Unexpected bareback<

[olddognewtricks49]

Hyperthectical question, but what would your reaction be if girl climbed on and popped it in bareback?

[KatieEdinburgh]

You should probably stop her if you aren’t comfortable with it, its doing something without your consent is the core problem and that’s very murky waters to be in (stealthing = assault)

If you go along with it or secretly did want bare sex, then as long as you know the risks and understand them. Would suggest getting tested immediately (also in 3 months time without any other unprotected sex in between to know for certain that you’re clean, HIV can take time to show up on a test) not seeing others as would put them at risk too

And be prepared for everyone to disapprove if you are telling us you’d just go along with it 

[sim0256]

Strange question from someone with only two reviews in five years of membership!

Were you offered it or are you chasing it?

[signy]

I would suggest that this is unlikely, unless the escort offers BB as a matter of course and therefore assumes that it is required. Important to do your research. If it is truly out-of-the-blue, stop it and then get tested asap.

More common is the habit of an escort rubbing their naked genitals against your cock. They might not view this as technically BB, but its not far off. It is not something which I am comfortable, and I will move away if I think they are getting too close. This happened to me many years ago to the extent that it was prolonged and wet (I was too inexperienced to complain), but I definitely got worried afterwards and got tested; all OK, but a lesson learned.
 

[RandomGuy99]

I look after my own health and make sure that doesn't happen. It almost happened once and I jump up and grabbed a condom. I didn't go back.

[RedKettle]

Hyperthectical question, but what would your reaction be if girl climbed on and popped it in bareback?

When this happened to me I asked her to stop and pop a condom on me.

I then posted a negative review with a BB warning and never saw her again.

Part of me has sometimes regretted that as it was my second or third meeting with her and I was enjoying her alot.  However I personally did not want to take the increased risk of seeing someone who clearly does BB with clients.

However this is all your choice.

[RedKettle]

I would suggest that this is unlikely, unless the escort offers BB as a matter of course and therefore assumes that it is required. Important to do your research.

As noted above it has happened to me, in fact that was not the only occasion over the years.  None of them openly offered BB (I do my research) and it was a surprise.  The one I reference above there was literally no warning, she did not ask which has been the case with others.

[daviemac]

Hyperthectical question, but what would your reaction be if girl climbed on and popped it in bareback?

If you want to go round barebacking escorts that's up to you but, as it's generally frowned upon on here, don't expect many people to condone it. In fact, as long as they aren't abusive, members are free to express their disapproval.

[mancsguy1975]

I would suggest that this is unlikely, unless the escort offers BB as a matter of course and therefore assumes that it is required. Important to do your research. If it is truly out-of-the-blue, stop it and then get tested asap.

More common is the habit of an escort rubbing their naked genitals against your cock. They might not view this as technically BB, but its not far off. It is not something which I am comfortable, and I will move away if I think they are getting too close. This happened to me many years ago to the extent that it was prolonged and wet (I was too inexperienced to complain), but I definitely got worried afterwards and got tested; all OK, but a lesson learned.

I had this experience last year when I met this service provider... the close call did somewhat make me nervous during the booking and immediately took some of the pleasure out of it as a result.  Luckily no harm done, but i should have realised when reading the AW profile before booking tbf...

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[Fuzzyduck]

Hyperthectical question, but what would your reaction be if girl climbed on and popped it in bareback?

 

Why do you care? You bareback anyway, right?

Remember her in Dereham few years back, have to say great sex, let my guard down and succumbed to bareback on one occasion, fortunately no ill effects, tried to make contact several times since but been blocked

[Fuzzyduck]

You should probably stop her if you aren’t comfortable with it, its doing something without your consent is the core problem and that’s very murky waters to be in (stealthing = assault)

If you go along with it or secretly did want bare sex, then as long as you know the risks and understand them. Would suggest getting tested immediately (also in 3 months time without any other unprotected sex in between to know for certain that you’re clean, HIV can take time to show up on a test) not seeing others as would put them at risk too

And be prepared for everyone to disapprove if you are telling us you’d just go along with it 

+1 great answer.

[myothernameis]

Hyperthectical question, but what would your reaction be if girl climbed on and popped it in bareback?

Hyperthectical  did this happen, if so what did you do   

[myothernameis]

Strange question from someone with only two reviews in five years of membership!

Were you offered it or are you chasing it?

