DFK/French kissing - What’s the obsession?

[Atrueyorkie]

So with quite a lot FS reviews I’d say half you’ll get “does she do DFK”. I’m looking to understand why it appears to be almost a fundamental “tick box” service for punters.

What entices you to want this service? Curious.

Personally I don’t, fk or even DFK a WG. It’s a no for me and had to swerve the one time it almost happened. I’m trying to fathom does this enhance the service for you guys?

[southcoastpunter]

 does this enhance the service for you guys?

surely it must do otherwise why would they ask. But I also don't see the major attraction in it!

DFK, anal and "able to take a good pounding" all seem to be more modern additions to punters "must do" list of services - although there will always be differences.

[Colston36]

This French saying saves a lot of speculation: chacun a son gout. The English equivalent is each to his own. I like French kissing cunts. But I would be amazed if what turns you on interests me - and vice versa. You might be appalled; I would probably be bored.

[ik8133]

Starting straight off with DFK is a turn-off for me.  There has to be kissing in a punt for me, starting of slow and sensual, if to progresses to DFK or FK fine, but there has to be a build up.

[poundstock]

I’m not into tongue down the throat but I quite like a decent snog, if it’s on offer, to get the ball rolling.

[standardpostage]

I like it 
Don't know why 
I just do.

[signy]

For me, it's a bit of a madeleine. Takes me straight back to my teenage years snogging for hours (or so it seemed).

[lillythesavage]

With my regulars from CL it is a given and was from the start, never asked for and none with smelly bits the seeking crowd are currently moaning about. 

This makes choosing an AW punt difficult and I probably would not be bothered about it, different strokes for different folks as always.

It does make things more natural and flowing though, which again makes AW a difficult choice.

[Ron89]

Rarely do it unless I’m very attracted. It’s the equivalent to me sucking off her previous clients from a hygiene perspective, which I don’t like the idea of.

[Atrueyorkie]

Rarely do it unless I’m very attracted. It’s the equivalent to me sucking off her previous clients from a hygiene perspective, which I don’t like the idea of.

This is me.

As soon as I get into the punt I just think she was sucking someone else’s dick and I can’t kiss. Or the thought of them unloading in their mouth.

A regular I’ve seen I was so close to as imo she’s stunning but then I quickly remind myself why I don’t.

Off putting for me but I can see why some do, the intimacy aspect?

[MissWolf]

I’m not into tongue down the throat but I quite like a decent snog, if it’s on offer, to get the ball rolling.

This is exactly where I stand.

I  can and will dfk but it really depends on the situation, oral hygiene,  technique etc if your idea of dfk is to open your mouth as wide as possible and ram your tongue forcibly down my throat while holding my head I  a vice like grip, like a snake on an acid trip, then dribbling into my mouth to boot, then we are not going to get along.

But if your lips do a dance with mine in a sensual way and your tongue teases mine and they tangle in passion then hell yes I'm a fan of dfk like that.

[Lucky Luciano]

It makes the meet that extra passionate,and you come away feeling that you have had a true GFE!

[Watts.E.Dunn]

A girl who does good DFK is a great shag in my i opinoin, like Scarlett and the late of this area Indian Cinnamon they were great!..

[Jimmy The Gent]

So with quite a lot FS reviews I’d say half you’ll get “does she do DFK”. I’m looking to understand why it appears to be almost a fundamental “tick box” service for punters.

What entices you to want this service? Curious.

Personally I don’t, fk or even DFK a WG. It’s a no for me and had to swerve the one time it almost happened. I’m trying to fathom does this enhance the service for you guys?

It makes me feel like a teenager again, I love it. I also find that girls that don't offer it are less passionate in the rest of the punt, although that could well be subjective.

Saliva is naturally antibacterial and antiviral, too, so I'm not bothered what she's been doing with other punters. That's why animals lick their wounds.

[Hobbit]

Having no DFK whilst having sex is like eating a burger with nothing in the bun. It's boring and passionless.

[smiths]

Having no DFK whilst having sex is like eating a burger with nothing in the bun. It's boring and passionless.

Absolutely, punting wise i know this because in my early years in the 80s kissing of any kind was rarely on offer. Passionless exactly describes how it was back then for me. AIDS being on the news all the time also didnt help at that time.

Like any service a WG offers its all personal preference obviously. Punting isnt for the squeamish in my view, its booking virtual or complete strangers who could of been doing anything with anyone very recently. For punters to decide what they want and what risks as they see them they decide to take.

[Waterhouse]

This French saying saves a lot of speculation: chacun a son gout. The English equivalent is each to his own. I like French kissing cunts. But I would be amazed if what turns you on interests me - and vice versa. You might be appalled; I would probably be bored.

Do you mean like the ones in the House of Commons?   

[Abdhal]

French kissing, is all part of GFE for me. 
This is something I look for on a likes list, for a booking.   
It has me erected a lot quicker when kissing. 
This usually helps me cum, instead of being finished off by hand. 

