Can I trust my escort girlfriend?

[Morpheus]

Great letter in the Metro today to the agony aunt.
"I've had a few dates with a girl who's very open about her job as an escort. She insists she's never had sex with a client and merely escorts them to functions and events, and sometimes abroad too.....Then my friends saw her on an agency website wearing just underwear..... I can't work out whether to take things further."
It's a great shame his mates didn't leave a link to this agency, because I'm sure someone here would volunteer to check if she was being honest.
The agony aunt replies with stuff like "You can tell if she's being truthful through clues in her behaviour. Is she open about her feelings and past experiences and does she enjoy sex with you or is she just putting on an act".
I'm not sure who's more naive.

[paul_2407]

If my experiences are anything to go by, he's a fool and she's probably fucking them (with a special one even getting the bareback treatment) 

[Olivia]

This is obviously ridiculous.  There's PLENTY of punts that do not end up involving sexual interaction............there are NO escorts whom are not hookers/prostitutes/whores etc etc happy, delighted and skipping to the bank after attending their given punts for the day, whether the one hour incall booking is rammed 'back to back' with balls deep anal, cream pies fisting and a bit of rimming to top ot off or a light stocking of the stocking top while deliberating the merits of Donald Trumps's foreign policy or the pros and cons of Brexit blah blah  of the stocking top through the chiffon dress paid for buy the punter.  Who the fuck cares, she's getting paid by a punter so that punter HAS THE OPTION TO FUCK HER!

 

[Bogof60]

This is obviously ridiculous.  There's PLENTY of punts that do not end up involving sexual interaction............there are NO escorts whom are not hookers/prostitutes/whores etc etc happy, delighted and skipping to the bank after attending their given punts for the day, whether the one hour incall booking is rammed 'back to back' with balls deep anal, cream pies fisting and a bit of rimming to top ot off or a light stocking of the stocking top while deliberating the merits of Donald Trumps's foreign policy or the pros and cons of Brexit blah blah  of the stocking top through the chiffon dress paid for buy the punter.  Who the fuck cares, she's getting paid by a punter so that punter HAS THE OPTION TO FUCK HER!

 

Blimey

[Bogof60]

Suppose that's a no then

[sparkus]

I suspect it was a cover story but I knew a girl (we weren't together but I was tempted) a few years back who 'entertained' rich old blokes.  She said she would do the deed but none of them could.  All they wanted to do was see her strut around in suspenders and that (wouldn't have minded myself).

[Olivia]

Blimey

Surely, when the wisdom of some random fucking 'News of Pluto' agony aunts is being taken into consideration, with regard a matter, I at least, consider, pretty damned serious, as an equal source of authority on a matter to which, let's be realistic, the women knows no more than some random fat women, mindlessly filling her face hole with snacks, somewhere, on some couch some place, somewhere: which, to my mind is about as sexless a person as one could conjour, why the fuck would anyone bolster enthusiasm for said philosophy?!  I couldn't help but to react as I did, as I hope someone would for me if ever I bloody needed similar advice!

For any serious grown up to actually be in deliberation about in this in the first place is perplexing, at any rate!  One surely expected, more to the point desired some honest, unambiguous analysis?  Wouldn't you?

[shagmore]

Suppose that's a no then

 

[sparkus]

I want to see the Deidre's photo casebook for this.

[Romeo Sensini]

Surely, when the wisdom of some random fucking 'News of Pluto' agony aunts is being taken into consideration, with regard a matter, I at least, consider, pretty damned serious, as an equal source of authority on a matter to which, let's be realistic, the women knows no more than some random fat women, mindlessly filling her face hole with snacks, somewhere, on some couch some place, somewhere: which, to my mind is about as sexless a person as one could conjour, why the fuck would anyone bolster enthusiasm for said philosophy?!  I couldn't help but to react as I did, as I hope someone would for me if ever I bloody needed similar advice!

For any serious grown up to actually be in deliberation about in this in the first place is perplexing, at any rate!  One surely expected, more to the point desired some honest, unambiguous analysis?  Wouldn't you?

And breathe!

A full stop in there would be useful.

[OakTree]

Surely, when the wisdom of some random fucking 'News of Pluto' agony aunts is being taken into consideration, with regard a matter, I at least, consider, pretty damned serious, as an equal source of authority on a matter to which, let's be realistic, the women knows no more than some random fat women, mindlessly filling her face hole with snacks, somewhere, on some couch some place, somewhere: which, to my mind is about as sexless a person as one could conjour, why the fuck would anyone bolster enthusiasm for said philosophy?!  I couldn't help but to react as I did, as I hope someone would for me if ever I bloody needed similar advice!

For any serious grown up to actually be in deliberation about in this in the first place is perplexing, at any rate!  One surely expected, more to the point desired some honest, unambiguous analysis?  Wouldn't you?

