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Offline Fat Bob

MollySwedish advises on her profile...sorry, I will no longer entertain severe or morbidly obese gentlemen.  External Link/Members Only

I wonder if she will have bathroom scales so that I can do a pre-punt weigh-in to demonstrate that I'm not punching below my punting weight?  I do hope Molly will allow me to wear my sweat suit for 30 minutes before the punt if the weigh-in reveals that I marginally fall into the non-punting category.:crazy:

Offline tynetunnel

MollySwedish advises on her profile...sorry, I will no longer entertain severe or morbidly obese gentlemen.  External Link/Members Only

I wonder if she will have bathroom scales so that I can do a pre-punt weigh-in to demonstrate that I'm not punching below my punting weight?  I do hope Molly will allow me to wear my sweat suit for 30 minutes before the punt if the weigh-in reveals that I marginally fall into the non-punting category.:crazy:
That’s one I need to cross off my hot list then!  :cry:

Offline Springoid

MollySwedish advises on her profile...sorry, I will no longer entertain severe or morbidly obese gentlemen.  External Link/Members Only

I wonder if she will have bathroom scales so that I can do a pre-punt weigh-in to demonstrate that I'm not punching below my punting weight?  I do hope Molly will allow me to wear my sweat suit for 30 minutes before the punt if the weigh-in reveals that I marginally fall into the non-punting category.:crazy:

She added that to her profile the day I was going to book her, it’s like she could see into the future!

Offline Ali Katt

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All of the advice about asking in advance and ensuring your hygiene is spot on.

Depending on your size, I would also be prepared for some limitations of service. 

Not necessarily through any fault of your own or the WG, but sometimes fitting together can be an issue no matter what position you try.

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Is this really true? I've been with women that weigh upwards of 15 stone and no position has been impossible; a bigger issue for me is if they are less than 5' tall. Agree some people fit together better though.

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She added that to her profile the day I was going to book her, it’s like she could see into the future!
Maybe she reached her tipping point.

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Is this really true? I've been with women that weigh upwards of 15 stone and no position has been impossible; a bigger issue for me is if they are less than 5' tall. Agree some people fit together better though.

It can depend I suppose on sizes elsewhere tbh.

I have seen clients who carry their weight on their stomach and aren't overly blessed in the trousers.  And as I am overly blessed in the belly and bum so it's been impossible to make contact in any position.

Less of a problem if the OP is going after a more svelte lady but CG can still be an issue when it comes to straddling larger gents and there is the aforementioned worry about being underneath a bigger guy in mish.

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It can depend I suppose on sizes elsewhere tbh.

I have seen clients who carry their weight on their stomach and aren't overly blessed in the trousers.  And as I am overly blessed in the belly and bum so it's been impossible to make contact in any position.

Less of a problem if the OP is going after a more svelte lady but CG can still be an issue when it comes to straddling larger gents and there is the aforementioned worry about being underneath a bigger guy in mish.

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Thanks for the reply Lizzie. It's probably not an issue for me with larger girls as I have the body of a teenage boy.

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Thanks for the reply Lizzie. It's probably not an issue for me with larger girls as I have the body of a teenage boy.

Haha I think the level of difficulty is based on the average of both (or all!) bodies. 

The slimmer one is the heavier the other can be... I feel the need to do some scientific research into this...

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Offline Springoid

It can depend I suppose on sizes elsewhere tbh.

I have seen clients who carry their weight on their stomach and aren't overly blessed in the trousers.  And as I am overly blessed in the belly and bum so it's been impossible to make contact in any position.

Less of a problem if the OP is going after a more svelte lady but CG can still be an issue when it comes to straddling larger gents and there is the aforementioned worry about being underneath a bigger guy in mish.

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Lizzie.  As a gentleman who carries his weight on his  stomach and isn’t overly blessed in the trousers, I think it is my civic duty to help you find a position that would work for us both, that you can use professionally in the future.

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Lizzie.  As a gentleman who carries his weight on his  stomach and isn’t overly blessed in the trousers, I think it is my civic duty to help you find a position that would work for us both, that you can use professionally in the future.

You are a gentleman indeed!  Business hours are 10am to 6pm Monday to Friday  :D

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Offline Bonker

How do you know if SP will see heavier guys?

Check if there's a forklift trick in the drive.

Sorry could not resist. I'm overweight myself.

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Is this really true? I've been with women that weigh upwards of 15 stone and no position has been impossible; a bigger issue for me is if they are less than 5' tall. Agree some people fit together better though.

I think it depends, I've never had an issue with heavier clients and I am obviously a BBW myself, but I think without realising you find certain positions more likely to happen. For example, I don't think a really heavy man has ever attempted missionary with me and I would gravitate towards cowgirl or reverse cowgirl if they were really big, because I know personally that is what works. Also I think if someone was really large and had an overhanging stomach and wasn't well endowed, standing up BJ would be nigh on impossible, but you just gently lead the booking in a direction where the client gets what they need without drawing attention to the fact that certain things won't work.

