Does your weight and appearance bothers you when you see an escort

[ram2184]

hahahaha! 

I bet the girls treat you gently as they must be shit scared you will have a heart attack if you cum too hard!

if i had a heart attack during missionary on a wg chances are i won't be going to heaven alone  i wonder if she would charge me her overnight rate 

[bunny84]

Just message an escorts agency saying your weight and asking them to ask the girls .The girls just want money . My mate is 25 stone at just 5ft 7 . His shagged loads of hookers and only ever been turned down once in Amsterdam red light district

Get a gastric band .you need to try meal planning ..Google soup is slimming video . By turning your food into soup water gets assured into the mass of the food and stays in your stomach for longer . It's been problem with scans.  I make up up to 15 litres of a soup at at time and freeze it in 1 litres bags . I have smoothie with  fruit , whey and oats in the morning then 2 other meals with are just soup made from chicken ,2 portions of veg and sweet potato . Do this Monday to Friday when I want to lose weight then eat differently on the weekend . Stick in a couple of boxing classes a week and weight falls off me doing this
Track what you eat with my fitness pal. 

[ram2184]

Just message an escorts agency saying your weight and asking them to ask the girls .The girls just want money . My mate is 25 stone at just 5ft 7 . His shagged loads of hookers and only ever been turned down once in Amsterdam red light district

Get a gastric band .you need to try meal planning ..Google soup is slimming video . By turning your food into soup water gets assured into the mass of the food and stays in your stomach for longer . It's been problem with scans.  I make up up to 15 litres of a soup at at time and freeze it in 1 litres bags . I have smoothie with  fruit , whey and oats in the morning then 2 other meals with are just soup made from chicken ,2 portions of veg and sweet potato . Do this Monday to Friday when I want to lose weight then eat differently on the weekend . Stick in a couple of boxing classes a week and weight falls off me doing this
Track what you eat with my fitness pal.

thank you. I am actually doing following a HFLC diet and tracking my food intake. For exercises i just walk but i don't do anything heavy yet as advised. gastric band is a last option.

[cueball]

thank you. I am actually doing following a HFLC diet and tracking my food intake. For exercises i just walk but i don't do anything heavy yet as advised. gastric band is a last option.

You need to change your avatar, it'll only give you ideas every time you post, get a salad avatar

[ram2184]

You need to change your avatar, it'll only give you ideas every time you post, get a salad avatar

curry chicken my favourite food in the world. Actually it is allowed on hflc diet. i just have to skip the naan's and rice

[azrael]

curry chicken my favourite food in the world. Actually it is allowed on hflc diet. i just have to skip the naan's and rice

not to be disrespectfull but what do you eat chicken curry if not with naan or rice?

[cueball]

not to be disrespectfull but what do you eat chicken curry if not with naan or rice?

A spoon

[johnny34]

not to be disrespectfull but what do you eat chicken curry if not with naan or rice?

A spoon

Try using chop-sticks, it'll take that long to eat that you'll lose the weight in no time 

[306]

chop sticks and rich /or peas /or mushy peas  ?

[Wilson85]

I'll never forget the time at LMP when I'd just finished noshing off a popular marmalette and was getting a BJ for my troubles. An obese man went to go down on her and she started going on about how sensitive her pussy was. He took the hint and tried his luck elswhere. As he left she looked up at me and rolled her eyes.

I've seen blokes with middle aged spreads having a great time at parties, but once the punters start getting to corpulence, the prossies are going to be less than keen.

[306]

corpulence 
Corpulence is a word for excessive weight. The Latin word "corpus" means "body," and corpulence is when someone has a lot of body, in other words, they’re fat.
The word corpulence is old-fashioned, but it refers to something all too modern — the quality of being very overweight. This is much more than being a little overweight. One of Santa Claus' main features is his corpulence. Unfortunately, corpulence is a quality that many people have, and it poses many health risks.

[Wilson85]

I like the word corpulence, it reminds me of Mr Creosote.External Link/Members Only

[HappyandLucky]

I'll never forget the time at LMP when I'd just finished noshing off a popular marmalette and was getting a BJ for my troubles. An obese man went to go down on her and she started going on about how sensitive her pussy was. He took the hint and tried his luck elswhere. As he left she looked up at me and rolled her eyes.

