Do you have a regular? How often you see her?

[RedKettle]

To add to my earlier Post. It's interesting to read just how many guys get bored with a SP after three visits. How many of these Members have ever been in Long Term Relationships I wonder, or does Love conquer all? The retention period of a Regular SP is of course directly related to the availability of suitable replacements. Some posters to this thread must live near large Towns or Citys with plenty of Punting options available. Sadly, in my area, good SP's are like Gold Dust, unless touring Roms or Brazilians are your thing, so some of my Regs may be OAPs before I move on!

Some of mine were OAPs.   

[B4bcock]

Some of mine were OAPs.   

Many a fine tune, Redkettle, many a fine tune . . . .

One of my favourite regs is a grandmother, although she doesn't look it and is FAF for her age.

[Steve Jones.]

I have 3 regulars but only punt once a month so see each girl every 3 months which keeps things fresh and avoid EAS

[Beamer]

I have 3 regulars but only punt once a month so see each girl every 3 months which keeps things fresh and avoid EAS

Very sensible and workable.  I suspect that this type of timing will be the same for many punters and their regulars.

[Urban_G]

I don't have a regular as in the true definition but there is a girl I see whenever I'm in her area. I'm glad she's not local as I'd probably be broke by now plus it keeps it fresh when I do see her.

[formulajuan1]

There are some girls I would love to see again, as most other girls aren't very good at their job I find. I have seen some girls twice but I couldn't fathom paying to see a girl again and again, as it would feel like a relationship, but a phony one.

I get your point, but to me it's overstated a little. Whilst we don't visit a SP for a Relationship, to many of us the enjoyment and the quality of the sex is improved by knowing a little about each other, a little connection, if only for 60 mins. We are after all having sex with another human being, most of whom will respond positively. Better that than some SPs I've met who in "work mode" are totally unexpressive and cold. Which may explain why most of them apparently don't have Partners.

[Sparta Prada]

My definition of a regular is someone who I see at least once a month. About 4 years ago I had 3 AW girls who I saw on a monthly basis. This lasted nearly a couple of years. Then I discovered the joys of Seeking, and had regular arrangements there as well.

Currently have one regular from Seeking and one from AW. But as always there is always room for more!

[Dogfather]

I get your point, but to me it's overstated a little. Whilst we don't visit a SP for a Relationship, to many of us the enjoyment and the quality of the sex is improved by knowing a little about each other, a little connection, if only for 60 mins. We are after all having sex with another human being, most of whom will respond positively. Better that than some SPs I've met who in "work mode" are totally unexpressive and cold. Which may explain why most of them apparently don't have Partners.

I'm not sure "building a connection for better sex" is a great idea. Chances of EAS will go up a lot.
I guess some girls might give you an extra to keep you coming back but it's certainly not a "connection".

If you are going to get good sex then you will get it from the best SPs.
 
If you are lucky then a girl will just fancy you as soon as you enter the door. In which case you will get a great time no matter what.

[oldrascal]

The idea of "building a connection for better sex" relates well to my own experience.  I have had a 'regular' for more than ten years now, seeing her initially once or twice a month, but after a few years, as I was able to afford more punting cash, I was seeing her twice a week, once for a massage, and once to teach her some basic English.  Initially it was just a hand job, then RO using a cling-film barrier, then without the cling-film, and eventually, as trust developed over several years, OWO and FS.

I would say that I was not, and am not, suffering from EAS, except to the limited extent that I like her, and she clearly likes me well enough, but it remains a mutually beneficial business arrangement.  Also, if she was doing something else, I was quite happy to try other WGs

As I wound down towards retirement, it was great while I was working in London two days a week, but for my last two working years, I worked one day a week in London and one day at home, which limited my opportunities.  I now only get to see her when I'm 'allowed out' to go for a day in London, which for the last four years has only amounted to three times a year.  So I now like to try more local talent when the chance arises, sadly not as often as I'd like...…

[millbush]

Well I'm currently returning a 75% positive RR so it's nice to have dependable girl to fall back on that you are guaranteed a good time with.

[Dogfather]

The idea of "building a connection for better sex" relates well to my own experience.  I have had a 'regular' for more than ten years now, seeing her initially once or twice a month, but after a few years, as I was able to afford more punting cash, I was seeing her twice a week, once for a massage, and once to teach her some basic English.  Initially it was just a hand job, then RO using a cling-film barrier, then without the cling-film, and eventually, as trust developed over several years, OWO and FS.

