The only thing that I would say is DON'T FALL IN LOVE when your out there.
bb69
"we are the borg resistance is futile"
if u are not a fan or watcher its star trekIf it happens it happens there is not a lot you can do except walk away which is almost certainly the 'safe' thing to do. However if it works for you and her why not, provided you are "eyes wide open" about the real possibility its a scam to extract a regular payment and multiple emergencies while u are back in blighty. If it is real on her part (even if no more than a way out which many poor asian girls dream about) the reality of supporting her family etc etc. I've known a few 'farangs who have gone this route and to say its to be avoided 100% is in my opinion a mistake. Like all relationships some work some don't and some are an outright scam, l could spend hours (as can many others on here) on here adding warnings about what can happen and I've seen it many times. However I've also seen it work and in one case for 35 years with kids, grand kids and a great life in the sun.
The big judgment call I would suggest is if she is a hardened whore or not and I have no reliable advice as how to tell, but a warning but not the way u might first think. I met this sweet little thing in circumstances that not only gave no indication she was a WG but everything pointed to her not being a WG. I took her out a few times and eventually got her back to my place, where my illusions were debased when I was presented with the 'price list' which was day rate, week rate, and sugar daddy rate. It was not cheap even by UK standards but was the day rate worth it....sure was. It worked for me because I fancied her like hell and she is without doubt the most beautiful women I have ever been with. It turned out she was a fairly successful model (her face was on billboards for beauty products) now an actress, married to a European with kids and grand kids (yep same lady as above) she must be around 55 now but looks absolutely stunning one of those rare women that just don't age in the way most do.
I guess my point is that it can work, don't rule it out, but be careful very very careful, assume the worse until proved otherwise.