Sugar Daddies

[Matium]

Has anybody been on one of the Sugardaddy/Sugarbabes sites?

It's great!

It doesn't matter if you're a millionaire or a faux millionaire, just put up a profile with any old bull, and you'll find women flocking. The lure of wealth seems to attract all women not just WGs.

Very good looking civvy girls join up to be Sugarbabes.

So far I've had 3 dates and as the French say, 3 "pénétrations"!



Beware the prostitutes though, I've seen loads of prostitutes whose photos I recognise from prostitute websites. The prostitutes spoil the atmosphere by being mercenary, the civvy girls need seducing but that only adds to the fun.

[Strawberry]

I once joined the site simply looking for a boyfriend who could support himself and was ambitious, no money exchange involved. I didn't find anyone I fancied and left. I don't think I got the gist of it somehow!

[James999]

I once joined the site simply looking for a boyfriend who could support himself and was ambitious,

It's known as being a  Gold Digger 

A guy doesn't need to be a millionaire to support himself, the Albanian minicab driver can do that, and he's ambitious, many spent days hiding in a truck to get here and better themselves.

[Strawberry]

It's known as being a  Gold Digger 

A guy doesn't need to be a millionaire to support himself, the Albanian minicab driver can do that, and he's ambitious, many spent days hiding in a truck to get here and better themselves.

Yes I realised that, hence leaving the site. I think the Albanian driver might put himself at risk of POCA though, am sure I read somewhere about an immigrant worker without a permit having his earnings confiscated under those rules.

[James999]

Yes I realised that, hence leaving the site. I think the Albanian driver might put himself at risk of POCA though, am sure I read somewhere about an immigrant worker without a permit having his earnings confiscated under those rules.

Best you avoid the Illegals then, as it could lead to all sorts of problems / investigations 

[Melb]

Sounds intriguing, can you say a bit more?

So, how does this work then?
What's a good site?
How much is the membership?

[AnthG]

It sounds interesting but looking it over there is no Tyne and Wear, closest to me is Northumberland which is the Blyth areas which is not close.

It was really out of curiosity as I definitely do not fall into the category of sugar daddy, but a man can dream.

To be honest I liked my idea of Russian girls coming to the UK wanting Sugar Daddies more than this one as for one due to the economy collapse a rich guy to a Russian is maybe a guy with a £1000 to his name.

[philuk1uk]

I'm a member on one of the sites, had heard good things about it, thought i'd give it a go, I too have noticed a few girls on there who I know are WG's, it's unclear as to whether they are there actually genuinely looking for someone or touting for business, but i've steered clear anyway.

[Son of the Desert]

Which sites are worth trying?  Presumably, it must cost somewhere along the line.


SOD

[finn5555]

It is cheaper and a lot less hassle to book a prossie  And you get to pick rather than being picked 

[Marmalade]

Not quite sure where it stops or if a prossie is cheaper. There's been times going on an exotic trip and covering costs - if she has at least some nominal emotional involvement she won't expect paid by the hour.

[Inna]

In today's age of natural and organic preferences, I have my heart set on a maple syrup daddy... and when I find him I am just going to suck him all up... or is it suck up to him ... or what is it I supposed to suck ?

[Matium]

Sounds intriguing, can you say a bit more?

So, how does this work then?
What's a good site?
How much is the membership?

The main one is:

External Link/Members Only

It's £30.00 for one month or £60 for 3 months.

Once you're a member, you can write to any woman you see and if you've written a good profile about yourself then you'll be certain of getting replies.

[Jerboa]

It sounds interesting but looking it over there is no Tyne and Wear, closest to me is Northumberland which is the Blyth areas which is not close.

It was really out of curiosity as I definitely do not fall into the category of sugar daddy, but a man can dream.

To be honest I liked my idea of Russian girls coming to the UK wanting Sugar Daddies more than this one as for one due to the economy collapse a rich guy to a Russian is maybe a guy with a £1000 to his name.

So do you still think most of Russia Is still piss poor, living on frozen potatos and vodka?
If a Russian lady had a choice she'd pick a rich Russian first.

[Jerboa]

So with the Sugardaddy sites don't the women blow you out after the find out you don't own your own oil well?

That AW blonde Alyssa girls from Hatfield was on a program about Gold diggers before, how she hooked a few sugar daddies, paid for her new boobs and tuition fees through college, now she's hooking, least that's more honest. 

[Lurtz]

The main one is:

External Link/Members Only

It's £30.00 for one month or £60 for 3 months.

