Domination mistresses that do escort stuff

[Paulsallas86]

Hi All. So I am attracted to mistresses as I am into the whole mild domination thing and a figure of authority, particularly school teacher. Problem is when you look at their websites, its all advertised as "no sexual services, do not ask!"  Its all a no go zone for the likes of Alice malice, antonia Davenshaw, dommatella.

I am seeking one who would do the role play domination stuff but also do some GFE, kissing and other types of sexual activity.

Any recommendations in or around London eg Essex, Bedford, Western areas. I did think about going down the route of finding an escort that would do mistress stuff but not sure they would carry it out as well?

[advent2016]

"Lifestyle dominatrices" won't want to have sex with you, or any intimate contact. best search the forum

[Ed8472]

Very rare in my experience for a femdom specialist to be willing to provide FS too.

If I were you I’d approach it from the other end of finding an escort who does a lot of femdom too, there are some in each area, you need to put in the leg work by checking reviews and looking for AW profiles for escorts who have BDSM kit and are properly into it as well as FS.

The London Retreat definitely offers this and is well reviewed, I’ve had several good punts there with a mix of femdom and having the girl tie me to the bed for sex etc. Not been for a few years and it’s pricey.

I don’t know the Essex area at all but if you spend some time working through the site for that area I’m sure you’ll be able to find this.

[Jimmyredcab]

The London Retreat definitely offers this and is well reviewed, I’ve had several good punts there with a mix of femdom and having the girl tie me to the bed for sex etc. Not been for a few years and it’s pricey.

Had quite a few visits to The London Retreat over the years, highly recommended, not really pricey for what you get bearing in mind it's central London, they have a 30 minute option at £100 which is the best value, it's customary to tip the maid there, £5 will do.
Convenient for public transport being a few minutes walk from Earls Court station (Hogarth Road), only problem is that they are currently closed due to the lockdown.

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[Slaveofnature]

I think if its a bit of mild domination such as school teacher spanking or caning, or being tied up and interoggated then it shouldn't be much of a problem to find an escort who does this sort of thing on AW. Although I'm not in your area as I am in Scotland, there are a few here who offer domination role plays with pretty rampant sex attached.  One favourite role play of mine which sounds as if it would be right up your street is the spy being interrogated. Lots of domination, being tied up, a bit of caning and nipple twisting, pegging and sex throughout - great fun.  I would have thought if there are quite a few in Scotland who do this then finding one in London shouldn't be a problem.
As was said in another comment, a genuine domina doesn't do sex and they always make this clear on their webpage or profile on AW, so maybe forget about the lifestyle dominas and carefully research the escorts on AW.

[advent2016]

Ladies at the retreat have stretched me both mentally and physically over the years. Many years ago I ticked off a fantasy being fucked by two ladies, spanked, caned, reverse oral without it getting too extreme.

[Jimmyredcab]

There is a world of difference between a Dominatrix and a hooker with a whip, trust me on that one.

Some of these Dommes have a dungeon that cost thousands to set up, probably why so many now insist on deposits, they can’t be messed about with fantasists who have no intention of turning up.

[Jimmyredcab]

Ladies at the retreat have stretched me both mentally and physically over the years. Many years ago I ticked off a fantasy being fucked by two ladies, spanked, caned, reverse oral without it getting too extreme.

When they have a second lady on duty you only pay 50% for her, so 30 minutes would be £150.   

[Fuggedaboutit]

If you've got the patience (and depends where you are in UK), you could try some of the fetish dating sites; Whiplr, Kinkoo, etc. Can be a bit of an arse (like Seeking Arrangement) establishing if advertisers expect payment, but 2 girls I met through there were dom, but enjoyed sex as part of the scenario. Maybe I just lucked out

[Jimmyredcab]

If you've got the patience (and depends where you are in UK), you could try some of the fetish dating sites; Whiplr, Kinkoo, etc. Can be a bit of an arse (like Seeking Arrangement) establishing if advertisers expect payment, but 2 girls I met through there were dom, but enjoyed sex as part of the scenario. Maybe I just lucked out

Yes, you lucked out.   

Girls on dating sites are not interested in dirty old perverts like me. 

[Colston36]

Yes, you lucked out.   

Girls on dating sites are not interested in dirty old perverts like me. 

I agree. I did find one, but even she was not quite as perverse as I wished. And the worst thing is that the problem increases with age. I don't agree with those who say these professionals don't also add real sex. Quite a few do, even if it's not always penetrative. German Silvia who sometimes visits UK gave me the filthiest most imaginative 3 hours of my life. 

[Fuggedaboutit]

Yes, you lucked out.   

Girls on dating sites are not interested in dirty old perverts like me. 

Depends how old "old" is. I'm early 50s...

[Jimmyredcab]

Depends how old "old" is. I'm early 50s...

