The second pop

[bod666]

I just turned 40 and while not that long ago I was able to cum twice and sometimes 3 times in an hour booking I'm now finding that my first pop is after 20-30 mins of shagging and then the second pop is a real effort I'm struggling to cum from sex for pop 2.

I can get hard easily enough for round 2 but am beginning to lose interest in the sex / get tired.

Is it age?
I've been punting too much and need a break?
Not fit enough?
A combination of all of the above?

I'm sure other guys must have gone through the same problem. Any tips or should I just start restricting myself to 30min meets from now on?
With my regular I have started doing 90min meets but even then round 2 is a struggle to finish.

It's beginning to take the fun out of punting... 

[Sonny Crockett]

I am 33 and do struggle to complete a 2nd pop, finding it a massive effort to get hard again. It can ruin the punt because my focus is then not on the girl, but myself and trying to get hard again.

I think for me this is probably down to masturbating too much.

When I punt I prefer to cum only once and that is at the end. I wouldn't like to see a lady that has a cum-twice policy or puts pressure on me to cum multiple times.

[Riprock]

It can ruin the punt because my focus is then not on the girl, but myself and trying to get hard again.
I think for me this is probably down to masturbating too much.

The anxiety doesn't help if you're looking to go again for a 2nd round

Depending on the girl, i can do 2, but the 3rd one is completely beyond me.

[cueball]

Sometimes I can pop twice sometimes it is once, I go for one hour punts but have extended snogging and oral sessions that go on for about 20 minutes ish and about 20 minutes of podging with regular position swaps, that way I'll pop once but have a real good explore of her lasting about 45 to 50 minutes leaving me knackered and rubber legged.

That's the sort of punt I prefer now. If I'm on a longer punt where there's a brew and a natter in the middle then the second pop is great.

Cramming both into an hour is not really on for me now

[vw]

I am 33 and do struggle to complete a 2nd pop, finding it a massive effort to get hard again. It can ruin the punt because my focus is then not on the girl, but myself and trying to get hard again.

I used to have the problem but one day a WG bent over and gave one almighty spank, the squeal gave me instant hardness when no about of anything else would do the trick.

Now receiving has become a must have for me now, love a red ass, especially if they are driving me home after !

Works for me but maybe not for you but often these things are psychological and seems to release the mental bock.

[Third Man]

I only cum once in an hour, I like to edge it and cum last 5 to 10 mins, that way I leave feeling great and not trying to force another pop.

[bod666]

I only cum once in an hour, I like to edge it and cum last 5 to 10 mins, that way I leave feeling great and not trying to force another pop.

Dude your orgasm lasts 5-10 minutes? Fuck! I think I would have had a heart attack by then!

[bod666]

I think for me this is probably down to masturbating too much.

This is probably my problem too

[uutarn]

I think for me this is probably down to masturbating too much

Yup same here, though its been about 1 month since i wanked to porn and there has been changes, though slight, they are there.

Back to topic though, i only manage one, if i'm lucky. It doesn't mean i don't enjoy the time, far from it, but of course it would be better ending with an orgasm. I'm also 40.
It is a pain in the ass though, i want to give facials but can't rely on myself to do so.

I have said this before, but its funny how i can have 1 hour of full on dirty sex and not cum, then 5 mins of watching a fav porn scene with a 5 knuckle shuffle and there it is, makes no fucking sense. 

[vw]

Yup same here, though its been about 1 month since i wanked to porn and there has been changes, though slight, they are there.

Back to topic though, i only manage one, if i'm lucky. It doesn't mean i don't enjoy the time, far from it, but of course it would be better ending with an orgasm. I'm also 40.
It is a pain in the ass though, i want to give facials but can't rely on myself to do so.

I have said this before, but its funny how i can have 1 hour of full on dirty sex and not cum, then 5 mins of watching a fav porn scene with a 5 knuckle shuffle and there it is, makes no fucking sense. 

Death grip syndrome, cured mine with olive oil and a bit of SPM

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[Sonny Crockett]

Yup same here, though its been about 1 month since i wanked to porn and there has been changes, though slight, they are there.

Back to topic though, i only manage one, if i'm lucky. It doesn't mean i don't enjoy the time, far from it, but of course it would be better ending with an orgasm. I'm also 40.
It is a pain in the ass though, i want to give facials but can't rely on myself to do so.

