How close is too close

[Thomas1002345]

Would you visit an escort in the same town/ city as you? Even in the same street as you?

[twotight]

same city yes of course,town and street ,that's a bit to close for comfort

[daviemac]

There's a 3 page thread here from last year, though it did get quite confusing as nobody quite understood what the OP was asking as he kept changing or adding different scenarios.

 https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=350481.0

[Atrueyorkie]

Good question.

The saying don’t shit where you eat comes to mind.

Never on the same street.

I wouldn’t advise that, a majority punt with the fact that these two worlds doesn’t collide. Punting in the same area you live increases the chances of meeting someone you know and losing discretion.

On the flip, if you don’t give a fuck and have nothing really to lose then go ahead and punt on your doorstep.

I’ve had two encounters where one was too close for comfort and secondly seeing each other outside of punting by accident. Both were really long.

Would strongly advise not to punt in your area personally.

[Jonestown]

If you want to punt close to home get yourself a dog and take it for walks in the evening, easy to grab enough time for a quick P&D, just don’t do what I did and tie the dog to a lamppost outside, ask if you can bring it in with you.

[StingRay]

If you want to punt close to home get yourself a dog and take it for walks in the evening, easy to grab enough time for a quick P&D, just don’t do what I did and tie the dog to a lamppost outside, ask if you can bring it in with you.

And don't let the other half take the dog for a walk in case it leads her somewhere that you would rather not want her to go to! 

[myothernameis]

Good question.

The saying don’t shit where you eat comes to mind.

Never on the same street.

When it comes to punting, either locally to your self, or in town, somethings we should be doing.  If punting in town, do any of your family, like brothers, sisters, cousins, nephews or nieces, stay near by, home or work

So for instance in Glasgow, I know my nephew stays in Byres Road, but dont know what flat no.   So if I was making a booking with an escort, for an in-call, and its in Byres Road ??, will I bump into my nephew, and maybe my brother (nephew's father)

[versace]

Would you visit an escort in the same town/ city as you? Even in the same street as you?

It depends on the size of the location. Big city, then yes, small town/village then no. Same street - hello no!

[Southernbloke]

Seen a few in my local area. Have recently had a problem with one local to me as she phoned the business I own . All sorted now but it made me realise that I will only see people away from my local area

[Atrueyorkie]

When it comes to punting, either locally to your self, or in town, somethings we should be doing.  If punting in town, do any of your family, like brothers, sisters, cousins, nephews or nieces, stay near by, home or work

So for instance in Glasgow, I know my nephew stays in Byres Road, but dont know what flat no.   So if I was making a booking with an escort, for an in-call, and its in Byres Road ??, will I bump into my nephew, and maybe my brother (nephew's father)

I’m sorry I don’t get what you wrote, I’m gonna take a rain check and say I’ve had a long day.

[willie loman]

ive bumped into my niece when was enroute to a punt, no big problem , if she saw me leaving a sauna it would be awkward, punted a sauna girl, who lived 2 doors down, didnt bother me or her, but i imagine for the majority it could be an issue.

[RedKettle]

punted a woman (many times) who lived around 10 miles away which was great and safe.  She now lives about 100 yards away   

At the moment we are both ignoring each other.  She has retired so hopefully it will stay that way.

[Fuzzyduck]

Would you visit an escort in the same town/ city as you? Even in the same street as you?

This is what your 3rd or 4th "paranoia" thread. Seriously, I'm not sure punting is for you.

I've been in another city (technically counts as another country) but randomly bumped into someone I knew close to where I had just punted. WTF? Normally I have a pre-prepared reason why I should be in a particular area but didn't on this occasion. I styled it out and went for a pint.

Some basic principles for you.

- Write down a list of all the main things you're worried about happening (bumping into someone you know, being challenged at hotel reception etc)
- Put them in order of shitstorm
- For any particular punt, focus on minimising the likelihood of any shitstorms happening
- Have a good reason for being where you are and practise some speil in advance in case you need to use it out without hesitating and looking guilty.

