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Author Topic: Seeking.com regional open thread - West Midlands  (Read 50496 times)

Offline Sparta Prada

I couldn't find an open thread for Seeking for the West Midlands so thought I would start this off.

The regional open threads for Seeking/Seeking Arrangements (SA) has been suggested by the new admins to create more open discussion away from the older thread that has been closed to new members for a while now. On the open thread you can post warnings about timewasters & scammers you have encountered to help other members decide whether they wish to contact these profiles, but with the caveat that just because you was scammed/had your time wasted by the person behind the profile it doesn't mean that you will have the same experience with them. As with all forms of paid sex, YMMV.

Admin also agreed it is ok for us to post profiles of ladies on both SA and AW (or any other sex worker site). One of the great attractions is to meet a Sugar Babe (SB) on SA who isn't a hardened WG charging by the hour, has fucked 20 other geezers in the past week, and hopefully doesn't go through a well rehearsed act in the bedroom. Once again, an AW girl may treat their Sugar Daddies (SD) differently to a punter booking them for an hour, YMMV applies here as well but at least you will have the information on this thread to help you make a decision.

So here's the first lady on this thread who appears on both AW & SA:

LibertyAnn of Rugby - External Link/Members Only

annforyou of Rugby - External Link/Members Only

To view an SA profile you will need to create a profile on Seeking (which can be free to view profiles), non-members will not be able to view any profiles listed.

Offline ScouserRod

No longer available on SA-just clicked the link !!

Offline Sparta Prada

No longer available on SA-just clicked the link !!

Let’s see how long before she puts up a new profile on Seeking.

Here’s the next WG on Seeking, and I checked this one before posting!

Callie78 from Walsall - External Link/Members Only

Cali400 from Aldridge - External Link/Members Only

Offline James

Banned reason: Unhealthy obsession with SP malicious posts out of spite
Banned by: daviemac

Offline BrumTallGuy

Seeing whats on saafe about seeking is funny. They say every one is a timewaster. Got to laff.

Offline ScouserRod

Sparta-good thread-I have often  thought about SA but it generally seems a fair amount of hassle from what others say but again some have had some success-also membership is expensive !
Good idea for a local thread though

Offline Sparta Prada

External Link/Members Only is summer deluxe or was.

Well spotted James. Just to confirm:

_leximartinez in Birmingham: External Link/Members Only

Lexi Luxury Escort in Birmingham: External Link/Members Only

Offline Sparta Prada

Sparta-good thread-I have often  thought about SA but it generally seems a fair amount of hassle from what others say but again some have had some success-also membership is expensive !
Good idea for a local thread though

You have summed up Seeking pretty well!

In case you haven’t seen it, here’s the Seeking Wiki page for a bit more detail on the SA experience:

External Link/Members Only

My own view is Seeking is worth it to look at punting from another angle but only if you have a bit more spare cash to throw at this hobby and, most importantly, time. At face value it is more expensive - the £70 monthly membership, taking the girls out for drinks, meals, hotel costs, allowance to girls, etc. But when you meet the right girl the sex you get with a SB is considerably better than with a time conscious WG.

Myself and the guys on the closed thread have been lucky to share tips and experiences (both good and bad) we have had about meeting girls on Seeking for the past few years. New admin wants this info shared to the wider UKP community.

Offline thebadooboy

You have summed up Seeking pretty well!

In case you haven’t seen it, here’s the Seeking Wiki page for a bit more detail on the SA experience:

External Link/Members Only

My own view is Seeking is worth it to look at punting from another angle but only if you have a bit more spare cash to throw at this hobby and, most importantly, time. At face value it is more expensive - the £70 monthly membership, taking the girls out for drinks, meals, hotel costs, allowance to girls, etc. But when you meet the right girl the sex you get with a SB is considerably better than with a time conscious WG.

Myself and the guys on the closed thread have been lucky to share tips and experiences (both good and bad) we have had about meeting girls on Seeking for the past few years. New admin wants this info shared to the wider UKP community.

That page seems to be dead/empty.

Offline Sparta Prada

That page seems to be dead/empty.