Once you're a member, you can write to any woman you see and if you've written a good profile about yourself then you'll be certain of getting replies.

I joined that site (I was doing some covert work - don't ask) and I had so many women contacting me that it became a full-time job just deleting emails.

In case you're wondering, I didn't date anyone, but it was nice to see the females doing all the leg work for a change. 

[whiterussian]

was your covert opperation a success Lurtz?

[Lurtz]

was your covert operation a success Lurtz?

Alas, t'was a failure, Whiterussian. I couldn't find the girl I was searching for. But it was good fun looking. There's a lot of good looking gold diggers out there.

[smiths]

So with the Sugardaddy sites don't the women blow you out after the find out you don't own your own oil well?

That AW blonde Alyssa girls from Hatfield was on a program about Gold diggers before, how she hooked a few sugar daddies, paid for her new boobs and tuition fees through college, now she's hooking, least that's more honest. 

That would make her a never for me. I dont want to be hearing about Sugar Daddies and all that shit, mugs being the correct word for them. I really have zero respect for this type of woman, as you rightly say at least being a WG is more honest if she is honest obviously and if so have my respect.

[workinallweek]

Sally from Grays was on there and she told me it was a nice easy way to see the world ....

[fisherofsouls]

I joined that site ... and I had so many women contacting me that it became a full-time job just deleting emails.

In case you're wondering, I didn't date anyone, but it was nice to see the females doing all the leg work for a change. 

You do realise that the business model for this and pretty much every other dating site is to generate fake emails by the dozen to entice you to sign up ? 

Then when you've handed over your money:

- nobody ever contacts you
- all those women you got the emails from never even read your reply, let alone get in touch

There's an easy way to demonstrate this - just set up a profile with absolutely the bare minimum of info, no photo, and faintly disturbing description of yourself.  This will still get 10 emails a day saying "I really like you're profile", "Let's chat xxx", "Mmm, nice" ...

[jackdaw]

You do realise that the business model for this and pretty much every other dating site is to generate fake emails by the dozen to entice you to sign up ? 

Then when you've handed over your money:

- nobody ever contacts you
- all those women you got the emails from never even read your reply, let alone get in touch

There's an easy way to demonstrate this - just set up a profile with absolutely the bare minimum of info, no photo, and faintly disturbing description of yourself.  This will still get 10 emails a day saying "I really like you're profile", "Let's chat xxx", "Mmm, nice" ...

I tried a similar one years ago. My experience was exactly as you describe... plenty of emails, it took me a while to realize they were all fake.

Very surprised at Matium's results.

[Matium]

I had so many women contacting me that it became a full-time job just deleting emails.

What did you write in your profile to make so many women write to you?

[Lurtz]

What did you write in your profile to make so many women write to you?

I obviously can't tell you anything that I actually wrote, otherwise the google sleuths would track me down in 0.04 of a second (equivalent to the time it takes James999 to prematurely ejaculate in his mum's underwear when he she's a 'fit' bird), but suffice to say I wrote that I had an impressive portfolio (but I wasn't allowed to upload any pictures of it).

[Marmalade]

You do realise that the business model for this and pretty much every other dating site is to generate fake emails by the dozen to entice you to sign up ? 

Then when you've handed over your money:

- nobody ever contacts you
- all those women you got the emails from never even read your reply, let alone get in touch

There's an easy way to demonstrate this - just set up a profile with absolutely the bare minimum of info, no photo, and faintly disturbing description of yourself.  This will still get 10 emails a day saying "I really like you're profile", "Let's chat xxx", "Mmm, nice" ...

Spot on. There are about a couple of freebie dating sites that are genuine and a couple of paid ones. The rest follow the same model for suckers en masse. Sure, there might be the odd genuine woman looking for sex - if you can find her in the mass of marketing profiles. It makes AW look positively sanitary!

[philuk1uk]

The interesting thing is the Sugar Daddy site that I am a member of has actually attracted 2 completely different type of women -

1. Young girls looking for a sugar daddy relationship, a man to spoil them and get something in return...
2. Successful women with their own money who are attracted to successful men and know that the site is awash with successful men compared to a normal dating site.

[jackdaw]

The interesting thing is the Sugar Daddy site that I am a member of has actually attracted 2 completely different type of women -

1. Young girls looking for a sugar daddy relationship, a man to spoil them and get something in return...
2. Successful women with their own money who are attracted to successful men and know that the site is awash with successful men compared to a normal dating site.

