Holliday]

Ever the smooth talker, Doc!

My bedside manner was legendary 

Serious answer is just say 'no thank you' and it's unlikely to be an issue .... many will be relieved 

If they insist just say "OK then it but will be £10 extra"

[gbyld87]

Literally just don't do it.  They're not going to demand it.  If they do, tell them you're just not into it.  It's your money, why would you feel like you had to provide a service to them?

If they get arsey about it, they've misunderstood the nature of the transaction.

[RandomGuy99]

Just politely say "No thank you".

They don't seem to mind.

[nbarnes]

I don't really like giving RO (There are duties to fufill with your other half though ) and don't really do it to WGs, also hygiene (it's illogical, and more psychological I know) and the fact that I usually book 30 mins and am a difficult cummer means that we don't get time for anything else really.

Its not a selfish thing, and if you have time - i imagine investment in foreplay is rewarded in genuine enthuasism.

I have had girls sit on my face and 69 me and I just usually bury my face and enjoy the feeling and the scents of a lady's awesome bits

[OakTree]

I've found they're pretty quick to tell you want they don't like or allow so I certainly wouldn't have an issue saying no thanks, I'd rather not.

[Bonker]

“No thanks, I’ve already had kippers for breakfast”

Or...
I'm not going to Grimsby. Too many people have docked there before me.

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[Marmalade]

Don't get into the situation in the first place!

I try to sum up in the first minute or two whether the p4p can 'read me' and be sensitive and receptive to what I want without me being too directing OR can produce such an incredibly interesting scenario that I want to go along with it and see what happens OR hasn't got a clue.

The last of these is by far the most common.
In which case I will take control and just charmingly make sure that she always has something to do that I want her to do. It involves putting on an act but works most of the time. As our resident p4p said, suggest nicely but firmly. The thing is, you have to do it very quickly, within the first few minutes of the punt: Establish who's in charge.

There are times that I would really just prefer to 'go with the flow' but that only happens with one or two that have the emotional and sexual intelligence to interact as equal human beings (They often become a regular). I don't blame them if they can't: they're getting paid, they're shagged out, and a large proportion of suckers are so blown away that they just let her do her routine, whatever the fuck that is. No disrespect, p4ps aren't dogs (well, most aren't) but it is a bit like training a dog. Be gentle and firm and let her know who's in charge or she'll run all over you and you'll wonder why the fuck you are paying her.

There's the odd one (usually without much English) that hasn't got a clue and doggedly insists on what she believes is best, however sweetly one tries to guide. Try to tell her otherwise and she'll reply "most people enjoy it" (as if you should as well and it's your fault if you don't). They are simply pump, dump or walk.

Honestly if she suggests that you go down on her and it's not what you want, then she's not very bright (though it does mean you have also lost control). What she should do is politely enquire if you want to. A bit like "would you like a glass of wine?" A mere casual option. So, "Do you want to go down on me?" evinces the answer, "No, I'm fine just doing what I'm doing" / "enjoying what you're doing" / "No, what I'd really like is..." (If you don't know what you'd really like then do some quick mental homework ffs!)

[Thephoenix]

External Link/Members Only.  Chinese!

Mai Kah/Krap.....Thai..... seriously!

Nu .... Romanian.      ( Maybe okay in Scotland)

Na......Welsh

Ghobe' or Qo'....... Klingon......(well you never know!)

Obviously I'm bored!

[freddytb1]

Don't get into the situation in the first place!

I try to sum up in the first minute or two whether the p4p can 'read me' and be sensitive and receptive to what I want without me being too directing OR can produce such an incredibly interesting scenario that I want to go along with it and see what happens OR hasn't got a clue.

The last of these is by far the most common.
In which case I will take control and just charmingly make sure that she always has something to do that I want her to do. It involves putting on an act but works most of the time. As our resident p4p said, suggest nicely but firmly. The thing is, you have to do it very quickly, within the first few minutes of the punt: Establish who's in charge.

There are times that I would really just prefer to 'go with the flow' but that only happens with one or two that have the emotional and sexual intelligence to interact as equal human beings (They often become a regular). I don't blame them if they can't: they're getting paid, they're shagged out, and a large proportion of suckers are so blown away that they just let her do her routine, whatever the fuck that is. No disrespect, p4ps aren't dogs (well, most aren't) but it is a bit like training a dog. Be gentle and firm and let her know who's in charge or she'll run all over you and you'll wonder why the fuck you are paying her.