I would say that I was not, and am not, suffering from EAS, except to the limited extent that I like her, and she clearly likes me well enough, but it remains a mutually beneficial business arrangement.  Also, if she was doing something else, I was quite happy to try other WGs

As I wound down towards retirement, it was great while I was working in London two days a week, but for my last two working years, I worked one day a week in London and one day at home, which limited my opportunities.  I now only get to see her when I'm 'allowed out' to go for a day in London, which for the last four years has only amounted to three times a year.  So I now like to try more local talent when the chance arises, sadly not as often as I'd like...…

So overall a loyal regular who gets some extras to keep him coming back is fair oldrascal?
I'd be interested to know, as a guess, as to how much you spent over the years on the one girl?

[GingerNuts]

Well I'm currently returning a 75% positive RR so it's nice to have dependable girl to fall back on that you are guaranteed a good time with.

Are you talking about review ratio?

[oldrascal]

Good questions, GF!  To me it seems fair, but as ever on these matters, YMMV. For most of this time period, I was no longer an employee, but acted as a consultant, with my own separate account for billing, which helped with the cost.  I also had a legacy from a work colleague who died in her mid fifties - another separate (on-line only) account.  Probably spent at least £15-20K, but would probably have spent that or more anyway if I had seen multiple others. Guess I must count myself lucky.

[oldrascal]

Oops! Sorry - I meant DF.

[millbush]

Are you talking about review ratio?

Yes although I've pending reviews.

[GingerNuts]

Yes although I've pending reviews.

You currently have 53.8% positive reviews.

Even if we looked into the future (not your current positive review ratio) you would have to have 11 straight positives to reach 75%.

a mathematician like me.

 

[Birdwatcher61]

While I, on the other hand, have had a series of Regulars. I've seen, usually, a MILF in her 40s [Stated age! ] for one or two hours GFE once a month. I kind-of like the continuity they provide.

At my age, I'm not looking for another OH; and I know that I don't particularly enjoy a session with a more nubile younger - say, under 35 - SP; I no longer have the stamina I'd love to have in the bedroom and in conversation between the various rounds of activity, I have little in common with such a  - comparatively - young lass.

I agree entirely, regular who is 45, stated age 35. But she is about to finish, so after some fun looking for a replacement, i have found a new girl after looking for 18 months. I look for the same think as Home alone a good conversation

[Dogfather]

I agree entirely, regular who is 45, stated age 35. But she is about to finish, so after some fun looking for a replacement, i have found a new girl after looking for 18 months. I look for the same think as Home alone a good conversation

A good conversation can be had for free at various other social gatherings of course.
Punting for fucking and if you can't do an hour then do a half.

If the chat is not racy then for the older gents I'd recommend those ballroom dance classes.
There used to be a shortage of guys and you get to hold a most likely younger woman for ages, and talk to them, for a lot cheaper rate! 

[shagbambi]

Usually see a regular once/twice a month. Then dabble around that, always interviewing for her replacement.  Longest a regular has lasted is 3 years.  Currently on 3 months with my new reg.  Reg is from SA, used to source from AW.  AW stopped being my main source of entertainment 3/4 years ago.

I will add that as I have gotten older,  the need to tick off most reasonable things on my bucket list has subsided.  This has meant that if I find what I like, I stick with it as I know how hard it is to find a decent girl that - has sane pricing, relaxed time keeping, good location/easy to get to, easy to book, is fit/pretty and is a dirty fuck. After that consistency is key, which too becomes a problem, as once they get comfortable they think they can mess you around, hence the rolling interview process.

[Mr_Shins]

I haven't come across much sane pricing on SA and I think arrangements lead too much to the feeling of a relationship / EAS, whereas with my regular it is a simple arrangement - I decide when to come, pay the same amount as anyone else for the period of time I book, can see whoever else I want and she has other clients too. In other words, I use her services regularly as an escort.

[Winker121]

After that consistency is key, which too becomes a problem, as once they get comfortable they think they can mess you around, hence the rolling interview process.

I've found that to be the way it works as well.

[rockharders]

I had a regular for a couple years in my earlier punting years, maybe meet twice a month if I have the time.
We had by far some of the best sex I've ever had but I was in danger of falling into EAS. I still miss her.

Unfortunately she left. Since then I havent found another girl with as good sexual chemistry as we had.

[Frankystone1]

I've been seeing my regular girl twice a week for over a year.  We become friends, know each others business.  The pros are.. she knows what I like; stress free punt; sometimes longer sessions.  It's more like having a secret GF behind the wife's back.

The cons are... sometimes the sex can become slightly dull, EAS is a problem, wgs tend to take advantage and service may start to become sloppy due to over familiarisation between each other. 

