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Offline advent2016

When I arrived in these shores in the late 80s, there seemed to be a lot more working ladies in Brixton / Streatham, and a fair proportion were black. I could every week, choose between a dozen or more, from the cards in newsagents or the South London Press. Now there seem to be very few, even on AW or AM, and if there are, they rarely do BBBJ/CIM, swallow is even more rare.

Where have they all gone?


cockneybstrd

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Well I am guessing by now those from the late 80's are retired.

Place a RB on Adultwork in London and you will get at least 10 ebony ladies replying to you

dembo200

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Does surprise me there are'nt more black girls working tbh.when you consider there is over a million black people in london.

Offline advent2016

lol.

I've never tried a RB. Does it actually work?

Well I am guessing by now those from the late 80's are retired.

Place a RB on Adultwork in London and you will get at least 10 ebony ladies replying to you

Offline Brazilian Martian

When I arrived in these shores in the late 80s, there seemed to be a lot more working ladies in Brixton / Streatham, and a fair proportion were black. I could every week, choose between a dozen or more, from the cards in newsagents or the South London Press. Now there seem to be very few, even on AW or AM, and if there are, they rarely do BBBJ/CIM, swallow is even more rare.

Where have they all gone?

There are quite a few based in the Southwark area try doing a adultwork search you should be able to find a ebony that takes your fancy

DOBERMAN

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Does surprise me there are'nt more black girls working tbh.when you consider there is over a million black people in london.

There are many reasons why its lower then you would think.

Firstly, as an average they are not going to do the same type of things that you may expect from girls from other races. Its a cultural thing ON AVERAGE.

-Rimming (not a thing they will do)
-Swallow  (Boyfriend YES, stranger GOOD LUCK with that)
- BBBJ  (Maybe, but not a standard)


Culturally Black women from London are not going to be giving BBBJ for £40-£60 unless they have a drug issue. Its hard to explain the culture but its just the way it is, a lot of black women are NOT into the idea of giving complete strangers BBBJ and swallow. there are exceptions detailed below. And of course they are some that will but as a culture its not something to do with strangers, especially if the girls a good looking girl with admirers. They will do it with the guy there seeing, but complete strangers for £40-£50. Good luck. I imagine its slimmer pickings then you would expect for 1million people. 

Thing about the black community in London is that its a small world, between the ages of 18-30 every one is connected. A lot of the attractive black girls in London that turned 18 within the internet age (last 12 years or so) have a following/ small internet fame within the internet, which has spilled over to real life so they get recognised by complete strangers in London (black guys/black girls/urban kids) because of this online following .  Facehood>Hi5> Myspace> Facebook>Instagram>Snapchat . This was the rough order of social media for the last 12 years in London.

 These girls are good looking, get loads of online and offline attention, but little money from this extra attention, they feel like there too famous and to known to sell there body as the 10,000 followers they have will get wind eventually and its not good to have a fans, in a scandal as thats potentially 10,000 people that know your a whore in an instant.

Think about it this way in 1980 a girl could have sex with 3 guys in a car park, and it would only be known by those 3 and there mates (unless I'm missing something). If this occurred in north London, it would be a lot harder for it to reach ears in South London, if it ever did.

Fast forward to 2016, if the scenario was the same, someone would pull out a cameraphone and in 2 mins the sextape will be on instagram and in 20 minutes it will Viral all around London, on wattsapp, snapchat etc etc. All the teens and 20 somethings are connected.

The goal to selling sex is being low key, something which the internet age girls are not. So they are stuck,morally some have a church/family guilt also and a lot will choose morality over earning £100k a year.


 Word will spread fast within the black community, thats why a lot of black girls will say NO black men on their profiles. And a lot of black women will hide there face in their profile. Truth be told, if a black guys from London bangs her, and she is a worth bragging about, that will get round like wildfire, and cause all types of drama she will not need.

Also there is a morality thing, a good percentage especially the african community are church goers, so going to Church with the family on a Sunday and then being a WG the 6 days of the week is not likely.

