How long after?

[Bikerman]

General thoughts....how long after a punt do you write a review? Do you savour the good moments and wait few days/ hours? I prefer same day so its fresh in my head..

[ulstersubbie]

I prefer the same day. Going by your other posts and responses, you might get some flak from other members. Just saying!

[Bikerman]

Its ok.i just want a general view  of how long people wait....i do prefer to write review when im not going to be disturbed and memory and detail still fresh

[sparkus]

I prefer the same day. Going by your other posts and responses, you might get some flak from other members. Just saying!

It's actually pretty on the money for him! ()

[Cryton123]

I wait a week or two. Mainly for discretion reasons.

I don’t want the SP working out who I am so try and leave a little time post punt.

[Thephoenix]

Definitely not same day...... I much prefer not to be identified as the reviewer.

[Tightpants]

Pretty much with Cryton on this subject. If it is a location and SP that do not change I tend to give a reasonable delay.

If it is a high turnover P&D location, where the girls change regularly, then a prompt review is required.

[PunterNumber69]

I wait a week or two. Mainly for discretion reasons.

I don’t want the SP working out who I am so try and leave a little time post punt.

You do realise that most SPs pretty easily identify the person who wrote a review.

They just don't tell you that they know it's you.

Plus some SPs have people on here who tell SPs if they get a negative review.

[Thephoenix]

You do realise that most SPs pretty easily identify the person who wrote a review.
(Really?....what makes you say that?)

They just don't tell you that they know it's you. (Really?....what makes you say that?)

Plus some SPs have people on here who tell SPs if they get a negative review. (Really?...what makes you say that?)

[bdyno]

Depends on the circumstances.  If it's a blatant con or scam, get it done immediately.

If it's a good review of someone you're likely to see again, leave it as long as your memory of the occasion will allow to reduce the chance of identification.

[sparkus]

You do realise that most SPs pretty easily identify the person who wrote a review.

They just don't tell you that they know it's you.

Plus some SPs have people on here who tell SPs if they get a negative review.

I keep saying this but others on here deny it.

[Cryton123]

You do realise that most SPs pretty easily identify the person who wrote a review.

They just don't tell you that they know it's you.

Plus some SPs have people on here who tell SPs if they get a negative review.

So they tell you. But I don’t buy it.

There’s no way they’d know it’s me from my reviews. My usernames are different on AW & UKP, I never give away too many specifics about the meet and I may change a few minor details to throw them off the scent. I always keep the lady’s description accurate and the bulk of the info will be accurate but I’m never too specific UNLESS I don’t ever want to see them again then I don’t give a shit.

Telling people they can ‘easily identify you’ will put some guys off reviewing. And as we know, most SP’s hate this site.

[Cryton123]

Also, I pick and choose carefully who I review.

I don’t review every punt, and I’m fairly aware of different SP groups who may talk to each other. I may be wrong but I’ve never had any issues with bookings and I always 100% deny any involvement with UKP. My tactics have worked up to now so I won’t be changing how I manage things.

[WelshClipper]

I leave it at least a few weeks. Not because I am bothered if the wg recognises me. No, the real reason is because my rushed reviews are always crap. Like a good beef stew, my reviews are better if I wait awhile.

So standard procedure is make a few notes, leave 3 or 4 weeks then go for it.

I also used to be selective whom I reviewed, now the lot go on.

I just really wish there was not a three month time limit. I would love to add some of my 2018-19 punts of wgs who are still working. 

[sparkus]

I'm always wary of other UKP contributors who ask what day you saw the girl.  What fucking business is it of theirs?

[Bikerman]

It's actually pretty on the money for him! ()

Thanks..i thought it was a decent queztion too

[sparkus]

Thanks..i thought it was a decent queztion too

Even a stopped clock give the right time twice a day

[JayEZ2K]

General thoughts....how long after a punt do you write a review? Do you savour the good moments and wait few days/ hours? I prefer same day so its fresh in my head..

