Asking a WG pre booking about a previous client who is a Barebacker

[shooter]

I have been chatting with a WG about a potential booking and have just reviewed her recent feedback (all good)
I then checked out one of the punters (who has seen her v recently) own feedback and I see he has regular feedback from a bareback escort and has confirmed the bareback meetings (he has written a field report on it on AW) 

Annoying as the comms have been great and she has been on the H/L for a while 

Obvioulsy, its not with the WG I am thinking of booking but I dont want to go ahead with the booking now, but inot sure what to say to the WG - be honest/ask her if she knew/or make an excuse???


 

[PilotMan]

So are you saying someone on here who had BB with another escort has been to see her also?

And you're worried now about seeing her?

[alabama1]

So are you saying someone on here who had BB with another escort has been to see her also?

And you're worried now about seeing her?

I think he means one of the punters on AdultWork

[Southernbloke]

I think only you can decide what you want to do. I would point out that you don’t know what exact service the bb punter has with the WG , it’s very possible that the WG Is very aware that this particular punter sees a bb escort and only allows protected sexual services.
Personally I would be very honest with the WG about the reason that I have decided not to make a booking with her, if she takes exception about it you weren’t going to see her anyway but if she doesn’t then you have given her a heads up about her reviews.
At least you have been as honest as she has been

[NickyBobby]

A lot of escorts say they check punter’s feedback and will not see any one who has visited an escort offering BB. Maybe this one isnt on the ball or figures that a punter could have easily seen an escort doing BB before her and not been left feedback so no trace. As long as the escort is getting tested regularly you’re at about the same risk as shagging a civvie

[PilotMan]

I think he means one of the punters on AdultWork

OK - understood, same in principle though.

I think it's an over reaction.

It's highly probable that most SP's are having sex with punters who are barebacking civvies and others in their lives. You might as well ask a prossie of she has verified that every punter she has had sex with has confirmed that they do not bareback anywhere.

[shooter]

OK - understood, same in principle though.

I think it's an over reaction.

It's highly probable that most SP's are having sex with punters who are barebacking civvies and others in their lives. You might as well ask a prossie of she has verified that every punter she has had sex with has confirmed that they do not bareback anywhere.

Apologies -I meant the punter had left a BB report on AW-not here

I get the point about SPs seeing punters that have BB elsewhere and of course that’s true. The question was not about whether to go ahead or not, more about whether to be honest as to the reason for not confirming.

Based on the replies -I will decline the meeting and maybe follow up in a few days with a more detailed explanation-thanks for all the replies  

[Jonestown]

I think if you are seriously worried about someone having bareback two steps removed from your proposed insertion then you probably shouldn't be punting at all.

[badsin]

Another BB thread 

[Doc Holliday]

I think it's an over reaction.

Agreed

I think if you are seriously worried about someone having bareback two steps removed from your proposed insertion then you probably shouldn't be punting at all.

Agreed again.

I respect everyone's individual choice, but as I have posted before this degree of separation is of almost zero epidemiological significance in the overall picture.

[SonofAJohn]

Another BB thread 

Think the spring/summer weather brings out the barebackers

[MissWolf]

I think if you are seriously worried about someone having bareback two steps removed from your proposed insertion then you probably shouldn't be punting at all.

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Just make sure you cover up, she may have had sex with her husband or boyfriend the morning of hour punt 

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Just make sure you cover up, she may have had sex with her husband or boyfriend the morning of hour punt 

Or both 😉

[Fuzzyduck]

I think if you are seriously worried about someone having bareback two steps removed from your proposed insertion then you probably shouldn't be punting at all.

+1

[shooter]

Thanks for the replies.   
I was asking if I should say why I didn’t want to go through with the punt, not whether that was the right decision . It’s a personal choice and I have made mine. YMMV and clearly does for some.
Sorry for adding to the BB threads-let’s leave it there 

[Doc Holliday]

I was asking if I should say why I didn’t want to go through with the punt, not whether that was the right decision .

I wouldn't advise giving the true reason. Either nothing or a made up 'dog at vets' etc 

[Doc Holliday]

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Just make sure you cover up, she may have had sex with her husband or boyfriend the morning of hour punt 

Indeed she might. STI's are most prevalent in the general population where unprotected vaginal sex is frequently the norm, even on a casual basis. This is what drives infection not what happens in sex work where the scale of BB is very small in comparison. Discovering that an SP that you wish to see, has seen someone who is a barebacker is insignificant, because any SP is likely to be seeing many punters who are having unprotected sex outside of punting anyway.

[fairyguy]

I think if you are seriously worried about someone having bareback two steps removed from your proposed insertion then you probably shouldn't be punting at all.

True .. I am sure at least 99% of SPs have a bare backing partner or bare back with their “favourite regulars”

[tigerbiker]

Shock horror - people having intercourse without a rubber johnnie? Never...........

If that freaks you out, I'd say give up punting and invest in some porn and big box of tissues or stick with hand jobs from escorts.

HJs can be very satisfying and takes away all fear of STIs, warts, herpes, hepatitus and HIV in one shuffle of her knuckles - I use hand job services for this reason and I find them as satisfying as intercourse with a condom or a BJ. Cheaper too.

Also consider a voyeur only appointment - watch an escort show off her minge and wank herself off whilst you satisfy yourself. Its super hygienic, cheap and satisfying. Zero chance of exchanging bodily fluids.

[KatieEdinburgh]

HJs can be very satisfying and takes away all fear of STIs, warts, herpes, hepatitus and HIV in one shuffle of her knuckles - I use hand job services for this reason and I find them as satisfying as intercourse with a condom or a BJ. Cheaper too.

Nothing is risk free. but yes HJs are a much lower risk than other activities

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[myothernameis]

A lot of escorts say they check punter’s feedback and will not see any one who has visited an escort offering BB. Maybe this one isnt on the ball or figures that a punter could have easily seen an escort doing BB before her and not been left feedback so no trace. As long as the escort is getting tested regularly you’re at about the same risk as shagging a civvie

There was a Scottish escort from Paisley, who used to post on here, and one day the subject was on bareback/unprotected sex.

She never considered checking the feedback of punters who are seeing other escorts, so I done some research on this.  We found at least four other punters who had seen the Paisley escort, that had link to other escorts, who offered bareback.  The punter or punters, might be innocent, and only seen one escort offering bareback, but no the four of them had seen around 3 other

So the  Paisley escort made the decision not to see them anymore, and checked feedback more carefully

[tigerbiker]

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Good point and useful info Katie - thanks for sharing.

I guess the lowest risk is the voyeurism experience where each partner keeps their hands to themselves - something I can find very satisfying but I'm an older bloke and I can imagine the young bucks out there only being happy with dipping their member in a wet vagina albeit wrapped in a rubber bag - I was like that when I was younger. It took me a few years to realise that there is more to sexual pleasure than sucking and fucking.