Lost appetite for punting

[Fkk]

After a few months of not punting I just seem to have lost my appetite for the game.

I keep searching but nothing seem to take my fancy.

Anyone else can’t be arsed to punt.

[winkywanky]

After a few months of not punting I just seem to have lost my appetite for the game.

I keep searching but nothing seem to take my fancy.

Anyone else can’t be arsed to punt.

In WWI you'd have been shot by firing squad for sowing discontent and ruining morale.

[Gordon Bennett]

Even in normal times I find the winter months to be a passion killer. I really can't be arsed turning out on cold, damp, miserable days and braving the hordes out shopping. Even if the Covid went away to tomorrow I can't see I'd be venturing out for a punt until at least March.

[Adoniron]

Me too. I'm not really bothered at the moment. I've punted a lot less this year because of lockdowns and with not travelling as much as I normally do. I'll have to see if the urge returns next year.

[threechilliman]

After a few months of not punting I just seem to have lost my appetite for the game.

I keep searching but nothing seem to take my fancy.

Anyone else can’t be arsed to punt.

My punting ebb is at an all time low. I haven't even bothered searching.....

[anonymouse72]

Can't really be arsed myself much lately. The extra dosh in the bank is more attractive.

[MME]

I'm like a dog with two cocks, can't wait to get inserted into some beautiful fillies tight little anus..!!

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Got a bit of a Civvie issue on the go, all mad half my age and all that that but )


JOOI MME that avtar, that Robert Oppenhimer at all?..

[Helloyou75001]

I'd love to lose interest. Would save me lot of money!

My problem is the lack of decent girls

[Malvolio]

After four weeks of lockdown I'm raring to go - missing out on punting during the first lockdown made me realise how much I enjoyed it.

[rk_1985]

I found myself just doing 15/30 min bookings as lack of quality punts out there... usual same girls on rotation my way. Need to find something new

[Home Alone]

I think I might have found a new Regular - more or less just by chance. Hope to go for a Test Drive soon.

All being well, she'll give me something to keep looking forward to as 'normality' returns. Punting must have been one of the most depressed pastimes of 2020.

[Colston36]

After a few months of not punting I just seem to have lost my appetite for the game.

I keep searching but nothing seem to take my fancy.

Anyone else can’t be arsed to punt.

Being 84 I began to think I had lost the capability, let alone the urge. Very depressing despite the huge savings. The only two little jaunts I've had were not all that satisfactory. Porn began to lose its attraction. Very worrying.

[advent2016]

I haven't lost appetite it's availability.

I used to punt twice weekly and since March its only been monthly and often a bit mediocre. Some of my regular providers still aren't operating or have restricted what they offer e.g. no FK/DFK, facials, snowballing things that are really important to me.

[Hobbit]

I haven't lost the appetite for punting but what I found recently that has changed is that after I have had my first orgasm, I don't feel motivated to carry on or even chitchat with the girl. I rather just leave. In the past, I could go on for 3 or 4 hours quite easily and had multiple orgasms. But now even though I can have more orgasms, I just can't be bothered anymore.

It's kind of like I'm getting bored with sex.    It just doesn't excite me as it used to. Maybe it's because I have done pretty much almost everything over the years and now I need something more exciting than sex. I have no idea what that could be. 

[signy]

It's kind of like I'm getting bored with sex.    It just doesn't excite me as it used to. Maybe it's because I have done pretty much almost everything over the years and now I need something more exciting than sex. I have no idea what that could be. 

This is sort of what happened to me (many years ago). Going from just wanting to have sex with a decent looking woman, to getting bored with the 30 minutes "hello, sex, goodbye" experience.

Each to their own, but I found the answer in dressing up and roleplay. Now I book for an hour, for any scenario in which I am interested and the sex part is a more natural extension to that, rather than an end in itself. It may sound silly with a WG, but the sex means something in that context.

Anyway Hobbit, I hope that you find whatever works for you to keep punting (and life) interesting.

[Hobbit]

This is sort of what happened to me (many years ago). Going from just wanting to have sex with a decent looking woman, to getting bored with the 30 minutes "hello, sex, goodbye" experience.

