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Offline Joelawerence

Hi guys, I require your advice on how to last longer. I can last quite long (at least 30 mins) while receiving oral but when it comes to penetration I hardly last 2 or 3 mins. I have tried many things fom using more lube to changing position frequently to changing my thoughts, etc  but still the same. I also can have only one pop in a day so that means I am having to do prolonged oral and go for penetration only at the very end.

It would be great to get any suggestions on how to last longer during intercourse. Is there any condom or any technique that has helped you guys?  :drinks:

Offline londonroad

I am a mature punter. In my youth I would cum far too quickly but now I am older I last much longer. So whilst getting older has some disadvantages -  I have found one ‘big’ bonus!

Offline Happylad

You can purchase several different "delaying" creams or sprays which you apply to your bell-end immediately before intercourse and which simply desensitize it for a short time.  If you are "uncut" then you could pull back your foreskin and keep it retracted as a permanent feature which will also slightly desensitize your knob.

I was a bit "trigger happy" when I first started "wenching", but after I had kept my foreskin retracted for a few months I had no more trouble and during 50 years of happy marriage with a woman who regularly liked 3 or 4 orgasms at a time I learned to pace myself.  Latterly, until ill health put a stop to my punting I was able to keep going for up to an hour before `letting go`

Online Charliehutton

I take Tadalafil (Cialis) because I'm impotent without it, but a happy side effect is that it's given me a staying power way beyond anything in my youth. Might be worth a go, even if you don't need it for impotence.

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Offline Dopedj

use a thicker condom
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Durex extra safe condoms
Excellent for lasting longer

Online Moby Dick

Wish I could come quick, takes longer as you get older, plus less of a thrill the more you punt.

I would plan your bookings with SP who have unlimited cums.
Get the first heaviest load on her face within the first 15minutes, and then take your time in her pussy or arse.

Otherwise have a wank before you go, but that is a waste when you could give a good facial.

I wouldn’t advise holding back since I feel that is why I now take so long to cum.

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Get the first heaviest load on her face within the first 15minutes, and then take your time in her pussy or arse.



 :lol: :lol: :lol: Terrific stuff, MD. I've got you booked as a guest on the next episode of 'Loose Women'.

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:lol: :lol: :lol: Terrific stuff, MD. I've got you booked as a guest on the next episode of 'Loose Women'.

Your welcome, but no thanks, I prefer/need younger tight ones to come quicker! :D

Offline Zak67

Find a woman with a fanny like a Wizards sleeve
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Offline freeze44

edging works for me and if feel the sap rising before want it to, will stop and do ro or whatever to delay things...makes the end result a real gud un esp if delivering a facial to the lucky girl!!  :D

Offline S.X. MacHine

Your welcome, but no thanks, I prefer/need younger tight ones to come quicker! :D

There was a young man from Brighton,
Who said to his gal ‘that’s a tight ‘un’,
She said ‘pon my soul,
You’re in the wrong hole,
Try putting it into the right ‘un.

Hope this helps....

Offline jok32

I've found that since I've started punting outside of AW (mostly amateurs and civvies), if I've had a few goes in the preceding 2 (or more) days, the next day I'll be lasting much longer for the first go of the day (which normally is seconds for me with vaginal sex, or minutes with oral).
Meds on the other hand haven't nearly worked as well, neither have thicker condoms

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Hi guys, I require your advice on how to last longer.

Try being my ex,s  OH....that would work.

Offline Babu

Avoid positions that make you cum quick, for me that’s mish.

Concentrate more on foreplay rather than penetration and learn to control your pelvic floor.

Most importantly - don’t dwell on it. If you think about it too much it might be a self fulfilling prophecy.

Online scutty brown

Its all in the mind
Just imagine you're shagging Diane Abbott, that will slow things down

Offline Bonker

If that didn't work, think of Jeremy Corbyn

Offline Zak67

If that didn't work, think of Jeremy Corbyn

Diane Abbott is probably s better option
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Offline getsbettereverytime

Its all in the mind
Just imagine you're shagging Diane Abbott, that will slow things down

arrrrgh I feel sick now.