Another thing to consider is they have the option to go the sugar daddy route if they are attractive enough.


The types of black women that will get in the game are usually:

a) Black Girls from outside London, Particularly up North i.e Manchester, Liverpool who have very few friends in London so won't have a problem selling sex in London as there virtually unknown.

b) Very rebellious girls who have rebelled against there family, may partake in drugs, stripping, may also be hanging around a gang, so have to be careful with this kind etc.

c) Girls that don't really have an interest in black guys, and are more interested in older white guys/sugar daddys, they won't really care if there name gets around in the black community because they don't really care to mix with black men,or black women and they prefer to socialise in upscale/money orientated circles.

Most black women prefer to date black men, so they do care about there reputations given that Black London is small.

Ofcourse there are attractive low key black women, and girls that are rebellious, + northern girls so there will always be options.  But a lot of girls are just to proud to do the things that you may expect as standard from a E.E or thai girl

DOBERMAN

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If you don't fancy reading that much
The short answer is:

1) these girls are a lot more known then they would have been in 1980s due to social media. Some of the attractive London girls have some surprisingly large followings on social media. This just wasn't possible in 1980. Also i imagine its a lot easier to get a sugar daddy in 2016 as theres a lot of websites around that they use. Easy choice, swallow 2 loads a day, or find a sugar daddy.

If the girl is not good looking enough for a sugar daddy, then i guess you have more chance of getting what you want.

2) Culturally Black females are not as open sexually with oral sex as perhaps the rest of the country/other races. With there boyfriend of course. multiple strangers per day, that does not sit well with them emotionally, spiritually and physically.

3) A decent percentage are God fearing. They will pick being moral and earning £15k a year,  over £100k a year selling there body
« Last Edit: June 29, 2016, 10:05:34 pm by DOBERMAN »

DOBERMAN

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P.S

regarding CIM, some London black women won't even do that for there boyfriend so that tells you something.


Offline Silver Birch


-Rimming (not a thing they will do)
-Swallow  (Boyfriend YES, stranger GOOD LUCK with that)
- BBBJ  (Maybe, but not a standard)

Long before my punting career began, sex with a hot black girl was my No1 fantasy. The 4th punt I ever had, ticked that box. To this day, probably my favourite punting memory.

My first visit included OWO. My 2nd visit included her rimming me unexpectedly  :yahoo: I asked about CIM and it was available, but extra. I never asked about swallow.

A fantastic couple of punts, both in London, and then she vanished without a trace.  :cry:

More recently, I had a good punt with External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only near Canary Wharf and received OWO (profile says regulars only). I didn't ask about CIM or swallow.

Offline peter purves

There are many reasons why its lower then you would think.

Firstly, as an average they are not going to do the same type of things that you may expect from girls from other races. Its a cultural thing ON AVERAGE.

-Rimming (not a thing they will do)
-Swallow  (Boyfriend YES, stranger GOOD LUCK with that)
- BBBJ  (Maybe, but not a standard)


Culturally Black women from London are not going to be giving BBBJ for £40-£60 unless they have a drug issue. Its hard to explain the culture but its just the way it is, a lot of black women are NOT into the idea of giving complete strangers BBBJ and swallow. there are exceptions detailed below. And of course they are some that will but as a culture its not something to do with strangers, especially if the girls a good looking girl with admirers. They will do it with the guy there seeing, but complete strangers for £40-£50. Good luck. I imagine its slimmer pickings then you would expect for 1million people. 

Thing about the black community in London is that its a small world, between the ages of 18-30 every one is connected. A lot of the attractive black girls in London that turned 18 within the internet age (last 12 years or so) have a following/ small internet fame within the internet, which has spilled over to real life so they get recognised by complete strangers in London (black guys/black girls/urban kids) because of this online following .  Facehood>Hi5> Myspace> Facebook>Instagram>Snapchat . This was the rough order of social media for the last 12 years in London.

 These girls are good looking, get loads of online and offline attention, but little money from this extra attention, they feel like there too famous and to known to sell there body as the 10,000 followers they have will get wind eventually and its not good to have a fans, in a scandal as thats potentially 10,000 people that know your a whore in an instant.