Each to their own, but I found the answer in dressing up and roleplay. Now I book for an hour, for any scenario in which I am interested and the sex part is a more natural extension to that, rather than an end in itself. It may sound silly with a WG, but the sex means something in that context.

Anyway Hobbit, I hope that you find whatever works for you to keep punting (and life) interesting.

Thanks mate. I'm not really into dressing up but I wouldn't mind trying some role-play with a darker dom-sub theme to it. It's a bit tricky finding girls that are good at role-play. Not sure if that would awaken my desire for sex again but at the moment I'm quite content with drinking alcohol as the effects seem to last longer than a 2 minute orgasm.

[alabama1]

I haven't lost the appetite for punting but what I found recently that has changed is that after I have had my first orgasm, I don't feel motivated to carry on or even chitchat with the girl. I rather just leave. In the past, I could go on for 3 or 4 hours quite easily and had multiple orgasms. But now even though I can have more orgasms, I just can't be bothered anymore.

It's kind of like I'm getting bored with sex.    It just doesn't excite me as it used to. Maybe it's because I have done pretty much almost everything over the years and now I need something more exciting than sex. I have no idea what that could be. 

Base jumping ?

[Hobbit]

Base jumping ?

is that whilst having a blowjob? 

[Fuzzyduck]

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It's kind of like I'm getting bored with sex.    It just doesn't excite me as it used to. Maybe it's because I have done pretty much almost everything over the years and now I need something more exciting than sex. I have no idea what that could be. 

I really empathise with that. Mostly I can't be bothered as much as I used to but, ironically, when I do have my cock in some woman's warm mouth, I tell myself off for not doing it more often. I know that if I look down at a purty mouth around my cock and I think "meh", then my time is up.

[Mr Sinister]

This is sort of what happened to me (many years ago). Going from just wanting to have sex with a decent looking woman, to getting bored with the 30 minutes "hello, sex, goodbye" experience.

Yeah I can't do no more than 15 minutes with a wg here anymore I just get bored, doesn't really excite me the way it used too I don't have the desire to travel to see a wg. Why Ive gone back to casually dating civvies, even fucking an ugly bird Is much more exciting than seeing an wg.

To Fkk this just happens with the game, take a break, save money find other activities to do or other ways to get your rocks off then come back to punting later down the line.

[RandomGuy99]

I'm kinda missing it as I used to punt 3 times a week. I was probably overshagging though, so the break has done me good. Now when I'm on a punt I do feel a bit anxious about half way through about whether having a shag is really worth the risk of getting COVID and then I'm nervous for a few days after. I now shag a lot less and no plans for a shag for the forseeable.

[Hobbit]

I really empathise with that. Mostly I can't be bothered as much as I used to but, ironically, when I do have my cock in some woman's warm mouth, I tell myself off for not doing it more often. I know that if I look down at a purty mouth around my cock and I think "meh", then my time is up.

I sat down the other day and thought about it and just wondered is it that I am depressed, have I become an alcoholic or is it a midlife crisis? I still feel attracted to women and still get a good erection watching my favourite TV presenter when she is on or whilst watching porn but when having sex, it just feels the same old.

Maybe I need to find a good girl to slap me around a little? That may wake me up.

[time2play]

Very much in agreement with the OP. Dark nights and the cold just put me off in a normal year but covid and working from home have completely stifled any opportunities.

Still flick through this forum to keep abreast of the latest. :

[MME]

Got a bit of a Civvie issue on the go, all mad half my age and all that that but )


JOOI MME that avtar, that Robert Oppenhimer at all?..

Well spotted you eagle eyed devil you..! It is indeed John Robert Oppenheimer

[winkywanky]

Being 84 I began to think I had lost the capability, let alone the urge. Very depressing despite the huge savings. The only two little jaunts I've had were not all that satisfactory. Porn began to lose its attraction. Very worrying.

The worry is, as you get older you might need more and more extreme porn to get you horny.

When I think how depraved I already am at over 20yrs younger than your good self Colston, I wonder just what depths of depravity I might be plumbing by that time 

[winkywanky]

Base jumping ?

is that whilst having a blowjob? 