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I think it depends, I've never had an issue with heavier clients and I am obviously a BBW myself, but I think without realising you find certain positions more likely to happen. For example, I don't think a really heavy man has ever attempted missionary with me and I would gravitate towards cowgirl or reverse cowgirl if they were really big, because I know personally that is what works. Also I think if someone was really large and had an overhanging stomach and wasn't well endowed, standing up BJ would be nigh on impossible, but you just gently lead the booking in a direction where the client gets what they need without drawing attention to the fact that certain things won't work.
Rather bizarrely I've had big girls outside escorting who thought they would break me by going on top, which is just silly.

I think with sex in general if you don't know the person you are sort of figuring out what works and what doesn't and hopefully pushing each other to get the best out of one another.

You were saying about standing BJ, Buster Bloodvessel from the band Bad Manners apparently used to rest his belly on groupie's heads.
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whilst im happy to try any position with bigger men i do find me being on top hard sometimes esp if they have a small sausage, without being crude, small sausage and large gut= impossible to find it !

I struggle to fit over larger legs sometimes, i find doggy the easiest!
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Offline Springoid

You are a gentleman indeed!  Business hours are 10am to 6pm Monday to Friday  :D

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Offline bbwandy72

Rather bizarrely I've had big girls outside escorting who thought they would break me by going on top, which is just silly.
Indeed. I've heard that several times, and it's just not even close to being true. I've been with some truly massive women (20 stone+) and it's never been a problem. The only issue I've had is occasionally being smothered while in 69. But cowgirl? Bring it on, regardless of size.

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Indeed. I've heard that several times, and it's just not even close to being true. I've been with some truly massive women (20 stone+) and it's never been a problem. The only issue I've had is occasionally being smothered while in 69. But cowgirl? Bring it on, regardless of size.
Andy, if you don't mind me asking are you a big guy or a thin guy?

Offline bbwandy72

Andy, if you don't mind me asking are you a big guy or a thin guy?
Somewhere in the middle (I'm overweight, but not massive).

Offline myothernameis

I'm a very overweight guy.

How over weight are you, I'm around 18 stones, at one time two years ago, was 15 stone, lost weight by going to the gym

My weight is in certain areas, like the stomach, and round my face, even these days the weight hides my cock, due to body fat

Offline puntlover1

I am quite big. Often, I am the biggest guy in the room. I have never had an SP turn me down or even make me suspect that she is not attracted to me. I have had more than a few girls tell me that I am one of their favorite clients because I am clean, polite, reliable and funny. I have had more than a few girls go out of their way to accommodate me when they know that I'd like to see them. I have had more than a few girls provide me with services (at no extra cost) that they do not advertise and which they say they don't really do with punters (rimming, CIM, swallow, extra time etc).

Now, I realize you cannot really trust what an SP says, but I am not stupid and I can tell when someone is genuinely fond of me and when they aren't, but you can tell when you click with someone and I usually click with most girls, particularly the ones in their mid-twenties on wards.

As for positions, I try to avoid positions where all my weight would be pushing down on the girl. I stick to standing missionary (is that what it's called?) where I stand on the floor and the girl lies on the bed, with her arse hanging off the side. I find that it allows me to thrust away as hard/slow and deep/shallow as i like, without my weight being an issue. Also, doggy is great, particularly if I stand whilst the girl bends over on the bed. No issues there. Cowgirl is also always fine.

I would add that I was also on SA and I ended up sleeping with every girl I met, without any money being exchanged on some occasions, so if you are fat or heavy or a chunky bastard, you can make up for it with a little charm and personality....oh, and money. That always helps. You should try to be more secure about your size - women can sense insecurity and confidence is always a huge turn on.

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....I usually click with most girls, particularly the ones in their mid-twenties on wards.
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I am quite big. Often, I am the biggest guy in the room. I have never had an SP turn me down or even make me suspect that she is not attracted to me. I have had more than a few girls tell me that I am one of their favorite clients because I am clean, polite, reliable and funny. I have had more than a few girls go out of their way to accommodate me when they know that I'd like to see them. I have had more than a few girls provide me with services (at no extra cost) that they do not advertise and which they say they don't really do with punters (rimming, CIM, swallow, extra time etc).

Now, I realize you cannot really trust what an SP says, but I am not stupid and I can tell when someone is genuinely fond of me and when they aren't, but you can tell when you click with someone and I usually click with most girls, particularly the ones in their mid-twenties on wards.

As for positions, I try to avoid positions where all my weight would be pushing down on the girl. I stick to standing missionary (is that what it's called?) where I stand on the floor and the girl lies on the bed, with her arse hanging off the side. I find that it allows me to thrust away as hard/slow and deep/shallow as i like, without my weight being an issue. Also, doggy is great, particularly if I stand whilst the girl bends over on the bed. No issues there. Cowgirl is also always fine.

I would add that I was also on SA and I ended up sleeping with every girl I met, without any money being exchanged on some occasions, so if you are fat or heavy or a chunky bastard, you can make up for it with a little charm and personality....oh, and money. That always helps. You should try to be more secure about your size - women can sense insecurity and confidence is always a huge turn on.
Really good post BTW.

Offline kingmg

As long as you have a fat wallet and can see your willy under the fat