Begging for Money via AW Messages

[John Johnson]

I used to occasionally meet with the same WG when I used to visit the town that she lived in. She was a bit clingy at times but she took it up the arse without complaint. Moving forward a few years and my work changed; there was no reason to visit the County that she lived in and that was the end of that.

Over the last year or two I have started receiving messages via AW asking to "borrow" money. There is no threat attached, but the begging is getting annoying. I change punting phone numbers every couple of years so she can't contact me other than through AW.

I wonder how common this type of begging is?

[Cum_again]

Never had it, but block away and warn others please!

[Lou2019]

Like the PP said just block surely that’s common sense

[Punterperson1971]

If she’s doing it to you how many others is she doing it to,block and move on

[Atrueyorkie]

If she’s doing it to you how many others is she doing it to,block and move on

This, plus if you ever lend that money, you ain’t seeing it back.

[Southernbloke]

Quickest way to fail out is over money. As others have said block but if you feel bad and want to give her some money you could ask her to send pictures or a video which you could then purchase from her.
I have lost 2 WG over this and I never sent them anything but I felt awkward about booking them again so moved on.

[Blackpool Rock]

Link so we know who it is, she may be doing it to others on an industrial scale 

[pythondan]

It might not even be her sending the messages. AW profiles get traded.

Just block and forget.

[marc_hotsteppa]

Fuck a duck!

I thought this was gonna be a thread on how to beg for money via AW 

[Stevelondon]

WHAT !!!!

I don’t lend money to friends never mind ……. End of.

[scutty brown]

Presumably after drug money?
Might be worth passing her details to he local council / NHS outreach team?

[MissWolf]

Presumably after drug money?
Might be worth passing her details to he local council / NHS outreach team?

Why just because she is a sex worker do you have to presume that it is drug money???????? 

I'm interested, I genuinely am interested to find out what you come up with to justify that assumption.

I mean she could be struggling to pay her rent, her bills, food or any number of things with the last 3 years of shite that this country has dragged us all through,  maybe it was a loan she took out to get her through not being able to work during lockdown,  I don't know hit me with a few ideas 

[sensualencounter]

Why just because she is a sex worker do you have to presume that it is drug money???????? 

I'm interested, I genuinely am interested to find out what you come up with to justify that assumption.

I mean she could be struggling to pay her rent, her bills, food or any number of things with the last 3 years of shite that this country has dragged us all through,  maybe it was a loan she took out to get her through not being able to work during lockdown,  I don't know hit me with a few ideas 

Well obviously wolfie, all you escorts are drug addled skanks. Didn’t you know that? Surely when you’re under the bridge smacking yourself up you’d have noticed all the other hookers queuing up for their hit? Paying with their tax free money as well.

  This shit is constantly regurgitated. And I’d have thought better of Scutty as well.

[scutty brown]

Why just because she is a sex worker do you have to presume that it is drug money???????? 

I'm interested, I genuinely am interested to find out what you come up with to justify that assumption.

I mean she could be struggling to pay her rent, her bills, food or any number of things with the last 3 years of shite that this country has dragged us all through,  maybe it was a loan she took out to get her through not being able to work during lockdown,  I don't know hit me with a few ideas 

Quite simply personal experience.
Despite your ability to freely choose escorting as vocation, for many if not most UK girls involved in the sex industry there's a heck of a high correlation between prostitution and drug abuse.
This old study is interesting. It discusses streetwalkers in Preston a few years back, but the comments are still valid now and equally apply to girls using other modes of sex work
External Link/Members Only

Drug Dependency
As noted throughout this report, drug dependency is central to the women’s sex work. In
seven out of the eight women interviewed, all reported that drug dependency was the
predominant motivating factor in their decision to sell sex on the streets. Sex work was very
much a means to an end, to pay for drugs. For many of the women, earning money this way
was preferable to committing crimes, because it is legal and perceived to be less risky for
them.
“If I didn’t do this, I’d be out committing crime and I’d be in prison for a long
time.” Karen
The women had got into drugs for a variety of reasons, often with peers or siblings when
they were much younger, or linked to traumatic life events they had experienced:
“I was married, I had my own business, ...I found out my husband was
having an affair, and my brother...he was a heroin user... I moved in with him
when I split from my husband and I tried to get him off it and I ended up on it
myself.” Becky
The women were either on heroin, crack cocaine or both.