[Fuzzyduck]

I really enjoy kissing (women) to the point I'd say I love ir. For me it's the perfect way to start a punt.

[VolapUK]

To me it's the best way to start a punt. The first stone in the building of the bridge, so to say.

[ddddrrrrrr]

It feels good.

[JontyR]

Again I wonder if there is correlation between wanting kissing and the standard booking length for that punter?

Those who will measure their bookings in hours will probably like the build up and invest in the experience. Those who measure it in minutes will probably see it as a timewasting tactic if offered.

For me it allows for (yes ok a totally fake) level of intimacy that is what I want most of the time. This perception is probably be the case for the SPs as well, which is why plenty don't allow it.

[justdesserts]

I wonder if there is correlation between wanting kissing and the standard booking length for that punter?

I think there's something in that. I simply can't see the attraction in a 30 min pump and dump. For me it's all about a connection, which is all the more intense with a good DFK!

[Aldebaran]

With a good SP you don't just buy sex, you buy 30 minutes or an hour of fantasy. FK or DFK is part of the fantasy that says she's really enjoying the sex with you and not just doing it for the money. Of course, we all know that without the money she wouldn't do it with you at all, but a good GFE has to include decent kissing or it's simply not a good GFE. The best WGs convince you that they are really into you.
Then again, I remember the days when no SP would kiss. The first time one did snog me I was very taken aback. The first time one spontaneously gave me OWO I thought I'd died and gone to heaven, it was so rare back then.

[hendrix]

Having no DFK whilst having sex is like eating a burger with nothing in the bun. It's boring and passionless.

I don't eat carbs, so always have the burger without the bun 

Dfk is not a service I'm remotely interested in. I used to do it (along with RO) but binned both some time ago as I get no pleasure from it.

[Jimmy The Gent]

Then again, I remember the days when no SP would kiss. The first time one did snog me I was very taken aback. The first time one spontaneously gave me OWO I thought I'd died and gone to heaven, it was so rare back then.

I blame Pretty Woman. As if you wouldn't kiss a prime Richard Gere!

[tp69]

Just got back from an hour long snog fest and one of the most passionate sessions with a reg I've had. Actually, it's the first time I've ever only had 1 round in an hour but time somehow just disappeared.

First time I saw her she only kissed with lips, whereas now it's full snogging and pretty sure it's mutual unless she's an Oscar winning actress (which I will always allow the possibility of).

I only kiss girls I'm very attracted to though, so very few of my punts involve snogging.

[BollywoodBoy235]

Personally I’ve had a session with DFK and without

Just seems the connection was much better in the DFK booking so would prefer my bookings to follow this path, if a bad experience was to arise, I guess I would be happy to reassess at that point

[sparkus]

Enjoy it with regs but as well as I should really.

Anyone else no way.  Actually I have gone through with punts I shouldn't as the SP has ended up being some old bag and they always want a snog with a younger bloke 

[Malvolio]

It's something you can do for a lot of time during the punt (as opposed to CIM) - and I like the GFE, which to my mind should come with plenty of DFK.

I think you do need to be able to put out of your mind what the WG has been doing earlier in the day to fully enjoy it, which fortunately is something I can do.

[Drayki]

If it’s not on the sp’s like list then I avoid it, dfk is all part of the punt for me, whether it’s slow and sensual or full on tongue down the throat stuff 

[SpaceRaiderDave]

French kissing, is all part of GFE for me. 

I punt because I'm in a sexless marriage. I look back fondly to those days when I had girlfriends on tap and so I now pay for something that can get close to those wonderful experiences. In the last 5 or 6 years Seeking Arrangement has provided these thrills but when I see a wg the best sessions and the wgs I sewe more than once are those that include passionate kissing as part of the service. 

[WelshClipper]

Very simply, it gets me aroused and can literally make me cum in a normal amount of time. I don’t “need” DFK but boy oh boy does it make everything else work better.

The number of reviews that state ‘I struggled to cum so finished with a hand job’  or  ‘She was wanking me furiously as soon as I arrived to get me to cum’

What these punters and escorts don’t (in my opinion) realise is DFK helps a man to cum. 

All subjectively my point of view of course 

[Stevelondon]

I’ll go along with Colston on this one.
Everyone is different and we all enjoy different things.

What I can never understand is why folk write things like,
“I don’t know why some punters want this it that”

As if the things they want or enjoy are the only things important and all that matters.
Get over yourselves 

[Atrueyorkie]

Interesting viewpoints, I’ve read them all.

I’m usually very vanilla so no particular likes just hope she isn’t a train wreck which is always a gamble in this scene.

I see it floats the boat and gives a gfe experience 

[jeanphillipe]

While I do love fk and dfk I have yet to do it with an S.P . I think I may have done it once. Damn memory is a blur. But as a rule of thumb I'm a bit squeamish. 

As somone mentioned above the thought of previous punter activities puts me off.