Check his post history, and what do you know, this has happened to him, wonder what he will have to say, when he logs back on 

Let my guard down and succumbed to bareback on one occasion, fortunately no ill effects

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Had a girl rub her bits on mine some time ago cock hasnt fallen off so must be OK! and more than the once and same location the infamous Chelsea cloisters in London. All were Asian girls too.

We did have another chinese provider who "forgot" a condom the foreplay was very intense but it was a matter of seconds and i said stiop now and wnet an gave little brain a very good soapy wash in the shower. I asked her afterwards if it was somethig she offered and she said not, it seemed as it felt so very nice the lead up to this she said  she was enjoying it so much!..

Make of that what you will!..

[Doc Holliday]

You should probably stop her if you aren’t comfortable with it, its doing something without your consent is the core problem and that’s very murky waters to be in (stealthing = assault)

If you go along with it or secretly did want bare sex, then as long as you know the risks and understand them. Would suggest getting tested immediately (also in 3 months time without any other unprotected sex in between to know for certain that you’re clean, HIV can take time to show up on a test) not seeing others as would put them at risk too

And be prepared for everyone to disapprove if you are telling us you’d just go along with it 

Katie thanks for a measured, and accurate reply 

Too often this perennial question results in hysterical replies and a lack of honesty on the part of punters (and a thumbs up to Red Kettle for being honest also)

Katie I'm sure you have plenty of regulars with whom you are very popular. Imagine a totally hypothetical situation where you decided one day that during sessions with your regulars you would, without asking, mount them with no condom. What would your gut feeling be as to how many would stop you either straight away or indeed not stop at all?

[hendrix]

You should probably stop her if you aren’t comfortable with it, its doing something without your consent is the core problem and that’s very murky waters to be in (stealthing = assault)

If you go along with it or secretly did want bare sex, then as long as you know the risks and understand them. Would suggest getting tested immediately (also in 3 months time without any other unprotected sex in between to know for certain that you’re clean, HIV can take time to show up on a test) not seeing others as would put them at risk too

And be prepared for everyone to disapprove if you are telling us you’d just go along with it 

Spot on  I'd just add that the advice I've had is to wait at least 2 weeks before testing (rather than immediately)

[daviemac]

Katie thanks for a measured, and accurate reply 

Katie's reply wasn't totally accurate Doc, she didn't know he had already 'gone along' with it. He's posted this looking for others to help him justify barebacking by agreeing they would do the same.

[Jonestown]

He's posted this looking for others to help him justify barebacking by agreeing they would do the same.

Or trawling for real life confessions with the hope of identifying SPs as future BB partners.

[wristjob]

More common is the habit of an escort rubbing their naked genitals against your cock. They might not view this as technically BB, but its not far off. It is not something which I am comfortable, and I will move away if I think they are getting too close. This happened to me many years ago to the extent that it was prolonged and wet (I was too inexperienced to complain), but I definitely got worried afterwards and got tested; all OK, but a lesson learned.

Seems to happen a lot when they come up for a snog and start lowering themselves. Insane and usually takes a bit of squirming to get out of.

[Brompton]

When this happened to me I asked her to stop and pop a condom on me.

I then posted a negative review with a BB warning and never saw her again.

Part of me has sometimes regretted that as it was my second or third meeting with her and I was enjoying her alot.  However I personally did not want to take the increased risk of seeing someone who clearly does BB with clients.

However this is all your choice.

Nigh on same experience for me with an SP I had seen numerous times over the years with protection & again I put a negative BB review warning here.

Being a member on UKP I have read although not too often it does happen, my experience was we both really got into the sex but I soon ‘woke up’ & got her to grab a condom.

[bigden40]

When this happened to me I asked her to stop and pop a condom on me.

I then posted a negative review with a BB warning and never saw her again.

Part of me has sometimes regretted that as it was my second or third meeting with her and I was enjoying her alot.  However I personally did not want to take the increased risk of seeing someone who clearly does BB with clients.

However this is all your choice.

Yep. I did the exact same thing.

[LLPunting]

You should probably stop her if you aren’t comfortable with it, its doing something without your consent is the core problem and that’s very murky waters to be in (stealthing = assault)

If you go along with it or secretly did want bare sex, then as long as you know the risks and understand them. Would suggest getting tested immediately (also in 3 months time without any other unprotected sex in between to know for certain that you’re clean, HIV can take time to show up on a test) not seeing others as would put them at risk too

And be prepared for everyone to disapprove if you are telling us you’d just go along with it 

Doesn't stealthing qualify as rape, assault / attempted rape if caught before entry?

