What is happening to me ?

[darlomick2014]

I don't know what's going on with me .... 

I was with my ex Mrs for over 6 years and I punted through out the whole relationship, we split up nearly 2 years ago and i stopped punting as I was picking up slags in the town lol and I didn't have to pay for discretion plus the kind of thrill went of it. I have been with my current Girlfriend for just under a year and after a week of no sex I resulted in AW, I have punted 3 times now with different WG's and not once have I managed to keep a hard on ! Never mind fill any bags! I don't know what's up with me

[FLYING BLUE]

I have a similar issue.

When looking at porn or something sexy on TV, I can easily get hard but, of late, I can't even get fully hard with a beautiful lady, naked beside me, giving me head.
Most embarrassing 

[Kev3773]

For the op, possibly guilt as for FB old age 

[darlomick2014]

I have a similar issue.

When looking at porn or something sexy on TV, I can easily get hard but, of late, I can't even get fully hard with a beautiful lady, naked beside me, giving me head.
Most embarrassing 

Mate ! Exactly the same, I can be at home watch porn or anything and be rock hard! Even just flicking through AW, but when it comes to it with some stunning WG it is just not happening anymore. Plus feeling very disheartened when walking out

[JRWK]

Mate ! Exactly the same, I can be at home watch porn or anything and be rock hard! Even just flicking through AW, but when it comes to it with some stunning WG it is just not happening anymore. Plus feeling very disheartened when walking out

Don't let it worry you .. I have the same problem. 
I let the lady know in advance that penetration might not happen, if it doesn't I lay back and enjoy her oral skills
(and practice my RO too), I always manage too leave feeling ok

[tynetunnel]

Since we are in a brave new world of openness here, I will add my admission to the list. I too can struggle to get hard in the company of a beautiful young woman. I have put it down to age, and resigned myself to the fact that it may be how things will be from now on.

Thanks all for sharing, it seems we aren’t suffering alone 

[hopeless2712]

Yes can happen to me as well. Some WGs I just don’t  click with even if they look great and offer good service . Probably age I think.

[FLYING BLUE]

For the op, possibly guilt as for FB old age 

I'll set the SM on you.
You rotten B-stard

[waynekerr600]

To the guys having trouble getting/staying hard have you considered a trip to the GP. There was a marketing slogan of '40 over 40' where 40% of men over 40 are affected. I'm sure the GP could run a few checks to make sure all is well and then provide an easy solution.

[harvest]

Try Viagra works for me, alas I fail to fill the bag if punt to often. 

[Lamnguin]

To the guys having trouble getting/staying hard have you considered a trip to the GP. There was a marketing slogan of '40 over 40' where 40% of men over 40 are affected. I'm sure the GP could run a few checks to make sure all is well and then provide an easy solution.

I tried that a few years ago when I was having problems. They ran some blood tests to check for underlying diseases, but there wasn't any funding for anything else, so it was Viagra or nothing.

[JontyR]

Take the blue pill then. Blimey it isn’t that long ago that the choice would be nothing or nothing.

[johnr1]

I think we all get like that at times I went Through a phase a while ago when I
Just could not get an erection no matter how stunning the working girl was even
The little blue pill did not work at all and it had me very worried and the more I
Worried the worse the problem was, I put it down to Just getting older and thought
That was that, then after about 6 months things got back to normal no idea what
The problem was so I think this is just something that seems to happen to men
Now and then at the moment all is good, hope that may help

[Disco dave]

Stop wanking and stop watching porn. After a few days you will find yourself looking at women like a sirloin steak.

I dont know what your lifestyle is like. Excersise, stop drinking and lots of sleep helped me.

[Tiger63]

Started happening to me after a lady drew blood when she was giving me oral. Its put me off a bit I can tell you.
Then I developed a reaction to a certain type of condom which left me in agony for a few days afterwards.
So for a few months I was pretty useless and it worried me there was something else wrong.
It just passed and all seems ok now touch wood.
I just wonder if it was me putting pressure on myself to perform with beautiful ladies who would normally be out of my league.

