Men - do any of you feel slightly envious you can't sell your body for sex?

[GreyDave]

The party scene can be quite brutal,many girls try it and many only do it the once,some have been reduced to tears.Any girl that's a regular on this scene,and there are a few,they come back time and time again, must really love sex.

Some of the Brazilian girls see the party scene as a compedative sport God help those of us that go on a day when they start their number shouting which they have done on a few I`ve been at  I can not recover quick enough now to make them worth while but some of the young bucks on here could try and would fail to keep up their stamia is just unbeliveable.

[ipreferbutts]

Some of the Brazilian girls see the party scene as a compedative sport God help those of us that go on a day when they start their number shouting which they have done on a few I`ve been at  I can not recover quick enough now to make them worth while but some of the young bucks on here could try and would fail to keep up their stamia is just unbeliveable.

Sorry, I'm a bit unfamiliar with this (not been to many parties). Are you saying Brazilian girls have sex with lots of guys at parties, one after the other, and have the stamina to keep going for several sex sessions in a row?

[Carpy]

I know of two black fellas who do cuckolding or just plain group Sex with married couples and get a small amount of money for it. I’m pretty sure they charged £150 (total) for the night. Plus costs of hotels rooms etc sat with the couple.

They were both pretty well established in the BMFC & swinging circles so most of the work came from that, nothing full time just very couple of weeks.

How much do the gay escorts charge? Wanna see how much my arse would be worth on the open market? 

[mr.bluesky]

Simply no.

If I did, then it become a chore and fun would go out of it.

This also applies to female service providers hence the number that give a poor service. For them it"s now become a chore.

[DOUGLAS56]

You’re deluded mate.

If I had a pound every time a WG told me she only does this for fun and only sees a couple of punters a day I could punt for free.

As for picking just the good looking ones, apart from massaging your ego it would be unlikely. Unless of course you sent her a photo. Please tell me you didn’t send her a photo.

I am ashamed to say I have sent my photo to an escort before, I did not review her though because I do not want to give my identity away ended up seeing her a few times over a couple of months. wont do it again thats for sure, Her profile really drew me in and her body kept drawing me in

Also as others have said Definitely a few black guys that get booked for cuckolding and swinging. one on one bookings I imagine would be quite rare though even for the really good looking ones just because of how the market works.

Another WG i have seen was going to introduce me to one of her clients who wanted a black guy to bang his wife, She asked me if I had to find the girl attractive to perform properly and at the time i told her yes. thinking back I should have gone for it. but did not want to ruin shit for her If I did not perform to the expectation she would have told the guy just because I was not really feeling the wife and it would have been a first time for me especially while husband is there

[Rocket Scientist]

So we read that the attention seeking Lilly Allen, when feeling lost and lonely paid for sex with female escorts following split from husband.  Lilly adds "I’m not proud, but I’m not ashamed.  So even at her lowest, she choose not to pay for cock - little surprise there is scant work for male escorts!

For many reasons I cannot abide the woman including, if it had come to light a Tory MP had paid for an escort's services whist estranged from his wife, Lilly would be more than eager to share her unsolicited opinion

[ipreferbutts]

This also applies to female service providers hence the number that give a poor service. For them it"s now become a chore.

Is this why it's best to pick a woman who seems quite new to escorting? So it won't seem like a chore for them.

[A Decent Fist]

Another option not yet mentioned here as far as I can see...

If you are youngish, slim-ish, can make yourself smooth and carry off a wig, women's clothes and make-up without people laughing in the street, it's perfectly possible to become a transvestite escort. You'll still be shagging men (and may need to take Viagra to achieve this), but you can specify that you are "top-only" so your arse will remain unsullied. 

There's definitely a market for that. They tend to charge £80 to £120 an hour depending on looks as opposed to the more convincing transexuals with curves and tits whose rates start at £150 and ascend rapidly if they are pretty enough to pass in public.

Yes, I do know there are top-only gay male escorts, but the TV thing is something I would have seriously considered to make money if I had really needed to in the days when I wasn't old, hairy and ugly. I would have just looked in the mirror while shagging to get a bit of a visual turn-on. 

[The Owl]

I like the money side but I'd not enjoy the thought of sexually pleasuring women I don't find even remotely attractive on any level at all.

[ipreferbutts]

Another option not yet mentioned here as far as I can see...

If you are youngish, slim-ish, can make yourself smooth and carry off a wig, women's clothes and make-up without people laughing in the street, it's perfectly possible to become a transvestite escort. You'll still be shagging men (and may need to take Viagra to achieve this), but you can specify that you are "top-only" so your arse will remain unsullied. 

There's definitely a market for that. They tend to charge £80 to £120 an hour depending on looks as opposed to the more convincing transexuals with curves and tits whose rates start at £150 and ascend rapidly if they are pretty enough to pass in public.

Yes, I do know there are top-only gay male escorts, but the TV thing is something I would have seriously considered to make money if I had really needed to in the days when I wasn't old, hairy and ugly. I would have just looked in the mirror while shagging to get a bit of a visual turn-on. 

