TS Query - Similar negative experiences

[Rest2621]

I wanted to post this because I am curious about something...

For context, I have been a semi regular punter for about 5-6 years. 90% of the punts I've had with girls have been enjoyable. About 2 years ago I stumbled across some TS porn and found I enjoyed it, particularly with the TS girl in the passive role. I have seen now TS escorts a few times and every experience was absolute rubbish apart from one which was particularly feminine. I have never bottomed and although I have sucked them once or twice I didnt really find it that enjoyable! All of the TS girls in London seem to be of latino origin and their cocks are unholy they are so big and as a man with a very average manhood I find it quite intimidating!

I know i can't speak for all of you here but I think the fantasy that porn gives surrounding TS girls is different to the reality of having sex with one. I've had it a few times where they look really feminine in pictures and then when you arrive you are met by a very masculine man that just happens to have breast and bum implants, which is what they are I suppose... As a side note, I find their comms to be absolutely appalling and borderline abusive. The last TS I contacted her ad said she was in Camden where I was and when I rang her she said she was in West London. When i pointed this out she called me a 'fucking idiot.' I decided then to stick with cisgender punts! I'm intrigued if anyone else experiences this sort of odd feeling of enjoying TS porn but not actually having sex with them.

Thought I'd message on here because most other forums are just in deep judgement about punting and ignore the actual point i'm trying to make.

[winkywanky]

I see you're a new member, welcome  .

A lot of what you say is true. And that's why this place exists, for TS punters as well as Cis punters.

What you need to do is spend some time checking out the TS reviews. There are plenty who have done a lot of the groundwork for you. Use that resource to make a well-informed choice for yourself.

You'll find there are a few 'forum darlings' who pretty well tick all the boxes you're interested in (which most of us are, to be honest). They'll quickly become apparent.

All I would add to that is in general, Thai and Asian will tend to have smaller cocks, also they will be generally more slightly built. So perhaps go for one of those?

Good luck!

[Yankee41]

I will add it is fairly tough to find a good tranny that isnt half crazed.  Journeying down the tranny path is likely to consist of several expensive mistakes, a great deal of being fucked about and a fair amount of hair pulling until you find a good one.  Ive probably seen 20 over the years and found maybe 3 that were good. 

[TomTank]

Good thread idea, and yes a lot of what you say is true, maybe even more so in London, but when you do find one that's very feminine and provides a good service, it's superb.
I've never really been interested in topping a T-girl; I might as well be with a CISgirl for that.
Having said that the first time I saw a T-girl I wanted to pretend the cock wasn't there and didn't go near it, but then I didn't see another for many years and it was the cock and being topped that drew me to the experience.

[TotalRecall]

I had the same issue with my first couple of TS punts. I kept on just checking AW and then seeing who was available on my area, and then became disappointed and disillusioned with Trans escorts.

I used to be a lurker on the HA site and knew that Sofia was highly recommended on there, so decided to give her a call when I was in London for work. Pretty much the best decision I ever made as she is amazing and I was finally able to have the TS punt I had always dreamed of.

As Winky said, it's best to do your research before hand thay way you can work out which TS escorts are actually worth the time and money to see.

[JontyR]

It seems there is some shared experience here.

Few thoughts:

Escort side:
* Large proportion of escorts touring. Less interest in fostering repeat business
* Language barriers Not uniform, but significant issues in a number of cases

Punter side:
* Punters coming to TS are normally experienced with Female Escorts or with no punting experience at all It means that either beginners punting mistakes are made, or there is  presumption that a punt is a punt is a punt and this is different
* Most (?) new TS punters are coming from almost exclusively hetero and probably UK based lives. There are significant cultural differences to the environment that these girls have come from be it nationality or the lived experience.

The punting wiki is a great resource, but I think it needs addendums for TS punting. I have extra and different "punting rules" for TS. Due diligence is key.