Now Ive realized that I am a bit of a stud and these women are bloody lucky to have someone like me calling round.
I wouldnt mention it to any of them mind.
Have a nice day

[waynekerr600]

Out of curiosity do the guys having trouble still wake up with a 'morning glory'?

[CELICA GT]

Out of curiosity do the guys having trouble still wake up with a 'morning glory'?

Not me WK, I have that 'other Male' condition going for a pisss during the night, never had the pleasure of a hard on in the morning for a long time now, I also have resorted to the little blue helper in recent times!

[tynetunnel]

Not me WK, I have that 'other Male' condition going for a pisss during the night, never had the pleasure of a hard on in the morning for a long time now, I also have resorted to the little blue helper in recent times!

Same here on all points. In addition the blue pill usually means I don’t cum, and tends to give me a powerful headache, so I’ve stopped using it!

My doc was very generous, I have a stash of blue pills I don’t use! 

[waynekerr600]

Not me WK, I have that 'other Male' condition going for a pisss during the night, never had the pleasure of a hard on in the morning for a long time now, I also have resorted to the little blue helper in recent times!

Same here on all points. In addition the blue pill usually means I don’t cum, and tends to give me a powerful headache, so I’ve stopped using it!

My doc was very generous, I have a stash of blue pills I don’t use! 

I thought for a bit before posting this as I don't want it to come across wrongly. I've had a few urology investigations recently which prompted me to post.

Have you had the nighttime toilet trips investigated? It's really really really worth doing.

[johnr1]

Out of curiosity do the guys having trouble still wake up with a 'morning glory'?

Strangely enough when I went through a different erection time I still on occasion woke
Up with the old morning glory going on so I knew that function was still active but not
When I needed it to be so I thought in time things will sort themselves out and thankfully
They did, I think worrying plays a big part in erection problems and has also been mentioned
Trying to keep a bit fitter as we get older helps a lot

[Michael48]

I thought for a bit before posting this as I don't want it to come across wrongly. I've had a few urology investigations recently which prompted me to post.

Have you had the nighttime toilet trips investigated? It's really really really worth doing.

I also had the night time toilet trips investigated, prostate etc, everything came back negative.
Later I was diagnosed with sleep apnoea, the "treatment" for this stopped the night time toilet trips. On mentioning this to my respiratory nurse she confirmed they were a symptom, yet my GP was unaware of that and didn't investigate sleep apnoea when all else came up clear, so if you are also tired, or a partner tells you your breathing changes/stops when you are asleep may be a possibility to investigate

[CELICA GT]

I thought for a bit before posting this as I don't want it to come across wrongly. I've had a few urology investigations recently which prompted me to post.

Have you had the nighttime toilet trips investigated? It's really really really worth doing.

Aye, WK , I had a prostate check a few years ago and all ok, just a weak bladder I guess. 

[waynekerr600]

Aye, WK , I had a prostate check a few years ago and all ok, just a weak bladder I guess. 

It's good that you got checked out. I've been put through the mill on that one as well.

[binbag]

I have no trouble getting hard but I barely produce any cum. I'm 71 so I presume it's a sign that things are beginning to dwindle down there?

[Sar-Major]

It's good that you got checked out. I've been put through the mill on that one as well.

Join the club matey, join the friggin club......................... 

 

[Mansell]

I don't know what's going on with me .... 

I was with my ex Mrs for over 6 years and I punted through out the whole relationship, we split up nearly 2 years ago and i stopped punting as I was picking up slags in the town lol and I didn't have to pay for discretion plus the kind of thrill went of it. I have been with my current Girlfriend for just under a year and after a week of no sex I resulted in AW, I have punted 3 times now with different WG's and not once have I managed to keep a hard on ! Never mind fill any bags! I don't know what's up with me

It will most likely pass, I had this about 4 years ago,  where I struggled with a couple of WG's I'd never seen before who weren't that attractive and their technique just didn't suit me. But was seeing a regular WG who I never ever had any issues with. One of the reasons I just stuck with regular WG, who needs the hassle and uncertainty. Although a few times the I did never a problem.