Blimey. Are you seriously telling us you're getting contacted by real women as opposed to getting e-mails generated from site owners themselves pretending to be women??

 If so, things have changed since I tried the sites briefly a few years ago... but I suppose sometimes things do improve.... just to keep us all in a state of uncertainty.

[philuk1uk]

Blimey. Are you seriously telling us you're getting contacted by real women as opposed to getting e-mails generated from site owners themselves pretending to be women??

 If so, things have changed since I tried the sites briefly a few years ago... but I suppose sometimes things do improve.... just to keep us all in a state of uncertainty.

Yes, we'll have to see where things go but i've exchanged emails/texts with a few, I must be quite a catch! LOL 

[Matium]

Sugar Daddy affairs tend to be brief. The time to end it is when you get the first absurd requests to go on shopping trips to buy Versace dresses or Hermes handbags or they ask you for a monthly "allowance".

I'd rather have a woman who wants me for me and not me for my money.

Still the advantage is that you get to fuck civvy girls bareback whereas it's with a condom with WGs.

[Marmalade]

Sugar Daddy affairs tend to be brief. The time to end it is when you get the first absurd requests to go on shopping trips to buy Versace dresses or Hermes handbags or they ask you for a monthly "allowance".

I'd rather have a woman who wants me for me and not me for my money.

Surely it's a matter of degree. If I take a girlfriend abroad and pay her airfare and hotel, this is surely half way towards being a sugardaddy. Trouble is, people don't appreciate so much if it's not their own cash.

[smiths]

Sugar Daddy affairs tend to be brief. The time to end it is when you get the first absurd requests to go on shopping trips to buy Versace dresses or Hermes handbags or they ask you for a monthly "allowance".

I'd rather have a woman who wants me for me and not me for my money.

Still the advantage is that you get to fuck civvy girls bareback whereas it's with a condom with WGs.

I wouldnt fuck any woman outside of a relationship BB myself, who knows what they are getting up to.

[fisherofsouls]

I wouldnt fuck any woman outside of a relationship BB myself, who knows what they are getting up to.

You don't know what a woman IN a relationship is getting up to, believe me, so it's a gamble either way..

[smiths]

You don't know what a woman IN a relationship is getting up to, believe me, so it's a gamble either way..

I have gone to the GUM with her on occassion and seen her results later but yes she could immediately of gone and shagged the postman but there isnt anything i can do about that.

The risk to reward ratio that i follow tells me shagging a complete or virtual stranger BB is too risky whereas in a relationship its well worth the risk.

[1234]

Isn't even marriage a way of agreeing to "a paid for relationship" to some extent ?

You're not f'king kidding 

[Jimmyredcab]

Exactly. I went on a couple of dates with people on there when I was starting out escorting and didn't meet anyone nice - only arrogant. One sniffly said 'urgh look at all these prostitutes - I can spot one a mile off'. Hmm just not the one say opposite you!

A very stupid thing to say, in my Town Center (Romford) most of the girls look like prostitutes ----------- most of the prostitutes that I know look just like the girl next door, you would never know. 

[Lurtz]

A very stupid thing to say, in my Town Center (Romford) most of the girls look like prostitutes ----------- most of the prostitutes that I know look just like the girl next door, you would never know. 

I notice a lot of EE girls dress like prostitutes. It makes my blood run hot.

[Jerboa]

I notice a lot of EE girls dress like prostitutes. It makes my blood run hot.

Yes I noticed that In Bulgaria, women dressed In tight jeans and thigh high patent boots! 

[1234]

I joined that site (I was doing some covert work - don't ask) and I had so many women contacting me that it became a full-time job just deleting emails.

In case you're wondering, I didn't date anyone, but it was nice to see the females doing all the leg work for a change. 

It must be nice living in your world of total fantasy.

Enjoy. 

[Aitch1944]

You're not f'king kidding 

You married then ?? I guess you must be !!

 

[jacksparrow11]

I guess thats why the Pornstars shack up with the Older Gents when they retire as they have got more Wonga! Therefore will offer them a better life when they Stop working! What ever happened to Happiness?

[1234]

You married then ?? I guess you must be !!

 

 
I suspect I am, but I get around alot so have a fair bit of self belief/esteem/will to live left after all the hard, down-trodden years, nagged, complaining, moaning, criticising, sad times.

...and that was just the first month.

[Matium]

I really am enjoying myself on the Sugar Daddies site.

As far as I can see, there are three different types of women on Sugar Daddies - the prostitutes, young women, in their twenties, who are in a needy financial situation and older, successful and sophisticated women, in their forties, who are looking for men who have achieved a comparable or superior level of success.