And back to personal experience. Over the years I've had several girls call me begging for cash. All were after a fix

[MissWolf]

Quite simply personal experience.
Despite your ability to freely choose escorting as vocation, for many if not most UK girls involved in the sex industry there's a heck of a high correlation between prostitution and drug abuse.
This old study is interesting. It discusses streetwalkers in Preston a few years back, but the comments are still valid now and equally apply to girls using other modes of sex work
External Link/Members Only

And back to personal experience. Over the years I've had several girls call me begging for cash. All were after a fix

You sir are shopping I the wrong store

I'm fully aware there is a drug dependency issue in this country, I'm not so sure the correlation is that highly skewed towards sex workers, I'm sure just as many city types have coke habits its just they can afford to finance them.

We need to remind ourselves when reading 'studies' like those you so freely throw about to justify your misogynistic viewpoint that they didn't do the study to make this industry seem like a happy place.
They chose street walkers, run down areas, poorer areas of the county etc so not quite so black and white as the results always seem.

As for your punting habits,  give you head a wobble hun 

[Lou2019]

You sir are shopping I the wrong store

I'm fully aware there is a drug dependency issue in this country, I'm not so sure the correlation is that highly skewed towards sex workers, I'm sure just as many city types have coke habits its just they can afford to finance them.

We need to remind ourselves when reading 'studies' like those you so freely throw about to justify your misogynistic viewpoint that they didn't do the study to make this industry seem like a happy place.
They chose street walkers, run down areas, poorer areas of the county etc so not quite so black and white as the results always seem.

As for your punting habits,  give you head a wobble hun 

+1

[sensualencounter]

You sir are shopping I the wrong store

I'm fully aware there is a drug dependency issue in this country, I'm not so sure the correlation is that highly skewed towards sex workers, I'm sure just as many city types have coke habits its just they can afford to finance them.

We need to remind ourselves when reading 'studies' like those you so freely throw about to justify your misogynistic viewpoint that they didn't do the study to make this industry seem like a happy place.
They chose street walkers, run down areas, poorer areas of the county etc so not quite so black and white as the results always seem.

As for your punting habits,  give you head a wobble hun 

Well said. There are millions upon millions of people in this country on drugs of one type or another. Just ask Michael Gove….

[scutty brown]

Well said. There are millions upon millions of people in this country on drugs of one type or another. Just ask Michael Gove….

None of which has any relevance to my comment

[Doc Holliday]

Why just because she is a sex worker do you have to presume that it is drug money???????? 

I'm interested, I genuinely am interested to find out what you come up with to justify that assumption.

I mean she could be struggling to pay her rent, her bills, food or any number of things with the last 3 years of shite that this country has dragged us all through,  maybe it was a loan she took out to get her through not being able to work during lockdown,  I don't know hit me with a few ideas 

I'm inclined to agree with Scutty. All of what you say is correct, but those SP's in that position (and there are likely to be many) would not as a rule go around randomly begging from strangers. They may struggle, but usually still have some self respect and look at finding a way through the problem and accept going without at times. With a habit that goes completely out of the window as you simply cannot go without and you will beg steal or borrow from anyone and everyone.

This applies to anyone with a drug addiction and not just sex workers. It is only when you have experienced this first hand with someone you know well that you can fully appreciate this.

So IMO the behaviour suggests that drug funding is a strong possibility, but it is the behaviour that is the indicator, not the fact they are a sex worker.

[Bru1901]

Ita a common tactic on seeking

Shes probably on both and knows it can help for some.cash when she has a dusty phone

[KatieEdinburgh]

I think mainly I take issue with you saying that it is *many if not most* involved in the sex industry because that’s wildly untrue

“for many if not most UK girls involved in the sex industry there's a heck of a high correlation between prostitution and drug abuse”

[scutty brown]

I think mainly I take issue with you saying that it is *many if not most* involved in the sex industry because that’s wildly untrue

that's something which would be impossible to prove either way, but I believe my comment is reasonably accurate.
Ladies like yourself and Wolfie who seem to be from the more articulate and professional wing of the sex industry are by no means typical of the majority of British sex workers, and I suspect you maybe misunderstand the levels of  drug dependency within the trade.
That doesn't mean that all will beg, just a small proportion are that desperate.