[Bertbanger99]

although ive never had a problem getting it up so far, i did have a problem cumming with the then mrs, i put it down to shagging birds who were so much hotter than her that i couldnt get turned on by her, so that is a possible minefield to think about for you guys who are in the same boat

[Knight Templar]

This is what is brilliant about this site , I have suffered this problem for a while now , that’s why I gave up punting and went for the tub & tug  scenarios, I used to get the odd condom wilt but in general I could always get a hard on and have a decent shag , but after awhile it just seemed like I was paying a lot of money for a wank or a BJ , didn’t matter how pretty the girl was , and the more I thought about it the worse it got .

Also like someone said , if you are banging a fit bird in sexy lingerie , it totally ducks up your mind when the missies turns up in mismatching  Bridget Jones bloomers, I keep telling mine it’s because I am getting to old and my testosterone is dropping .

I think unless I start taking the blue pills I will forever be going for  a massage and a HE , and even then it’s only a semi
Old she it’s a bugger and I am only 56

[Jim1]

I am glad to have read this post, I have had the same problem. I felt aweful when it happened and wondered if I should continue this hobby. Due to the forced break, I cannot wait to have another liaison and fingers crossed, everything goes well. When it happened to me, the lovely lady just took it in her stride. She lay beside me, we cuddle and she gave me a very HE.
May I risk asking a continuation question here ? Since reaching the ripe old age of 60 (a few years back), both the force and the amount of cum (not sure how to spell 'ejaculation lol) has been very much less. Has anyone else noticed this at all ?
 

[Knight Templar]

I am glad to have read this post, I have had the same problem. I felt aweful when it happened and wondered if I should continue this hobby. Due to the forced break, I cannot wait to have another liaison and fingers crossed, everything goes well. When it happened to me, the lovely lady just took it in her stride. She lay beside me, we cuddle and she gave me a very HE.
May I risk asking a continuation question here ? Since reaching the ripe old age of 60 (a few years back), both the force and the amount of cum (not sure how to spell 'ejaculation lol) has been very much less. Has anyone else noticed this at all ?

Yep and I have just turned 60 , must be an age thing

[Troydor69]

Spend a bit of time on google, there’s plenty of helpful advice if you filter out the rubbish. Giving up porn and wanking for a week or so before a punt was something that seemed to make a difference for me. I actually suffered more with this in my youth with civvies than I do now with WGs, usually down to booze or nerves. I’d say if there’s no issue with porn it’s either stress or nerves related, as it clearly isn’t physical.

Personally I have taken to using viagra for the past couple of years, not always, but I just find it takes away any anxiety. I just ordered cialis this time, just to try that for a change, think it cost me £40 for 12 tablets. So it’s adding £3.33 to the cost of a punt.

[Sar-Major]

I do know where you guys are cumming from (Excuse the Pun), it didn’t happen to me at 60 as I pushed the “Boat Out” for my 60th and had a cracking time with 4 regulars I was seeing at the time. Depending on my mood I could have 2 pops in an hour; however it wasn’t unusual for it to go down and then come back up again within the hour, like an “Intermission” at the theatre. 

I did find at 66/67 the owld “Snake Venom” was starting to “Dwindle” a bit in quantity, and I put it down to age also. I mentioned it to my GP, who referred me to a specialist. 

However me age hasn’t stopped me get an Ordinary Stiffy, Morning Glory, Pissy Hard On………………. Thank Fuck 

 

[Cambridgy]

You can now get generic Cialis - External Link/Members Only from a reputable manufacturer at a reasonable price via many online UK pharmacies. Taking this will help you be ready for action for a 72hr period (unlike viagra) and remove any subconscious performance anxiety. IMO that can be a viscous circle - worrying about whether you’ll be OK results in the problem.

Good luck chaps.