[Cheltclient]

I keep an eye on the TS profiles but haven’t booked one for a while. There’s always a high chance it’ll be poor. I’ve been with 4. Sofia - who is actually one of my fave punts ever, it’s hard to describe buy she’s just so hot and the sex is insane (I think her profile has gone in the last few weeks). Victoria Tedesco who
I didn’t enjoy too much (but she is convincing and gets hard). A British TS in Brum who was friendly enough but the hormones meant she couldn’t get hard and she couldn’t bottom because of a previous pounding. And a Brazilian TS in Gloucester who wasn’t feminine at all and was just odd. Sofia is the only only one I enjoyed so a 1 in 4 success rate.

Just think with the nature of the TS the chances of a poor punt increase dramatically. There’s also a lack of intel online in terms of feedback. They’re also quite expensive so I’ve not taken the risk for a while.

[Mr Doodle]

I have only had the one TS punt - reviewed here. There was no penetration (her tool wasn't the largest, but it certainly was enough to think holey crap!!!). I think the thing that took me aback most was how quickly she asked if I wanted her to penetrate me (not quite in those words). Didn't reconcile to what I thought they would be like.

Having said that, she was very close to her photos.... and was nice, so no complaints.

I was thinking about this one after lock down just to properly tick the TS off the bucket list: External Link/Members Only. Alas, there is a bait and switch review here for her: https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=242656.msg2850510.

This one looks a possibility after lockdown: External Link/Members Only. Not huge downstairs and her profile shows a promising demeanour.

[Dogman777]

I agree mate. Porn drew me in, the fantasy was much better than the reality. Don’t regret doing it as I’d wanted to for a long time but it wasn’t what I’d hoped it would be.

[Gethin_Thomas]

I think most guys on here want someone who looks like a woman. Sadly the photos they post are their very best, the right angle, the right lighting, perhaps some photoshop. Then expectation meets reality. Add in the fact that some have already cum that day, or are on hormones. You have to be in the right frame of mind and relaxed if bottoming. There's just so much that has to go right for it to work.

[Fuggedaboutit]

I think most guys on here want someone who looks like a woman. Sadly the photos they post are their very best, the right angle, the right lighting, perhaps some photoshop. Then expectation meets reality. Add in the fact that some have already cum that day, or are on hormones. You have to be in the right frame of mind and relaxed if bottoming. There's just so much that has to go right for it to work.

I’m looking to pop my TS cherry (no idea why, just maybe for the sake of a new sensation - even though envisaged in a BDSM scenario with 2 real girls present) post lockdown and am engaged in assiduous research. Realised early on I’m searching for a unicorn...

[winkywanky]

I’m looking to pop my TS cherry (no idea why, just maybe for the sake of a new sensation - even though envisaged in a BDSM scenario with 2 real girls present) post lockdown and am engaged in assiduous research. Realised early on I’m searching for a unicorn...

Of course you could always just get a horse and stick a dildo on its head, two birds, one stone  .

[Fuggedaboutit]

This one looks a possibility after lockdown: External Link/Members Only. Not huge downstairs and her profile shows a promising demeanour.

Emailed her AW profile a few days ago. No response yet

[Cheltclient]

The TS porn certainly doesn’t help. It’s very much a myth on the reality (like most porn). I watch a fair bit of Daisy Taylor and after whacking off to her videos i often think about booking a TS again. But it’s just such a risk and is often a waste of money.

I do recall the TS in Birmingham. Def more manly than the feminine pics and the cock was flaccid throughout. With her ass sore from a rough session, it was really £150 for light kissing, a bit of oral, and being wanked off. Not good

[Cheltclient]

Emailed her AW profile a few days ago. No response yet

She does look very hot.

[Fuggedaboutit]

Of course you could always just get a horse and stick a dildo on its head, two birds, one stone  .

Anything involving animals a step too far....even with vague Welsh ancestry...

[winkywanky]

Anything involving animals a step too far....even with vague Welsh ancestry...

