Prostrate Massage. Advice

[Titti Tatti]

OK need some help here.

Keen on the idea of any woman getting her hands on me and showing something new.


BUT the two times I've experienced it it was done at the same time as a HJ, presumably with the intention of making me come faster/providing what they thought I wanted. However it just felt like a distraction and the second time I asked her to stop as I was just enjoying what she was doing with her other hand!


One girl had tiny hands and didn't reach 'the spot' and the other had a real go but same result.


Do you enjoy it best done as part of the warm up? Stimulation before the main act? Thoughts please.

[mrfishyfoo]

A proper prostate massager always does the trick for me BUT they tend to be much bigger than a finger. That combined with a lass rimming me whilst pulling on my dick always gets a load out of me pretty sharpish.

Ever had a lass fuck your arse with a strapon whilst you've got another one sucking your cock.  Another bucket list item that I have really enjoyed in the past.

Suppose it depends how many times you can cum during a session as well.

[mrdiamond77]

Whenever I have received prostate massage it is usually done along with oral.  Have yet to see a proper prostate massager, and I have not received strapon either but seeing as my arsehole is very small that might be a bad idea, so best leave that idea alone.

[StiffSteve88]

 Be sure to use plenty of good quality lube & avoid sharp fingernails.

 There are 'Training toys' available, but make sure that butt plugs are properly designed with a wide flange to stop them getting lost. Same with strapons, they should be secure.

 Don't be over ambitious with size at first, learn to relax & enjoy it. You need the right tool for the job, as some have had to go to A&E with objects 'Lost' up there.

[Turtle Z]

A proper prostate massager always does the trick for me BUT they tend to be much bigger than a finger. That combined with a lass rimming me whilst pulling on my dick always gets a load out of me pretty sharpish.

I'm confused, how does she rim you whilst also sticking a finger or prostate toy up your arse? 

[cueball]

I'm confused, how does she rim you whilst also sticking a finger or prostate toy up your arse? 

He's got two arse holes, the spare one he uses to talk out of 

[mrfishyfoo]

I'm confused, how does she rim you whilst also sticking a finger or prostate toy up your arse? 

Damn a picture would speak words. 

The lass uses her tongue to lick around, whatever is up my arse, instead of tongue fucking my arsehole as is it's already occupied by whatever is up it. 

[mrfishyfoo]

He's got two arse holes, the spare one he uses to talk out of 

Ha !! Ha !! Very funny. 

[Brazilian Martian]

He's got two arse holes, the spare one he uses to talk out of 

 

[sub_marine]

Had a few girls try this including previous GFs, looking for a more intense orgasm, but usually just makes me feel like I need to pee.  Had one WG put an electro butt plug in with one electrode, and metal rod right down inside my eurethra with the other electrode, and wind the power up.  Felt nice until she started pulling the rod out, as the surface area decreases the pain is much sharper, still never felt like shooting though

[Titti Tatti]

Surprised this thread hasn't caught on.

Seems like its a marmite experience, some love it most not taken by it?


So for those who love it, what am I missing? How should an expert teach me and what do I gain from it?

Is it pleasurable on its own, as part of the buildup?

[Turtle Z]

Surprised this thread hasn't caught on.

Seems like its a marmite experience, some love it most not taken by it?


So for those who love it, what am I missing? How should an expert teach me and what do I gain from it?

Is it pleasurable on its own, as part of the buildup?

What you are missing is how it improves your orgasm. Having your prostate massaged while you're getting wanked off will give you a significantly more powerful orgasm and you'll shoot your muck twice as far... well at least I do. 

[NervousJ]

I've only ever tried it on myself..

Something else il add to the list to get said working girl to do....

[Turtle Z]

I've only ever tried it on myself..

Something else il add to the list to get said working girl to do....

Give it a go Jimmy but make sure the girl knows what she's doing; one silly cow rubbed underneath my balls. Its not as bad as in this clip...  External Link/Members Only

[Surrey83]

Have to say most of my massages have been 'prostrate'.

Pedantics aside....I've never had a decent one from a masseuse/wg. Always felt like being jabbed with a snooker cue! If I ever find a decent one I'll be sure to report back!

I've never been to an actual prostate specialist though, always have been additions to fbsm and they clearly haven't got a clue what they were doing. Certainly made me put a bit more finesse in when fingering a girl though, having been on the receiving end!

[Jonestown]

Had one WG put an electro butt plug in with one electrode, and metal rod right down inside my eurethra with the other electrode, and wind the power up.

If it was more widely practiced and it was better known how good electro-sex can be we wouldn't be bothering with women.

There was an old girl in a Chinese shop between the national gallery and Leicester Square who was a prostate specialist, with her she would get you hard then simultaneously work you prostate and your cock, the result as said by several people above, was a much more intense orgasm, and a sore arse afterwards.

[maxxblue]

If it was more widely practiced and it was better known how good electro-sex can be we wouldn't be bothering with women.

There was an old girl in a Chinese shop between the national gallery and Leicester Square who was a prostate specialist, with her she would get you hard then simultaneously work you prostate and your cock, the result as said by several people above, was a much more intense orgasm, and a sore arse afterwards.