[wristjob]

Same street would be insane but as close as a mile away isn't really an issue. I never punt with my real name so if somebody came up and called me with the wrong name when I was out with somebody I have excellent deniability.

What worries me more with punting outside where I live is potentially bumping in to people I work with. It would be awkward bumping into somebody on their doorstep without a good reason.

[Stevelondon]

Punted a girl I met on CL yonks ago.....she lived about ten minutes away from my place.

A pro dom I know moved to just round the corner from me.

Never worried me. I still see one of them but its a social thing nowadays...........................plus I have moved yet again.
Its an age thing don't you know. I can't be arsed with all those stairs anymore.

[mr.bluesky]

Punted a girl I met on CL yonks ago.....she lived about ten minutes away from my place.

A pro dom I know moved to just round the corner from me.

Never worried me. I still see one of them but its a social thing nowadays...........................plus I have moved yet again.
Its an age thing don't you know. I can't be arsed with all those stairs anymore.

Wouldn't it be cheaper to just install one of those chair lift contraptions instead of keep moving
 

[Stevelondon]

Wouldn't it be cheaper to just install one of those chair lift contraptions instead of keep moving
 

Oh for fucks sake.
Now you tell me !!! 😂

[ulstersubbie]

A pro dom I know moved to just round the corner from me.

Wish that would happen to me, I'd save a fortune on travel and hotel costs.   

[petermisc]

Wish that would happen to me, I'd save a fortune on travel and hotel costs.   

Yeh, but with it that easy to see her, you'd probably be seeing her every other day, and paying her an even larger fortune. Unless she did season tickets.

[Fuzzyduck]

Yeh, but with it that easy to see her, you'd probably be seeing her every other day, and paying her an even larger fortune. Unless she did season tickets.

Yes, but then she could afford to buy a bigger/better house and move away.

[Bat]

One of my regs went to the same school as me and it turned out that when we were, a LOT, younger, we lived just round the corner from each other.

When we first discovered the school stuff we had a lot of reminiscing about old teachers and the school itself etc.

We are about 5 school years apart so she was only just starting when I was leaving. We think we may have had one year there at the same time.

There’s a slight chance we may both know someone locally but that age difference is probably enough that we don’t. It hasn’t bothered us at all and, if anything, the shared backgrounds has added something to the relationship.

We now live about 10 miles apart but our most recent meeting was in the area we both lived in as teenagers - it’s loosely half way between us. We’ve said we may visit a local pub that we both went to when we were younger. May be a chance we’ll see someone that knows one or other of us but we already know we can use the “we were friends at school together” line and will fudge the age difference as we don’t look that far apart in age nowadays

[PumpDump]

Would you visit an escort in the same town/ city as you? Even in the same street as you?

I have visited one 3 streets away. But I knew it was a Brazilian house where they girls move on so chances of seeing her again was very low.

[Punterperson1971]

I have visited one 3 streets away. But I knew it was a Brazilian house where they girls move on so chances of seeing her again was very low.

2 I see are 1 street away
3 more are in my town centre
And regular is between my home and work journey
And 1 I used to see(she’s since moved) 2 streets away

[stevedave]

Closest I've seen is about a 3 minute walk from my house.

Really doesn't bother me, but then I'm single and the lasses value their anonymity as much as I do, if not more.

[bristolnick]

I went to see someone recently that was in some flats off a main road in Bristol. When i got to gate and address i realised i had friends living in a flat in the same gated area. Still went back as it was good service!

[Punterperson1971]

I went to see someone recently that was in some flats off a main road in Bristol. When i got to gate and address i realised i had friends living in a flat in the same gated area. Still went back as it was good service!

One of the regulars I see in town centre I’ve bumped into a chap I used to go to school with lives there

[Stevelondon]

Wish that would happen to me, I'd save a fortune on travel and hotel costs.   

Ahhhhhhh !!!!   I should just clarify. She moved house……….. not where she held her sessions from.
Nice lass. Which reminds me. It’s her round…… yes I do keep a tally.

[puntingking]

Would you visit an escort in the same town/ city as you? Even in the same street as you?

