I think party girl more specifically means they’re happy to snort coke with you. Doesn’t bother me too much as long as she’s not completely out of it & concentrates on the job in hand. Spent too many years in my youth snorting, smoking & swallowing all kinds of substances for me to be too hypocritical!
Personally, I love enjoying a spliff with a girl & then getting down to it, heightens the sensations IMO. Don’t forget, most of the best artists over the years have created their best works whilst being under the influence of one thing or another & there’s definitely an art to being a good ho...