I always write my review immediately after the punt. I like to find a relaxing cafe or restaurant, and write the review while relaxing post-punt, reliving the details as I write. This is a fun ritual that helps to savour the experience, and preserve it for later.

I post my review a variable amount of time later, so it is not too obvious who wrote the review.

[threechilliman]

I jot down a few bullet points and then fill the details in when I have time. How long that takes depends how busy I am - could be a few days or weeks.

Red ones I tend to get up on here quicker to try and warn fellow punters.

[Jayj]

I will draft something out within a day or two save it for a week or two then post it

[sparkus]

I always write my review immediately after the punt. I like to find a relaxing cafe or restaurant, and write the review while relaxing post-punt, reliving the details as I write. This is a fun ritual that helps to savour the experience, and preserve it for later.

I post my review a variable amount of time later, so it is not too obvious who wrote the review.

I've done that a handful of times then realised that I might be giving away details to her or that it could be biased by too recent experience, so if I have an immediate need to blow off steam over pints it's best to do it via PM to those you trust.

[FLYING BLUE]

within 3-4 days if I have the time.

 If the punt is amazing (by my standards), I'll sometimes write on the same day, I don't really worry if SP's can work out who wrote what - doesn't really concern me.

[Kool Keef]

I jot down a few bullet points and then fill the details in when I have time. How long that takes depends how busy I am - could be a few days or weeks.

Red ones I tend to get up on here quicker to try and warn fellow punters.

Yup, same for me

[usroads]

There’s no way they’d know it’s me from my reviews. My usernames are different on AW & UKP, I never give away too many specifics about the meet and I may change a few minor details to throw them off the scent. I always keep the lady’s description accurate and the bulk of the info will be accurate but I’m never too specific UNLESS I don’t ever want to see them again then I don’t give a shit.
Telling people they can ‘easily identify you’ will put some guys off reviewing. And as we know, most SP’s hate this site.

Some girls are pretty savvy. A few UKP reviews you've written can be cross checked and correlated to AW feedbacks you've left for bookings. Why would SP's hate a good solid Green on here?

[daviemac]

Why would SP's hate a good solid Green on here?

You'd be surprised how many do, I've seen quite a few turn a solid positive into a negative by what they post on the thread. That's not counting the ones who don't want to see UKP members or only accept bookings on the condition they aren't reviewed on here.

[Waterhouse]

Arbitrary, usually (but not always) within a month and generally (but not always) with a week or two delay.

[lamboman]

Usually within a day or 2 as most I see move on so it helps those near me.
I think it's very naive to think SPs spend hours trawling reviews trying to match them with punters.

[sparkus]

Some girls are pretty savvy. A few UKP reviews you've written can be cross checked and correlated to AW feedbacks you've left for bookings. Why would SP's hate a good solid Green on here?

Anyone on AW can be reviewed there and knows that, but they also have easy right of reply there whereas here requires separate registration plus others will weigh in etc. Even then some WGs only use VS as there's no reviews nor indexing like on here.

However, you assume all WGs are on AW or VS. Some women working in massage shops don't want the attention or discussion of their boundaries/prices.

[Waterhouse]

Usually within a day or 2 as most I see move on so it helps those near me.
I think it's very naive to think SPs spend hours trawling reviews trying to match them with punters.

It’s naive to assume they don’t. Most of the good SPs will do their research.

[Marmalade]

My thought is, why do you need to start a thread on it?

Clearly you are aware that a majority of experienced members on here don’t follow your routine and you’re maybe wondering if there’s something you missed…

You’ve got half of it right in my opinion. Make some notes while it’s fresh in your mind. But just some notes, don’t rush to post them. I leave it at least a day or two (depending on circumstances maybe a bit longer). This is both for anonymity as you rightly guess (and personally I think you underestimate a p4p’s ability to identify you from a review); but secondly, precisely to let that ‘savouring the moments’ settle down or pass.

