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Offline madeinwales56

There seems to be a new breed of recently signed up members who post requests for recommendations of prossies in their area or a town they are visiting imminently. The vast majority don't even bother to do their own research and simply rely on other members to do the work for them. They clearly think that this site is a subsidiary of their local Tourist Information Office or Citizens Advice Bureau.
So, in an effort to be ever so helpful may I indeed offer advice to any members who feel inclined to ask for recommendations. Search the relevant regional review board where you will find reviews on girls in your area who other members have visited. Do a search on Adultwork or UK Escorting and when you see a girl you like the look of, copy and paste her link in you post and you will no doubt attract comments from other members.
If anyone has any other advice to add please feel free.

Offline cueball

This really gets up nose

Nothing annoys me more than lads that join to just post asking for recommendations. I make sure i recommend the biggest, ugliest skanks I can find for the lazy fuckers.

They can't even be arsed to find a profile they like and do a search using the search function.

We all start somewhere on here but treating the membership like trip advisor gets up my nose.

Half the fuckers don't even report back with the recommendation they got.

So, to the lazy newbie that thinks we're all sat here just waiting to do all the leg work for you.....

put something in before you take something out.


Oh, and white knights piss me off too (that's another subject though)

Ps great subject miw 56, about time it were mentioned on the main board imo
« Last Edit: December 28, 2015, 06:12:14 pm by cueball »


Offline threechilliman

Cueball - you disappoint me. You're recommendations of 'special ladies' for newbies always make me smile. You have a knack of finding some real 'gems'....... :sarcastic:

Seriously though, it's a good subject this one. One post wonders who want you to do all the work for them really piss me off. At the end of the day there's plenty of reviews to look at but it seems they can't be arsed.

I can't be arsed making recommendations either - only to seasoned campaigners now.

tcm

Offline cueball


I can't be arsed making recommendations either - only to seasoned campaigners now.

tcm

That's me all over, if you've put fuck all in then you'll get fuck all from me

On the other hand (I think some will agree), if you've put in then you'll find no bugger more willing to help than me.


There's a way to start your posting on ukp, some get it very right and find the welcome on here is warm and friendly.
« Last Edit: December 28, 2015, 07:05:00 pm by cueball »

Offline uutarn

Yup i agree.

Being a recent new member myself, i can see the difference.
I was looking for advice, on punting in general but also on particular girls, with which i supplied links and got help... invaluable help. (<--- not blowing my own trumpet)
In fact i like doing the searching myself, its half the fun IMO.

I must admit that i have asked some questions from members in the regional board that perhaps i could have answered myself (i'm still getting used to the advanced AW search feature :() but i'm sure that was overlooked as i have contributed during my short stay here.

Back on topic though...
Simple thing to do is to not answer them i guess, or as cueball does, supply a link to a skank... there's quite a few in east england  :cry:.

Similarly, any thought to the fact that 1 post wonders are indeed touting/advertising?  :unknown:
« Last Edit: December 28, 2015, 07:33:08 pm by uutarn »

Offline socks

And i suspect that a good number are just pimps or girls linking themselves up hoping to drive driving traffic their way.

Offline madeinwales56

I think you could be right Socks. But it does piss me off when they ask for recommendations without offering any suggestions and then don't even do a review and invariably disappear without trace.

Offline uutarn

If you don't do a review, you can kiss my ass. :cool:

Why though? Why not do a review?
Makes no sense, only take like 10 mins...

Offline BP96

I tend to ignore most requests for information from anybody who hasn't posted at least one review.

Offline socks

I think you could be right Socks. But it does piss me off when they ask for recommendations without offering any suggestions and then don't even do a review and invariably disappear without trace.
Indeed and that's because they aren't in fact punters but dusty phone prossies, or pimps trying to increase their take, in I suspect, the majority of cases. Me you and uutarn against the world :drinks:

Offline madeinwales56

Indeed and that's because they aren't in fact punters but dusty phone prossies, or pimps trying to increase their take, in I suspect, the majority of cases. Me you and uutarn against the world :drinks:

And Cueball. OTBC!

Offline Bronn

As a relative newbie myself- I think it's been 6 months now, the best tip I've come across is to copy the AW code and use the search function to bring up all posts relating to that user ID.

Reading these has saved me posting requests unnecessarily, and lots of time and cash too  :thumbsup:

Cheers,

Bronn

Offline madeinwales56

As a relative newbie myself- I think it's been 6 months now, the best tip I've come across is to copy the AW code and use the search function to bring up all posts relating to that user ID.

