There are also loads who have many options yet still choose to punt.
(If I've misunderstood your comment, do say so.)
Well, it is a comment meant to be taken at face value there is no subtext. You will see it time and time again "wife hasn't fucked me for 10 years", "wife doesn't give me a blowjob", "can't be bothered with psychos, tinder, going on the pull", "prefer to fuck Polish, Romanian, Russian girls and they're not into me in real life", "difficult to find people who are kinky".
And I'm not doubting there are friendly, attractive men that have lots of options. But most of us normalise something that isn't socially acceptable and the above are our justification to go down this twisted path.
Also, this is first thing in the morning for me so turn off that critical Cancerian brain of yours as I expect grammatical errors.