I would even visit an escort who lives/works next door to where I live. 

I have visited a wg who lives one minute walk from my house many years ago, I walked past her house many times walking the dog  during the times I used to visit her. Escorts won't splurt out that you have seen her to your neighbours or to your family. It just wouldn't be a good business model for them.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

I'd visit someone in the same bloody house if avaible!!!!

Cambridge effect innit;(...

[PumpDump]

I'd visit someone in the same bloody house if avaible!!!!

Cambridge effect innit;(...

She's called a wife. Many members will tell you why that doesn't work long term 

[TotalRecall]

Twice in the last month I have made enquiries with two different escorts only to discover that they're located in the same building that my cousin lives in. Bumping into him on the way to a punt was a risk I wasn't willing to take.

[Jonestown]

Twice in the last month I have made enquiries with two different escorts only to discover that they're located in the same building that my cousin lives in. Bumping into him on the way to a punt was a risk I wasn't willing to take.

Sounds like your cousin made a good choice when he picked that place, can keep his slippers on and wander along for a good time.

[Murray Mint]

I live in a rural area, so the likelihood of finding an escort really close is pretty slim anyway, but two of the SPs I often see are in town and only about 8 miles away, so the main danger is the car being spotted when parked, but as it is the local town, I always have a plausible excuse about a bit of shopping.

Going back some 20 years, there may be some of you who remember Newbury Massage. It was located above a, at that time, empty shop right outside the parish church with access almost directly onto the busy shopping street. My concern wasn’t going in, but coming out and bumping into a neighbour shopping, particularly as many people – including the vicar – knew what went on there!

[Steveraynor]

Many years ago in my early nieve days I punted a girl that lived next door to my aunt, I wanted to see her so went in the evening with cover of darkness. But was sitting bricks coming out incase she was putting the bins out.

[markmark13]

I once bumped into the famous Sandy in my local newsagents. Bit awkward, as she was with her fella. Although it turns out from the court case that he knew all along what she was doing.

[Generalstockinghead]

I once punted a lass who was renting the same house I used to year's ago.  It had new windows but the carpets didn't match the curtains anymore

[newhere456]

In the same town, yes - makes that 45 minutes spent queueing at Screwfix that much more plausible.

On the same street, if in sight of my house that would be a no - but if around the corner and the SP was FAF then it could be made to work.

[Will2k]

If they are living where you are living, they can be just another neighbor. If the are providing services where you are seeking services how does the danger of being caught make it exciting?

[Iloveoral]

I drove 15 miles to the next city not to bump into the local Thais near me but the girl I met also had the same idea, she’d travel out of town not to bump into locals 
Luckily she can keep a secret 

[bigden40]

I lived in Prague for a little while, there was a brothel on the basement floor of my apartment block.  I did visit from time to time.

In hindsight that could have gone badly. 

[petermisc]

For a single bloke, I really don't see any problems.  Anyone you bump into when with someone else can be a work colleague, friend/acquaintance, neighbour, etc depending on who you are with.  What would look really suspicious would be if you were with someone and a girl obviously recognised you, but you were obviously pretending not to know her.  Women can be very adept at picking up on these kinds of things.

If I see a WG I know out and about, and provided she appears to be on her own and I am on my own, I will give a brief nod of recognition out of politeness.  It is then up to her whether she wants to interact further.  But probably best avoided, as in my experience she is fairly soon going to ask something like "why haven't you been to see me recently?".

[VladtheImpaleHer]

I've seen four escorts in different places approximately 5-10 minutes walk from where i live in the past. Never bothered me! But i'm single. One escort i saw plain clothed in the street two days after our punt. We noticed each other and said hello.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

In the same town, yes - makes that 45 minutes spent queueing at Screwfix that much more plausible.

On the same street, if in sight of my house that would be a no - but if around the corner and the SP was FAF then it could be made to work.

What a name that is "Screwfix" what wierdo drempt that up?, mind you there have been a couple of tasty ones in the local  dept here over time;!"..

