Best Oral Technique

[Dr Watson 60]

Hi Guys
I need the advice of you experts on the best oral technique to give me a happy ending.  I am battling three problems I) retrograde  ejaculation due to an operation on my prostate which reduces the feeling at orgasm ii)  difficulty in reaching orgasm due to the need to use Cialis ( not getting any younger) and iii) the usual problem experienced by many that use of a condom impairs sensation. Effectively I rely on OWO with WGs I see rather than penetration. Most seem to concentrate on  vigorous wanking / sucking / deep throating which sometimes does not work for me. In some of the few porn videos I have seen the girl concentrates on licking / sucking the bell end only while using on O- ring technique gently on then shaft.  I know we are all built differently but any views on which is best given the issues I have ?  Thanks guys. 

[Sparquin]

The best advice I can give is to search out those girls who really enjoy giving oral. These, in my experience, are often older escorts who have the talents to deliver the goods. I am sure some of the forum members have recommendations: I live in the US so cannot help, but here there are escorts who make a point of their oral skills such as this one External Link/Members Only and she is very, vey good.

Vigorous wanking etc is simply the girl trying to get you off asap with no understanding of what really gets the juices flowing. I agree about the delay with Cialis, but it is usually worth the wait if you can find the right provider.

[Dr Watson 60]

Thank you. Much appreciated

[Garden69]

The best advice I can give is to search out those girls who really enjoy giving oral. These, in my experience, are often older escorts who have the talents to deliver the goods. I am sure some of the forum members have recommendations: I live in the US so cannot help, but here there are escorts who make a point of their oral skills such as this one External Link/Members Only and she is very, vey good.

Vigorous wanking etc is simply the girl trying to get you off asap with no understanding of what really gets the juices flowing. I agree about the delay with Cialis, but it is usually worth the wait if you can find the right provider.

Forgive me if I'm wrong but isn't this a predominantly UK oriented site ? That being the case why would OP seek out someone in the US ?

Anyway back to the OP.... Personally I find the attention to the bell end much more sensual and exciting. You need to find what works for you then don;t be shy/afraid to explain to the girl how you want it. After all you're paying and any WG worth her salt will comply with simple instruction on oral technique.

[Sparquin]

Forgive me if I'm wrong but isn't this a predominantly UK oriented site ? That being the case why would OP seek out someone in the US

Yes, fair point, but I simply wanted to give an illustration of the fact that some girls do make a point of their oral capabilities on their websites etc.

[daviemac]

Forgive me if I'm wrong but isn't this a predominantly UK oriented site ? That being the case why would OP seek out someone in the US ?

The OP's not seeking anyone out, he's just asking for advice, does it really matter where you're based to give such advice. Don't forget Admin's not UK based.   

+1 on what he said anyway.

[Gordon Bennett]

I'm in a very similar physical condition to OP. I have come to the conclusion that rather than futilely pursuing the ultimate blow job that'll bring me off, I've just accepted that I can't climax from oral. It's been a relief to just relax, let them suck it for a bit and move on to something else. Sorry if that sounds like a cop out of just throwing in the towel ...... I genuinely have a better experience if I'm chilled out and relaxed and not getting worked up or fretting about performing to a certain level.

[itk]

Depends what your preference is how you like to receive a bj. Personally the more spit and slower they go the better, I find anything remotely fast a turn off as I lose the feeling

[Dr Watson 60]

Thanks again guys for the input.