I avoid the prostitutes and dump the young women when they start asking for Prada handbags - however, it's the older women there who excite me and who are well worth the chase!

It really is a lot of fun.

[GlasgowGirl]

Erm , Matium, the clue is in the word "sugar daddy" - they just want paid. It's just prostitution, with more ego-stroking and a lot more hassle for both parties. If I was a man and that way inclined, I'd just go to a prostitute. Much simpler for everyone. I do appreciate that there are those who are into these sugar daddy arrangements, I just can't fathom it - sounds like a hell of a hassle for a handbag  . I'd much rather everything was more clearly defined. To me visiting a prostitute is about sex, and being a prostitute is about money. simple. no need to muddy it up with "lunch dates" and handbags or other gifts, or pretending to actually be in some kind of romantic relationship, rather than just the GFE sex, which I do understand the desire for.

[Matium]

It's the chase that makes it exciting.

 

[GlasgowGirl]

and if the younger women who are on there are having sex with the "sugar daddies" (who they would not want to have sex with otherwise, and who are probably married) in the hope of financial remuneration without prior payment, then they are a bit daft / naive. They would be much better off just setting up as a prossie! 

[Tony Montana]

Erm , Matium, the clue is in the word "sugar daddy" - they just want paid. It's just prostitution, with more ego-stroking and a lot more hassle for both parties. If I was a man and that way inclined, I'd just go to a prostitute. Much simpler for everyone. I do appreciate that there are those who are into these sugar daddy arrangements, I just can't fathom it - sounds like a hell of a hassle for a handbag  . I'd much rather everything was more clearly defined. To me visiting a prostitute is about sex, and being a prostitute is about money. simple. no need to muddy it up with "lunch dates" and handbags or other gifts, or pretending to actually be in some kind of romantic relationship, rather than just the GFE sex, which I do understand the desire for.

I don't think "it's just prostitution".  Obviously there is the overtone of paid sex but a girl on the sugar daddy site gets to pick and choose who her  sugar daddy is unlike escorts, parlour girls, etc.  Maybe the older woman is looking for romance or a LTR but with the condition that the guy must be wealthy and generous to the right person.

[GlasgowGirl]

Do you actually get to have sex with women on there and avoid the payment altogether? For example you may think that since they are leading you on just for your cash, so you may as well in turn lead them on for their body or whatever. Then just disappear when you get the sex, or they could disappear when they get the money. Stalemate or what.

Do some girls actually fall for the 'promise' of money or the implication and have sex first? {shocked emoticon}

[GlasgowGirl]

Lex, maybe I'm just an old romantic  , but in my book a relationship is about genuine love and attraction of the person, not what they can give you materially. Obviously I don't think anyone should shack up with someone who won't contribute financially and at least work a job (I don't like leeches), but the thought of having a "boyfriend" or , heaven forbid a marriage just for money makes me  a little.

On the other hand, the sex industry is about fantasy (not reality) and sex. and money. I don't think it's useful for a man to risk a less-than-discreet "situation" with a paid mistress or start having feelings for someone who's only there for the cash he provides. And it's not useful for a woman (especially if young and short of cash) to be dependent on one man for a large chunk of her income, or have feelings for someone who is only there for the sex she provides.

It seems a bit fake and dishonest and crass to me. 'Real' prostitution seems rather quaint and simple in comparison lol.

[Tony Montana]

Glasgow Girl - I was referring specifically to the third type mentioned by Matium

I really am enjoying myself on the Sugar Daddies site.

As far as I can see, there are three different types of women on Sugar Daddies - the prostitutes, young women, in their twenties, who are in a needy financial situation and older, successful and sophisticated women, in their forties, who are looking for men who have achieved a comparable or superior level of success.

Far from being "fake and dishonest" it seems to be a completely honest way of addressing the grey area between the black and white extremes of sex workers and genuine relationship seekers.

If these gold-diggers we being dishonest, they would be on match.com, eHarmony.com etc.  The website is there to cater for a particular market and seems to do so successfully.

[GlasgowGirl]

Carmen -  . wow!

I agree with some guys on here that "high class" is just a marketing ploy, one of many used by many different industries and I guess fair play to the marketing aspect, but being high class is in no way representative of quality of the sex in the escort market. 

But..... I also think that men who describe themselves as "high class" by exaggerating their wealth and generosity and boasting etc, are 99% of the time cheapskate idiots.

Most normal people just get on with it.