There's the odd one (usually without much English) that hasn't got a clue and doggedly insists on what she believes is best, however sweetly one tries to guide. Try to tell her otherwise and she'll reply "most people enjoy it" (as if you should as well and it's your fault if you don't). They are simply pump, dump or walk.

Honestly if she suggests that you go down on her and it's not what you want, then she's not very bright (though it does mean you have also lost control). What she should do is politely enquire if you want to. A bit like "would you like a glass of wine?" A mere casual option. So, "Do you want to go down on me?" evinces the answer, "No, I'm fine just doing what I'm doing" / "enjoying what you're doing" / "No, what I'd really like is..." (If you don't know what you'd really like then do some quick mental homework ffs!)

Such a comprehensive response, thanks man!
To be fair no-one has ever demanded it, I guess in hindsight they probably asked because other punters might have liked it, which I probably misinterpreted as them wanting me to do it.
I like what you said about showing control and I'll use that in punts when lockdown allows! 

[freddytb1]

Thanks for all the insight chaps and chapettes!
Some good info and some good laughs gained from this thread

[meptalon]

My question is, on the occasion where a girl will ask if you want to go down on them, how do you guys tend to politely decline?

Well... simply tell her "sorry, I'd rather not, I'm no into that". She should understand it's not about her, but rather you not liking it. I don't see what's wrong about that as long as you say it politely.

[meptalon]

Don't get into the situation in the first place!

That too. I'd say it's good practice to confirm what you want before starting the meet.

[bigmc]

There have been times when I wasnt in the mood for it, but let the lady go down on me in 69. I`ve either just admired the view and said nowt, or stuck a finger or 2 in there ( and maybe up the back door too  )

[tynetunnel]

I’d NEVER say no, I adore it! 

Each to their own though, if you don’t like it, don’t do it. You’re the one who is paying FFS 

[Picti]

You could always engineer it so she stops it.

Just go down, mouth hovering, and do the old cavernous echo chamber gag. She'll stop you and remember you forever 

[king tarzan]

Decline never...
To me that would be like declining my favourite lamb biryani with Karahi gohst and gulab jaman with strawberry ice cream!!!!

[Drayki]

I’d NEVER say no, I adore it! 

Each to their own though, if you don’t like it, don’t do it. You’re the one who is paying FFS 

+1 love it  one of the best parts of a punt, can’t beat eating pussy 

[HarryZZ]

There's a premise in the question that supposes she'll be disappointed, like she's really looking forward to having somebody go down on her, she's getting it 10 times a day, her clit's been knocked about more than Mike Tyson's punchbag and although the experience for her, at best, may not be unpleasant, you don't need to worry about whether you're giving her good value, she just wants the cash, say yes, say no, say fuck off, just pay her, do your thing and fuck off.

[B4bcock]

Decline never...
To me that would be like declining my favourite lamb biryani with Karahi gohst and gulab jaman with strawberry ice cream!!!!

. . . . plus mango, presumably??

[Bustydusty]

I think you’re finding a problem that doesn’t exist

[king tarzan]

I think you’re finding a problem that doesn’t exist

Luckily no off putting dick mileage  clock down there, so enjoy 👅👅👅👅😋😋😋😋👅👅👅😋😋😋

[hendrix]

I never do it  - easy enough to decline as you're the customer surely?

[Home Alone]

My bedside manner was legendary 

Serious answer is just say 'no thank you' and it's unlikely to be an issue .... many will be relieved 

If they insist just say "OK then it but will be £10 extra"

 

Turn the tables: "Ees extra, baybee!"

[Jonestown]

I think you’re finding a problem that doesn’t exist

+1

Hands up anyone who have EVER been asked by an SP to provide RO...................

[Doc Holliday]

Hands up anyone who have EVER been asked by an SP to provide RO...................

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Many times

[Jonestown]

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Many times

Really, then I'm guessing Doc Holiday must be the nom de punt of Steve Tyler , the rock star with the over developed gob.

[Fuzzyduck]

+1

Hands up anyone who have EVER been asked by an SP to provide RO...................

I've been asked a couple of times. Once I declined (lazy minger); the other time (tight hottie) I was already on my way down to the Y when she asked.

[Jonestown]

Ok, two down, 57,886 to go.

[signy]

Hands up anyone who have EVER been asked by an SP to provide RO...................

No sure it counts, but as someone who likes (a lot) some femdom, I have often been told to get licking, or just had her sit on my face which is probably a clue that it is either RO or rimming time. However, I have indicated in advance that this would be a welcome part of the session, so as I say, might not count.