Author Topic: 'Non Sexual' Meets with WGs (Read 2079 times)

Gsmith88 · « **on:** April 30, 2021, 12:29:59 pm »

Hello everyone, I thought I would ask as I feel I may be in a minority but does anyone ever visit WGs to have 'non sexual' sessions?

To elaborate on what I mean by non sexual - things like BDSM, (barely) clothed facesitting, ass/tit smothering, titwanks are all fine but having actual sex or oral sex is not.

I have been doing this for some time now and I don't know if it's a guilt thing because I have a wife but my sessions tend to revolve around my fetishes rather than actually having sex (with the exception of a single punt I had which involved a TS).

I always ask the WG "Do you get requests like this very often?" and they reply "Yes, more than you think!" but I am not sure if its bullshit.

I am also not sure whether I am about to set myself up for a grilling.

PaulRuff · « **Reply #1 on:** April 30, 2021, 12:37:32 pm »

One girl I saw last year had a regular who just used to turn up, shower and then give her a back massage before getting himself dressed and leaving. Bizarre.

Gsmith88 · « **Reply #2 on:** April 30, 2021, 01:59:31 pm »

Different strokes for different folks I guess....

There is a certain thrill of getting to the door and not knowing what to expect, maybe that's what the guy was getting off on? I personally would find myself frustrated after seeing a half naked woman, massaging her and then saying goodbye.

Rockhead · « **Reply #3 on:** April 30, 2021, 02:09:37 pm »

Interesting post! I would actually count the things you refer to as 'sexual'. I don't think something becomes 'non-sexual' just because it doesn't include penetration.

While I enjoy a good old-fashioned shag, I also very much enjoy meetings that don't include that. Had some great mutual massage sessions with a regular, both of us bringing the other to a rousing climax. Sometimes not having to 'perform' takes the pressure off, and you can relax and enjoy things more. And make them last longer, probably. Other times, you just wanna climb aboard and fuck someone.

But I see no problem if you prefer to do something different.

recycler · « **Reply #4 on:** April 30, 2021, 02:26:17 pm »

you pays your money and takes your choice.

Hobbit · « **Reply #5 on:** April 30, 2021, 02:29:17 pm »

In my book, if it is a fetish then it is sexual; as it is caused by lust. Therefore all fetishes are sexual.

Gsmith88 · « **Reply #6 on:** April 30, 2021, 02:32:05 pm »

Interesting points of view. From what has been said I should have labelled this as non-penetrative meets as you are right many of the things I have listed lead to lust which is therefore sexual.

signy · « **Reply #7 on:** April 30, 2021, 02:43:44 pm »

This is pretty common in BDSM meets, where many doms will specify that they do not offer any sexual services or even nudity (on their part). However, to my mind, if you get off on the experience, either at the time or later whilst remembering, then it is a sexual meet.

Many escorts will offer genuinely non-sexual meets, in the traditional "accompany you to an event with no extras" style, but this seems to be viewed as easy money, so not to be passed up. I am not sure to what extent this sort of old-fashioned escort exists any more in strictly that sense and not doing "escorting". Maybe our SP members know better...

blend57 · « **Reply #8 on:** April 30, 2021, 02:44:56 pm »

I have to say that what the OP is taking about is still sexual. You can classify it as non-penetrative sexual services, but still sexual.

To most people, non-sexual escorting would be platonic services such as dinner and drinking companion services.

Hobbit · « **Reply #9 on:** April 30, 2021, 02:49:24 pm »

I will never pay an escort to just take her out for drinks. It would be ludicrous!

However, I have taken sugar babies out on non-sexual dates, but that is with the intention and hope of something sexual happening at some point.

blend57 · « **Reply #10 on:** April 30, 2021, 02:56:59 pm »

Quote from: Hobbit on April 30, 2021, 02:49:24 pm

I will never pay an escort to just take her out for drinks. It would be ludicrous!
However, I have taken sugar babies out on non-sexual dates, but that is with the intention and hope of something sexual happening at some point.

I cannot see myself doing it either. Nor would I pay an escorts usual rates for a dinner date. On the other hand, if the escort had a sufficiently reduced rate for the dinner part, then I might be tempted to add dinner onto a normal escort meet.

Rockhead · « **Reply #11 on:** April 30, 2021, 03:20:11 pm »

Quote from: blend57 on April 30, 2021, 02:56:59 pm

if the escort had a sufficiently reduced rate for the dinner part, then I might be tempted to add dinner onto a normal escort meet.

Yes, I would be up for that too, providing it's someone I've seen before (to weed out the nutjobs). Some would be absolutely horrified at the thought, but the build-up of anticipation would be what made it work for me. Plus I'm just greedy and I like eating out.

