Well I failed to take heed of advice, contacted the first girl I had met on SA as I was a bit desperate, car meet, did half a BJ, then she said we could go back to hers, was no parking, so she got out and said I'll wait outside the house, obviously wasn't there when I walked back down the street.
We all learn, but more annoyed at myself, £150 for half a BJ, it's the risk we take I suppose.
Take heed, don't go back, once burnt is enough.