If one pays good money for a product or service and it doesn’t immediately seem faulty then there’s a tendency to over-rate. It justifies the expenditure, congratulates oneself on one’s choice, time and effort, and offers a chance to talk about it. After a couple of days, comparisons sink in and it gets put in clearer context. And after all, it was just a paid shag, not some amazing cop off with a hot chick. You got your balls emptied. Congratulations.

[lillythesavage]

My thought is, why do you need to start a thread on it?

Clearly you are aware that a majority of experienced members on here don’t follow your routine and you’re maybe wondering if there’s something you missed…

You’ve got half of it right in my opinion. Make some notes while it’s fresh in your mind. But just some notes, don’t rush to post them. I leave it at least a day or two (depending on circumstances maybe a bit longer). This is both for anonymity as you rightly guess (and personally I think you underestimate a p4p’s ability to identify you from a review); but secondly, precisely to let that ‘savouring the moments’ settle down or pass.

If one pays good money for a product or service and it doesn’t immediately seem faulty then there’s a tendency to over-rate. It justifies the expenditure, congratulates oneself on one’s choice, time and effort, and offers a chance to talk about it. After a couple of days, comparisons sink in and it gets put in clearer context. And after all, it was just a paid shag, not some amazing cop off with a hot chick. You got your balls emptied. Congratulations.

Make notes where?
I agree considering before reviewing is the best way, but making notes? Is it really that important, after all it is just a paid shag as you rightly state, you have a good time, a mediocre time or a bad time but I am in no way going to make notes about it.

[Cryton123]

Make notes where?
I agree considering before reviewing is the best way, but making notes? Is it really that important, after all it is just a paid shag as you rightly state, you have a good time, a mediocre time or a bad time but I am in no way going to make notes about it.

Same here. I remember the punt vividly, even 2/3/4 weeks later. I easily remember enough to write a review with relevant information.

If you’re making notes I’d say you’re probably giving away too much detail about your punt or yourself.

Just my opinion though based on how I manage my anonymity and my UKP profile 
 

[FiveKnuckles]

I write a draft and post up quickly when its a neg or scam.  The gooduns wait a few weeks so I get the option to visit without them booting me out 

[Marmalade]

Make notes where?
I agree considering before reviewing is the best way, but making notes? Is it really that important, after all it is just a paid shag as you rightly state, you have a good time, a mediocre time or a bad time but I am in no way going to make notes about it.

Well it’s up to you. I make notes. Sometimes on a bit of paper. Later electronically usually. For a review it was good or bad (neutral means something else, I don’t know what). But it needs some detail firstly so others can recognise the review as genuine, secondly so I can keep track, and thirdly to separate my personal opinion from more observable, impersonal fact.

I must admit Lily, in 15 years I have never read a punter’s posts that struck me so much as being written by a woman as yours — no offence, maybe you have a sensitive nature or something and I’m not for one minute suggesting you’re not an intelligent contributor, so I’ve no idea why I get such a feeling when reading what you write. Just a comment as it keeps popping up in my head, and I hope you don’t take offence.

Regards

 

[lillythesavage]

Well it’s up to you. I make notes. Sometimes on a bit of paper. Later electronically usually. For a review it was good or bad (neutral means something else, I don’t know what). But it needs some detail firstly so others can recognise the review as genuine, secondly so I can keep track, and thirdly to separate my personal opinion from more observable, impersonal fact.

I must admit Lily, in 15 years I have never read a punter’s posts that struck me so much as being written by a woman as yours — no offence, maybe you have a sensitive nature or something and I’m not for one minute suggesting you’re not an intelligent contributor, so I’ve no idea why I get such a feeling when reading what you write. Just a comment as it keeps popping up in my head, and I hope you don’t take offence.

Regards

 

Lol, been called worse. I doubt my exes would agree with sensitive nature, then maybe they would as I am friends with most of them.

Maybe been too long in the game, see it from both sides and the human side, still do not feel the need to make notes though, the memory still works when I need it to.