Think about it this way in 1980 a girl could have sex with 3 guys in a car park, and it would only be known by those 3 and there mates (unless I'm missing something). If this occurred in north London, it would be a lot harder for it to reach ears in South London, if it ever did.

Fast forward to 2016, if the scenario was the same, someone would pull out a cameraphone and in 2 mins the sextape will be on instagram and in 20 minutes it will Viral all around London, on wattsapp, snapchat etc etc. All the teens and 20 somethings are connected.

The goal to selling sex is being low key, something which the internet age girls are not. So they are stuck,morally some have a church/family guilt also and a lot will choose morality over earning £100k a year.


 Word will spread fast within the black community, thats why a lot of black girls will say NO black men on their profiles. And a lot of black women will hide there face in their profile. Truth be told, if a black guys from London bangs her, and she is a worth bragging about, that will get round like wildfire, and cause all types of drama she will not need.

Also there is a morality thing, a good percentage especially the african community are church goers, so going to Church with the family on a Sunday and then being a WG the 6 days of the week is not likely.

Another thing to consider is they have the option to go the sugar daddy route if they are attractive enough.


The types of black women that will get in the game are usually:

a) Black Girls from outside London, Particularly up North i.e Manchester, Liverpool who have very few friends in London so won't have a problem selling sex in London as there virtually unknown.

b) Very rebellious girls who have rebelled against there family, may partake in drugs, stripping, may also be hanging around a gang, so have to be careful with this kind etc.

c) Girls that don't really have an interest in black guys, and are more interested in older white guys/sugar daddys, they won't really care if there name gets around in the black community because they don't really care to mix with black men,or black women and they prefer to socialise in upscale/money orientated circles.

Most black women prefer to date black men, so they do care about there reputations given that Black London is small.

Ofcourse there are attractive low key black women, and girls that are rebellious, + northern girls so there will always be options.  But a lot of girls are just to proud to do the things that you may expect as standard from a E.E or thai girl

Thanks for the indepth sociological analysis.

I am very much interested in the religious point about going to church preventing a  lady becoming a WG, especially as there are many holier than thou in churches
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Offline peter purves

Long before my punting career began, sex with a hot black girl was my No1 fantasy. The 4th punt I ever had, ticked that box. To this day, probably my favourite punting memory.

My first visit included OWO. My 2nd visit included her rimming me unexpectedly  :yahoo: I asked about CIM and it was available, but extra. I never asked about swallow.

A fantastic couple of punts, both in London, and then she vanished without a trace.  :cry:

More recently, I had a good punt with External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only near Canary Wharf and received OWO (profile says regulars only). I didn't ask about CIM or swallow.

The perception appears  to me at least that there are more Blacks from Brazil and Colombia in London than possibly Black British.
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DOBERMAN

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Thanks for the indepth sociological analysis.

I am very much interested in the religious point about going to church preventing a  lady becoming a WG, especially as there are many holier than thou in churches

Of course there are girls that mess around sexually and go church, its very common. Lots of young black women turn to church to cleanse them from there sexual past, become born again etc

But earning money from sex, thats another level sin, i know lots of girls that at 18/19/20 were sleeping around, but at 25 plus they are talking about god all over there Facebook pages, women are more deep in the church then guys. Church has a much more of a impact on the african community, then Church of England has on the white community. It takes up 20% of there week. So it will have a bearing on attitudes and morality of the women.

DOBERMAN

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The perception appears  to me at least that there are more Blacks from Brazil and Colombia in London than possibly Black British.

Yep, in London there is loads of opportunity to earn £30k a year doing a normal job. Most respectable / articulate black girls would rather study and earn 30k, then earn 100k selling there body.

In brazil, Colombia, DR though I'm no expert, i guess some of the conditions are 3rd world and the opportunity is not there, sex is a currency, and those girls know it might be the difference between eating and starving. Although I'm sure there are a few latin americans on this forum that understand the culture more then i do.