Probably can’t add much. But in the past I’ve never had much problem staying rock hard. Recent years, with escorts, still manage getting hard but half way through, finding it a bit hard to maintain. At the beginning the anticipation does the trick. I think I’ve seen so many escorts, the whole escort thing just doesn’t quite do it these days as it once did. Also find myself less enthused about porn. Seen far too much of it, find it hard to find a video that crazily turns me on.
Interestingly, last year had a rare online date from a dating site. Date one, went well but nothing happened and date two we fucked. All unprotected, very passionate (she orchestrated it) and we’re probably having fun, with rests, for a good couple hours. Was rock hard for the majority. The sex unprotected felt great. Really liked not thinking about the time counting down and I confess, the notion of a woman who actually genuinely wanted to be there and found me attractive was a real turn on. And as it was as much about her pleasure as mine, the sex was varied, horny, with spontaneous things happening. Interestingly, she was closer to my age, attractive but not like the younger, hot women I gravitate towards for punting - but the whole thing was far more fun.
There’s prob not much insight there - yes civvy sex tends to be better. I just need to try and find ways to make escorting sex more interesting. But I also find escorting sessions harder to maintain an erection
