Condom droop.

[Itsnotshy]

I'm sure this has been covered before but I wonder how many others have a perfectly strong erection with OWO but when the rubber goes on it progressively starts to wilt.
Seriously considering giving up on the shag and just sticking to the OWO and hand job.
I suspect it's the lack of sensation with condoms,plus my advancing years,and wanking way too much.
Shagging is over rated anyway and tough on the knees and back.

[YorkshireLad]

Take a viagra before & you'll be fine.

[Itsnotshy]

Take a viagra before & you'll be fine.

Want to avoid that but think you might be right,maybe it is time.Hurts the ego though.

[willie loman]

Buy your own condoms, some sauna birds are so mean and disorganised that they fob you off with the ones the clinic gives away, you cant feel anything. yes and use Viagra, its like reading glasses, nothing to be ashamed of, and the actual price has dropped a lot.

[threechilliman]

Hurts the ego though.

Don't worry about your ego.

[threechilliman]

use Viagra, its like reading glasses, nothing to be ashamed of

A very good analogy.

[Itsnotshy]

Buy your own condoms, some sauna birds are so mean and disorganised that they fob you off with the ones the clinic gives away, you cant feel anything. yes and use Viagra, its like reading glasses, nothing to be ashamed of, and the actual price has dropped a lot.

Bet you're right on the clinic condoms.Will try buying my own first see if that works,before moving to Viagra.

[Tallchris]

Ditto on the advice. Try a quarter of a viagra 30 minutes before and take your own preferred brand in a sealed box as some girls rightly want to make sure they havent been tampered with.  There seems a recent trend to use a particularly nasty make.  Thick as tyre rubber and blue.  Also theres a brand that stinks of fish.  WTF.

[guns]

Yeah i've had those thick blue ones put on me a few times and you can't feel a thing with those !
I have taken my own a few times and think it is the way i'm going to go from now on . Mates Skyn latex free are my choice .
I can never cum with the condom on really but i am the wrong side of 40 and it's probably more to do with my age .

[Plan R]

Glad it's not just me then, they give me the opposite of a hard on.
I have forgone shags (or kept the shagging element fairly brief) in many a punt for exactly this reason.
Good tips tho, I'll have to bring my own and see if that makes any difference - it'd have to be a regular though I feel.

[123eee123]

I used to have the same problem
I was doing an MMF booking and the other guy could see I was having problems
He said the condoms were too small (I’m not big)
He gave me one of his that he had bought with him
Opened the packet slipped it on
And hey presto hard as rock!!!
I think if you were to get good quality condoms that are the right size it could go a long way to solving the problem

[JonasG]

Nothing with a bluey if needed.

Never have to worry again, especially when we're paying so much.

[BillGoldberg]

Nothing with a bluey if needed.

Never have to worry again, especially when we're paying so much.

Once you've taken viagra and then you have sex and cum, are you still just as satisfied post orgasm as you would be if you'd cum without viagra, or does the viagra leave you hard, ready for more and unsatisfied post orgasm, comparatively speaking ?

[sublimetoridiculous]

Once you've taken viagra and then you have sex and cum, are you still just as satisfied post orgasm as you would be if you'd cum without viagra, or does the viagra leave you hard, ready for more and unsatisfied post orgasm, comparatively speaking ?

No, not in my experience. Viagra doesn't give you a permanent hard on, it just enhances a natural erection.

[Romeo Sensini]

No, not in my experience. Viagra doesn't give you a permanent hard on, it just enhances a natural erection.

Same here. Viagra etc only work with stimulation. You can get more than one good hard on though. The effect probably starts to fade after a couple of hours (except Cialis). They dont always stop condom droop (for me) though.

As above, interesting to note some condoms are better than others - might be time to investigate.

[Gordon Bennett]

Yeah, it's like there's an active ingredient (or maybe inactive ingredient's the word) on Johnnies that attacks your boner. I overcome it with viagra, being patient until I have bloody good stiffy on and bunging it on myself. It also helps if she has them readily to hand.... just a few seconds delay if she has to find one from a drawer or other side of bed can be fraught - it's like time stands still!

[Dorboy]

Yep. Been there suffered that. Damm things. Rock hard until slipped on then all downhill. Will take advice given and take my own next time.

[Strokemeplease]

If you don't want to take Viagra, sildenafil etc. then try a cock ring. They work for me, giving a firmer and longer-lasting erection. I have tried several types, and I find the rings made by Durex to be the best. They are sold in Tesco's next to the condoms.