Reading these has saved me posting requests unnecessarily, and lots of time and cash too  :thumbsup:

Cheers,

Bronn

And, hopefully, to post a few suggestions rather than just ask for recommendations.

Offline uutarn

As a relative newbie myself- I think it's been 6 months now, the best tip I've come across is to copy the AW code and use the search function to bring up all posts relating to that user ID.

Reading these has saved me posting requests unnecessarily, and lots of time and cash too  :thumbsup:

Cheers,

Bronn
Exactly.

And, hopefully, to post a few suggestions rather than just ask for recommendations.
Totally.

Offline socks

And Cueball. OTBC!
There's a lot that can be overlooked with a simple OTBC!

NMTD!

Offline madeinwales56

There's a lot that can be overlooked with a simple OTBC!

NMTD!

NMTD? You got me there mate!

vw

  • Guest
Well in the West Midlands this lady with an excellent review is always mentioned by the first responder if little effort is made, some don't even suggest services, body type, age or anything, and as they say anything here is Lil -

External Link/Members Only

Sends a clear message usually, I know Cueball is very fond of this method.

The other end of the scale is some people ask properly and get ongoing advice like

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=79156.0
« Last Edit: December 29, 2015, 12:10:34 am by vw »

Ludwig

  • Guest
There seems to be a new breed of recently signed up members who post requests for recommendations of prossies in their area or a town they are visiting imminently. The vast majority don't even bother to do their own research and simply rely on other members to do the work for them. They clearly think that this site is a subsidiary of their local Tourist Information Office or Citizens Advice Bureau.
So, in an effort to be ever so helpful may I indeed offer advice to any members who feel inclined to ask for recommendations. Search the relevant regional review board where you will find reviews on girls in your area who other members have visited. Do a search on Adultwork or UK Escorting and when you see a girl you like the look of, copy and paste her link in you post and you will no doubt attract comments from other members.
If anyone has any other advice to add please feel free.


Good post MIW - there appears to have been an increase of this recently...and it's not just newbies necessarily.  There are plenty of long-standing lurkers who spend the majority of their time bottom-hugging, occasionally rise to the surface to make a request before slinking back to the depths, giving fuck-all back to the forum.  Where practical, I always try to assess the poster's length of membership, and their rate of contribution-posts compared to their rate of request-posts before deciding whether to offer up any info (same with PMs)...unfortunately some of the members of this board act as if the forum & the rest of its membership are there for their own personal convenience...

« Last Edit: December 29, 2015, 12:15:32 am by Ludwig »

Offline socks

NMTD? You got me there mate!
That'll be the second line of the oldest football song IN THE WORLD ie never mind the danger :)

Offline Marmalade

There seems to be a new breed of recently signed up members who post requests for recommendations of prossies in their area or a town they are visiting imminently. The vast majority don't even bother to do their own research and simply rely on other members to do the work for them. They clearly think that this site is a subsidiary of their local Tourist Information Office or Citizens Advice Bureau.
So, in an effort to be ever so helpful may I indeed offer advice to any members who feel inclined to ask for recommendations. Search the relevant regional review board where you will find reviews on girls in your area who other members have visited. Do a search on Adultwork or UK Escorting and when you see a girl you like the look of, copy and paste her link in you post and you will no doubt attract comments from other members.
If anyone has any other advice to add please feel free.

This point should really go on the Punting Wiki somewhere. All I'd say before copying and pasting the link, is at least copy and paste the AW profile number into the search box first.
Like Tourist Information, some people will not post one request but list up to maybe a dozen prossies and ask for information.

Adding some whiter words, one could also point out, as I often try to do, that it is a sharing forum, and a good way to introduce yourself before asking questions is to contribute some reviews.
« Last Edit: December 29, 2015, 09:18:02 am by Marmalade »

vw

  • Guest
I refer lots of them to this on the wiki and if they come back, alls well that ends well

External Link/Members Only

Offline Marmalade

I refer lots of them to this on the wiki and if they come back, alls well that ends well

External Link/Members Only

Good link.

Offline Bronn

And, hopefully, to post a few suggestions rather than just ask for recommendations.

I would like to think that the chaps keen on a massage with extras in the NW, would say I have given a fair amount of feedback on the local scene.

I intend to keep on doing as I agree it should be a give and take process. I'm a once or twice a month punter only though!

One of the things I've come to realize on here, is that most have a lot more disposable income than me   :cry:

Cheers,

Bronn



Offline Marmalade

You're very welcome Bronn. It's integrity as a punter that makes a difference. a) having the decency to contribute when you've been benefitted; b) putting the punter first. Both of which you seem to have.