  I've just noticed you're interested in TS Meghan? I would approach with caution, although I don't think she has any reviews on here, nevertheless I think two or three guys on here (myself included) have met her and been let down because she refused to engage in penetrative sex. There was always an 'excuse' (by the way, I let the side down for not reviewing, I should have). It was around 18mths ago now I think?

She does look amazing by the way, in the flesh as well as her pictures. But I would specifically check if I were you. In my case she chose to tell me when I'd already entered her room, and foolishly I decided to go ahead anyway, with a frottage and oral session only. I should have walked. I believe she has done similar with others.

[Fuggedaboutit]

I've just noticed you're interested in TS Meghan? I would approach with caution, although I don't think she has any reviews on here, nevertheless I think two or three guys on here (myself included) have met her and been let down because she refused to engage in penetrative sex. There was always an 'excuse' (by the way, I let the side down for not reviewing, I should have). It was around 18mths ago now I think?

She does look amazing by the way, in the flesh as well as her pictures. But I would specifically check if I were you. In my case she chose to tell me when I'd already entered her room, and foolishly I decided to go ahead anyway, with a frottage and oral session only. I should have walked. I believe she has done similar with others.

Ah, thanks. Got my hopes on two in West Midlands (near dungeon I reviewed) Demi Rose and DollyJ. The latter not interested in the scenario proposed, even though “parties” on her likes list...but fair enough she doesn’t mention fetish

[Trex]

I seen one which was a positive and thinking of seeing a different one soon. I’m not bisexual, I just like there look. Tall, fake boobs fake ass and facially attractive is big turn on.

I would tell to wear a thong or g-string to hide it. But still keep searching man and you find a right one. I had a few negatives with girls and that doesn’t stop me of seeing them.

[Jack Hol]

Porn does weird things to your mind, and is completely unrelated to reality.

I've seen one trans woman and had a decent time getting topped, but it definitely is nothing like the fantasy. Jonesrly, it killed enjoyment of trans porn afterwards.

It's and experience I wouldn't repeat except with Sofia, who has been so highly recommended that I'd kick myself if I didn't give her a go, but other than her, I'm definitely sticking to women from now on.

[James10]

It is indeed a minefield and I’ve experienced the kind of shitty comms you’ve experienced too. However, in the last ten years or so, I’ve been lucky enough to have had some mind blowing experiences with some of the best TS girls in the business, who as well as being good fun and good looking have also been genuinely good people.

I would highly recommend doing your research and trying to chat with the girl on the phone first and see if you get a good vibe. However you need to understand that TS girls experience time wasters more than any other type of working girls, because men naturally “bottle it” and let them down on bookings a lot. Add to that the touring nature of their work and you can understand why they can sometimes come across as feisty or at the very least frosty.

Good luck - don’t give up the search. PM me if you’d like some specific recommendations.

[JontyR]

even though “parties” on her likes list

Again this is the point about culture around this situation. Parties in this context doesn't mean multi partners.

Also Meghan has detailed comms issues on her birchplace page. 

[Supersix4]

I've had 6 TS punts in the past and i'd say i enjoyed every one. Even the one with the small thai in Bedford with the unconvincing wig..

[Fuggedaboutit]

Again this is the point about culture around this situation. Parties in this context doesn't mean multi partners.

Also Meghan has detailed comms issues on her birchplace page.

Oh no, that was in relation to DollyJ in Birmingham, not Meghan. But yeah, appreciate "parties" can vary in interpretation.

[Rest2621]

Hey guys

Thanks for all the great responses. There definitely seems to be a pattern and it confirms in my mind that my TS enjoyment should stay with porn! I saw the point about pricing, I personally dont mind paying over the odds for something like TS girls as  it is effectively a fetish, but I'm seeing the ratio of 1 in 4 being a good experience and I think £150 quid is far too much to be paying for a one in four chance of something being good.

I appreciate the lack of judgement. I posted something similar on a another forum and literally just got hounded for using the incorrect terms or people telling me to embrace bisexuality (I'm not bi) happy punting!