[JonasG]

Once you've taken viagra and then you have sex and cum, are you still just as satisfied post orgasm as you would be if you'd cum without viagra, or does the viagra leave you hard, ready for more and unsatisfied post orgasm, comparatively speaking ?

It's fine, I'm still a 1 cum guy even when having taken viagra.

[Apu]

Hate it when that happens.
I have no issues keeping a hard on.
But as soon as a girl puts on the rubber with her claws it's a massive boner killer.

Usually I avoid wanking 48 hours in advance or ask the girl to use her mouth while putting the condom on my dick.

Anything but the claws.

[NIK]

Yes. I have always hated condoms.
Even when I could get a fair erection it usually wasn’t so fair by the time the condom had done its essential but wicked work.
Remember many years ago in the heat of passion with Nicoletta my naked stiffy was hovering near her pussy.     She said ‘we need a condom.’ Then she said, ‘I expect it will go soft now.’
She was right. 

Yet another reason why I can’t be arsed to punt anymore.

[BillGoldberg]

Interesting!
That's one of my misconceptions busted then 

[sublimetoridiculous]

It's fine, I'm still a 1 cum guy even when having taken viagra.

Yes, I'm the same. But I find the effect of viagra lasts in me for a long time. So I end up with a raging hard on about 5-6 hours later.

[dieseldriver]

I've read on here those Japanese ones are good. Sagami 001 or 002. Only problem is, they tend to be too small? I used 001 last year, and could feel the heat from her pussy. But had to take it off as too small and slipping off. Once that happened, stiffy went down and wouldn't get hard again. Surprised cos I'm not as big as I've seen in the men's changing room at the gym. Probabely most of us have a crafty look in a changing room!

[Jonestown]

yes and use Viagra, its like reading glasses, nothing to be ashamed of,

Trouble with reading glasses, use them for a short while and you are fucked without them, cant read a thing, have to wear them all the time. Maybe try getting the condom on quicker (like formula one teams practice tyre changes) and into getting the hole before your mind loses the thread and you start to soften, or carry on with oral after the condom is on till you get fully hard again.

[dieseldriver]

Trouble with reading glasses, use them for a short while and you are fucked without them, cant read a thing, have to wear them all the time. Maybe try getting the condom on quicker (like formula one teams practice tyre changes) and into getting the hole before your mind loses the thread and you start to soften, or carry on with oral after the condom is on till you get fully hard again.

Yep, gotta agree with this. Once the bag went on with one of my regulars, down it went. But finished off in her mouth. Last time saw her, she but the bag on soon as it got hard saying "don't want to lose it while its hard". But she did! However, as soon as in her mouth, up again. Nice CIM...   

[Tallchris]

If you don't want to take Viagra, sildenafil etc. then try a cock ring. They work for me, giving a firmer and longer-lasting erection. I have tried several types, and I find the rings made by Durex to be the best. They are sold in Tesco's next to the condoms.

Not in my local Tesco! I didn't ask an assistant though.

[winkywanky]

I'm sure this has been covered before but I wonder how many others have a perfectly strong erection with OWO but when the rubber goes on it progressively starts to wilt.
Seriously considering giving up on the shag and just sticking to the OWO and hand job.
I suspect it's the lack of sensation with condoms,plus my advancing years,and wanking way too much.
Shagging is over rated anyway and tough on the knees and back.

I don't know your actual age but in general terms, don't resort to medication unless there are no workable alternatives for you.

You could try these, not too expensive and if they work you've saved yourself having to buy Viagra :https://www.amazon.co.uk/LIFESTYLES-SKYN-ORIGINAL-CONDOMS-LUBRICATED/dp/B014XHMLU2/ref=sr_1_1_s_it?s=drugstore&ie=UTF8&qid=1516462081&sr=1-1&keywords=lifestyles+skyn

[Itsnotshy]

Thanks for all the advice,nice to know lots of others have the same problem.Talked it over a bit with one of my favs. yesterday,when she didn't have her mouth full She said she sees it often.
Had a great time anyway just relaxing,fondling,kissing and getting blown.All very sensual,no erection problems.Will settle for that while I consider the condom/viagra options.

[Punter115]

I take viagra and no problem staying hard when the condom goes on ...the problem I have is no feeling on the tip of my cock and cannot cum in the bag ....I must invest in much thinner condoms and see if that has the desired effect....I do hope so!