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cerealpunter

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Now I might be another long in the tooth punter,having yet another moan, but are the girls making less of an effort these days.
Sat in the waiting room when I was waiting for my last booking, one of the other girls was floating around waiting for her booking to shower. To me part of making the choice depends on the pictures, if she's wearing nice lingerie stockings and heels she's more likely to grab my attention, and yet they rarely seem to make the same effort they put into their website pics. This girl, had ladders in her stockings and no shoes on at all, it was only about an hour into the day as well.
In fact for me three things seem to influence how the punt will go, 1. is how well she is presented, no need for loads of make up etc, just make some sort of effort. 2. is how pleasant/chatty they are when they enter the room. and 3. I know not everyone likes to waste time with a massage, but for me if it's someone I've not met before I like to go for a quick massage, I can more or less always tell how the punt is going to go by the way she touches you. (do some girls not realise how erotic touch can be)
Years ago it seemed girls would make the effort, they valued repeat business, now it just seems they can't be bothered.
I'm just an average looking guy slightly overweight, but always make the effort to be clean, tidy etc, I've had compliments that I smell nice, I've had girls who will "snog your face off" but these days although they list kissing they often try and avoid it.
Something seems to have changed, maybe I'm just an old guy now and not a preferred client, or maybe it's because I like quite a basic service so they don't make much from extra's.

Offline Zimbaman

I was just looking for your reviews to see which girls you weren’t happy with.. but  :unknown:

Offline BP96

Exactly, I read the title and saw the OP posting history and thought he was talking about himself.

Offline Sinz

Exactly, I read the title and saw the OP posting history and thought he was talking about himself.

+1  :lol:

Online OakTree

Crikey cerealpunter surely you can see the irony in your post? 

cerealpunter

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There are reasons why I haven't made any reviews yet as I've explained before.

Offline Sinz

There are reasons why I haven't made any reviews yet as I've explained before.

Still classified : Lack of effort

Especially when you can write a long post like the one above, but can’t write a review.

Offline The_Don

Exactly, I read the title and saw the OP posting history and thought he was talking about himself.

External Link/Members Only, just a quick look at the first 2 pages of his post history.



Online OakTree

To be fair he does contribute in some way or another albeit reviewless. Just look at who’s on line at anytime picking info and then look at their post history......Most have none.

cerealpunter

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Why is so much emphasis put on reviews on this forum, At least I make an effort to post, how many forum members have never made a post, you don't have to reply to any of my posts. Information can be shared in other ways, I've been punting for over 30 years and probably had more punts than most of you, but most of it years ago, so not much current information to share, very few punts in the last couple of years and most of those not really hitting the spot, but maybe as much do to with me as the service provider.
Another thing I don't really get on this forum is new members whose first post is a review, either a glowing positive or a negative, do they really have any value, and yet you get posters saying "thanks for the review blah blah blah"

cerealpunter

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To be fair he does contribute in some way or another albeit reviewless. Just look at who’s on line at anytime picking info and then look at their post history......Most have none.
1,831,382 posts by 163,449 members  what does that work out about 11 posts per member, considering some members are well up in the thousands of posts, it must mean an awful lot never post (out of interest can they still access all the forum)

Online OakTree

1,831,382 posts by 163,449 members  what does that work out about 11 posts per member, considering some members are well up in the thousands of posts, it must mean an awful lot never post (out of interest can they still access all the forum)

That’s all very true but they also don’t moan about the levels of effort involved in this pastime and this forum can be include in that.

It’s also true that reviews aren’t everything to the database of info but I think it’s fair to say they are fundamental and intrinsic to it.

cerealpunter

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That’s all very true but they also don’t moan about the levels of effort involved in this pastime and this forum can be include in that.

It’s also true that reviews aren’t everything to the database of info but I think it’s fair to say they are fundamental and intrinsic to it.
As I said you don't have to reply to my posts if they don't interest you, there are quite a few others (long in the tooth punters maybe) who have similar feelings to me, look at the other threads, it does seem much harder or maybe more complicated, would be a better description, these days to organise a punt, the majority of my punts have been in £40 or £50 parlours fairly local to me, very few have survived, those of you newer to punting won't have seen the changes.

Offline NigelF

very few punts in the last couple of years and most of those not really hitting the spot, but maybe as much do to with me as the service provider.

Where's the reviews for them? Negatives and neutrals are usually much more helpful than positives anyway. Even if you went in with the wrong frame of mind, most of the punt is down to the WG anyway, if anything I think we often blame ourselves too much.