I've seen blokes with middle aged spreads having a great time at parties, but once the punters start getting to corpulence, the prossies are going to be less than keen.

And your point is?

[Ali Katt]

I have the opposite problem, haven't been able to gain any weight since I was around 14 years old.  Would be good for a female but not for a guy.  I would be able to fit into Mr 36 stones frame 4 and a half times.

Is liposuction an option?  I've heard of more and more guys going through this procedure.  Not sure how much it costs.

+1 Difference is I love being thin. Don't think about it and just concentrate on being you, the thin girls will understand the fat ones will be jealous - win win all the way. Designer clothes are always made small and "blown up" when they go into production, which means it's perceived perception that clothes look better on thin people.

If you want to gain weight: eat brown bread, have 4 meals a day, use protein shakes, eat lean cuts of meat that are high in protein (Turkey, Chicken, Tuna). Fleshy fruit is good, and if you're not to bothered about your teeth peanuts, wholewheat muffins and cereals are good. And replace the coffee with fresh orange juice or smoothies.

[billyjo]

+1 Difference is I love being thin. Don't think about it and just concentrate on being you, the thin girls will understand the fat ones will be jealous - win win all the way. Designer clothes are always made small and "blown up" when they go into production, which means it's perceived perception that clothes look better on thin people.

If you want to gain weight: eat brown bread, have 4 meals a day, use protein shakes, eat lean cuts of meat that are high in protein (Turkey, Chicken, Tuna). Fleshy fruit is good, and if you're not to bothered about your teeth peanuts, wholewheat muffins and cereals are good. And replace the coffee with fresh orange juice or smoothies.

Haven't had white bread in years, only wholegrain bread, brown rice and only used brown sugar until I cut the sugar out altogether about a year ago.  I eat a lot of fruit and vegetables now, easily more than the recommended 5 a day.  Cut the fizzy drinks out years ago.  No coffee, maximum 2 cups of tea a day.  Eat as much organic produce as I can.  A lot of my friends that had the skinny problem turned to anabolic steroids and going to the gym to gain physical mass but this wasn't a route I was prepared to go down.  I even went to see the Doctor in the past about my inability to gain weight and was told I have a fast metabolism and it's just the way I am. 

[Trevor12]

Aspects of my appearance may bother me when with civvies, and I could be in better shape. However, this doesn't bother me at all when seeing an escort. They've shagged a lot worse for the same money- it's their job.

[Ali Katt]

Haven't had white bread in years, only wholegrain bread, brown rice and only used brown sugar until I cut the sugar out altogether about a year ago.  I eat a lot of fruit and vegetables now, easily more than the recommended 5 a day.  Cut the fizzy drinks out years ago.  No coffee, maximum 2 cups of tea a day.  Eat as much organic produce as I can.  A lot of my friends that had the skinny problem turned to anabolic steroids and going to the gym to gain physical mass but this wasn't a route I was prepared to go down.  I even went to see the Doctor in the past about my inability to gain weight and was told I have a fast metabolism and it's just the way I am.

I doubt my metabolism is as high as yours, although mine is high, but it sounds like you are doing the right things. Don't do steriods as they will give you bad acne and insomnia. If you don't already switch brown rice for pasta and potatos higher in carbs.

[Tjkooker]

thank you. I am actually doing following a HFLC diet and tracking my food intake. For exercises i just walk but i don't do anything heavy yet as advised. gastric band is a last option.

WALK...... Your taking the piss. You probably struggle to waddle at that size.

[billyjo]

WALK...... Your taking the piss. You probably struggle to waddle at that size.

Your type of comments don't really help. 

[spkmstr48]

I would suggest though for your own health to find another way to deal with stress.  Have you tried CBT (not cock and ball torture) as there are some effective methods that can be learned.  I used to struggle with stress but have found meditation to be better than food for distressing.  Or if you do need to the food for stress change what you eat.  Chop up carrot sticks and bits of celery and water melon as all three are classed as minus calories as you burn more eating them than they contain.

There speaks someone who's seen a councillor due to stress. I personally think CBT is a pile of shit. It's just another behaviour modification (like over eating) it's not a cure.

I am overweight, but less than half of the OPs weight, but have no self image problems and no need of compliments from the WG.

I qm overweight

[Tjkooker]

Your type of comments don't really help.