[northface]

It gets rather monotonous when the service providers on here keep singing from the same hymn sheet and after all its a site for punters interest.
We don't get a varied perspective from their side so maybe a culling should be undertaken.

[daviemac]

It gets rather monotonous when the service providers on here keep singing from the same hymn sheet and after all its a site for punters interest.
We don't get a varied perspective from their side so maybe a culling should be undertaken.

Very simple solution for you, if you find their posts monotonous put then on ignore, or if they are in breach of any rules report it.

BTW they are 'singing from the same hymn sheet' as you put it because a lot of what they say is right and views from the other side of the fence are useful and welcome.

[webpunter]

It gets rather monotonous when the service providers on here keep singing from the same hymn sheet and after all its a site for punters interest.
We don't get a varied perspective from their side so maybe a culling should be undertaken.

Suggest when you finally take your ignorant misogynist head out of your arse & wise up to the wider picture [benefits that SPs bring to the forum] that you keep your mouth shut on the matter
@DM doesn't usually respond to personal requests, though he has been known to dish out a banning to the poster suggesting the same, or culling as you put it
Use of the word culling normally references animals / a herd, so the optics dont look the best for you as to what you clearly think of SPs on here

[akauya]

It gets rather monotonous when the service providers on here keep singing from the same hymn sheet and after all its a site for punters interest.
We don't get a varied perspective from their side so maybe a culling should be undertaken.

You sound like one of the JRC/J999 punters club of old who couldn't stand SPs being here and worse still... having an opinion. Brought back memories 

[MissWolf]

It gets rather monotonous when the service providers on here keep singing from the same hymn sheet and after all its a site for punters interest.
We don't get a varied perspective from their side so maybe a culling should be undertaken.

It's OK sweetie I find it rather monotonous reading the same dross some of the punters on here spout too

Should I ask the mods and owners to cull those profiles too??

[Stevelondon]

It gets rather monotonous when the service providers on here keep singing from the same hymn sheet and after all its a site for punters interest.
We don't get a varied perspective from their side so maybe a culling should be undertaken.

I’ve read a lot of posts this year. But this one takes the biscuit.
Jeez.

[MissWolf]

I'm inclined to agree with Scutty. All of what you say is correct, but those SP's in that position (and there are likely to be many) would not as a rule go around randomly begging from strangers. They may struggle, but usually still have some self respect and look at finding a way through the problem and accept going without at times. With a habit that goes completely out of the window as you simply cannot go without and you will beg steal or borrow from anyone and everyone.

This applies to anyone with a drug addiction and not just sex workers. It is only when you have experienced this first hand with someone you know well that you can fully appreciate this.

So IMO the behaviour suggests that drug funding is a strong possibility, but it is the behaviour that is the indicator, not the fact they are a sex worker.

I do get what you are saying @Doc and you are likely not wrong I think it's a wording issue for me, it is about how we use words to construct a statement and how the way we do it can change the perception of what's written by the reader.
It quite simply could have been worded better

I donate knowledge of drugs I wasn't exactly a good girl as a teenager and  although I never went as far as addiction I knew a few who did and it wasn't a pretty thing 

[akauya]

It's OK sweetie I find it rather monotonous reading the same dross some of the punters on here spout too

Nahh I don't believe that. Admit it, SPs just lurrrve the "prices" threads that crop up once a week! 

[MissWolf]

Nahh I don't believe that. Admit it, SPs just lurrrve the "prices" threads that crop up once a week! 

Dammit we are busted 

[webpunter]

I’ve read a lot of posts this year. But this one takes the biscuit.
Jeez.

Not much
Wonder if this bell end UKP'er likes a soggy biscuit ?

[Will2k]

If she wants cash, she can work for it

[Anallover6969]

yup - she's a hooker- will get cash on a daily basis - probably asking every contact hoping for a sap - if your never going to see her again - block and move on