I still see her but had a massive argument of late and now shes blocked my number.  Trying my best to contact her as I know I'm suffering from the dreaded EAS I miss her.

[GingerNuts]

I've been seeing my regular girl twice a week for over a year.  We become friends, know each others business.  The pros are.. she knows what I like; stress free punt; sometimes longer sessions.  It's more like having a secret GF behind the wife's back.

The cons are... sometimes the sex can become slightly dull, EAS is a problem, wgs tend to take advantage and service may start to become sloppy due to over familiarisation between each other. 

I still see her but had a massive argument of late and now shes blocked my number.  Trying my best to contact her as I know I'm suffering from the dreaded EAS I miss her.

It seems you are. You're still talking about her in the present tense even though she's blocked you.

Let it go.

[Frankystone1]

I know  I feel really down about it.  Oh well if I dont hear from her again I'll just have to move on and get rid of this EAS.

[Dogfather]

I know  I feel really down about it.  Oh well if I dont hear from her again I'll just have to move on and get rid of this EAS.

I've put a list of "EAS recovery quotes" together if you want it?

[Frankystone1]

I've put a list of "EAS recovery quotes" together if you want it?

Yes please as I'm totally upset about it.  Thanks.

[oldfart]

Poor man, forget her!

[GingerNuts]

Poor man, forget her!

Easy for you to say. You can't even remember your last punt.

[millbush]

You currently have 53.8% positive reviews.

Even if we looked into the future (not your current positive review ratio) you would have to have 11 straight positives to reach 75%.

 

Well numbnuts how do you know I don't?  really I tire of pointing these things out to trolls and idiots like yourself.
Surely your life isn't that sad you troll through my reviews to make a point that isn't valid in any case as you're clueless(literally) as to my pending reviews.
Come on make something of yourself be a positive person you may get somewhere in what's left of your sad desperate life.
There's a million better thing to do than to troll the internet.

[GingerNuts]

how do you know I don't?

It's really irrelevant if you do. I specifically asked you if you were referring to review ratio.

Well I'm currently returning a 75% positive RR so it's nice to have dependable girl to fall back on that you are guaranteed a good time with.

You're not currently returning anywhere near a 75% positive review ratio.

[millbush]

You are ignoring this user 
You've replied how terribly predictable.
I'll give you some advice go stand infront of a mirror(ok probably not a pretty sight)and say to yourself how have I ended up using my precious time on earth trolling people pointlessly and making a complete tit of myself at the same time.
Do this every day for a week and I guarantee you will start to change your outlook.

[GingerNuts]

You are ignoring this user 
You've replied how terribly predictable.
I'll give you some advice go stand infront of a mirror(ok probably not a pretty sight)and say to yourself how have I ended up using my precious time on earth trolling people pointlessly and making a complete tit of myself at the same time.
Do this every day for a week and I guarantee you will start to change your outlook.

A strange response if you're not reading my posts and have no idea what I said and that I was replying to you.

A strange response if you are reading my posts. Allegedly you're a doctor and a mathematician. You should be used to having the clarity and facts of your statements scrutinised and be able to respond in a professional manner. Perhaps you're neither of the things you claim to be.

[Beamer]

A strange response if you're not reading my posts and have no idea what I said and that I was replying to you.

A strange response if you are reading my posts. Allegedly you're a doctor and a mathematician. You should be used to having the clarity and facts of your statements scrutinised and be able to respond in a professional manner. Perhaps you're neither of the things you claim to be.

Ignore him.
He has a history of stupid posts.
Seems he just likes to try and wind others up with idiotic comments.

[Georgejetson]

When I started punting, my ratio was about 90% new, 10% repeat.  Now, years later, it is about 50-50. If some of my favorites didn’t retire I think it would be 80% repeat, 20% new (but retirement is a given in this biz).  Has anyone gone the opposite direction, in favor of a higher percent of novelty over the years?

[pythondan]

I have had three regulars who over the years each of whom I contunued seeing until they retired from the industry. These id not overlap so I always had one "go to" girl.

 I always saw other girls as well but enjoyed regular sex with someone I really fancied and gave me the sexual experience I enjoyed. I never really became bored with any of the three girls I saw.

There are also a few girls who I would class as semi-regulars - often tourists who might only visit once every six months or so.

The sad news is that my latest regular - Frankie Scott - has just moved on to start a new career. I am on the lookout for a new reg in the Gloucestershire area but have not found any likely candidates - any recommendations for this area please let me know.

[Jerk Chicken]

I have a few regulars. Frequency tends to be circa every 6-8 weeks or so.