At last test screening the nurse told me that HIV can be detected after 6(?)weeks.  Officially External Link/Members Only
Test as soon as symptoms appear or after a couple of weeks to allow for most incubations before testing, which ever is least.

Above presumes precautionary rather than known exposure which should always result in immediate consult at clinic.

[ukgreeting]

I went soft, tried once and just freaked me out. My bro refused to do it

[sensualencounter]

I went soft, tried once and just freaked me out. My bro refused to do it

I think there might be something lost in translation here. What’s your bro got to do with you trying bareback?!? All sorts of things going through my head right now and none of them particularly pleasant 

[Andywb]

I think there might be something lost in translation here. What’s your bro got to do with you trying bareback?!? All sorts of things going through my head right now and none of them particularly pleasant 

Looking at some of his previous posts, it seems he calls his cock Bro   

[Punting2022]

Feels good. Done it with ex gf and sugar babies. Both showed std results before etc.
When you go soft and stick it in via foreplay. Feels nice so nice.

Would never do with escort. Most is just rubbing your cock against thier pussy

[Doc Holliday]

Feels good. Done it with ex gf and sugar babies. Both showed std results before etc.
When you go soft and stick it in via foreplay. Feels nice so nice.

Would never do with escort. Most is just rubbing your cock against thier pussy

From an STI risk perspective there is no difference. Showing std results is of equally limited use, unless both parties have been celibate for some time and you know this for certain.

[PumpDump]

Hyperthectical question, but what would your reaction be if girl climbed on and popped it in bareback?

I would lie back, enjoy it and thank my lucky stars 

[LLPunting]

From an STI risk perspective there is no difference. Showing std results is of equally limited use, unless both parties have been celibate for some time and you know this for certain.

Indeed.
And thinking sugar babies are somehow more exclusive or less of a risk...   

[jamiekinkxxx]

Indeed.
And thinking sugar babies are somehow more exclusive or less of a risk...   

+1

[Lou2019]

Indeed.
And thinking sugar babies are somehow more exclusive or less of a risk...   

I wouldn’t be too sure about that, that’s what you are led to believe.

[jamiekinkxxx]

I wouldn’t be too sure about that, that’s what you are led to believe.

Think LLP is saying that seeking girls can be just as much as a risk, just as much as can be by meeting a any Tom, Dick (for the SPs), Jane or Hillary (for the punters).

Just always best to be safe

[Punting2022]

I wouldn’t be too sure about that, that’s what you are led to believe.

Exclusive on the day for her SD. Whereas cum buckets for multiple men for the hour.
A sugar baby is yours for the afternoon, night etc. Enjoyable.

Like anything only once trust is gained.

[southcoastpunter]

Exclusive on the day for her SD. Whereas cum buckets for multiple men for the hour.
A sugar baby is yours for the afternoon, night etc. Enjoyable.

Like anything only once trust is gained.

true - but whilst not my personal experience, many guys on here say that SB's from Seeking (or wherever) don't seem to have the same attitude to always using protection as most WG's do. Taking more risks via BB sex does, on the face of it, seem to be more prevalent amongst young people (both civvy and SB's)  and the fact that many SB's do mot see themselves as sex worker may mean they have a "softer" attitude to BB than ladies that have chosen to become "professional".

But whichever, its up to us individually to take whatever risk is acceptable to us and protect ourselves accordingly.

[Punting2022]

true - but whilst not my personal experience, many guys on here say that SB's from Seeking (or wherever) don't seem to have the same attitude to always using protection as most WG's do. Taking more risks via BB sex does, on the face of it, seem to be more prevalent amongst young people (both civvy and SB's)  and the fact that many SB's do mot see themselves as sex worker may mean they have a "softer" attitude to BB than ladies that have chosen to become "professional".

But whichever, its up to us individually to take whatever risk is acceptable to us and protect ourselves accordingly.

True, would rather do Bareback with seeking girls then cum bucket WG

[LLPunting]

True, would rather do Bareback with seeking girls then cum bucket WG

You aren't actually thinking about what has just been said (and borne out by my own experiences with SBs), SBs are more liable to BBing whomever they see, whether it's 1 guy a day/week or several per day/week.  SPs generally play safe and would be safer than SBs, unless you're actually referring to Rom BBers and other SPs advertising BB or taking all cummers raw unadvertised, but they are an exceptional case and would be the highest risk.  You have no clue where the punters have been sticking their dicks other than BBers of SPs also see SBs so there is an intersecting Venn diagram of infection risk.