Offline HarryZZ

Just embrace it, and remember what you're there for. You're not there to pleasure her you're there to get your rocks off, the idea of worrying that you might blow your load early and then worrying about it before, during and after suggests you're over thinking it. Sure if it was your girlfriend or wife and she was constantly disappointed with performance then you'd need to sort it out but the SP you've booked probably doesn't care if you cum once or twice, if she climaxes, if you cum in the first 5 minutes or the last, she just wants her money and has probably seen 100 blokes that lose their load before they've pulled it out of their pants. Just don't worry about it, book shorter punts, have a wank a few hours before you punt or just accept that in a standard 30 minute, one shot punt there'll be 5 minutes of chat, greeting and paying, 25 minutes of shagging and a few seconds of cumin, just do it in a different order, cum and then play with her tits for a couple of minutes while you get interested again and fuck her for the rest of the punt, if you don't cum again what have you lost?

However, if you want to last longer, in my youth I would adopt distraction techniques, thinking of something else, often nasty things like the opening scenes of Saving Private Ryan, also mathematics, trying to do my 17 times table, these all had some success but also withdrawing and nipping the end of your todger worked I think I read that somewhere long before the internet but: External Link/Members Only

Offline Joelawerence

Thanks for all the advice guys  :drinks:

Some of the suggestions I have tried already to no avail. I guess my main issue from the look of things is I am uncut and my foreskin doesn't retract back fully, so my sensation seems to be higher. But the strange thing is I cal last ages with oral, it's just the penetration that the issues is  :dash:

Offline Joelawerence

You can purchase several different "delaying" creams or sprays which you apply to your bell-end immediately before intercourse and which simply desensitize it for a short time.  If you are "uncut" then you could pull back your foreskin and keep it retracted as a permanent feature which will also slightly desensitize your knob.

I was a bit "trigger happy" when I first started "wenching", but after I had kept my foreskin retracted for a few months I had no more trouble and during 50 years of happy marriage with a woman who regularly liked 3 or 4 orgasms at a time I learned to pace myself.  Latterly, until ill health put a stop to my punting I was able to keep going for up to an hour before `letting go`

Thanks dude. Do you have any suggestions for the delaying cream/spray?

I can never keep my foreskin fully retracted even when fully aroused and probably why I have more sensation. Do you have any suggestions for that other than circumcision?

Offline Joelawerence

I take Tadalafil (Cialis) because I'm impotent without it, but a happy side effect is that it's given me a staying power way beyond anything in my youth. Might be worth a go, even if you don't need it for impotence.

I once tried generic viagra but it had the opposite effect for me where I can quickly even with Oral. Is Tadalafil different to Viagra? I don't really need for impotence as I am in mid thirties now.

Offline Doc Holliday

But the strange thing is I can last ages with oral, it's just the penetration that the issues is  :dash:

That in itself isn't that unusual although only lasting a few minutes with penetration in comparison to much longer with oral maybe is?

It is quite likely you find penetration more cerebrally stimulating, but also the 'thrusting' nature of penetration is quite a different stimulus to oral and could account for it too?

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Offline Payyourwaymate

Control your breathing, you would find in an excited state your breathing is faster when aroused which can help leading to finishing quickly. Slow down your breathing and take deeper breaths. Has worked for me, although a sample size of 1 is not helpful but it might help.

Offline Tonyg

relax, and dont worry about it
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Offline Ali Katt

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Hi guys, I require your advice on how to last longer. I can last quite long (at least 30 mins) while receiving oral but when it comes to penetration I hardly last 2 or 3 mins. I have tried many things fom using more lube to changing position frequently to changing my thoughts, etc  but still the same. I also can have only one pop in a day so that means I am having to do prolonged oral and go for penetration only at the very end.

It would be great to get any suggestions on how to last longer during intercourse. Is there any condom or any technique that has helped you guys?  :drinks:
There isn't a cure. Maybe some things will help, but it goes back to nature. I would worry more if you find the sex or the overall experience unsatisfying.

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Have you never heard of having a tactical wank ?

If you have left this too late, where it might be a disastrous choice, think of CuntCorbyn shagging Labour's Chief Mathematician 

If that doesn't work think of some of the 'beauties' that HP has put on here

Problem solved  :lol:

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Have you never heard of having a tactical wank ?

If you have left this too late, where it might be a disastrous choice, think of CuntCorbyn shagging Labour's Chief Mathematician 

If that doesn't work think of some of the 'beauties' that HP has put on here

Problem solved  :lol:
:lol: I tried that once I thought of roadkill I had seen on the motorway. It was too effective I had to be finished off by hand in the end.

Online webpunter

It is a fine balancing act

A hand finish usually solves the problem

If things get really bad on the odd occasion i've had to take over & get the burd to tickle my balls & do some perineum teasing at the same time

Then like the 4 * 100m it all comes down to the 'baton change' as to whether you manage to get it over the line

As in not under your own steam

:lol: I tried that once I thought of roadkill I had seen on the motorway. It was too effective I had to be finished off by hand in the end.