Not sure what you are saying here, Jonestown? On the one hand you are saying that electro-sex is the best, and on the other that prostate sex is best.

 

[Jonestown]

No, prostate sex not the best, just a improvement, or maybe just a variation on your average hand job.

[Deepstroker]

A good prostate massage is a mix of exquisite pain and pleasure and the resulting orgasm is powerful and produces lots of spunk. I remember visiting the infamous Farnworth duo some years ago. Some may recall it was a lady maybe in her forties and her younger apprentice. I was shafting the young one in the mish and the older one started rimming me, then slipped a finger in and massaged my prostate as i was deep inside the young one,,an unforgettable moment. Best thing to do is ensure you are douched and supply a surgical/latex glove for the lady. It makes for a smoother action !

[Buttons]

A good prostate massage is a mix of exquisite pain and pleasure and the resulting orgasm is powerful and produces lots of spunk.

Exactly this, although I find it takes longer and is harder to cum. Like you are almost there but can't quite tip over the edge, but then you do and it's incredibly intense. Makes my cum very thin and runny with lots of it. Can't feel the separate squirts, but more like a constant flow when you pee. The resulting orgasm absolutely wipes me out and I'm shattered afterwards.

Had a civvie partner who used to love giving them, so I used to pop in her mouth and completely drown her.

Every guy should try it and don't worry about a finger up your bum. The pleasure it produces is astonishing.

[Turtle Z]

A good prostate massage is a mix of exquisite pain and pleasure

I generally don't find it painful at all so long as the girl knows what she's doing or will take instructions well.

[rubric]

I generally don't find it painful at all so long as the girl knows what she's doing or will take instructions well.

Ditto, never found it painful unless the girl didn't know what she was doing. As long as you are cleaned out and appropriate lube is being used it's an odd sensation but not painful.

The orgasm can be much more intense, and I've seen a few girls who could give great oral as well as a decent prostate massage simultaneously, and that was quite the experience.

[uutarn]

Ok, in the past few months i have enjoyed prostate orgasms a plenty.
I might be an anomaly here but once me and the girl in question got the location, angle and pressure right, i can orgasm (from prostate) very quickly.
Its a mix of pain... not pain no; discomfort and pleasure, like being fucked in the ass but leads to a very powerful orgasm.
I don't have to be hard to achieve this and also i don't ejaculate much, if anything at all. Its very, very strange.
Been done with both a finger and an angled vibrator, though that was too intense. Tried with a toe but it was not long enough .

The other weird thing is, i can have a "cock" orgasm then have a prostate orgasm quite soon after, its like they are on a different timer lol though in truth the orgasm comes from the same place?? I don't understand, all i know is what happens.
I don't know how else to explain it.
Like i said i might be an anomaly  but my ass has always been very sensitive and maybe that carries on to the prostate.

I would urge most to try it at least, but you have to be patient and try with someone who is enthusiastic.
It feels like an intense pressure at the base of your cock, sort of behind it pushing it forward. Your cock goes all tingly and balls tighten.
Dunno what else to say, i don't fully understand it myself.

Bear in mind though, many people try but not achieve... like the g spot enigma.
Guess i'm just lucky.

 

[rubric]

I can orgasm (from prostate) very quickly.
Its a mix of pain... not pain no; discomfort and pleasure, like being fucked in the ass but leads to a very powerful orgasm.
I don't have to be hard to achieve this and also i don't ejaculate much, if anything at all. Its very, very strange.

With prostate stimulation, it's possible to ejaculate without having much/or any orgasm, it's sometimes used by this purpose by femdoms.

[Jonestown]

In the "special" clinics of yesteryear they used to use mild prostate massage when they wanted a semen sample, or that's what they said they wanted, but maybe it was just the male nurses having some fun.

[cymrobach]

Had a few girls try this including previous GFs, looking for a more intense orgasm, but usually just makes me feel like I need to pee.  Had one WG put an electro butt plug in with one electrode, and metal rod right down inside my eurethra with the other electrode, and wind the power up.  Felt nice until she started pulling the rod out, as the surface area decreases the pain is much sharper, still never felt like shooting though

this is something i need to try out!!
tried Prostate massage and strapons and love it, but never tried this type of electro stim

sounds awesome!!!  who did that to you?

[Cum_again]

Best part of it is when you cum.

The sensation of your twitching arsehole around a finger or two is wonderful.

A couple of fingers up my arse, my balls in her mouth and her hand wanking me off is pretty much seventh heaven in my book...

But not for everyone I guess

[KenniLingus]

For electro prostate massage this is great...

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[Clicktocollect]

For electro prostate massage this is great...

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Melanie used one of those on me, it was fucking Heaven

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[cymrobach]

Melanie used one of those on me, it was fucking Heaven

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Wow she is stunning!!!!
Just need to work out an excuse to get to London now!!!

[joe diddley]

I remember getting this with an anal vibrator from saucy masseuse Anita of Acton, black British girl. Intensely pleasurable and it left me tingling for about five days afterwards    Unfortunately Anita has now retired leaving only a message on her voicemail about all the wonderful gentlemen who used to blah, blah, blah  .