I started using punting forums on ISG. The guys there helped me in several locations abroad (it's mostly for international travel). Eventually I thought, do the decent thing and give something back. I posted a few thousand reports over the years but many of the boards for countries where I visited have been over-run by wealthy types, rather than  :yahoo: looking for value for money. I don't like to spend a lot of money on prostitutes on principle. Of course, 'not a lot of money' may be different for other people.

I contributed here originally as I admired the stamina of the people who set it up, and who had set their face against the forums dominated by prossie finances and kickbacks. I didn't learn much I didn't know already (except maybe how hard it was to set up such an online forum). As UKP got bigger however, it became the main forum. I use it now mostly for weeding out bad prospects (putting the AW number into the UKP search engine), but occasionally I read a good recommendation as well. I think punting should be a private activity, but like anything it can be helpful to share technical resource information. As you've probably gathered, it is still a constant struggle to differentiate the genuine and discerning punting community from those hangers-on that try to promote the interests of service providers. 

Offline HappyandLucky

When I had the patience I would try and be helpful or suggest they post a shortlist. Now I ignore these requests, my time is just as valuable as theirs and I don't intend to waste it  :hi:

Offline cueball

OTBC!

NMTD!

Stumped on both of them, best I've got is.....

OTBC....on the bedside cabinet

NMTD.... no more tattooed dicks

I don't think I've quite grasped it though  :dash:

Hawdit

  • Guest
I would always happily give recommendations if asked, trouble is no-one askes down here because I live in the back of beyond.  :crazy:

Why not be nice and just give a recommendation or ignore them, or are you just an arsy twat?  :diablo:

vw

  • Guest
I would always happily give recommendations if asked, trouble is no-one askes down here because I live in the back of beyond.  :crazy:

Why not be nice and just give a recommendation or ignore them, or are you just an arsy twat?  :diablo:
Best to be told why everyone is ignoring you really, this site thrives on honesty why not be honest and tell them why nobody is helping usually not gone in to specifics.

Is guiding someone to do things the right way really arsy as you call it or helping them improve as I see it !

Many then provide further info and get good recommendations after being told we are not mind readers.

Maybe you believe ignoring them will help as they can mind read and ignoring is a valid reply !
« Last Edit: December 30, 2015, 01:02:16 pm by vw »

Hawdit

  • Guest
lol I don't think the OP sounded that helpful!

yorkshire123

  • Guest
Personally I try to be as helpful as possible unless I sense a wrong un then a little bit of ribbing is the order of the day.

What really gets on my tits is when a recommendation is given the newbie then proceeds to inform you that he has seen her or she's not what he was looking for even though no criteria was given in the first place.

I believe the respectful thing to do is point them in the direction of the review section & punting wiki then gauge their response. 

Hawdit

  • Guest
Personally I try to be as helpful as possible unless I sense a wrong un then a little bit of ribbing is the order of the day.

What really gets on my tits is when a recommendation is given the newbie then proceeds to inform you that he has seen her or she's not what he was looking for even though no criteria was given in the first place.

I believe the respectful thing to do is point them in the direction of the review section & punting wiki then gauge their response.

i think that sounds like good advice

Offline cueball

 
i think that sounds like good advice

My advice to the one post askers is.... Don't click the link I provide if you're mum is watching  :D

Offline Marmalade


My advice to the one post askers is.... Don't click the link I provide if you're mum is watching  :D

In other cases I'd advise them to go to AW toolbar and click "view my prossie profile" (so we don't have to).

Offline JEH7376

Its strange, as a relatively low-frequency punter who has basically stuck to the same 2/3 girls for the last year I have only been able to make infrequent comments of a helpful nature to fellow members, but I have been glad to 'give back' on those occasions and more so when I TOFTT for the first time in over a year to provide my one review of a girl who I know has subsequently made for enjoyable meetings for at least a couple of posters (and several lurkers too, but isn't that always the way?)

vw

  • Guest
Its strange, as a relatively low-frequency punter who has basically stuck to the same 2/3 girls for the last year I have only been able to make infrequent comments of a helpful nature to fellow members, but I have been glad to 'give back' on those occasions and more so when I TOFTT for the first time in over a year to provide my one review of a girl who I know has subsequently made for enjoyable meetings for at least a couple of posters (and several lurkers too, but isn't that always the way?)
Even the low frequency can help others, you will have seen other peoples reviews and can nudge those that ask specific enquiries in the right direction even if you haven't been to see the girl.  Often I point people to specific peoples reviews as they have seen the best of their town.