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It is a fine balancing act

A hand finish usually solves the problem

If things get really bad on the odd occasion i've had to take over & get the burd to tickle my balls & do some perineum teasing at the same time

Then like the 4 * 100m it all comes down to the 'baton change' as to whether you manage to get it over the line

As in not under your own steam
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Offline rocket88

Its all in the mind
Just imagine you're shagging Diane Abbott, that will slow things down

I wouldn't be able to get a hard on in the first place!

Online webpunter

I like to think i'm quite skilled in that dept

Overall = borderline positive, the end justifies the means

Would i recommend = NO, unless absolutely essential

Would i revisit = YES, unfortunately at some point in time [usually when wasted]

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I like to think i'm quite skilled in that dept

Overall = borderline positive, the end justifies the means

Would i recommend = NO, unless absolutely essential

Would i revisit = YES, unfortunately at some point in time [usually when wasted]
It's a reference to the video game website Steam. Two tiers they use to rate games based on reviews.

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Offline Happylad

Thanks dude. Do you have any suggestions for the delaying cream/spray?

I can never keep my foreskin fully retracted even when fully aroused and probably why I have more sensation. Do you have any suggestions for that other than circumcision?

Try Amazon, or Lovehoney, or menstoyshub for a selection of sprays, creams etc,.  As for the foreskin, just keep on pulling it back until it finally gets the idea - it`s probably a little on the tight side, which may partly be the reason for your problem, but it will stretch eventually

Offline Anadin

When it comes to punting I don't really want to last longer. Better on my wallet that I don't. That being said cumming the day before almost always works for me.

Offline wristjob

Hi guys, I require your advice on how to last longer. I can last quite long (at least 30 mins) while receiving oral but when it comes to penetration I hardly last 2 or 3 mins. I have tried many things fom using more lube to changing position frequently to changing my thoughts, etc  but still the same. I also can have only one pop in a day so that means I am having to do prolonged oral and go for penetration only at the very end.

It would be great to get any suggestions on how to last longer during intercourse. Is there any condom or any technique that has helped you guys?  :drinks:

First time with a new partner if I just ram it in I can come in no time. What works for me is 15+ mins of oral beforehand but that doesn't seem to work great for you. On some hour bookings I've seriously overdone the oral to the extent that my cock starts to lose sensitivity and I find it hard to finish. trying the same girl a few times could help

What I do a lot now is take a small cialis (5-10mg) and go for a CIM on the first pop. The cialis tends to let me recover quickly, instantly sometimes, and then do penetration which is pretty controlled and usually hard to finish.

You can also try taking it slow, pulling your cock out after a few strokes and running it along her clit on the outside or maybe going down. You are there for your benefit not hers so if you want to do stuff that seems pointless but helps delay things it's your right.


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You've still lost me

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You've still lost me
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As in not under your own steam

Come on it can't all be cheap nob gags and gay banter, we need some semi-obscure pop culture references.

Online webpunter

Indeed we do  :thumbsup:

Finding a male masseur to wank you off should have the desired effect

Lasting longer = no problemo

Edit:  Pet Shop Boys ?  :lol:
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Indeed we do  :thumbsup:

Finding a male masseur to wank you off should have the desired effect

Lasting longer = no problemo

Edit:  Pet Shop Boys ? :lol:
I prefer Backstreet Boys.


Offline Punterperson1971

For me I take some poppers and the regular I see uses a cock ring or a long shoe lace tied round my shaft and balls,it does work it stops the urge to cum for a while I was surprised when she suggested it.

Offline Doc Holliday

..the regular I see uses a long shoe lace tied round my shaft and balls,

It pulls like hell on your scrotum though when you forget and take a step forward.

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Fortacin works but it is expensive it used to be £20 but now has rocketed in price
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Offline Punterperson1971

It pulls like hell on your scrotum though when you forget and take a step forward.
It’s not that bad and it works

Offline uncle jessie

Its all in the mind
Just imagine you're shagging Diane Abbott, that will slow things down

Steady on,he only wanted to last longer .Not to become totally impotent !  :D .

Offline bojo2k8

EMLA cream. It's a topical anaesthetic. Bit extreme but works well for me. Just make sure you wash it off before...

Offline Bonker

It pulls like hell on your scrotum though when you forget and take a step forward.

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