Online OakTree

As I said you don't have to reply to my posts if they don't interest you,

That’s true but if you poke someone with a stick and your thread was metaphorically just that then don’t be surprised when you get a reaction.

Look punting is supposed to be all about fun. It seems it’s everything but that to you, perhaps you should consider another pastime.

cerealpunter

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That’s true but if you poke someone with a stick and your thread was metaphorically just that then don’t be surprised when you get a reaction.

Look punting is supposed to be all about fun. It seems it’s everything but that to you, perhaps you should consider another pastime.
As I've said I'm not the only one who feels like this, hence me not punting much the last few years, but I along with others on here still have "urges" to satisfy, a few years ago there were about 5 or 6 parlours within about 15-20 minutes of here, there are non now.

cerealpunter

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Where's the reviews for them? Negatives and neutrals are usually much more helpful than positives anyway. Even if you went in with the wrong frame of mind, most of the punt is down to the WG anyway, if anything I think we often blame ourselves too much.
I don't see you asking the same question to all the members who read reviews but don't bother to post at all.

Online OakTree

As I've said I'm not the only one who feels like this, hence me not punting much the last few years, but I along with others on here still have "urges" to satisfy, a few years ago there were about 5 or 6 parlours within about 15-20 minutes of here, there are non now.

Yep shit happens, things change. Adapt, there’s just as many if not more girls offering sex for cash as there’s ever been, you’ve just got to change the way you go about it. 


cerealpunter

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Yep shit happens, things change. Adapt, there’s just as many if not more girls offering sex for cash as there’s ever been, you’ve just got to change the way you go about it.
No there isn't, not around here anyway, foreign girls working from incall apartments, no thanks, too much chance they are controlled, other indies with limited availability/ don't answer emails or calls etc,
Have you read the "loosing interest" thread, maybe if wg's were making more effort, living up to their profiles and descriptions, so many of us wouldn't be "loosing interest"
« Last Edit: January 22, 2018, 10:03:55 pm by cerealpunter »

Online OakTree

No there isn't, not around here anyway, foreign girls working from incall apartments, no thanks, too much chance they are controlled, other indies with limited availability/ don't answer emails or calls etc,

I know how bad can it get when you can’t get a fuck even for hard cash. Do you ever consider you’re just a loser?

cerealpunter

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I know how bad can it get when you can’t get a fuck even for hard cash. Do you ever consider you’re just a loser?
No need to start with insults is there

Offline Zimbaman

No need to start with insults is there

I thought he was very patient with you  :hi:

Online OakTree

No need to start with insults is there

Just read through your posts. Not exactly inspiring is it? I’m just pointing out your own self pitying, morose approach to a pastime that is all about fun.

You started this thread off about lack of effort and you need to think about who’s lacking the effort. You can’t be arsed to report on who you see and you can’t even be arsed to go out and find a girl.

Offline NigelF

I don't see you asking the same question to all the members who read reviews but don't bother to post at all.

And how the hell can do I that? Whenever I see someone lacking in reviews or when someone tries to comment on a girl but doesn't put in a review I always ask them to write one.

cerealpunter

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Just read through your posts. Not exactly inspiring is it? I’m just pointing out your own self pitying, morose approach to a pastime that is all about fun.

You started this thread off about lack of effort and you need to think about who’s lacking the effort. You can’t be arsed to report on who you see and you can’t even be arsed to go out and find a girl.
I've explained the reasons but it doesn't seem to be sinking in does it, it is very different around my area, I haven't got time to travel for hours for what might be a good or bad punt, I'm not the only one who feels this way. As I've said if the girls made more effort /lived up to their ads etc, things might be different.

cerealpunter

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And how the hell can do I that? Whenever I see someone lacking in reviews or when someone tries to comment on a girl but doesn't put in a review I always ask them to write one.
You could start a thread asking members to contribute

Offline NigelF

You could start a thread asking members to contribute

Well I've contributed to such threads in the past. Nonetheless, most of them wouldn't read it, much less act on it. I find that once people have taken the leap of posting it's more effective to engage with them then.

Just because you're not quite as useless as many others doesn't mean you're not useless - you are. No need to be offended by whatever "hypocrisy" you perceive.
« Last Edit: January 22, 2018, 10:31:35 pm by NigelF »

cerealpunter

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Well I've contributed to such threads in the past. Nonetheless, most of them wouldn't read it, much less act on it. I find that once people have taken the leap of posting it's more effective to engage with them then.