I have said this before, but its funny how i can have 1 hour of full on dirty sex and not cum, then 5 mins of watching a fav porn scene with a 5 knuckle shuffle and there it is, makes no fucking sense. 

I suppose when you masturbate you control what you do and are probably lying in bed or sitting down. You are turned on by what you're watching.

Whereas in a punt you can be fucking in different positions, wearing a condom (which can lessen intensity), letting the lady do what she's doing, and get exhausted. This I suppose can also sometimes make it difficult to cum.

[Matty24579]

Sometimes i find it hard to pop twice as i have seen a couple of chinese girls earlier this year i have cummed fine in the sex but after having a handjob that is when i found it a bit difficult to cum.I have noticed that if i dont cum or have sex for a few days i can pop fine.

[george r]

I am happy with one go in one hour but did shoot two loads when I saw Aimy  and SGK , as long as the first load goes in the first 20 to 25 mins I am ok for the second load but sometimes a helping hand is needed 

[Steptoe]

I am 33 and do struggle to complete a 2nd pop, finding it a massive effort to get hard again. It can ruin the punt because my focus is then not on the girl, but myself and trying to get hard again.

I have same problem - but I am approaching my mid 70s! 
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[bod666]

I have same problem - but I am approaching my mid 70s! 
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You durrrttty old man!!   

[bod666]

I had an hour punt this morning and I for the second round I was feeling less sensation down below - I'm wondering whether the girl was a bit looser as a result of the previous session or the lube, or is our cock just less sensitive on the second round?

I used to love round 2, but then the first round used to be over quite quickly, then the second round was the one I enjoyed and could get some good shagging in.

Of course it could be the time of day of the punt too? I may have more energy later on in the day and then could have had a more energetic session. As it is I'm completely wiped out several hours later.

There are lots of variables - I'm going to try abstaining and see what different that makes.

[rubric]

Generally I find myself bored by the girl after the first round, unless they are either good company and/or have some tricks by their sleeve and/or are particularly enthusiastic about it.

So it's rare that I come twice in an hour unless I'm really up for it. I sometimes book an hour and a half instead on this basis.  A few times, when I've been with girls who have had flatmates I liked, I've booked an hour with the first followed by half an hour with the other one.

Age has an effect - but as long as you keep yourself in reasonable shape and get reasonable amounts of exercise shouldn't be too much of a factor.

[willmo1]

I need 2 hours now so dont bother trying. Have a go at 2 different half hour punts in a day and see if that works.

Pattaya is the best place to do it for me. 

[Sonny Crockett]

I think illness, especially when you return to punting soon after recovering, can affect performance. When I had 4 weeks away from punting earlier this year due to illness, my performance in the first punt I did after returning, was not as great as my performances before illness.

[Jimmyredcab]

What's a second pop.     

[Chatli16]

Apparently masturbating and watching porn can affect your sex drive. I've stopped masturbating and haven't watched porn in a few days, I think it's much better but after years of doing it a few times a day for me might take a while. But I do feel better, it apparently kills the senses and you get used to the hand too much that anything else feels lame, I had that problem and I'm in my 20s

I told an escort about this and they said I was lucky I got off the first time, some aren't even that lucky

[LL]

I can hardly ever pop twice in an hour. It's extremely difficult for me. But I just accept it and don't beat myself up about it. I sometimes still go for a one hour punt if it's only a bit more money than the half-hourly rate. Either have a massage from the girl in the remaining time or break up the session with RO and try to last the whole hour without cumming until the end.

[np500]

 I'm in my early 50s, been punting a year, before puntin I could't sleep enless I'd had a wank so every night would watch porn , straight to the cum shot compilations and bingo , couple of mins and zzzzzzzzz sorted , started punting and no problems on first 3 punts with a lovely little polish girl. Then I found a w and branched out, problem being ( no uk punting in my life at this point ) I kept booking Romanians ( not deliberately) as I was attracted to there looks and body's , but due ( I think ) to there poor dismissive attitude I started having problems keeping it up, this started to play on my mined so went down the viagra root , bingo no problems  ( only one pop per hour ) and I could go home have two wanks to porn wake up in the morning and have another , thing is I've continued to use them as when I book a w g for an hour at 120 to 165 ( last night ) the last thing you want is to not get it up, so I continue to take them ( posible paranoia ) I have spoken to my regular about this and we are going to do a booking shortly were she blows me off early on and then see if I can get a second tune out of my best mate. Think a lot of its in the head but age don't help the paranoia.