[WelshClipper]

Just want to throw my cap in the ring as well.

First, everything above is good advice, reduce porn, reduce wank, little blue pills etc....

My question is: How much sugar do you guys consume. Sugar in tea, coffee. Sugar in drinks. Cakes and chocolate. Biscuits. Refined carbohydrates i.e. pasties, chips.

An Insulin surge is a huge testosterone killer, so if you can keep below 30g a day it might help.  (Along with all the other advice)

Anyone who has not considered this, just have read, dont take my word, I am just adding to the pot.

 

[daviemac]

It's a strange one for me, sometimes I can get hard no problem at all others I can't, I tend to use the little blue helpers to be on the safe side. It may have something to do with the heart condition and the meds I'm on but the doc was very understanding and prescribed Sildenafil in any case.

On occasion I do tend to loose it with a condom, even with the helper and it's very rare that I can cum in a condom, which is why I normally finish with mutual masturbation or in 69.

Had an odd one the other day when I saw a lass I've mentioned before, (not naming her again or I'll have to bollock myself for touting  ) I was going at it in mish and almost got to the point of no return when I ran out of breath and had to stop, so near yet so far. 

So back to the mutual masturbation it was, normally when I cum these days I'm lucky if it goes 6 inches, couldn't believe it this time it shot past my ear and hit the headboard, I felt like a teenager again. I hadn't done anything differently leading up to the punt so no idea how it happened.    

[bushman]

Just want to throw my cap in the ring as well.

First, everything above is good advice, reduce porn, reduce wank, little blue pills etc....

My question is: How much sugar do you guys consume. Sugar in tea, coffee. Sugar in drinks. Cakes and chocolate. Biscuits. Refined carbohydrates i.e. pasties, chips.

An Insulin surge is a huge testosterone killer, so if you can keep below 30g a day it might help.  (Along with all the other advice)

Anyone who has not considered this, just have read, dont take my word, I am just adding to the pot.

 

I agree on this, I changed my diet, significant amount of weight loss and improved fitness levels helped with my "floppy" issue.

[Satrover49]

I take two pills to control size of my prostate. They do this by reducing testosterone levels which have two effects on my performance.
First I don’t maintain a hard on for long enough during sex
Second I have dry orgasm ie no cum
Over time I have worked out a satisfactory solution for me.
I stop taking the pills for three days before a punt and take a sildenafil 100mg about an hour and a quarter before time.
Result for me is a good strong erection even for a one hour punt and one cum so happy days.
I stick to half hour now due to one cum.
So looking forward to safer times and next adventure.

[tynetunnel]

I was on sildenafil  for a while, but i found that they gave me a headache, and I often couldn’t cum at all. So I have given them up and struggle to get hard instead. Only sometimes though. I try not to worry about it, as I know that just worsens the situation, and  is why I make sure to tell the WG that I might not get hard and/or cum and if I don’t its not a reflection on her. Life’s a bitch as you get older!

[waynekerr600]

I was on sildenafil  for a while, but i found that they gave me a headache, and I often couldn’t cum at all. So I have given them up and struggle to get hard instead. Only sometimes though. I try not to worry about it, as I know that just worsens the situation, and  is why I make sure to tell the WG that I might not get hard and/or cum and if I don’t its not a reflection on her. Life’s a bitch as you get older!

Why not try one of the alternatives? I think someone in another thread mentioned tadalafil?

[daviemac]

I was on sildenafil  for a while, but i found that they gave me a headache, and I often couldn’t cum at all. So I have given them up and struggle to get hard instead. Only sometimes though. I try not to worry about it, as I know that just worsens the situation, and  is why I make sure to tell the WG that I might not get hard and/or cum and if I don’t its not a reflection on her. Life’s a bitch as you get older!

May seem a daft question but have you talked to your doctor about it, as WK says there are alternatives, I know mine told me to come back if I had problems and they could try something else.