Ah, I missed off the final letter 's' in the link! Try this one:

External Link/Members Only


Offline shed

Decided to just sign up and not upgraded yet. Have received about ten emails with messages attached which I obviously cannot read until I sign up with subscription. Is this a ploy they use to get one to subscribe, that is sending many potential messages with pictures of mainly attractive women, or are they genuine.

Offline James

Decided to just sign up and not upgraded yet. Have received about ten emails with messages attached which I obviously cannot read until I sign up with subscription. Is this a ploy they use to get one to subscribe, that is sending many potential messages with pictures of mainly attractive women, or are they genuine.
Its a ploy like all dating sites. I signed up to a dating site. Girl contacted me and i paid. Next thing that girl dissapeared.

Best way to test is use two diff emails. Make a junk profile badly worded. If u get responses on that one then thery are bots
Banned reason: Unhealthy obsession with SP malicious posts out of spite
Banned by: daviemac


Offline jd101a

to shed sa is very good once you pay for a month i bet you will be paying again lol . i go for a month on and a month off . i would say more than 50% are genuine you do get timewasters and pic and video sellers but not that many . i would say its like pof mixed with adultwork you do have to put some work in but it can pay off

Offline kurnlittle

No updates on the West Midlands ?

Offline tynetunnel

Hold on there fella, housekeeping will be along shortly to sweep out all the cobwebs and tumbleweed....  :hi:

Offline Sparta Prada

No updates on the West Midlands ?

When did you last have Premium membership on Seeking? And how was it for you?

Offline kurnlittle

When did you last have Premium membership on Seeking? And how was it for you?

still on it about 10 days left. shit so far!

Offline T0pgun

Girl known for scamming guys back on SA in Birmingham - beware

Offline shed

Girl known for scamming guys back on SA in Birmingham - beware

Can you give us a clue  :hi:

Offline Roodboy867

« Last Edit: March 07, 2020, 04:48:05 pm by Roodboy867 »

Offline Brumish

Girl known for scamming guys back on SA in Birmingham - beware

I sensed it was her!  :D

Offline Availableinlarge

Girl known for scamming guys back on SA in Birmingham - beware
What’s this about?

Offline Jumping Jack Flash

What’s this about?

She’s well known for getting a guy into a hotel room, pocketing the cash and disappearing after stepping outside to take a call.

Offline Availableinlarge

She’s well known for getting a guy into a hotel room, pocketing the cash and disappearing after stepping outside to take a call.
I’d figured out it’s a scam, but thanks for the detail.
I guess the more important question is how are we talking about?

Offline Brumish

I’d figured out it’s a scam, but thanks for the detail.
I guess the more important question is how are we talking about?

Or who even?  :D


Offline shrewsmale


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Offline James

She’s well known for getting a guy into a hotel room, pocketing the cash and disappearing after stepping outside to take a call.


got a link im currently trying sa
Banned reason: Unhealthy obsession with SP malicious posts out of spite
Banned by: daviemac

Offline shrewsmale

sorry I meant that there used to be a closed thread where you had to show admin you were on it to gain access?

Online GingerNuts

sorry I meant that there used to be a closed thread where you had to show admin you were on it to gain access?

There still is. It was closed to new members but AnthG got access recently so maybe you can too if you have the bona fides.

Offline KidCandyShop

Thought I would get the broom out and dust of this post to see if anyone else used SA in the midlands or do I have it all to myself.  :hi:

Offline Mickys1621

Good job mate but you missed the tumble weed in the corner there

Offline Brumish

A lot do I think. Most probably use the two open and closed threads.
Whata the situation in SA land at the moment? I'm looking at rejoining soon in readiness for independence day.

Offline Rockhead

I'm also looking at rejoining in the not too distant future when something resembling normal service is a serious prospect. The idea of meeting someone for coffee on a park bench doesn’t really do it for me as an SA date.  :D

I think these regional threads are a great idea, for the reasons Sparta outlined in his opening post. However, I’m East Midlands not West and there doesn’t seem to be a thread there. I could always start one, but would there be any mileage in combining the two i.e. treating this as an SA thread covering the entire Midlands - or is that too large a catchment area?