Trying to get it up for a fat ugly man when you're not even gay. Doesn't sound too appealing if you ask me.

[JamesKW]

Sorry, I'm a bit unfamiliar with this (not been to many parties). Are you saying Brazilian girls have sex with lots of guys at parties, one after the other, and have the stamina to keep going for several sex sessions in a row?

Yes,the low cost parties can be a bit conveyor belt type,it was like the wild west when it was based at Dagenham but it has mellowed a lot since the move to Sutton.Similar to a lunch time in SOHO I guess.The party scene is not for every girl and not for every punter.Some of the young black guys that go can really pound in various positions for fairly long periods.

[A Decent Fist]

Trying to get it up for a fat ugly man when you're not even gay. Doesn't sound too appealing if you ask me.

True, but I have discovered over the years that my cock will always get hard if it is stroked or sucked no matter who is doing it - female or male, beautiful or ugly. With the help of Viagra and concentration (imagining I’m with a slender young beauty) I can them keep it up and do the deed.

[Home Alone]

For me, I feel somewhat envious/jealous/bitter that I can't sell my body for sex in the same way women can. Do any other men feel this way?

Maybe I am the only one who thinks this way, who knows.

Put simply, "No; I'm a buyer; not a seller." 

[Ali Katt]

I am quite surprised there is a demand for gay escorts. I assumed gay men could easily obtain sex through saunas and cruising spots and would not need to pay for sex.

It's for men that are married with kids, but like a bit of cock on the side.

[JamesKW]

It's for men that are married with kids, but like a bit of cock on the side.

and Boy George.

[tantric talents]

One of my Polish regulars a few years ago told me I should do it professionally.
I would have considered it when younger but there was no internet then. I think I’m too old for it now unless there’s a high end gigolo market with professional single woman who just want a no strings attached partner for a  horny one off? 

[bearcat69]

In some regards, yes actually. Being paid to have sex in theory does appeal to me. But overall no, because I like being the one who gets to choose the attractive member of the opposite sex I want to fuck rather than it being the other way around. I just simply couldn't be arsed with organising it too. Advertising myself, taking photos of myself, arranging times and booking hotels or renting out an incall location. Practically speaking I'd also have to really look at my life and adjust a lot to have even a vague chance of making it a profitable venture. They may or may not be women who would pay to have sex with me, I couldn't really say for sure, but I do know for certain that whoring myself like that would really make me feel very exposed and would liking bring up all sorts of insecurities. So all in all, no thanks, not for me.

[Jeff_withpetersen]

For me, I feel somewhat envious/jealous/bitter that I can't sell my body for sex in the same way women can. Do any other men feel this way?

Obviously it is what it is. Biology gave men far higher testosterone, so women have the luxury of being able to charge for sex when men cannot. Even a fat ugly woman can charge £100/hour and get high demand for her services. But a decent looking man cannot charge anything, because the demand simply isn't there.

Maybe I am the only one who thinks this way, who knows.

Next time you are on a busy high street or similar, find the roughest 5 birds you can lay your eye on and ask yourself if you'd be happy earning £100 an hour to have to fuck them. As a 'working boy', you'd be obligated to hump them, whether you fancied them or not.

[Ali Katt]

Next time you are on a busy high street or similar, find the roughest 5 birds you can lay your eye on and ask yourself if you'd be happy earning £100 an hour to have to fuck them. As a 'working boy', you'd be obligated to hump them, whether you fancied them or not.

Why not? Plain Janes go like Trains.

[threechilliman]

Why not? Plain Janes go like Trains.

Indeed they do. A 69 year old granny still puts a smile on my face when I think back.....

[Ali Katt]

Indeed they do. A 69 year old granny still puts a smile on my face when I think back.....

I bet it wasn't all she put on your face you mucky bugger.

[Jeff_withpetersen]

Why not? Plain Janes go like Trains.

Sir, I'm not talking about 'plain Janes', I'm talking about women who are so ugly that they turn your stomach. I really do hate myself for thinking it, but there are women out there who are that bad that I genuinely couldn't have sex with them, not even for a stack of cash. As I say, look around next time you're amongst a lot of people. If you're seriously telling me you could shag any of the worst women there then ... you have a stronger stomach than me.

Makes me think WGs deserve a medal for subjecting themselves to the likes of me! 

[threechilliman]

I bet it wasn't all she put on your face you mucky bugger.

No, and I painted her face which she gleefully rubbed in. She were a mucky old dear.....

[Malvolio]

Sir, I'm not talking about 'plain Janes', I'm talking about women who are so ugly that they turn your stomach. I really do hate myself for thinking it, but there are women out there who are that bad that I genuinely couldn't have sex with them, not even for a stack of cash. As I say, look around next time you're amongst a lot of people. If you're seriously telling me you could shag any of the worst women there then ... you have a stronger stomach than me.

Makes me think WGs deserve a medal for subjecting themselves to the likes of me! 

Just imagine if all they wanted to do was sit on your face for an hour...