[Caratacus]

Since we are in a brave new world of openness here, I will add my admission to the list. I too can struggle to get hard in the company of a beautiful young woman. I have put it down to age, and resigned myself to the fact that it may be how things will be from now on.

Thanks all for sharing, it seems we aren’t suffering alone 

I’m the same. Unless they provide dfk I probably I’d struggle to get hard....even if they then do owo and they’re damn fit. Unless I have the kissing first, little Mr C might not play ball. I put it down to age too

[Tiger63]

Ive noticed my "end product" is no where near what it used to be.
A couple of years ago I could produce a good 4-6 good ropes and it came out with some force.
Now, its really thick and and just oozes out slowly...Apologies to anyone having a yogurt for Breakfast.
I dont take any meds so wonder if its an age thing

[Dimond dave]

  my local pub was like that but the landlord started cleaning his pipes out every Sunday 

Ive noticed my "end product" is no where near what it used to be.
A couple of years ago I could produce a good 4-6 good ropes and it came out with some force.
Now, its really thick and and just oozes out slowly...Apologies to anyone having a yogurt for Breakfast.
I dont take any meds so wonder if its an age thing

[tynetunnel]

Why not try one of the alternatives? I think someone in another thread mentioned tadalafil?

May seem a daft question but have you talked to your doctor about it, as WK says there are alternatives, I know mine told me to come back if I had problems and they could try something else.

Thanks both. I should talk about it to the doc and maybe try something else. But in these current times, I’m not happy to discuss this on a phone consult with potentially wife/kids listening in when the doc calls me!! Since I haven’t been near the wife sexually for years, she may be suspicious why I’m talking to the doc about ED meds!! 

[tynetunnel]

Ive noticed my "end product" is no where near what it used to be.
A couple of years ago I could produce a good 4-6 good ropes and it came out with some force.
Now, its really thick and and just oozes out slowly...Apologies to anyone having a yogurt for Breakfast.
I dont take any meds so wonder if its an age thing

Thanks for painting such a vivid picture tiger63!! By contrast, my “end product’ is just like water! It’s amazing thanks to this thread, to know just how many of us have issues - since I think all of us are, at least, of a “certain age’, maybe it is age related indeed

It’s encouraging to know that I’m not alone, makes it seem more normal. Thanks to everyone for sharing and to the OP for starting the thread

[Tiger63]

Thanks for painting such a vivid picture tiger63!! By contrast, my “end product’ is just like water! It’s amazing thanks to this thread, to know just how many of us have issues - since I think all of us are, at least, of a “certain age’, maybe it is age related indeed

It’s encouraging to know that I’m not alone, makes it seem more normal. Thanks to everyone for sharing and to the OP for starting the thread

I would love to know if there was something I could take to increase the amount I produce.
 

[tynetunnel]

I would love to know if there was something I could take to increase the amount I produce.

I too wish I could get back to what I used to be able to issue, back in the day. I think we probably should accept that it is what it is. Plus it may worsen, as impossible as that seems!! 

[Lingus10]

I really struggle to cum these days - my mind is 20 but body best said is well old

[winkywanky]

Ive noticed my "end product" is no where near what it used to be.
A couple of years ago I could produce a good 4-6 good ropes and it came out with some force.
Now, its really thick and and just oozes out slowly...Apologies to anyone having a yogurt for Breakfast.
I dont take any meds so wonder if its an age thing

Assuming you were born in 1963 I'd say you were fairly lucky to be having such good ejaculations until relatively recently.

As for the 'thickness', perhaps it just seems that way because it comes out with less force now?

Another thing to consider, is are you well hydrated? I don't really know why, but as someone a few years older than yourself I've found it harder to keep myself hydrated as I've got older.

[hopeless2712]

Well reading the tips on this board I gave the blue pill a go for the first time. Review to follow. I read all the side effects on the leaflet and wondered if it was a good idea. As I have never done illegal drugs the whole thing felt quite intimidating!

Result was it was the hardest I have been in years. The WG had a pretty tight pussy as well. I doubt I would have got in there normally.