[fuckmepink]

I usually only punt when I'm travelling abroad with work but obviously that has happened for a while. So on top of all the issues above - which i think are very well explained - there's often some more language issues for me. 

in my expereince (echoing others above) the variability of TS punts is much higher than GGs but sometimes its over the top arousing.

my last few TS punts - 2 in the uk (Ts Liah Ferreira - i have posted a review, Brianna Ferrari - i didn't review because my experience was much the same as everyone's) and Milan (Bambolina) were very sexy. I think I've only had a few GGs at this level. but equally i've had a few terrible TS punts. One I can recall was absolutely charming and very beautiful when I saw her first and then viciously unpleasant the second time.

Research is key, the reviews you can get here are great, also recognise the ones that stick around and probably have regular customers, the pictures tell a story too - level of photoshopping, how recent, etc.  It is more effort than a GG I think but sometimes it's just great.

[Cheltclient]

Hey guys

Thanks for all the great responses. There definitely seems to be a pattern and it confirms in my mind that my TS enjoyment should stay with porn! I saw the point about pricing, I personally dont mind paying over the odds for something like TS girls as  it is effectively a fetish, but I'm seeing the ratio of 1 in 4 being a good experience and I think £150 quid is far too much to be paying for a one in four chance of something being good.

I appreciate the lack of judgement. I posted something similar on a another forum and literally just got hounded for using the incorrect terms or people telling me to embrace bisexuality (I'm not bi) happy punting!

On a personal level, I’ve never cared about the label I’ll attract for having fucked a TS. If someone thinks it makes me bisexual, fine with me. I can safely say I’ve never fancied a man. I also don’t get titillated by a very manly TS. But a hot, convincingly feminine TS I’ve always found hot. In the bookings I can never manage anal on me but will indulge in mutual oral and obviously anal on her. I’m quite sad and I keep a rating of my bookings and my booking with Sofia is near the top. (Conversely the poor TS bookings are smack bang at the bottom). Sofia is very well rated on here.

But yeah, the reality for me is that with that particular escort I bloody well enjoyed myself. I fancy women, have booked far more women that TS’s - but also enjoy a feminine TS. If someone thinks I’m gay, fine (but it’s illogical). If they think I’m bisexual - fine - and difficult to argue. How would I label it? Generally straight but partial to a booking with a hot woman with a dick

[JontyR]

Oh no, that was in relation to DollyJ in Birmingham, not Meghan. But yeah, appreciate "parties" can vary in interpretation.

Sorry Fugged, I wasn't clear, I meant that Meghan has been discussing the volume of communications she receives on her birchplace page rather than any reference to Meghan and partying.

There definitely seems to be a pattern and it confirms in my mind that my TS enjoyment should stay with porn!

Well I think you may be shutting off something that may be very satisfying for you. Diligence is the key though. 

[triggs91]

I've seen a few TS escorts -all now too old to be valid reviews unfortunately, but partially for the sake of jogging my own memory I'll try to list them out and see how I get on and if I remember it as bad or not;

First TS experience was with Estrella - who also goes by Kelly TS online but seems to live outside of the UK full time now, I really enjoyed the experience, she had a girthy member she did use it on me which I didn't enjoy much so decided at that stage I was not a bottom. I did try to rebook with her at a later time but she was always pretty busy.

Second was an asian girl who I can't remember the name of, was still quite good fun. Lived at the top of a 3 story building with no lift so I was already fucked by the time I got there. She no longer appears to be working

Third was a blonde one based in Chelsea, found out later that she had been letting guys bareback her all over the shop so I ran to get tested. Thankfully negative - No longer appears to be working

4th was a latin girl through ErosTS - bit of a dodgy experience, she had her boyfriend in the loo the whole time. I don't think for any nefarious reason more just that he had nowhere else to go while she worked. When I found out she made him go out, as I left later on he was standing on the doorstep. Was a pretty boring punt to be honest

5th was the massage TS - really good massage, interesting experience having a TS massage me as I hadn't had it before - did not opt to have full service. Tried to book her agani another time but I had issues with the Piccadilly Line so was running late, she basically said she had never booked me in to begin with because I was a time waster. I was a bit put out by this but didn't push it just haven't tried booking her since.

