I recently had gum infection, led to having wisdom tooth out, ( cause of problem) which I had to wait 4 weeks to have out, then I had a dry socket, then as this was healing the jaw bone around the removed tooth broke through the healing gum and my tongue became ulsurated , bone had to be snapped off and ground down , 2 months on pain killers etc , had to cancel a booking at the beginning . at times no blood just pain but more out of respect for the girls I stayed away, would't expect or want a w g to dfk or do ow or owo if she had the same as I had, pleanty of time to catch up when fit, as I'm doing now.