You need to break that down and use punctuation more, as in full stops. It’s hard work reading. I had to go over it a number of times and I still am not clear on what you’re ranting about.

[throatfiller8]

I have dated a couple of girls who worked in Chinese massage joints. Having met them at work I knew what their services involved, which in both cases included giving BJs and offering their pussies for examination. It was fine by me, I knew the score from the outset and they did not pretend that they were not providing such services. But if the question is whether you can trust an escort girlfriend then the obvious answer is no, of course not. Having sex with clients is their job. Going out for dinner is just a bonus.

[sparkus]

I have dated a couple of girls who worked in Chinese massage joints. Having met them at work I knew what their services involved, which in both cases included giving BJs and offering their pussies for examination. It was fine by me, I knew the score from the outset and they did not pretend that they were not providing such services. But if the question is whether you can trust an escort girlfriend then the obvious answer is no, of course not. Having sex with clients is their job. Going out for dinner is just a bonus.

It's not something I've considered before, but based on experience I've never really met any women working in these places who strike me as potential partner material in terms of personalities and interests.  I imagine the sex life would be great but I'd always be wary of catching something.

Actually, it'd be a bit of a mindfuck to be dating one and then seeking the services of others at the same time.  Yeah, WTF there.

[Happyjose]

If your 'girlfriend' is buying wet wipes wholesale, then game over

[throatfiller8]

You should try it. The sex is amazing. It's a turn-on knowing that others will pay your GF to wank them off. The girls always used sterilising mouthwash after giving BJs. Spunk in their hair was sometimes unavoidable but the first thing when getting home was to have a shower. I'd date another if I found one I relay liked and they do have personalities outside of work!

[sparkus]

It wouldn't turn me on as I'm indifferent to what other men do or think really.

I've tried to coax some girlfriends and FBs to give me HR and they've never done it well.  One boasted she'd be amazing at it having never done one and she was all fingers and thumbs.  Actually ages ago I had one when no condom was to be found and afterwards she said "I bet that was really good." (it wasn't)

So there's one very good upside there, skilled HR!

[throatfiller8]

Skilled HR and skilled blowjobs, much much better than any BJ given by a civilian GF. One of the girls I dated was really into giving BJs so I benefited a lot from her enthusiasm. And it was nice to know she was happy at work.

[sparkus]

I suppose it depends what you want out of an OH.  Many I've had have sucked at BJs (haha) and foreplay, but as long as they lay back and let me do what I want then it's all good.

I've had one or two Asian FBs who have been quite skilled at oral and made a big thing out of it.  Better than the actual sex.  It's always struck me that Asians are better at it than 'western' women (ditto HR).

[Turtle Z]

No!

[RX8 Racer]

Of course the whore is going to be fucking her clients too, the fact that any man would have an escort for a girlfriend is pathetic, how can any self respecting man condone their partner sucking and riding cocks all day. These whores are just for a shag, "dating" one can only lead to an empty wallet and tears.

[Bruce Banner]

..can only lead to an empty wallet and tears.

...thought that was marriage!! 

[sparkus]

Skilled HR and skilled blowjobs, much much better than any BJ given by a civilian GF. One of the girls I dated was really into giving BJs so I benefited a lot from her enthusiasm. And it was nice to know she was happy at work.

Actually, I quite enjoy doing birds up the arse.  Asians not great for that?

[Redhead Lover]

Who the fuck thinks "I have a question about my escort g/f - I know - I'll write in to the Metro!"

Jesus wept.

[peter purves]

We did not get to hear the expert's side ie the response - maybe we don't need to hear it 

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[Thecunninglinguist]

There is also the possibility that there is no such letter/email whatever and the hack who has to make this feature more interesting just made it up because it was a slow week?

[bigmanbigman]

Jorno fill in news !

[Paris69]

Surely, when the wisdom of some random fucking 'News of Pluto' agony aunts is being taken into consideration, with regard a matter, I at least, consider, pretty damned serious, as an equal source of authority on a matter to which, let's be realistic, the women knows no more than some random fat women, mindlessly filling her face hole with snacks, somewhere, on some couch some place, somewhere: which, to my mind is about as sexless a person as one could conjour, why the fuck would anyone bolster enthusiasm for said philosophy?!  I couldn't help but to react as I did, as I hope someone would for me if ever I bloody needed similar advice!

For any serious grown up to actually be in deliberation about in this in the first place is perplexing, at any rate!  One surely expected, more to the point desired some honest, unambiguous analysis?  Wouldn't you?

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You gotta be on coke!

[Happyjose]

You gotta be on coke!

You may be right

If she posts a response, hopefully she'll keep it short and coherent

[Olivia]

Fair point(s).  Apologies for the verbose gibberish.

Fundamentally, a women being paid by the hour/day etc, to be in the company of a man is clearly doing so with the mutual understanding this is a sexually based transaction.  "I want money, you want sex!"  Great stuff; capitalism at it's finest! 