6th was Erika TS - External Link/Members Only - really liked it, gave her a lift to the station after the booking and rebooked another time which I enjoyed as well.

7th was TSFarrah - External Link/Members Only - not to bad, but I came really quickly and kind of ruined it for myself.

8th was somebody who is now going by TS Bella External Link/Members Only - first booking was fine, really good had lots of fun. She did stop to use her phone between pops and line up the next customers and I think had two guys waiting at the same time which is a red flag and probably at the time I thought I must have been lucky to get in without a wait. She saw guys in such quick succession in fact that the next punter opened the door to the flats at ground level as I was still walking down the stairs. Despite this I still went back when my plans with another punt fell through so it was very last minute but this time she was awful - complete rip off. I'd warn anybody against seeing her. I put up a negative review on HungAngels about her and she complained to the admin to get it removed.

9th was External Link/Members Only It was okay, she was friendly enough - gave a good massage. Place was a bit of a shit hole but not everything can be perfect.

10th was PatriciaTS - again really good, have seen her twice both times at the same place. She is quite dominant which I like but doesn't force things

11th was a girl over in St Albans - UK national very friendly but seemed to hang up the stockings and retire not long after I met her

12th was a girl over in Watford - again UK national think her name was Kelly, she may still be on AW but I had a look but wasn't able to see her. Again good service after I pulled out though she did insist on checking for shit on the end of the rubber which kind of took the magic away a little.

I think thats the last TS I've seen.
So to summarise, some bad experiences in there but also some really good ones - I suspect part of the issue is, if they're attractive/convincing then they will be able to take 2 or 3 bookings a day quite easily. Certain days probably even more as although offering a niche service it is in demand. The girls I've met as well, also appear to work alone so are always in charge of their own bookings which is a time burden.

Its also quite a broad service compared to traditional CIS gender punting in terms of services, you have to be able to get hard for a lot of customers you have to be willing to take and give and (and this is a little touchy) these are people who have already suffered emotional trauma from being born into an identity which they did not feel comfortable. Until only 30 years ago, this was really rare and a huge taboo. The Brazilian girls are not even welcome in their own country any longer under the current president that must be a shitter.

[Fuggedaboutit]

Sorry Fugged, I wasn't clear, I meant that Meghan has been discussing the volume of communications she receives on her birchplace page rather than any reference to Meghan and partying.

Well I think you may be shutting off something that may be very satisfying for you. Diligence is the key though.

No worries. I think I'm still going to go for it (and yes TS porn has a lot to answer for here as well...), but as you say, research and diligence is key, and you may still get a duff experience. Then again, I'm also on the look out for a new regular pro domme, and that can also take a while until you find one you "click" with...

[specialedition28]

Totally agree, this initial post could've been written by me...some comms are appalling, and the girls themselves are usually half bonkers apart from a select few.

I think it must take its toll being in this 'role' of a shemale, needing to meet men to make a living, plus Latins are just, well, different to us. Much more temperamental i've found. I do enjoy the porn but also like the idea of meeting up and playing with a large cock, as mine is also decent but probably average in comparison.

Wonder what it's like in the US where they have more 'home grown' girls who are stunning. We tend to rely on imports over here.

[S.X. MacHine]

I totally see where the OP is coming from; his experiences very much mirror mine when I dipped a toe (and more) into the murky world of trans sexuality.
My first, a Thai, looked for all the world like an attractive girl, except for the tiny appendage on the apex of her lower abdomen. You get my drift. Dreadful service, though; just couldn’t have cared less.
My most recent, Scottish, might not be the most convincing woman (though she is pretty good), but gives excellent service and is pleasant with it. I’ve been back a few times.
I guess it’s a case of ‘if at first you don’t succeed, try, try, try again’.