Stevelondon · « **Reply #12 on:** April 30, 2021, 03:54:43 pm »

Penetrative sex is no big deal for me.
Yes sometimes if I feel so inclined but as I’ve got older I do indulge in the more fetish side of things.... SP willing.
Tie and tease, tease and denial, chastity etc.
Not really into pain.
I agree with Blend57, I assumed the OP was asking if the meet was purely platonic.

I have made friends with some girls over the years and still meet up socially with one of them if she is in London. Going on ten years now.

Stevelondon · « **Reply #13 on:** April 30, 2021, 03:56:34 pm »

Just on the OP where he asks if the WG gets requests like this very often.

I would think most SP’s have forgotten more unsusual requests than they can remember.

GorillaWarfare · « **Reply #14 on:** April 30, 2021, 04:03:50 pm »

A girl I saw once told me that she had a client who saw her just to have a wank and moan about his wife. I've no way of proving it either way, though, so take it for what you will.

Kool Keef · « **Reply #15 on:** April 30, 2021, 04:56:07 pm »

I once booked a WG & some Netflix show was playing in the room on a flat screen, after asking what show it was I found out it was something the previous client liked, he regularly booked her to just chat & watch Netflix for the hr.
She's around a ton & half for the hr btw.
Nice work if you can get it!

I also know a parlour girl who has a regular who books her for several hrs at a time & they just chat, have a drink, bit of kissing, bit of oral....that's all he wants.

blend57 · « **Reply #16 on:** April 30, 2021, 05:13:44 pm »

Quote from: Kool Keef on April 30, 2021, 04:56:07 pm

I once booked a WG & some Netflix show was playing in the room on a flat screen, after asking what show it was I found out it was something the previous client liked, he regularly booked her to just chat & watch Netflix for the hr.
She's around a ton & half for the hr btw.
Nice work if you can get it!

I also know a parlour girl who has a regular who books her for several hrs at a time & they just chat, have a drink, bit of kissing, bit of oral....that's all he wants.

Some people really lonely and just want some normal human contact.

southcoastpunter · « **Reply #17 on:** April 30, 2021, 05:26:28 pm »

Op - whether you others think of the examples you gave as being "sexual" or not is not really important (however a wife or GF most certainly would) but as others have said - your money, spend it on the things/services that you want and enjoy. Most guys that go to massage places and get "extras" are similar in that extras usually does not include penetrative sex.

We are all different (thank goodness) so do whatever makes you happy.

Uncle Bob · « **Reply #18 on:** May 01, 2021, 12:41:59 am »

Quote from: blend57 on April 30, 2021, 05:13:44 pm

Some people really lonely and just want some normal human contact.

Ironically, a lot of people in relationships i.e marriages - are in exactly this situation. They go to WG's for the attention that is completely missing in their lives.
It's great being able to go & fuck a fit bird who wouldn't normally glance at you, wipe your cock on the curtains & leave.
But some of us - for whatever reason or age - also crave
the physical contact of just holding( or being held) in someone's arms.
Everyone needs a cuddle at some point....some people are lucky & take for granted a loving, tactile action. Some folks ain't so lucky, mentally deranged or have such fucked up lives that they have to pay for that simple form of human contact.

Take Quasimodo for example - he'd have got the hump if he TOFTT if Esmeralda hadn't been on AW with her phone number so he could give her a bell & read her reviews on UKP....

Just sayin ..,😉

tynetunnel · « **Reply #19 on:** May 01, 2021, 10:49:46 am »

My punts are not all about the sex aspect. It’s the whole GFE package which is important to me. These come in many forms, some being much more like the ‘wife experience’ with many restrictions!!

My ideal punt includes lots of DFK, cuddles, squeezes, touching: just holding and being held: made to feel special, cared for, loved. It’s not just a sexual experience for me, I can get a release at home on my own with an Xhamster video!

We are all different in our needs and punting reasons and I don’t judge anyone

Trex · « **Reply #20 on:** May 01, 2021, 12:39:01 pm »

Some guys just want a cuddle and kisses.

Solway1 · « **Reply #21 on:** May 01, 2021, 01:00:37 pm »

We are all different in our needs and punting reasons and I don’t judge anyone

Perfectly put sir

Longshot · « **Reply #22 on:** May 01, 2021, 03:59:34 pm »

Ive had loads of bdsm sessions where i didnt get penetrative sex or oral. Just lots of impact play where the only time she touched my dick was with a crop or paddle. Often finished with j.o.i.

METEOR · « **Reply #23 on:** May 01, 2021, 04:11:20 pm »

One girl I saw said she had a guy turn up every week with fruit and just talk for 1-2 hours

geezer_breezer · « **Reply #24 on:** May 01, 2021, 04:23:16 pm »

My last few meets have been non penetrative too. Quite a lot of teasing, touching, etc instead. Thing is, it's really hard to find a sexy girl with a wicked imagination who can pull this off especially in Scotlands central belt.