[Rapha]

I won't see a WG unless she genuinely does FK & gets into it. I just like the intimacy & it gets me really hard. I like a raunchy GFE, & i find plenty of Fk whilst I'm fingering her & she's wanking me is incredibly hot & leads to a really hot meet.

Horses for courses etc...

[Munter84]

As soon as I get into the punt I just think she was sucking someone else’s dick and I can’t kiss. Or the thought of them unloading in their mouth.

Well hell, if you're going down that train of thought, why not start imagining every square inch of her that has been jizzed on at some point, or doing some back-of-an-envelope calculations about the odds of her having a dormant STI at any given time? Talk about a mood killer.

For me DFK is a near-essential part of making a connection and getting the juices flowing so to speak... I know some guys are there just for the penetration but that just wouldn't work for me at all, seems far too sterile and impersonal. Absolute respect to the guys who rock up to a 15 min P&D already hard and unload in 10 minutes flat, but I'm absolutely in the leisurely GFE camp.

[meptalon]

Starting straight off with DFK is a turn-off for me.  There has to be kissing in a punt for me, starting of slow and sensual, if to progresses to DFK or FK fine, but there has to be a build up.

And this is real French kissing... The "tongue rape" some call French kiss is brutal and a total cultural opposite

[Stevelondon]

Well hell, if you're going down that train of thought, why not start imagining every square inch of her that has been jizzed on at some point, or doing some back-of-an-envelope calculations about the odds of her having a dormant STI at any given time? Talk about a mood killer.

For me DFK is a near-essential part of making a connection and getting the juices flowing so to speak... I know some guys are there just for the penetration but that just wouldn't work for me at all, seems far too sterile and impersonal. Absolute respect to the guys who rock up to a 15 min P&D already hard and unload in 10 minutes flat, but I'm absolutely in the leisurely GFE camp.

Spot on.

I also find the OP title to be total crap. I enjoy kissing. It’s not an obsession

[Atrueyorkie]

Spot on.

I also find the OP title to be total crap. I enjoy kissing. It’s not an obsession

“ For me DFK is a near-essential part” - so does that not link up with the definition of obsession?

Obsession doesn’t necessarily instantly have a negative connotation

Why does a title instantly offend you just because you don’t agree with it. There’s been numerous replies and it seems your the only one thus far who’s taken it to heart.

The question mark is asking, not telling. I’d be different if Phrased it as a statement but I also expanded in the initial message also.

The intention, if read properly, was to get the thoughts of punters on the topic. If you feel attacked or offended you might want to think why you feel that way.

[shed]

“ For me DFK is a near-essential part” - so does that not link up with the definition of obsession?

Obsession doesn’t necessarily instantly have a negative connotation

Why does a title instantly offend you just because you don’t agree with it. There’s been numerous replies and it seems your the only one thus far who’s taken it to heart.

The question mark is asking, not telling. I’d be different if Phrased it as a statement but I also expanded in the initial message also.

The intention, if read properly, was to get the thoughts of punters on the topic. If you feel attacked or offended you might want to think why you feel that way.

Ignore them mate, move on

[rellz14]

i've never kissed an escort and never even thought about it

one tried but i swiftly swerved..

[Payyourwaymate]

i've never kissed an escort and never even thought about it

one tried but i swiftly swerved..

Oh yeah? Member since July 2015 with no reviews but you're out here dodging the women hmmm? Tell us more you legend.

[willie loman]

as a general rule, working girls who snog, will tend to be better at the job than non kissers, i totally accept that its not an easy thing to do, personally its not a deal breaker, but with the right girls its quite fun,

[lillythesavage]

as a general rule, working girls who snog, will tend to be better at the job than non kissers, i totally accept that its not an easy thing to do, personally its not a deal breaker, but with the right girls its quite fun,

Becoming a habit agreeing with you 

[tp69]

as a general rule, working girls who snog, will tend to be better at the job than non kissers, i totally accept that its not an easy thing to do, personally its not a deal breaker, but with the right girls its quite fun,

I can't think of a single punt I've had with a non-kisser that I wouldn't go back and switch for any of the kissers. They're simply hotter, raunchier, more intimate sessions. I'm sure there are exceptions out there, but all the kissers I've seen tend to get fully into the session rather than going through the motions of the job.

[Haderach]

For me, it's a bit of a madeleine. Takes me straight back to my teenage years snogging for hours (or so it seemed).

I can agree with this thought, the whole teen snogging thing is a memory that has stuck with me for years. The better the kissing the better the punt for me over ever other service.

[myothernameis]

I love dfk, and one escort I had seen in Glasgow, Sexy Sami was full on the minute you got in the door.

She would throw you on to the bed fully clothed, and jump on you, and begin to deep French kiss you.  While she is kissing you, she is using her hands to undress you, and she soon moves down to suck your cock

[Henchmanlet95]

It makes the punt more realistic/intimate IMO so it feels like you're not even shagging an escort.

That being said I'm not obsessed with DFK and it's not necessary for me, I've had great punts without it.

It is a nice bonus though, if a fit bird starts snogging my face off I'm not gonna say no lol.