I suppose it's like all warnings, they're there for a reason and so you either take them (and go elsewhere) or ignore them (and hope for the best).
I regularly see a girl in Edinburgh with the same alert yet there is nothing at all wrong with her or her profile whatsoever! The OP did tell me the spurious background and reason to the alert against her AW profile but it was so trivial, of no value and, so much so, that I cant even remember why now.
Suggest you contact Maturedark, letting her know what you're after and when, then then slip in (no pun inteneded!) the off-putting alert and see what she says / how she responds. Thereafter, it's really up to you! Of course, you can always walk if it's a b&s and / or she doesn't agree to the services previously agreed.