Huge benefits in that say by the 3rd punt I start to receive services that are not advertised for example CIM or Anal. The former for no extra dosh.

[Punterperson1971]

My regular couldn’t do last week but was pillled up with painkillers so slept over then i got a text back next day and she couldn’t apologise enough and promise of making it up,so I’m seeing her tomorrow and see what happens,I know she didn’t do it on purpose as she’s never let me down before.

[workinallweek]

There are some girls I would love to see again, as most other girls aren't very good at their job I find. I have seen some girls twice but I couldn't fathom paying to see a girl again and again, as it would feel like a relationship, but a phony one.

your paying them to not be in a relationship surely

[Collegiate]

Had what I thought was a regular. Let me down the last two bookings, one on the actual morning, and got the feeling she was waiting for something better/longer booking. I could be wrong, but that was the feeling I got. Now have another gorgeous young woman who is just as intelligent/dirty and I will see whenever I can get over to Leeds, probably once a month whilst looking for something new closer to home inbetween.

[recycler]

Just one regular who I aim to see once a month, very hot 30 year English girl who used to be in AW but went into 'semi retirement'. Still punt others when something interesting pops up.

[Southendlothario]

Did have a regular... disappeared long time ago though.
Would love to see her pop up again, great fuck, lovely woman too. Real welcoming, open minded and down to earth, always opened the door with a big smile on her face and a cheeky giggle,  genuinely made me feel welcome whenever i saw her.

[Itsnotshy]

Did have one, used to see every 2 weeks or so. That's over now, we all know why.

[manorf]

I saw Swiss Angie (Soho) most weeks for about 8 years - Blore Court, Old Comptom St. , Greens Court. I really do hope she did well with her new career - but I would be right back to see her again if ever she re-ppeared part time.

[pbrown355]

I have 2. I see at least one of them each week, sometimes both. Been seeing one for 2-3 years, the other less than that. Always short notice so if neither are available I try to find a new girl. Very rarely find anyone interesting and available in Brum. Have had similar set ups with different girls in the past. Then they retire so you hope to find another. After lockdown I'm going to stop limiting my choices by price so may get to see some new ones.

[simpleton69]

I have 3 ladies i visit around once a month for each one

[MrMatrix]

I like the idea of seeing a girl regular whom I click with and she gets to know what I like etc.

I punt weekly, sometimes if busy, 2 weekly.

So was wondering, if you have a regular "go to", how regular do you visit them? Wouldn't want the girl to think ive got a crush on her or something cos Im seeing her weekly!!

You punt weekly and sometimes twice a week yet in 4 years you've only done 7 reviews... God you could have been a gold mine of info, had you done a few more reviews...... Why havent you then

[Nigel57]

I don't punt very often, perhaps 3-4 times a year, and I've always preferred to have a regular. I've never been into chasing the next punt & looking for the holy grail.

So if I like a SP and she floats my boat I normally stick with them and like someone else said you don't have the worry about finding the place, parking, etc. Yes the thrill does vary, sometimes good, sometimes not so good, but that's life.

My biggest problem is that they keep retiring, my first regular 10-15 years ago was a glorious redhead with a wonderful curvy 1950s figure. After a couple of years she retired and eventually got married, but we still see each other every few weeks for lunch and we are great friends.

I then had a busty blonde lady for a while who I had the pleasure of eating out on her dining table, she was a bit vanilla and moved away. After that a submissive in Bedford that I saw for a long time, she was great company and very inventive - that one definitely improved with time. I had a break from her and when I tried to go back she had retired. I know she was a single parent with a boy with ADHD - he was probably coming up to an age when he would be more demanding of her time, so that may be why she retired.

Then a rom lady in Milton Keynes, where I used to go most months for work, so I would have a lunchtime hour with her. She was very enthusiastic and quite naughty in a nice way. My worked pattern changed and I believe she has retired.

Not got a regular at present, I keep promising to myself that I will stop punting and then someone catches my eye! 

[jc1971]

Hi Nigel,
I think your 'Redhead' could well be a lady I see from time to time for a coffee or a drink (entirely platonic I hasten to add)
However, until her retirement (followed by marriage) she was one of the very best SPs I ever encountered: great service followed by great conversation.

[Colston36]

I have a list of 7 I see between once a fortnight/three weeks plus 3 I see maybe less frequently. Most I have known for 3 years or more. They almost all know each other and about a third of my meetings involve two girls. I find it hard to locate new ones. The last time I tried it was a waste of time; got thrush and no satisfaction. The two times before I thought I had keepers but both were a bit dotty. Corona has saved me a small fortune!