Yes, that’s old, especially if the girl is in her twenties.

[Mr_Shins]

Easier to ask an escort to do mistress stuff (like I do with Melysa).

My old favourite used to do both, but sorry I can't recommend her.

I've had sessions with both Alice Malice and Antonia Davenshaw, by the way, both around 2010-11.

I think Mistress Arella did both but I never used her for sex as I was married at the time I was seeing her (as I was when I was seeing those two). She stopped working as she went back to Czech Republic and that's the only reason I stopped seeing her.

I might have recommended Miss Maraschino except she doesn't work anymore. She's a bit of a hybrid provider. Didn't work out with me, but she seemed to be ok with others.

MissKDD (External Link/Members Only) is pricy (£250 an hour outcall) but well reviewed and seems to be a hybrid.

[Jimmyredcab]

MissKDD (External Link/Members Only) is pricy (£250 an hour outcall) but well reviewed and seems to be a hybrid.

How on earth can you pay £250 an hour when she only puts one useless photo on her profile, for that sort of money I want to see what I am getting. 

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[Mr_Shins]

How on earth can you pay £250 an hour when she only puts one useless photo on her profile, for that sort of money I want to see what I am getting. 

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Most escorts put up the worst photos. I'd simply have to go on the reputation: she has good reviews (dating back).

[Jimmyredcab]

Most escorts put up the worst photos.

Not true, plus she doesn't even have her own dungeon.     

This is what you can get for £250 an hour -------------

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[Fuggedaboutit]

Yes, that’s old, especially if the girl is in her twenties.

You'd be surprised - there's a dating app called (quite unfortunately) "Gaper", which caters for people seeking age gap  <ahem> "romance".

[Mr_Shins]

"A bank deposit is required for every booking"

from that Madam Esmerelda profile.

Yeah lots of photos, her boots stop just above the ankle, it's all fetish wear. And all about her and what she expects.

It would be a disaster, there's a lot more than the rate that puts me off.

[Mr_Shins]

Another option is Woofie35, although she appears to be more on the "sub" end than the "domme".

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Both of those have just one negative review, MissKDD has 104 positive, and the one negative review was for a "gang-bang" session with both of them. It seems the punter had more issues with MissKDD, based on her looks, so Woofie35 is a bit unlucky to register a negative on that particular review.

Apart from that review, MissKDD has as good a review record on here as Ellie Rose. So if the money isn't the problem, it's probably a good bet.
Woofie35 costs a bit less and offers in-calls at £200 an hour.

[signy]

Alexandra Quinn might work for the OP. Not a heavy dom, but does femdom roleplay and GFE.

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Not seen her, but on my hotlist.

[Jimmyredcab]

"A bank deposit is required for every booking"

from that Madam Esmerelda profile.

Yes, that’s right, the vast, vast majority of Dommes are now insisting on a deposit, blame the hundreds of timewasting wankers who have spoiled it for everyone else.

[belamy85]

In Essex, Demi.darling offers femdom and full service. The dom can be as mild or hard as you want and she certainly has a perverted side to her. She works mostly in Southend but can sometimes do afternoon meets in Basildon.

I see she has a couple of reviews on here, the more positive one for a mild dom session, and although she may not be for everyone I've seen her several times over the years and always enjoyed myself.

New to this site and still getting the hang of it, but hope this link works:

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Hope that helps!

[Home Alone]

In Essex, Demi.darling offers femdom and full service. The dom can be as mild or hard as you want and she certainly has a perverted side to her. She works mostly in Southend but can sometimes do afternoon meets in Basildon.

I see she has a couple of reviews on here, the more positive one for a mild dom session, and although she may not be for everyone I've seen her several times over the years and always enjoyed myself.

New to this site and still getting the hang of it, but hope this link works:

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Hope that helps!

It does indeed; thanks, al4sg. It's tickled my fancy; I love a lass to whom talking dirty seems to come naturally. Might have to come and meet that Essex girl when the All Clear's sounded.

[Paulsallas86]

Thanks for all your recommendations. Look forward to trying out some of them, when it's more possible I guess.

[nbarnes]

Another option is Woofie35, although she appears to be more on the "sub" end than the "domme".

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Both of those have just one negative review, MissKDD has 104 positive, and the one negative review was for a "gang-bang" session with both of them. It seems the punter had more issues with MissKDD, based on her looks, so Woofie35 is a bit unlucky to register a negative on that particular review.

Apart from that review, MissKDD has as good a review record on here as Ellie Rose. So if the money isn't the problem, it's probably a good bet.
Woofie35 costs a bit less and offers in-calls at £200 an hour.

There have been reports in the past of Woofie doing some strap on (not on me unfortunately) - so maybe you could coax her into being a bit of a switch...?