Tough love is sometimes required instead of bleeding heart sympathy for a self inflicted problem. Don't eat so much and exercise fatties.

[spkmstr48]

Try using chop-sticks, it'll take that long to eat that you'll lose the weight in no time 

Really, chopsticks are the fastest way to eat, unless you don' t know how to use them!

[maxxblue]

There speaks someone who's seen a councillor due to stress. I personally think CBT is a pile of shit. It's just another behaviour modification (like over eating) it's not a cure.

I am overweight, but less than half of the OPs weight, but have no self image problems and no need of compliments from the WG.

I qm overweight

How is CBT like overeating? I thought that it was recommended by the NHS because it can be effective?

[spkmstr48]

How is CBT like overeating? I thought that it was recommended by the NHS because it can be effective?

Because it's a ritual. Doing CBT instead of eating is not a cure for stress.

For example, CBT tells you that your negative thoughts about what other people think of you are incorrect. Unfortunately that's not always true, especially in a work environment.

[spkmstr48]

Because it's a ritual. Doing CBT instead of eating is not a cure for stress.

For example, CBT tells you that your negative thoughts about what other people think of you are incorrect. Unfortunately that's not always true, especially in a work environment.

Other things a councillor can tell you about not worrying about the things you can't control also don't help if you have a naturally controlling personality.

Seeing WGs is good though as you are paying to be in control.

[maxxblue]

Because it's a ritual. Doing CBT instead of eating is not a cure for stress.

For example, CBT tells you that your negative thoughts about what other people think of you are incorrect. Unfortunately that's not always true, especially in a work environment.

"A little knowledge is a dangerous thing."

Alexander Pope (1709)

[spkmstr48]

"A little knowledge is a dangerous thing."

Alexander Pope (1709)

Touche (oops, can't do "e" acute on this device).

[Denhamhoop]

When i first started punting yes it did a little but now fuck it.Most WG's as long as im prompt pay their "booking fee" and am my usual gentle charming self there is no problem at all.As for me im a 16 stone fat bloke but somehow ive always carried it quite well and people are surprised when i say how heavy i am

[Dani]

CBT does not tell you that what you think others think of you is wrong at all. It teaches techniques on how to deal with certain issues and each issue has different ways to respond. Over eating to the point of risking your health is basically an illness in itself and CBT wont cure it but will get him to look at why and why (for those who don't know their triggers) and will teach techniques that help avoid the over eating.  It's completely different to councelling which is what you are describing and has proved dry affective for many problems. It helps over and under eaters, stress, anger problems, aggression as well as helping with many mental illnesses and also helps with chronic pain sufferers

It's basically learning techniques to avoid doing what causes you the issue. Like I said I was taught many ways to deal with stress ( I was an excessive over eater due to it). However I found meditation to work for me. It also helped me with chronic pain as it teaches ways to fool the brain into ignoring the pain signals to a certain degree
CBT does work but you have to work at it as it doesn't happen over night and many people just can't be arsed to stick with it. The group sessions are better as you get to hear other people's ways of coping as well. Plus it's always helpful if you have support from other people which you get in the group.
Surely if it saves your life by helping you stop over eating it's worth a try

[kong]

interesting thread

i used to be stick thin and very self conscious about it which made my meetings with escorts a lot less enjoyable, particularly when one girl felt the need to tell me "you're tall and skinny"! i remember lying next to these stunners just feeling extremely inadequate but i'm glad i did it because it gave me more determination to hit the gym and stay in shape

now im slightly under 14 stone which i think is ideal for a guy my height (6'1) i enjoy having sex a tonne more and don't feel self conscious when i get naked (i also get lots of compliments but that's neither here nor there). i know for most guys the issue is too much rather than too little weight but if you don't like how you look the problem is still the same.

hit the gym and get it dealth with, it's likely that you will find it will improve many other areas of your life too.

[Quesadilla]

How I look is not something I think about in a punting context. My fitness to fuck is.

Losing weight and getting fit massively improved my confidence as well as my ability to shag. Lost 5 stone over a few years and now can comfortably fuck for hours in pretty much any position.  Still got another 2 1/2 stone to lose to get to my ideal weight for my height / age but well on track to get there this year.

All I can say to the op is stick with it. It's well worth all the time and effort and the alternative is not worth thinking about.