No fingers inside

[Hornydevil666]

I was watching a video on porn hub yesterday and it was a dude lubing up his missus with a pair of black latex / rubber gloves getting her off and made me think of SP's not allowing fingers inside, escorts don't know where your fingers have been, got cuts or raggy nails etc but I wonder if you were to mention about wearing gloves so you can access her punany they would be more receptive.

Obviously you would have to ask her first as if you pull out a pair of rubber gloves and she is not expecting it she might think she will be on the 10pm news with police tape around her house.

[JustaPunter]

Maybe the escort doesn’t like being fingerbanged by an idiot who may hurt her?

Regardless of the job they are doing they aren’t a toy or a piece of meat.

[RandomGuy99]

I was watching a video on porn hub yesterday and it was a dude lubing up his missus with a pair of black latex / rubber gloves getting her off and made me think of SP's not allowing fingers inside, escorts don't know where your fingers have been, got cuts or raggy nails etc but I wonder if you were to mention about wearing gloves so you can access her punany they would be more receptive.

Obviously you would have to ask her first as if you pull out a pair of rubber gloves and she is not expecting it she might think she will be on the 10pm news with police tape around her house.

You could ask but I suspect the SPs don't allow fingers inside because they've had bad experiences with SSs trying to finger bang them to orgasm. 

A lot of SPs aren't actually wanting an orgasm from a booking.

Their job is to make you orgasm. Imagine being an SP and every SS wanting to finger bang you to orgasm.  You're going to end up with a sore fanny and frustrated SSs as it takes more than fingering an SP to make her orgasm as a lot of SSs including me are shit at everything related to sex, so we are bound to fail 99.8923% of the time.

The SPs decline it because they just don't want to get into the situation of an SS trying to make them orgasm.

They don't want the pain or the pressure from an SS for them to orgasm. Maybe if I finger bang her harder or for another 48 minutes she'll orgasm?  No, most likely she'll fake one just to get you to stop and leave her fanny alone. They don't want 10 orgasms a day.

They just want the SS to cum and be happy with the service provided and your money in return and ideally for you to return if you've been an ok booking.

Bookings are about your enjoyment not the SP shuddering in sexual ecstasy at the end.  Sorry to shatter your illusions 

[daviemac]

I was watching a video on porn hub yesterday and it was a dude lubing up his missus with a pair of black latex / rubber gloves getting her off and made me think of SP's not allowing fingers inside, escorts don't know where your fingers have been, got cuts or raggy nails etc but I wonder if you were to mention about wearing gloves so you can access her punany they would be more receptive.

Obviously you would have to ask her first as if you pull out a pair of rubber gloves and she is not expecting it she might think she will be on the 10pm news with police tape around her house.

That's the trouble, punters trying to transfer what they see in porn to real life bookings with escorts. If they make it clear on their profile or during initial comms that they don't allow fingering you need to accept that, trying to change their mind by whatever means will get you labelled as a boundary pusher and reported as such on ClientEye.

Find one that is happy to provide the services you want and stick to the boundaries they set.

[Stevelondon]

Surely it’s always a simple case of asking…….. politely.
It ain’t rocket science.

I’ve no particular liking for fingering etc. But I have on occasions been invited to do it.
Actually quite recently by an SP I was giving oral too. Sort of tipped her over the edge so to speak and most enjoyable to witness 😂

[badsin]

Surely it’s always a simple case of asking…….. politely.
It ain’t rocket science.

This.

I remember recieving a massage a few year's ago, on the flip the SP is stood to my side grabs by hand and and thrusts it between her legs.... without asking I kinda knew what she was after.

In the absence of that, ask

[willie loman]

This.

I remember recieving a massage a few year's ago, on the flip the SP is stood to my side grabs by hand and and thrusts it between her legs.... without asking I kinda knew what she was after.

In the absence of that, ask

yes some girls want you to do it, had one lady  bunch my fingers together, and indicated she wanted me to thrust them in, others hate it, if no guidance given ask

[Strawberry]

You could ask but I suspect the SPs don't allow fingers inside because they've had bad experiences with SSs trying to finger bang them to orgasm. 

A lot of SPs aren't actually wanting an orgasm from a booking.

Their job is to make you orgasm. Imagine being an SP and every SS wanting to finger bang you to orgasm.  You're going to end up with a sore fanny and frustrated SSs as it takes more than fingering an SP to make her orgasm as a lot of SSs including me are shit at everything related to sex, so we are bound to fail 99.8923% of the time.

The SPs decline it because they just don't want to get into the situation of an SS trying to make them orgasm.