[Stevelondon]

As others have said. I think it would be far easier to spend the time looking for the right escort who could cater for domination tastes. Than looking for a dom who would perhaps stretch to a full service.
Once again I can only speak of the London Retreat being a place to go.
Bloody hell. Writing this I seem to recall going there many many moons ago and seeing a blonde girl called Victoria and an Irish lass called Tina.
Its been a couple of years since my last visit at least.

[timsussex]

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as noted above many WGs offer domme services but in my experience none reaches the levels attained by a pure Domme

[Lp1975]

It’s mentioned earlier in the threat - but I would certainly recommend London Retreat for this type of offering.

But some ladies are more ready to do the escort stuff than others - I think there was a different thread on this... but Alex for example is pretty reluctant in offering full service (though she is good at the domme stuff). And in the current group of girls, Eve is happy to offer the full spectrum of services.

Red haired cutie used to be great in providing a combination offering a few years ago, but I think she is no longer offering the vanilla full service.

[TomTank]

Many dommes will make it very sexual, and most will at least allow hand relief.
I think stuff like pussy worship is quite rare though, and full sex even rarer. In the North West I think you might get some Joy with Mistress Pixie and Sapphire, 2 very tatooed dommes.

It's true that real dommes put large investments in their dungeons and equipment, and that's where you will most likely get a proper BDSM experience.
However I have had some excellent domme sessions in parlours, particularly Roses Retreat, The Georgian, Sheridans and La Maison.

Depending exactly what you want, I can highly recommend:

Martine at Roses Retreat - possibly one of my best domme experiences, especially reverse anal and strapon
Also at Roses Libby, Roxy, and Amber.

At Sheridans Christine, and I believe also Scarlet.

At La Maison McKenzie, Milly, and Brooke when back.

[Fuggedaboutit]

Your're after "in or around London eg Essex, Bedford, Western areas". Is Cambridge too far...?

Naughty Lena  seems to emphasise the domme aspect; not seen her, but on my post lockdown list - External Link/Members Only

[localyokel]

Alexandra Quinn might work for the OP. Not a heavy dom, but does femdom roleplay and GFE.

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Not seen her, but on my hotlist.

I’ve seen Alexandra a few times - been sensually domm’d by her accompanied by fucking -  she’s great-looking -  sounds exactly like what you are looking for -

[Ed8472]

Another option is Woofie35, although she appears to be more on the "sub" end than the "domme".

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Both of those have just one negative review, MissKDD has 104 positive, and the one negative review was for a "gang-bang" session with both of them. It seems the punter had more issues with MissKDD, based on her looks, so Woofie35 is a bit unlucky to register a negative on that particular review.

Apart from that review, MissKDD has as good a review record on here as Ellie Rose. So if the money isn't the problem, it's probably a good bet.
Woofie35 costs a bit less and offers in-calls at £200 an hour.

I’ve seen Woofie and she was great but naturally submissive. £200/ hour is expensive for Notts. She has duos sometimes and one time years ago I saw her with a dominant friend of her’s who took charge of both Woofie and me, great fun but very expensive, I may look at a repeat after things are back to normal 😖. I don’t think she’d be a natural domme but she has lots of fetish gear so if someone had a specific scenario and asked her, who knows?

[Ed8472]

I’ve seen Alexandra a few times - been sensually domm’d by her accompanied by fucking -  she’s great-looking -  sounds exactly like what you are looking for -

Good suggestion thanks, added to my HL

[localyokel]

Hi All. So I am attracted to mistresses as I am into the whole mild domination thing and a figure of authority, particularly school teacher. Problem is when you look at their websites, its all advertised as "no sexual services, do not ask!"  Its all a no go zone for the likes of Alice malice, antonia Davenshaw, dommatella.

I am seeking one who would do the role play domination stuff but also do some GFE, kissing and other types of sexual activity.

Any recommendations in or around London eg Essex, Bedford, Western areas. I did think about going down the route of finding an escort that would do mistress stuff but not sure they would carry it out as well?

Highly recommend SurreySarah - can be very dominant and into role play and fucks like a champion. Also a really sweet friendly person External Link/Members Only

[Jimmyredcab]

It’s mentioned earlier in the threat - but I would certainly recommend London Retreat for this type of offering.

Agree totally, these ladies have seen it all and can’t be shocked, the 30 minute option is good value, just make sure you know what you want and the action starts right away.

No advance bookings, same day only and confirm on your way there. 

[localyokel]

Hi All. So I am attracted to mistresses as I am into the whole mild domination thing and a figure of authority, particularly school teacher. Problem is when you look at their websites, its all advertised as "no sexual services, do not ask!"  Its all a no go zone for the likes of Alice malice, antonia Davenshaw, dommatella.

I am seeking one who would do the role play domination stuff but also do some GFE, kissing and other types of sexual activity.

Any recommendations in or around London eg Essex, Bedford, Western areas. I did think about going down the route of finding an escort that would do mistress stuff but not sure they would carry it out as well?