[stampjones]

I live about a mile from a smallish town. Fortunately there are no escorts where I live (or I’d probably see them) but Ive seen loads in the local town. This is stupidly risky as I know many people who are likely to be around. I used to visit a brothel right across from the railway station where I could easily have bumped into someone on any given day. I visit a massage shop about a third of a mile from my son’s flat. Am I a risk taker? Do I subconsciously want to get caught? Maybe Im just a sex addict. I do need to stop that shit though and introduce a personal hooker exclusion zone!

[Jimbag1]

Absolutely. But I’m single.

I live in Manchester and in my experience most girls who work here actually live in nearby cities like Liverpool or Leeds but then travel so as to avoid the risk of them running into people they know.

[ulstersubbie]

I live in Manchester and in my experience most girls who work here actually live in nearby cities like Liverpool or Leeds but then travel so as to avoid the risk of them running into people they know.

This mirrors my experience in Manchester when I lived there. Most of the dommes seemed to live in Derbyshire or Yorkshire.

[petermisc]

This mirrors my experience in Manchester when I lived there. Most of the dommes seemed to live in Derbyshire or Yorkshire.

So, the girls are travelling in to avoid meeting anyone they know.  And the punters are also travelling in from the same places to avoid anyone they know.  Can anyone spot the flaw? 

[Bat]

So, the girls are travelling in to avoid meeting anyone they know.  And the punters are also travelling in from the same places to avoid anyone they know.  Can anyone spot the flaw? 

I had this exact conversation with one SP. We had both travelled about 40 mins to meet up, only to discover we lived quite close to each other, went to the same shops and had even been at the same school 

[MrMohican]

I had a dilemma recently where a girl who lived locally to me and who I became distantly friends with on Facebook I discovered a year or so later was doing a bit of escorting on the side. I absolutely fancied the arse off her - facially she's one of the most beautiful women I know. Proper model material. Way out of my league, so the idea that for a few squid I could have her noshing me off was like some kind of tortuous temptation. I still remember the pleasurable shock that ran through me when I saw her AW verification photo and recognised it was one and the same person. I was like a cat on a hot tin roof for days trying to work out what I did with the knowledge.

The dilemma was she had a number of mutual facebook friends with me who lived locally and at the time I had a partner I was living with and was fairly well known in the area - so to say this was a bit close to home was an understatement. I also knew the mutual friends were pretty judgemental and would definitely have frowned on her 'career' choice so going to see her was fraught with all kind of danger - not least me arriving at her door, her working out where she knew me from and then thinking of me as some kind of stalker.

I wont lie the danger actually made it seem all the more exciting.

In the end I bit the bullet and made an appointment with her - when she texted me the address I realised she was doing this from her own home - one where she regularly posted pics of her and her daughter doing innocent family things like baking cookies and cakes together. I also realised just how close she was as well - literally a 5/10 minute walk from my house.

I turned up at the door with my heart in my mouth and the site of her in nothing but lingerie was almost worth the entry fee alone. There was a vague look of recognition on her face and she said 'your local arent you? I've definitely seen you around' but thankfully her reaction was flirtatious rather than panicky.

Anyway the punt was fabulous. full of mutual massage and oral. Her pussy tasted divine. I ate her like a man possessed and the site of her finishing me off in her mouth with her gazing up at me with those beautiful eyes will remain in my wankbank forever.

We stayed in touch but Ive not been able to repeat. She only occasionally dabbles in this line of work sometimes taking months off at a time. Her last text to me was asking if I'd be interested in a threesome as she had a boyfriend who was cool with her escorting and so she was experimenting with bringing her partner into the equation.

The idea of spitroasting her filled my fever dreams for weeks after that. But in the end I couldnt quite go there. Not sure the sight of another hairy arsed bloke pounding away wouldnt have put me off my own stroke... its great in porn, but in real life...

Then she went off the radar again, havent heard from her since... she still occasionally pops up on my facebook feeds though... sigh...

Maybe one day she'll need a bit of extra money and I'll get another text... time will tell I guess.

[Tomcat]

same city yes of course,town and street ,that's a bit to close for comfort

Agree same town but bloody hell not same street.