They don't want the pain or the pressure from an SS for them to orgasm. Maybe if I finger bang her harder or for another 48 minutes she'll orgasm?  No, most likely she'll fake one just to get you to stop and leave her fanny alone. They don't want 10 orgasms a day.

They just want the SS to cum and be happy with the service provided and your money in return and ideally for you to return if you've been an ok booking.

Bookings are about your enjoyment not the SP shuddering in sexual ecstasy at the end.  Sorry to shatter your illusions 

Also finger blasting and for that matter intercourse is not the way to some women's orgasm.

[kingmg]

Gloves are esstraa bby

[Stevelondon]

Gets me down when I read threads like this.
Me and my small cock and little hands
Sigh 😔

[Mr Sinister]

Surely it’s always a simple case of asking…….. politely.
It ain’t rocket science.

I’ve no particular liking for fingering etc. But I have on occasions been invited to do it.
Actually quite recently by an SP I was giving oral too. Sort of tipped her over the edge so to speak and most enjoyable to witness 😂

Well yes some WGs are into fingering some not, I like softly rubbing a wgs clit/vagina getting her wet while she's blowing me off before I get to the real action but I never outright do finger banging as some has mentioned.

If you want to try something with a WG you must get consent first.

[Doc Holliday]

Maybe if I finger bang her harder or for another 48 minutes she'll orgasm?

If you are going to regularly do it for 48 minutes, don't make the mistake I did of not using enough lube.


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On a more serious note and with my cross infection hat on, gloves should always be used anyway .. but that is likely to be as rare as dental dam use 

Oh and effective finger blasting should be a very short duration activity (less than a minute) and carried out competently at the appropriate time during sex. It may however be subsequently repeated more than once, dependant on the individual receivers preferences.

[RandomGuy99]

If you are going to regularly do it for 48 minutes, don't make the mistake I did of not using enough lube.

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On a more serious note and with my cross infection hat on, gloves should always be used anyway .. but that is likely to be as rare as dental dam use 

Oh and effective finger blasting should be a very short duration activity (less than a minute) and carried out competently at the appropriate time during sex. It may however be subsequently repeated more than once, dependant on the individual receivers preferences.

Next time try alternating using different hands.

[Steely Dan]

Nina Hartley approves of gloves it seems.  Of course this is also porn ....

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[Thephoenix]

If you are going to regularly do it for 48 minutes, don't make the mistake I did of not using enough lube.


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I've had two lots of surgery to try and correct Dupuytrens Contracture.

Maybe excessive finger blasting was the cause.

Unfortunately fisting is now out of the question.


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[GorillaWarfare]

As with everything, communication is key. No glove or condoms on the fingers is going to convince a WG who doesn't want you to finger her to let you finger her though.

[fudi_maar]

Ive just had my finger inside a hot Venezuelana (im in South America) whilst she rubbed her clit and sucked on my cock simultaneously. She came and i nearly exploded in her mouth, but being the gentleman i held back.

Sadly, its not that common that WGs allow it.

[Kelgon85]

I like to finger and RO in general. TBH though, I always ask, even if they have it listed on their Enjoys. Some women actually welcome it, others are indifferent and some just outright loathe it.

[Markc]

I put fingers inside my regular when l am doing oral on her.
I have know her for years so she knows l not going to hurt her.

[Dipper]

Ive just had my finger inside a hot Venezuelana (im in South America) whilst she rubbed her clit and sucked on my cock simultaneously. She came and i nearly exploded in her mouth, but being the gentleman i held back.

Sadly, its not that common that WGs allow it.

I’d say it’s easily 50/50, maybe more towards those who allow it than those who don’t in my experience.

[Dipper]

Having said that there are probably more that I don’t fancy fingering or giving oral to than those I do.

[Mkhelen]

Fingers are only allowed in when Wash your hands in the sink with soap and a nail brush
And you have Filed your nails

Help yourself to lube and gloves no problem not extra here

I have issues with guys trying to scratch too hard on my clit like a scratchcard or pushing to hard on my bladder and not my gspot

Most punters expect you to orgasm In 5 thrusts and get upset that it's my clit that makes me cum harder not thrusting in and out

[Mkhelen]

Alot of ladies don't like it at all because the concerns of bacteria getting inside causing UTIs, Thrush and BV.

[Dipper]

Fingers are only allowed in when Wash your hands in the sink with soap and a nail brush
And you have Filed your nails

Help yourself to lube and gloves no problem not extra here

I have issues with guys trying to scratch too hard on my clit like a scratchcard or pushing to hard on my bladder and not my gspot

Most punters expect you to orgasm In 5 thrusts and get upset that it's my clit that makes me cum harder not thrusting in and out

I’m very gentle (unless instructed to increase the pace) and never allow nails to get long.