[Marmalade]

Lol, been called worse. I doubt my exes would agree with sensitive nature, then maybe they would as I am friends with most of them.

Maybe been too long in the game, see it from both sides and the human side, still do not feel the need to make notes though, the memory still works when I need it to.

How have seen it from both sides. Have you been a prostitute??

[mr.bluesky]

I wait a week or two. Mainly for discretion reasons.

I don’t want the SP working out who I am so try and leave a little time post punt.

+1.  try to leave it for a week or two but not too long as I will forget all the details.

[lamboman]

It’s naive to assume they don’t. Most of the good SPs will do their research.

Rubbish.

[The Owl]

One or two months as a general rule, but it changes depending on how I feel. The negative I posted that started off as a negative went up sooner although I don't say how much sooner.

[Atrueyorkie]

It all really depends. Minimum a couple of weeks unless it was a negative then I would post earlier.

There’s gotta be a balance of time left after review and then content include. I feel the more detailed the review the easier for the SP it is to identify the OP

[YorkshireLad]

Usually straight away. I use a punting phone that links to Instagram, Facebook & Snapchat (used to gather info on sugar babys) under a fake name so even if they do try to expose me or something they don’t have my real name or number.

[lamboman]

I feel the more detailed the review the easier for the SP it is to identify the OP

You really think after banging several clients a day most SPs check on UKP to try and match reviews to punts?

[alabama1]

Thanks..i thought it was a decent queztion too

Very sensible question Bikerman. Has your account been hacked ? 

[Atrueyorkie]

You really think after banging several clients a day most SPs check on UKP to try and match reviews to punts?

You tell me I’m not an SP. I’m sure negative reviews or heavily viewed reviews draw their attention. Those two factors bring attention to reviews of course I don’t expect an SP to be playing match a punter but let’s not be completely naive and go they don’t check here and there

[boardyhell]

remember years ago ,was leaving a sp and she said see you boardyhell
she packed it in that week
sadly missed

[Marmalade]

Rubbish.

Might I politely suggest that you maybe would be well-advised to at least listen to people like Waterhouse before accusing them of rubbish? For one thing, they have been on here a lot longer and many have seen the sort of disaster areas left by punters with your gung-ho approach. We are not talking about the majority of SPs. Just those that are crazy enough to fuck you up and can figure out how.

[daviemac]

Rubbish.

You really think after banging several clients a day most SPs check on UKP to try and match reviews to punts?

It might be better if you didn't just rely on your own limited experience when commenting, members who have been here a lot longer than you will have seen some of the posts by disgruntled SPs who have linked the punter they've seen to here.

As a mod I have also seen the posts that don't see the light of day. To presume escorts don't check is extremely naive.

[Marmalade]

Remember that for the majority of p4ps, it's not 'a bit of fun' or just a case of 'banging a few guys a day'. It is work.
It's off-the-radar work. It's work that has no rules except for those that the individual p4p decides on. Criticism, even kindly meant, will not necessarily be water off a duck's back. Firstly any sensible person keeps an eye on their customer feedback and with an eye to maximising future sales and profits. Some have standards, Some don't. Some may just have had a bad. some may have a perfectly good 'relationship' with you, but then take offence at something you have said about another prossie they know and which they think is 'unfair'. Some may just feel bitchy and suddenly remember that "all punters are cheats and perverts and lowlife that have to pay for sex" -- yes, double standards exist. You may just be lucky. Or not.  I can't see any real use in labouring the point further. People take the hint or don't. UKP primarily tries to help punters and many cases does just that by sharing experience. (As opposed to a celebration of this wonderful hobby -- which happens as well but it's a side-benefit!)

[Purple_Bariquade]

I like to write up a draft the day after whilst the details are fresh, then as I settle on my verdict I edit it and cut down the fluff and post it sometime later

[Yakata]

Mine have tended to be a month or two after although one was after a few days due to how shit it was so I didn't give a fuck if she knew if it was me or not.