[fallentrees1321]

Sir, I'm not talking about 'plain Janes', I'm talking about women who are so ugly that they turn your stomach. I really do hate myself for thinking it, but there are women out there who are that bad that I genuinely couldn't have sex with them, not even for a stack of cash. As I say, look around next time you're amongst a lot of people. If you're seriously telling me you could shag any of the worst women there then ... you have a stronger stomach than me.

Makes me think WGs deserve a medal for subjecting themselves to the likes of me! 

Exactly , think that if you wanted to make any business as a male escort you would have to perform for anything that walked through the door . Imagine going down on some of the women you see in public and if you could still do that and then give them a stiff one then perhaps you could make a business out of it .

But its not for me . And I dont envy escorts having to pretend to be enjoying sex with some of the men they must see

[ipreferbutts]

True, but I have discovered over the years that my cock will always get hard if it is stroked or sucked no matter who is doing it - female or male, beautiful or ugly. With the help of Viagra and concentration (imagining I’m with a slender young beauty) I can them keep it up and do the deed.

I'm sort of similar to you, although I can't do it with a man. Can't get turned on by a man no matter what he's doing, it has to be a woman.

Sir, I'm not talking about 'plain Janes', I'm talking about women who are so ugly that they turn your stomach. I really do hate myself for thinking it, but there are women out there who are that bad that I genuinely couldn't have sex with them, not even for a stack of cash. As I say, look around next time you're amongst a lot of people. If you're seriously telling me you could shag any of the worst women there then ... you have a stronger stomach than me.

Makes me think WGs deserve a medal for subjecting themselves to the likes of me! 

If the woman is genuinely sexually interested in me, embraces her sexual side, has a lot of confidence and dresses/wears makeup in a very sexy way, I can have sex with ugly women. I prefer a 3/10 woman who puts in lots of effort and finds me physically attractive, to a 10/10 woman who lies there and does not find me sexy.

So for me, it almost entirely depends on her attitude and chemistry I have with a woman.

[Landscape]

The only way my body would earn money from sex is if it was sold to medical science and someone who worked there was a necrophiliac.

Since there would be little interest in women paying for sex as they can get it on a plate for free on Tinder and the like it would mean going down the gay route and the thought of having someone how may be lacking in the looks and hygiene department does not appeal.

I lack the mindset of being able to shag everyone I see so if you have got that mindset then it makes sense to try and monetise it.

[nothiingtodeclare]

Yes, it has often crossed my mind, if I was female would I escort. My male brain says I would. I enjoy casual no strings sex and I would love to have a job which pays 150 an hr. Sadly biology gave me the wrong make up so earning a living from what I love is a no go as is the hourly earnings rate.

[OldVic]

Would love to....but need to break my escorting duck first!

[tantric talents]

Would love to....but need to break my escorting duck first!

Well tat would be one interesting way to break it although it might put you off for life 

[OldVic]

Haha, that it might.....

[FlaccidChimp]

No but I do get envious at how easily women get access to sex compared with men. I have seen average looking men take buffalos home at 4am in the morning just to get some. Usually, when I see a woman leave the club with a guy, it's with a taller more attractive man.

[LLPunting]

No but I do get envious at how easily women get access to sex compared with men. I have seen average looking men take buffalos home at 4am in the morning just to get some. Usually, when I see a woman leave the club with a guy, it's with a taller more attractive man.

Yeah, but who has the better sex?

[ipreferbutts]

No but I do get envious at how easily women get access to sex compared with men. I have seen average looking men take buffalos home at 4am in the morning just to get some. Usually, when I see a woman leave the club with a guy, it's with a taller more attractive man.

There's a well known saying:

"Women sleep with who they want; Men sleep with who they can"

It's so true as well, if you observe every aspect of life.

Yeah, but who has the better sex?

Assuming the fat buffalo goes home with a tall gorgeous hunk, then most likely the woman.

[Stortford]

For me, I feel somewhat envious/jealous/bitter that I can't sell my body for sex in the same way women can. Do any other men feel this way?

Obviously it is what it is. Biology gave men far higher testosterone, so women have the luxury of being able to charge for sex when men cannot. Even a fat ugly woman can charge £100/hour and get high demand for her services. But a decent looking man cannot charge anything, because the demand simply isn't there.

Maybe I am the only one who thinks this way, who knows.

Fat  ugly women don't do well in this game trust me.

[ipreferbutts]

Fat  ugly women don't do well in this game trust me.

Interesting. Do you have any evidence of that?

[sexygeek1983]

Short answer yes very we can’t give it away let’s along sell it

[horn e. devil]

As a fantasy, yes, I like the idea of being a whore and selling my body.
Not something that would ever actually happen, but it’s something to wank over.

Similarly, I love the idea of being on cam. The idea of being paid to let strangers watch me wank off is a turn on. Again, I’m under no illusions here, but I love the idea of women paying to watch and direct me wanking.

[king tarzan]

Fat  ugly women don't do well in this game trust me.

on adultworks they seem to be flourishing....

[Ali Katt]

on adultworks they seem to be flourishing....

Excellent news for me. We don't all like Size 6 Romas.

[Ali Katt]

Interesting. Do you have any evidence of that?

Opinion passed off as fact.