Seeking reassurance from someone (such as an agony aunt) whom lacks ANY knowledge of the punting scene, is only going to be a hinder rather than a help, the poor soul seemingly for some heartfelt (wishful) advice.     

[Olivia]

You gotta be on coke!

I saved you a fat one........

[BoobyNewbie]

I dated a girl who claimed she was an au pair but had plenty of money, as much free time as she wanted and was well acquainted with many of London’s finest hotels and restaurants. A few months into the relationship, I asked her if she’d send me some naughty pictures and got a portfolio of professionally shot pics that I now recognise as being from an escorting profile. Deep down I knew what was going on, but I ignored it as she was hot as fuck and the best shag I’d ever had. Eventually though, she got a bit crazy and I cut and run. She was never marriage material but I don’t regret a second of it.
If this guy is looking for something serious then I’d advise against it unless you’re someone who’s ok with the love of your life fucking other men. If he’s still young and he’s having fun, though, why not?

[Sedition]

There is also the possibility that there is no such letter/email whatever and the hack who has to make this feature more interesting just made it up because it was a slow week?

More than just a possibility, me thinks 

[finn5555]

This is obviously ridiculous.  There's PLENTY of punts that do not end up involving sexual interaction............there are NO escorts whom are not hookers/prostitutes/whores etc etc happy, delighted and skipping to the bank after attending their given punts for the day, whether the one hour incall booking is rammed 'back to back' with balls deep anal, cream pies fisting and a bit of rimming to top ot off or a light stocking of the stocking top while deliberating the merits of Donald Trumps's foreign policy or the pros and cons of Brexit blah blah  of the stocking top through the chiffon dress paid for buy the punter.  Who the fuck cares, she's getting paid by a punter so that punter HAS THE OPTION TO FUCK HER!

 

That makes perfect sense 

[easyp123]

I have dated a couple of girls who worked in Chinese massage joints. Having met them at work I knew what their services involved, which in both cases included giving BJs and offering their pussies for examination. It was fine by me, I knew the score from the outset and they did not pretend that they were not providing such services. But if the question is whether you can trust an escort girlfriend then the obvious answer is no, of course not. Having sex with clients is their job. Going out for dinner is just a bonus.

How did the dating work out?

A few times I've been asked for my number or offered theirs, but I imagined I'd be fleeced for cash or a Kung Fu hustle. Shame as a couple of them were cute. I'd have been around 32 back then.

[JamesKW]

I imagine the sex life would be great but I'd always be wary of catching something.

Actually, it'd be a bit of a mindfuck to be dating one and then seeking the services of others at the same time.  Yeah, WTF there.

It may not be,it is probably more like the builder who spends all day making other peoples houses look nice,whilst their own one is falling down.Who wants to work in their off time.

[henrynorth]

If I were in the situation where a girl I was dating, admitted to me she escorted .....but said she did not have sex with clients.
I’d probably give her the benefit of the doubt, depending on how close our relationship was.

But then again I’d also probably think that she would be being choosey about who she had sex with amongst her clientele.

[finn5555]

If I were in the situation where a girl I was dating, admitted to me she escorted .....but said she did not have sex with clients.
I’d probably give her the benefit of the doubt, depending on how close our relationship was.

But then again I’d also probably think that she would be being choosey about who she had sex with amongst her clientele.

Highly unlikely they do it for money and she would be fucking every Harry and Abdul 
Not many pro$$ies can afford to be fussy 

[henrynorth]

Like any form of business. I guess you get what you put into it.

Or should that be the other way round in this instance. 

[throatfiller8]

How did the dating work out?

A few times I've been asked for my number or offered theirs, but I imagined I'd be fleeced for cash or a Kung Fu hustle. Shame as a couple of them were cute. I'd have been around 32 back then.

The dating was fine. With the two Chinese massage girls I dated I knew the limits of the services they offered - HR and BJs. Most "normal" girlfriends/wives you're likely to be involved with will have have been fucked by other blokes before you so I had no problem with what these girls were doing at work. Outside of work it was just like dating any "normal" girls, with the added bonus of a superb BJ thrown in. Nice too to know that I was getting it for free. I half-dated a Thai WG (one of the Olina £150 an hour gang) for a while when I lived in London about ten years ago. She was an absolute angel and the sex was amazing but there was always a doubt that it was real and not a continuation of work. It was at least free. It was also a bit off-putting reading punters' reviews of how tight her pussy and arse were etc. The main problem in this case though was her working hours. She was basically on 24 hour call so it was very hard to make any arrangements to see her properly and almost impossible to go away at weekends. I'd date another HR/BJ masseuse for sure if the opportunity arose but probably not a full-on WG.

[jsparky]

You're attracted to the same kind of women, what is that say about you?