I guess that's one way to make sure she doesn't stop sucking 

[Hobbit]

I guess that's one way to make sure she doesn't stop sucking 

Maybe I should this instead? External Link/Members Only

I don't think I could last that long under such pressure   

[Doc Holliday]

I made a limited return to punting in 2019 after a very long break of well over a decade. It was purely just an extra self indulgent FBSM activity outside of my normal civvy sex life. 

I haven't indulged in 2020 at all due to Covid, but there is a high probability when this is hopefully no longer an issue, that I will still not return?

[Hobbit]

I made a limited return to punting in 2019 after a very long break of well over a decade. It was purely just an extra self indulgent FBSM activity outside of my normal civvy sex life. 

I haven't indulged in 2020 at all due to Covid, but there is a high probability when this is hopefully no longer an issue, that I will still not return?

Can I ask what have you found to replace it with? Love, enlightenment, family, alcohol, drugs or...........?

[winkywanky]

Bearing in mind Doc's medical background, I should imagine probably all five of those?

[Mr_Shins]

Searching profiles and looking at media on an escorting forum never whets my appetite, it turns me off 99% of the time.

Not encountering women during the day (like working from home, rather than when I used to work from an office) makes my appetite less too.

[CasualPaul1999]

Not punted since the week before the 1st Lockdown with a regular who has gone off the scene,To be honest now I'd rather spend the cash on other things,I've worked all through the lockdowns as I work outside and alone mostly so I've had ample chance to have a meet up but as I'm my elderly Mothers carer I won't take the chance with this Covid shit going on and also I just can't be arsed anymore,I would rather spend the £160-£200 I usually spend on something for myself.

I still look on AW and sometimes feel tempted but I just can't get motivated enough to go through with a booking.

[willie loman]

 A disincentive for me is the fact that most saunas arnet using their lounge, so you cant make up your mind on a girl, no of girls in general is down, plus the cold weather doesnt help, but still managing 2 visits a week, as dr johnson remarked " a man who is tired of punting etc etc. its interesting how rich you feel if you even skip one punt.

[hunkybc]

Not punted since the week before the 1st Lockdown with a regular who has gone off the scene,To be honest now I'd rather spend the cash on other things,I've worked all through the lockdowns as I work outside and alone mostly so I've had ample chance to have a meet up but as I'm my elderly Mothers carer I won't take the chance with this Covid shit going on and also I just can't be arsed anymore,I would rather spend the £160-£200 I usually spend on something for myself.

I still look on AW and sometimes feel tempted but I just can't get motivated enough to go through with a booking.

I'm exactly the same...every other day I take a peek on AW, but just can't do it. As much as I want to if I infected a loved one I couldn't live with myself.

[Bonker]

I start off keen, at 10 on the punt-hungry scale; dick at 11 o'clock (standing in front of a clock with the 3 behind my arse). Then I look through AW in my area for my budget
Dick at 10 o'clock.

Then read reviews of potential punts on here.
Dick at 9 o'clock.

Then look at verification pics on here.
Dick at 6 o'clock.

Disillusioned, I look at worst profile thread.
Dick turns into acorn wrapped in crumpled fabric.

[Thephoenix]

I think I might have found a new Regular - more or less just by chance. Hope to go for a Test Drive soon.

All being well, she'll give me something to keep looking forward to as 'normality' returns. Punting must have been one of the most depressed pastimes of 2020.

Good luck!......make sure you check out the bodywork, big ends and suspension....and not forgetting the exhaust pipe.

[holeymoley]

I start off keen, at 10 on the punt-hungry scale; dick at 11 o'clock (standing in front of a clock with the 3 behind my arse). Then I look through AW in my area for my budget
Dick at 10 o'clock.

Then read reviews of potential punts on here.
Dick at 9 o'clock.

Then look at verification pics on here.
Dick at 6 o'clock.

Disillusioned, I look at worst profile thread.
Dick turns into acorn wrapped in crumpled fabric.

I know the feeling, the same happens when plans A,B,C and D all fail FFS !

[Thephoenix]

Being 84 I began to think I had lost the capability, let alone the urge. Very depressing despite the huge savings. The only two little jaunts I've had were not all that satisfactory. Porn began to lose its attraction. Very worrying.

Not too far behind you agewise.

During lockdown, I built up quite a head of steam with very selective memories of past escapades.
In reality they hadn't been that great prior to lockdown, but we always remember the good bits.