[salparadise]

I'm new to this board but not new to punting. I kinda agree with the OP and masculine 'girls' are also a turn off for me. I would though class myself as bi sexual as although I am not attracted to butch men, I am attracted to fem boys and they don't need to be  wearing a dress for me to find them sexually alluring. Similar to an earlier poster most of my ts punts, and also wg punts, have happened abroad, mainly , LA, NYC, Rio and Barcelona and apart from a couple of 'builders in dresses' in LA they have all been very cute and one Asian ts in Barcelona I would have happily married were not for the fact I would have been committing bigamy. I've not punted for a few years, mainly as I was in a very sexually full filling relationship with a woman but now that has come to pass I am getting a fire in my belly again for sex with a ts. Out of interest are most of you on fabswingers as well?

[winkywanky]

I'm new to this board but not new to punting. I kinda agree with the OP and masculine 'girls' are also a turn off for me. I would though class myself as bi sexual as although I am not attracted to butch men, I am attracted to fem boys and they don't need to be  wearing a dress for me to find them sexually alluring. Similar to an earlier poster most of my ts punts, and also wg punts, have happened abroad, mainly , LA, NYC, Rio and Barcelona and apart from a couple of 'builders in dresses' in LA they have all been very cute and one Asian ts in Barcelona I would have happily married were not for the fact I would have been committing bigamy. I've not punted for a few years, mainly as I was in a very sexually full filling relationship with a woman but now that has come to pass I am getting a fire in my belly again for sex with a ts. Out of interest are most of you on fabswingers as well?

Is that a good resource for finding Trans girls?

[salparadise]

I'm only starting to explore it and there are an awful lot of people identifying themselves as TS.

[YorkshireLad]

I'm only starting to explore it and there are an awful lot of people identifying themselves as TS.

That’s because the LBGT agenda is being pushed hard on western nations to destroy the family unit & reduce population.. 1 in 6 is now LBGT.

[Fuggedaboutit]

That’s because the LBGT agenda is being pushed hard on western nations to destroy the family unit & reduce population.. 1 in 6 is now LBGT.

Or maybe 1 in 6 have always been LBGT but only now feel comfortable identifying as such due to the increasingly liberal mentality of western nations...??

[Fuggedaboutit]

I did find it quite pleasing to discover that this one is based in "Ramsbottom"....

External Link/Members Only

[bobdavid]

I can totally understand. I've only found success with Ladyboys who really look female. Even where I speak to someone on the phone, if the voice is too manly, I hang up... anything to help the illusion that this is a girl with a cock for me.. rather than a guy with a wig and plastic boobs. I'm not under any illusion that these aren't the same of course - I know that many would say "it's what's inside that counts" but, while true, to -me- it's what's inside me that counts. Quite literally in fact.

[Fuggedaboutit]

I can totally understand. I've only found success with Ladyboys who really look female. Even where I speak to someone on the phone, if the voice is too manly, I hang up... anything to help the illusion that this is a girl with a cock for me.. rather than a guy with a wig and plastic boobs. I'm not under any illusion that these aren't the same of course - I know that many would say "it's what's inside that counts" but, while true, to -me- it's what's inside me that counts. Quite literally in fact.

I think that whilst there is obviously a great deal of controversy as to when people start to transition and whether they are doing so on the basis of a proper diagnosis of gender dysphoria (External Link/Members Only), it would also seem to be the case that there are going to be more TSs who started transitioning earlier, and thus are going to far more feminine due to the length of time on hormone treatment. Whether or not that necessarily translates into many of them becoming SPs is an entirely different matter.....

[signy]

That’s because the LBGT agenda is being pushed hard on western nations to destroy the family unit & reduce population.. 1 in 6 is now LBGT.

That could be the least of our problems.