[sensualencounter]

You aren't actually thinking about what has just been said (and borne out by my own experiences with SBs), SBs are more liable to BBing whomever they see, whether it's 1 guy a day/week or several per day/week.  SPs generally play safe and would be safer than SBs, unless you're actually referring to Rom BBers and other SPs advertising BB or taking all cummers raw unadvertised, but they are an exceptional case and would be the highest risk.  You have no clue where the punters have been sticking their dicks other than BBers of SPs also see SBs so there is an intersecting Venn diagram of infection risk.

I’m not sure he can think beyond his hatred towards escorts 

[Doc Holliday]

I’m not sure he can think beyond his hatred towards escorts 

Yes, most definitely the case.

[Lou2019]

I’m not sure he can think beyond his hatred towards escorts 

Agree his comments are rather vile, but we know how that always ends here

[finn5555]

I’m not sure he can think beyond his hatred towards escorts 

Probably hatred towards to women in general 🧐

[hendrix]

I do find it funny that people are naive enough to think SB's are "exclusive" (they can be of course) when I've met plenty of SB's who fucked me before/after a visit to their "exclusive SD" who had no clue that his beloved was shagging punters on the side 😂 Typically, the only restriction was "no spanking that leaves marks as he might notice" 😂

[PaulRuff]

I do find it funny that people are naive enough to think SB's are "exclusive" (they can be of course) when I've met plenty of SB's who fucked me before/after a visit to their "exclusive SD" who had no clue that his beloved was shagging punters on the side 😂 Typically, the only restriction was "no spanking that leaves marks as he might notice" 😂

+1.  I used to get loads of 'exclusive' SBs chomping on my cock via Craigslist a couple of years ago.

[finn5555]

I do find it funny that people are naive enough to think SB's are "exclusive" (they can be of course) when I've met plenty of SB's who fucked me before/after a visit to their "exclusive SD" who had no clue that his beloved was shagging punters on the side 😂 Typically, the only restriction was "no spanking that leaves marks as he might notice" 😂

Exactly that only a naive fool thinks otherwise 

[LLPunting]

I do find it funny that people are naive enough to think SB's are "exclusive" (they can be of course) when I've met plenty of SB's who fucked me before/after a visit to their "exclusive SD" who had no clue that his beloved was shagging punters on the side 😂 Typically, the only restriction was "no spanking that leaves marks as he might notice" 😂

No creampies or pregnancies... 
No hickeys or bite marks...
No scratching...
No tattoos or branding...
No fun...  

[theeaglekid]

Interesting observations from forums on both sides of the atlantic.

UK - its incredibly frowned upon

In the USA - its far more sought after with providers (with the appropiate STD testing etc). Most providers do not allow it. Punter has to pay for the testing on top of the crazy prices out there, hence most opt out.

[daviemac]

UK - its incredibly frowned upon

It's sought after here as well, there's forums dedicated to it.

[RandomGuy99]

It's sought after here as well, there's forums dedicated to it.

That's just insane!

Why would people be so irresponsible with their health?

[Georgedaviesok]

I had a regular lady I saw on and off for 5 years, this was over 25 years ago. Really nice lady who I enjoyed seeing, I moved from the area and came back visiting friends and got in touch re her visiting me at my hotel. She did and in the throws of passion sat on me bareback, I froze, she waited for a reaction to which I thrust up inside her. Continued and came inside. Instant punter remorse despite the 'I've never done that before with any client' bollocks. Luckily it was all OK in the end but the weeks of worry didn't outweigh the few minutes of pleasure. Never saw her again, never repeated it again. been offered it a few times though.

[daviemac]

That's just insane!

Why would people be so irresponsible with their health?

You must have lead a sheltered life, there's a 'bug chasers' ones as well. 

To ensure your own safety you really need to know what actually goes on in all aspects of the paid sex game.

[marc_hotsteppa]

You must have lead a sheltered life, there's a 'bug chasers' ones as well. 

To ensure your own safety you really need to know what actually goes on in all aspects of the paid sex game.

Had to google that as never heard of that before, bloody hell that is grim.