Also TheUnshavenSexDom - who is a very experienced Domme - ex-actress so her role play skills are wonderful. She plays the part of HeadMistress beautifully and is an amazing fuck. External Link/Members Only

[timsussex]

Also TheUnshavenSexDom - who is a very experienced Domme - ex-actress so her role play skills are wonderful. She plays the part of HeadMistress beautifully and is an amazing fuck. External Link/Members Only

ooooh a sexy headmistress mght even tempt me to the capital - but  see she hasnt logged on since sept - hopefully just COVD

[Jimmyredcab]

ooooh a sexy headmistress mght even tempt me to the capital - but  see she hasnt logged on since sept - hopefully just COVD

I met her many years ago, a terrible experience, don’t bother. 

[belamy85]

It does indeed; thanks, al4sg. It's tickled my fancy; I love a lass to whom talking dirty seems to come naturally. Might have to come and meet that Essex girl when the All Clear's sounded.

I am a great fan of girls who can talk dirty too. I have to say it's hard to find ones who are genuinely good at it... Though in this respect Demi definitely scores 10/10. If anyone else has any recommendations for dirty talking girls in Essex region, please do tell!

[bbwandy72]

I am seeking one who would do the role play domination stuff but also do some GFE, kissing and other types of sexual activity.

Any recommendations in or around London eg Essex, Bedford, Western areas. I did think about going down the route of finding an escort that would do mistress stuff but not sure they would carry it out as well?

If London isn't too far out of your way, you might want to try Elle/Eve. She's on the list, although I haven't met her yet. She's happy to do mixed sessions where she plays both her Elle (GFE) and Eve (Mistress) personas.

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[Jimmyredcab]

If London isn't too far out of your way, you might want to try Elle/Eve. She's on the list, although I haven't met her yet. She's happy to do mixed sessions where she plays both her Elle (GFE) and Eve (Mistress) personas.

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FAR too expensive, for me anyway.


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[dkn]

I'd recommend Helen Ripley (External Link/Members Only) in Milton Keynes, with occaisional trips to London.

Very good and can meet your needs anywhere on the sex <-> domme spectrum.

[nbarnes]

I'd recommend Helen Ripley (External Link/Members Only) in Milton Keynes, with occaisional trips to London.

Very good and can meet your needs anywhere on the sex <-> domme spectrum.

Looks great, but fuck me - that AW page and its list of demands.
Feel like I am being dominated already and I haven't even paid any money yet   

[Private Parts]

Looks great, but fuck me - that AW page and its list of demands.
Feel like I am being dominated already and I haven't even paid any money yet   

Consider that a freebie 

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Looks great, but fuck me - that AW page and its list of demands.
Feel like I am being dominated already and I haven't even paid any money yet   

Shes more that likley doing that to weed out the time wasters that plauge the lives of a lot of Service providers.

Have a look on the escorts SAFFE forum and you'll find a lot of grumbles on that subject there!..

[dkn]

Looks great, but fuck me - that AW page and its list of demands.
Feel like I am being dominated already and I haven't even paid any money yet   

Fair enough - it does appear to have grown over the years.

But that's where UKP delivers - personal recommendations cutting through the crap.  And, from about a dozen visits myself, I definitely rate Helen and recommend her - especially for what you're after which is a sexy domme, rather than just a domme (though I suspect her hard domme is pretty compelling, too, but it's not my thing).

[Mkhelen]

Shes more that likley doing that to weed out the time wasters that plauge the lives of a lot of Service providers.

Have a look on the escorts SAFFE forum and you'll find a lot of grumbles on that subject there!..

This is very true

I prefer an upfront and honest profile
Not bullshit

Just want respectful polite clean guys who wants some mutual fun

[Mr_Shins]

I've met Helen / Unique Addiction although for me it was a "domme-only" session not hybrid.

She was very pleasant but I remember her most for the kick she gave my balls with her black lace-up shoes, and then when I was lying in the bed and she was wearing what looked like innocent white canvas lace-up shoes, squashed my head under them. Two rather erotic moments. I thought I did a review but it isn't there (I met her January 2017)

[dieseldriver]

I was also in the spanking scene at one time. But as my domestic situation changed, not so much now. Can't very well go home hiding an arse showing a recent spanking.
Clara Hewitt based in Margate been doing it for years. And is Co produced of the site Dreams Of Spanking. Also Wellsmackedseat. On Twitter as MissMathews123. Wont get the full works but she likes a mild spanking in return. Gives a nice wank at the end. And if you onto xhamster and put her name in the search box has some clips of her using a vibe up her pussy.

I used to use the sites ITC and Spanknet. Most say no sexual services. But also most will wank you off. I suggest you do a search on here for spanking parties. I used attend lots in my younger days, and some done escorting as well as the parties.