External Link/Members Only

Save that sperm; one day it could be valuable. Either that, or punting could become women willing to pay for fertile males.

[JontyR]

Save that sperm; one day it could be valuable. Either that, or punting could become women willing to pay for fertile males.

And them all posting negative reviews saying we promised bareback and then insisted on popping on a johnny.

[dudezilla]

Fuck me, this place has changed.... a year or so back if you posted that you visit TS 'girls' you'd have been laughed out of school.
This 'lady' External Link/Members Only
The most fabulous tits for a TS, nice girl, small suckable cock (covered) and she sucks you (covered) very enjoyable visit though she can only take pencil dicks up the arse.

[Rest2621]

Hey guys

Thanks for the responses. Someone earlier on in the thread mentioned fantasy and it just being blokes with plastic tits.

I think this is where the problem for me is. As a straight guy, the fantasy that porn gives me is a feminine woman with a dick, whereas the TS girls in London are men with tits and a wig.

I'm glad I posted here, and its made my mind up that I don't want to see TS girls anymore! Happy punting

[winkywanky]

Hey guys

Thanks for the responses. Someone earlier on in the thread mentioned fantasy and it just being blokes with plastic tits.

I think this is where the problem for me is. As a straight guy, the fantasy that porn gives me is a feminine woman with a dick, whereas the TS girls in London are men with tits and a wig.

I'm glad I posted here, and its made my mind up that I don't want to see TS girls anymore! Happy punting

A vast generalisation which is untrue. They don't all have wigs (some have lustrous natural hair), some are very feminine (by any standards), and some even have real tits which were grown under the influence of hormones. Some, you wouldn't even be aware they were Trans if you chatted them up in a bar.

It is a minefield, however if you're interested and do the research then you can find what you're looking for (it may be rather expensive). But since you've suddenly come to your senses and reasserted your 100% straightness, it's obviously not for you.

[Fuggedaboutit]

I'm aware of a saying "there are no chicks with dicks, only guys with tits". The trouble is TS porn does absolutely skew one's perception. There are definitely some ones on Birchplace who do look fantastically feminine (possibly due to transitioning from a younger age as discussed above), and there are indeed some who look like the proverbial bloke in a wig. So, I'm diligently doing my homework trying to find one that (at least according to profile pics) looks like one who'll get as close to that "porno" perfection...but then how many female WGs get that close...??

[winkywanky]

I'm aware of a saying "there are no chicks with dicks, only guys with tits". The trouble is TS porn does absolutely skew one's perception. There are definitely some ones on Birchplace who do look fantastically feminine (possibly due to transitioning from a younger age as discussed above), and there are indeed some who look like the proverbial bloke in a wig. So, I'm diligently doing my homework trying to find one that (at least according to profile pics) looks like one who'll get as close to that "porno" perfection...but then how many female WGs get that close...??

Indeed.

And although it's always welcome when one of us TOFTT, there are a few consistently well-reviewed T-Girls with detailed descriptions in those reviews, to give even the most nervous first-timer a good chance of having the experience he wants to try.

[rubric]

I think this is where the problem for me is. As a straight guy, the fantasy that porn gives me is a feminine woman with a dick, whereas the TS girls in London are men with tits and a wig.

Without commenting on the above; I had a similar reaction to you (though didn't get as far as seeing a TS), putting my analytic head on, I realised for me it's largely a power play fantasy rather than a 'real' sexual desire in that sense.

[Fuggedaboutit]

Without commenting on the above; I had a similar reaction to you (though didn't get as far as seeing a TS), putting my analytic head on, I realised for me it's largely a power play fantasy rather than a 'real' sexual desire in that sense.

Well, power exchange can be very sexually arousing of course....

[rubric]

Well, power exchange can be very sexually arousing of course....

Sure, except in my case I'm pretty sure it's a sexually arousing fantasy about domination, as opposed to wanting to fuck/be fucked by an actual TS.  At least at this time.