Neverthere · « **Reply #25 on:** May 01, 2021, 05:49:59 pm »

When I first read the title I imagined we were talking about going to see a WG for a bit of chat and a coffee

So on that theme for talking sake would you do this with two WG's? Just taking it to the extreme of duo no sex meet and how would this be classed, attending brothel?

Totally hypothetical but imagine that scenario and get the inquisition from a wee visit

Honest just here for a coffee

montycat · « **Reply #26 on:** May 01, 2021, 06:00:23 pm »

I decided a while ago that once I could not longer get hard enough for penetrative sex, I would still see girls, as the kissing and cuddling etc. is really important for me. Fortunately that time still looks like a while away, thanks to the Viagra. I don't see the point of paying for a fully non-sexual meeting, although I know some guys did, in the last year.

MrT222 · « **Reply #27 on:** May 01, 2021, 09:36:57 pm »

Quote from: tynetunnel on May 01, 2021, 10:49:46 am

My punts are not all about the sex aspect. It’s the whole GFE package which is important to me. These come in many forms, some being much more like the ‘wife experience’ with many restrictions!!

Likewise. My best punts I've always had a really good vibe with the girl (and the sex is always much better as a result).

Mr Doodle · « **Reply #28 on:** May 01, 2021, 10:34:21 pm »

I have twice had totally asexual sessions. On my very first ever outcall meet at a hotel. the WG was absolutely lovely. The small talk morphed into normal talk and, as I was in a foreign country (US), I realised after a week or so or work, I was more interested in some female company than just sex. She stripped down to her bra and panties, and at about the 40 minute mark said soimethign along the lines that if I wanted to do it, now was the last opportunity... but I was happy just yapping.

The next was a gorlf form Eclipse escorts (that was also a very long time ago). A fit young Scottish girl who came to a hotel. Although she was hot, for some reason, I just couldn't bring myself to have sex with her, so we surfed the net (wioth a modem at something like 1200bps) for an hour. She have me her number and said if I wanted to have another session, she would do it for free.. but I just wasn't interested.

Normally (and in both those cases), I intend to have some form of sexual satisfaction when I go punting.

Oh.. And there was the one where I arrived at the WGs pad so drunk, I fell asleep as soon as the head hit the pillow. I was out for three hours apparently.. Thankfully, I was her last client for the night.

SamOmar · « **Reply #29 on:** May 02, 2021, 12:22:36 am »

Some of my punts like when I saw Chinese Lisa there was no penetration involved however still HR and lots of oral, I can't see myself paying without at least an attempt of a release

Home Alone · « **Reply #30 on:** May 02, 2021, 09:01:44 am »

Quote from: tynetunnel on May 01, 2021, 10:49:46 am

My punts are not all about the sex aspect. It’s the whole GFE package which is important to me. These come in many forms, some being much more like the ‘wife experience’ with many restrictions!!

My ideal punt includes lots of DFK, cuddles, squeezes, touching: just holding and being held: made to feel special, cared for, loved. It’s not just a sexual experience for me, I can get a release at home on my own with an Xhamster video!

We are all different in our needs and punting reasons and I don’t judge anyone

As I get older, I've increasingly found that the 'non-sexual' component of my four-hour sessions with my Regular - I've been seeing her for nearly 10 years now - form a larger part of my time with her. The spirit is definitely willing, but the flesh is, sadly, and despite Cialis

, increasingly weak.

In one sense, it doesn't matter because in a way, you're right, tt. The session then becomes a proper GFE, in which she reassures me that I don't need to worry, rather than the WE [Wife Experience] in which a failure to 'perform' is - certainly was, in my experience - mocked.

Slow grinder · « **Reply #31 on:** May 02, 2021, 09:02:53 am »

Many years ago while working in Newcastle upon Tyne .. I met a lady in a Pub on Market St (I think), arranged a 'meet' for two days later (Thursday)... few drinks, nice meal, got a taxi for her to go home (me enjoying the company not trying for a shag). As she was getting in the taxi she said "Loved the evening, usually I charge £40 and hour"! and off she went.....and me an experienced punter, not seeing or expecting that!

. I would never ever pay to take an escort out!

SALIBA · « **Reply #32 on:** May 03, 2021, 12:19:08 am »

Before I found AW I used to use Vivastreet a lot, but if I met an SP who I thought wasn't urm, Kocher on the health system. I wouldn't go ahead with penetration.

mradventures · « **Reply #33 on:** May 05, 2021, 12:13:54 am »

theres a ted talk on youtube, where a sp hosts, and says sex typically lasts 5minutes, so what are guys booking an hour for? intamacy and being themselves.

stevesucks69 · « **Reply #34 on:** May 05, 2021, 10:43:31 am »

Quote from: mradventures on May 05, 2021, 12:13:54 am

theres a ted talk on youtube, where a sp hosts, and says sex typically lasts 5minutes, so what are guys booking an hour for? intamacy and being themselves.

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Author Topic: 'Non Sexual' Meets with WGs (Read 2079 times)