[np500]

Also since punting hardly ever watch porn yet have no problem sleeping ?

[GreyDave]

 

It`s age mate I`m 55 and average weight fitness . Manage 1 pop then need 2hrs plus for 2nd if can I daytrip in soho and try and spread the time .. only go  for short bookings now in past in my30-40s managed twice in 1/2hrs easy Bloody Mission Impossible now . pills help with the up and at em bit but the majic cum shots a thing of the past I used to do a lot of bukkake events and would produce the goods 3 to 4 times in the 2hr slots but now I am thinking of changing my name to One Drip Dave     

[willmo1]

It`s age mate I`m 55 and average weight fitness . Manage 1 pop then need 2hrs plus for 2nd if can I daytrip in soho and try and spread the time .. only go  for short bookings now in past in my30-40s managed twice in 1/2hrs easy Bloody Mission Impossible now . pills help with the up and at em bit but the majic cum shots a thing of the past I used to do a lot of bukkake events and would produce the goods 3 to 4 times in the 2hr slots but now I am thinking of changing my name to One Drip Dave     

Dont you just hate it when they use a cottonwool bud to clean up your spunk? 

[tuanjim]

It's age, and it's normal, but it may not be irreversible. I'm in my mid-40s and can pop twice in an hour and three times in 90 minutes. Here's what I do:

1, Make sure you're comfortable and attracted to the WG. This may sound obvious, but I've tried to force a second round with girls I'm not into and it's a disaster. If I'm relaxed, I can go forever.

2, Don't cum for 2-3 days prior.

3, Do watch lots of porn. Having an erection for an hour or two in the run up seems to help. If possible, I look at porn the day of the meeting.

4, Get in shape. Again, sounds obvious, but it makes a difference. I've found that going to the gym before the meeting helps my energy, too.

5, Avoid stress. Sex may help you blow off steam, but whatever is stressing you out will return after the first round and make the second one harder. I stopped punting midday because I found I was just thinking about work.

Hope that helps.

[np500]

I have my own gym, I lost 3 and a half stone 2 to 3 years ago ( while re building fucked knee ) 14 stone now, since then I continued to use the gym to this day, so a lot slimmer and fitter than I've been for 20 odd years . So happy I did as sure helps while punting, also don't masterbate 3 to 4 days before s punt. Sometimes I do surprise myself by the volume at 50 +

[Kaluuu276]

Anyone feel that it depends on the lady you see?

I remember a few years back a wg was very determined to get two pops and she did.

[Nagilum]

It depends how loaded your nuts are. If I go twice in two days it's a struggle, but if I don't masturbate and abstain for three to four days I can pop twice.

[dave_59]

At 56 its generally 20-25 mins in for the 1st deposit.
No problem ggetting it up for part 2, hhowever i may not always  shoot.

Sometimes need 30-40 mins or a really tight pussy for this.

Relax, op and enjoy the lady  for as long as booking allows

[The Beano]

Early 50s and overweight, I had given up on round 2, instead concentrating on one huge cum after an hour. However I realised that when I was watching porn on my own, coming a second time was not a problem. As an experiment I booked a favourite girl for 90 mins. Did the usual for the first hour, then after a rest asked if we could watch porn together. Worked a treat and round two was delivered cim after 20 mins.
TB

[uutarn]

Death grip syndrome, cured mine with olive oil and a bit of SPM

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Diamond!
Much appreciated mate and will be sorting this starting now.
Quick question, how long did it take before changes happened?

Also @sonny, yea man thats exactly how it is.

[LanceVance]

I think it is a combination of fitness and masturbation. I'm in my 20s and when I abstain for a few days before a punt I can either hold out for an hour and produce a very large load, or can cum twice in quick succession.

When I punt having masturbated a lot until a day or two before, struggle to cum for the second time. I can get hard, but time constraints get in the way. I once had a punt in the height of summer and the WG's flat was an absolute sauna. Even though I had abstained going into the punt, I couldn't cum for a second time because I was so exhausted and dehydrated from round 1, so that could be a factor as well.

My new year's resolutions are to get fit and wank less, so hopefully that should have a positive impact on my punts.

[phillips]

No Wank More that will keep you fit