Just because you're not quite as useless as many others doesn't mean you're not useless - you are. No need to be offended by whatever "hypocrisy" you perceive.
I contribute to the forum in the way I want, if that doesn't include reviews at this time, that's up to me, are there rules to say we have to make reviews?

Offline NigelF

I contribute to the forum in the way I want, if that doesn't include reviews at this time, that's up to me, are there rules to say we have to make reviews?

So you can't be bothered to do reviews? Seems pretty dumb to post whinging about punting when you don't punt. Either find a better hobby or move to a better area.

You can call it "contributing" but most people just find it useless. Of course not all posts are meant to be helpful, this a forum for discussion but it's pretty stupid to spend so much time on here without being helpful.
« Last Edit: January 22, 2018, 10:46:32 pm by NigelF »

James999

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Why is so much emphasis put on reviews on this forum, 

It's an insecurity thing some have, tends to be more newbies, who think by posting a few reviews they are suddenly the new messiah and above others, the reality is the forum came first and had to build and grow before reviews could work, so without the forum there would be no base for the reviews to build upon.

The forum also had a lot of issues in the early days and took a lot of effort to get where it is today, again something most newbies will not appreciate, whenever the "reviews" line gets run out, it's about as boring as the race card, and in reality less effective, the reality is those that spout it tend to be clambering for their 15 mins of fame, and will likely soon disappear  :music:

cerealpunter

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So you can't be bothered to do reviews? Seems pretty dumb to post whinging about punting when you don't punt. Either find a better hobby or move to a better area.

You can call it "contributing" but most people just find it useless. Of course not all posts are meant to be helpful, this a forum for discussion but it's pretty stupid to spend so much time on here without being helpful.
Is useless your word of the day ? Over on the negative review thread you are labelling certain forum members "useless" because they don't have the right combination of positive/neutral/negative reviews, or they are too easily pleased etc etc. I could say you seem very obsessed with the reviews, if someone has posted just 3 positive reviews, do you dismiss them as "useless", what is the right combination before you'll accept someone's reviews. We all know that punting is never going to be an exact science, there are too many variables, and we all know that a lot of positive reviews contain a good pinch of "poetic licence" or to put it another way ego boosting fluffy bollocks,

Offline shagmore

I think if you are going to moan about the lack of effort being put in, then you should at least be in a position to justify that. OK you have a few posts, not as many as some, reviews go a long way in making the forum community more accepting. Its called giving as well as just receiving.
If we all just made excuses for not putting in reviews then this site would not be the value that it is.

Offline JonasG

Don't know why you wouldn't review especially a negative or neutral.

As you want a little comeback on the WG who gave you a wank service for 80 quid.

Offline NigelF

Is useless your word of the day ? Over on the negative review thread you are labelling certain forum members "useless" because they don't have the right combination of positive/neutral/negative reviews, or they are too easily pleased etc etc. I could say you seem very obsessed with the reviews, if someone has posted just 3 positive reviews, do you dismiss them as "useless", what is the right combination before you'll accept someone's reviews. We all know that punting is never going to be an exact science, there are too many variables, and we all know that a lot of positive reviews contain a good pinch of "poetic licence" or to put it another way ego boosting fluffy bollocks,

I'm "obsessed" with reviews because I find them very helpful and they're usually the most helpful thing a member can post. This is an escort review site. I could say it's odd that you're obsessed with punting when you don't even punt anymore.

Anyway you're talking bollocks, you need to re-read what I said in that thread. The 3 people I called useless all had many hundreds of punts each. 2 claimed to have never had a bad punt and 1 had extremely few (less than 5% of 122 reviews). If someone only has 3 positive reviews and doesn't claim to have have seen loads of escorts then I'll take their reviews at face value and appreciate their contribution (unless a good reason not to, e.g. they're lacking relevant detail, very fluffy etc).

I do however agree with you that punting is not an exact science, that there are many variables and some reviews (particularly positive ones) aren't great. However I never said otherwise and it's certainly no excuse for you not to bother (which isn't what you said either but is seemingly the only reason you brought up such obvious points). Anyway, in most cases some reviews are still better than none (unless the reviewer is just crap or really fluffy). I have even thanked one of the members I slagged off in the other thread for one of his reviews because even though he's clearly an easily pleased fluffy (which I alluded to when I thanked him), his review still contained enough detail for it to be more helpful than any of the girl's AW feedback. I know that's not saying much but since we generally have so little to go on, his review is still better than none.
« Last Edit: January 26, 2018, 06:15:39 pm by NigelF »