Offline AffAlchemist

OK I can contribute here lol  :dance:

(happened 3rd week of Feb 2021)

I gave it a try and gotta say paid for the first month and nearly gave up after 3 weeks
Too much hassle and in the back of my mind i can pay a great looking SP and know what im getting without the bullshit of small talk and the rest
But anyway was chilling in the hotel and spent a couple of hours on there and chatted to one SB
Looked FAF from the few images and stated age was 24 (she was 25 she told me when we met)
Chatted and she said she would be keen for a meet on a PPM basis. She then said was Intimacy expected and i said no point meeting if not
So we agreed id pay £350 for her to come from 7 to 12ish maybe a bit later
Prob a bit too much i was thinking and could have haggled but i regularly pay £300 to £400 for a 2 hour SP

So i booked a pals AirBNB in the city centre and arranged to meet at 7
She rocked up and was as expected
Now i didnt hold out much hope for the encounter but jesus how i got that wrong
Id opened a bottle of wine for her and within 20 mins she popped to the bathroom and came out in full lingerie
Full on DFK with spit and real deep OWO commenced and i thought fuck me i wonder is she is an SP, over the night i found out she wasnt
She was just young and horny as fuck
Over the next 5 hours, my dick must have been in her for at least 4 hours of that. I couldnt get her off me
It was like two dogs stuck together and someone would need a spade and bucket of water to separate us haha

Overall id say she was a 7/10 looks wise but a serious nympho and sex skills of a pornstar
Had an SP booked for the following night and was pleased when she asked to change dates as i was fully drained

Back on Seeking the very next night haha
Proper result

Tip: be upfront of what you are after as i've never seen so many girls in there twenties so concerned about meets during covid, its all bullshit as they are out partying most nights
Online chat ones are a waste of your time
Just let them know you want a PPM and expect intimacy and you'll get your end wet  :drinks:

« Last Edit: February 25, 2021, 06:53:09 pm by AffAlchemist »

Offline Jumping Jack Flash

I’ve been a regular user of SA in the West Midlands for about 6 years but haven’t had a paid subscription for a while. I will dip my toe in again when more bars and restaurants are open along with a better choice of hotels.

I’ve tried Secret Benefits recently and although I’ve had no meets, I’ve got plenty of numbers to keep me occupied when the world gets back to something resembling normality.

Offline Pablo02

OK I can contribute here lol  :dance:

(happened 3rd week of Feb 2021)

I gave it a try and gotta say paid for the first month and nearly gave up after 3 weeks
Too much hassle and in the back of my mind i can pay a great looking SP and know what im getting without the bullshit of small talk and the rest
But anyway was chilling in the hotel and spent a couple of hours on there and chatted to one SB
Looked FAF from the few images and stated age was 24 (she was 25 she told me when we met)
Chatted and she said she would be keen for a meet on a PPM basis. She then said was Intimacy expected and i said no point meeting if not
So we agreed id pay £350 for her to come from 7 to 12ish maybe a bit later
Prob a bit too much i was thinking and could have haggled but i regularly pay £300 to £400 for a 2 hour SP

So i booked a pals AirBNB in the city centre and arranged to meet at 7
She rocked up and was as expected
Now i didnt hold out much hope for the encounter but jesus how i got that wrong
Id opened a bottle of wine for her and within 20 mins she popped to the bathroom and came out in full lingerie
Full on DFK with spit and real deep OWO commenced and i thought fuck me i wonder is she is an SP, over the night i found out she wasnt
She was just young and horny as fuck
Over the next 5 hours, my dick must have been in her for at least 4 hours of that. I couldnt get her off me
It was like two dogs stuck together and someone would need a spade and bucket of water to separate us haha

Overall id say she was a 7/10 looks wise but a serious nympho and sex skills of a pornstar
Had an SP booked for the following night and was pleased when she asked to change dates as i was fully drained

Back on Seeking the very next night haha
Proper result

Tip: be upfront of what you are after as i've never seen so many girls in there twenties so concerned about meets during covid, its all bullshit as they are out partying most nights
Online chat ones are a waste of your time
Just let them know you want a PPM and expect intimacy and you'll get your end wet  :drinks:

You made the golden mistake you forgot to haggle!!
I registered in December been on and off the site since
have had 3 meets so far
2 overnights and haven’t paid more than £200 for the overnights
And for 1 overnight all I got the SB was a little bottle of  perfume.

