People in other hobbys don’t put our partners at risk of anything, barebackers put us all at risk in this hobby, I know there are risks and I accept there is a risk and it’s a risk I am am willing to take only because my oh and I don’t have sex, so if a catch anything , I can get it sorted at my measure without any risk to my o h , others on here still have sex at home, thay are the ones who this affects the most, if your not bothered, carry on , your choice, but don’t deliberately inflict it on me !