Subsequently after waiting so long, I went berserk for a few weeks, but the sad reality dawned on me that I was relying more on the past memories, and my mind was making appointments that my body couldn't keep.
Assisted erections are not the problem, it's more the ability to climax, and I'm beginning to think that punting has just become a habit which is difficult to give up.
Ah well!.....never mind eh!

[JontyR]

I start off keen, at 10 on the punt-hungry scale; dick at 11 o'clock (standing in front of a clock with the 3 behind my arse). Then I look through AW in my area for my budget
Dick at 10 o'clock.

Then read reviews of potential punts on here.
Dick at 9 o'clock.

Then look at verification pics on here.
Dick at 6 o'clock.

Disillusioned, I look at worst profile thread.
Dick turns into acorn wrapped in crumpled fabric.

That's a better outcome than your dick staying at 11 and you end up having to write a negative review reliving your foolishness! 

[sparkus]

Even in normal times I find the winter months to be a passion killer. I really can't be arsed turning out on cold, damp, miserable days and braving the hordes out shopping. Even if the Covid went away to tomorrow I can't see I'd be venturing out for a punt until at least March.

Exactly that, I was thinking this week 'What's wrong with me?' as nothing is catching my eye at all.  I went for a punt and afterwards felt meh as I had to trudge through shitty wind and rain.

[RandomGuy99]

Exactly that, I was thinking this week 'What's wrong with me?' as nothing is catching my eye at all.  I went for a punt and afterwards felt meh as I had to trudge through shitty wind and rain.

I enjoy bookings in the winter.  Pop into the SP's place out of the cold.  A few SPs have chosen to warm up my hands on their boobs or bums.

[sparkus]

I enjoy bookings in the winter.  Pop into the SP's place out of the cold.  A few SPs have chosen to warm up my hands on their boobs or bums.

The ONE bonus of cold hands is visiting a new massage shop if the masseuse clocks they're cold and invites you to warm them up on her body.

[advent2016]

I'm seeing a girl (Katie) for a BJ and sometimes outside doggy sometimes anal car meet (probably filmed on my dash cam , I'll check ) TBH I could be shagging a sex doll or a robot but it works for me and keep my mind off the women at work.

I dread the day when I'm too old to do this? How old is too old? I know people in their 70s and 80s who are still having some sort of sex life.

[catweazle]

The ONE bonus of cold hands is visiting a new massage shop if the masseuse clocks they're cold and invites you to warm them up on her body.

Absolutely!!!!

[Watts.E.Dunn]

I'm seeing a girl (Katie) for a BJ and sometimes outside doggy sometimes anal car meet (probably filmed on my dash cam , I'll check ) TBH I could be shagging a sex doll or a robot but it works for me and keep my mind off the women at work.

I dread the day when I'm too old to do this? How old is too old? I know people in their 70s and 80s who are still having some sort of sex life.

Thats half the contents of this forum now!..

[Doc Holliday]

Can I ask what have you found to replace it with? Love, enlightenment, family, alcohol, drugs or...........?

Interesting question. The full answer is a little complex and very specific to my personal circumstances.

What I can say is that during my first period of punting circa 2003/2006 I was in a totally different world. Circa 50, recently widowed, very fit and active, with a well paid (albeit stressful) occupation. Punting fulfilled many things back then and I enjoyed it, although in hindsight it became overly prolific.

None of them now apply. I’m much older, retired, limited by a worn out body etc. Also I in a loving (and sexual) relationship again, grandchildren etc.

I fell off the wagon to maybe prove the “once a punter always a punter” cliché for a while in 2019. That may have continued had Covid not happened? I will never know, but having interrupted the relapse, I currently think it unlikely I will resume again?

Unlike the first time it is no longer something of significant importance in my life, but rather just a little bit extra ... so to answer your question I don't really feel the need to find anything to replace it with.

[Doc Holliday]

Bearing in mind Doc's medical background, I should imagine probably all five of those?

No alcohol for many years and still 'touch wood' drug free ...... despite the worn out body 

[winkywanky]

At some point the drugs may come in good use again 

[winkywanky]

(But obvs in a controlled manner, befitting of a member of the medical profession  ).