My advice if anyone needs it
Don’t be afraid to haggle on the price I would say current climate the SB are literally broke and will go out there way to get some extra cash in.

Offline AffAlchemist

Don’t be afraid to haggle on the price

definitely mate
Ill be haggling next time for sure ;)


Offline KidCandyShop

I joined in mid December so probably not the best time, got chatting to a few girls, quite a few who were willing to meet I discounted as I'm after a submisive girl for me to give a bit of training too.
First meet was with a girl who wanted to explore her submisive  side more having had a bit of experiance, so i preped her with a couple of phone trainng sessions and then booked a hotel for an overnight. £200 for the overnight and definatly pushed some of her limits but have not returned as was just a bit to chunky for me.
The next was a very slim milf around 40 who i have seen a few times but not really floating my boat £180 for a few hours.
Started chatting with a women around 30 so arranged to meet for a coffee and walk due to lockdown, a few more whatsapp chats and we agreed to meet so booked an apartment as a lot less hassle than hotel receptions currently. Really good idea as took the pressure of just being a bedroom and gave us chance to get to know each other in a more relaxed atmosphere before taking it to the bedroom. Had to laugh when about an hour in she turns to me and says your a fucking animal which just encouraged me to give it to her even harder. We have arranged to meet again and I can see this one being quite regular.
Have also been speaking to another for the last two months and should be meeting in next couple of weeks in an apartment again and she is fully expecting some light bondage.
Now as i'm looking for a submissive i do bring this up fairly early and then follow up with texting quite detailed senarios written in a sexy but explicit style, which results in quite a good hit rate with them under no illiusion of what to expect.
« Last Edit: February 26, 2021, 12:11:56 am by KidCandyShop »

Offline jimgooooo

do you have to put your own real pics on SA e.g. face pics? or body pics

Offline KidCandyShop

I put a photo up without face picture and have a couple in private with face so you can choose who to show them too.

Offline WarrenS

Just joined SA, some potential on there, but initially difficult to separate the scammers out until you start talking to them, just had one, Sabby, offering 2 hours for £200, but wanted upfront payment, so said no.

There is a lot of girls begging for money on there, but only want online chats, dont particularly blame them, but again, sometimes you don't know until you start speaking to them.

Offline KidCandyShop

I have to admit for me I prefer it to punting currently. Yes the outlay may be more per meet but get it right and value for money is far better.

Offline WarrenS

I have to admit for me I prefer it to punting currently. Yes the outlay may be more per meet but get it right and value for money is far better.

Yeah, it was up front payment that rung the alarm bells, I am chatting to a couple of others at the mo

Offline KidCandyShop

Never pay anything upfront and for me the get to know you meet, you only pay for the drinks and if it all works out and you reach an agreement than you pay at the end of meet.

Offline HoldMichaels

Just joined SA, some potential on there, but initially difficult to separate the scammers out until you start talking to them, just had one, Sabby, offering 2 hours for £200, but wanted upfront payment, so said no.
Yeah, I spoke to her as well... She was like 'I'd feel a lot better if I had the money up front'  :lol: Yeah, I bet you would. When I (politely) said no she tried to negotiate it down to half, and I just stopped replying.

Another is Nikki074, who wanted me to give her part of the money before actually arriving at 'her place' in Willenhall, I said no, she blocked on both SA and WhatsApp.

I'm finding not much luck with the actual 'intimacy' aspect (although I've got a couple of potentials) but I've connected pretty well with a couple of girls who I've been talking to for about a month and haven't actually even mentioned money - one I've even had a bit on online gaming time with in Oculus. I've no doubt if/when we meet I'll pick up the tab for dinner or drinks, but that's just how things usually work in the real world anyway, plus I get to go on a night out with a cute redhead.  :lol: (I know, romantic old bastard, me!)
« Last Edit: March 07, 2021, 09:40:01 am by HoldMichaels »