Should a punter bring his own condoms?

[victor407]

I don't think so!

I was asked yesterday to make sure I had condoms with me. I thought what a cheeky bitch. I asked if she was joking and she was not. She said she could not be expected to cater for all sizes and she never knows how big the client will be. I told her I was 5ft 2" but that did not go down well. 

So, I said fcuk it and went to a lovely regular instead. Who not only supplies the condoms but actually makes tea too.

What do you guys think, was I unreasonable or is this just a piss take?

And honestly, why would ANY working girl want to trust a punter to bring his own condoms, there are fake condoms that are not safe and there are some twisted fuckers that would stick pins in them to spread thier HIV shit around. (No, I aint joking either)

[billyjo]

I always bring a couple with me just in case, on one punt some time ago I arrived at the wg's house only to be told she's ran out of condoms and I can do it without, when I pulled my condoms out she looked genuinely pissed off!

[potata72]

That does seem totally bizarre of her.  I do take my own Condoms with me on Punts just in case but I've never got to a punt and the WG's said they haven't got any condoms.

[The President]

I always bring a couple with me just in case, on one punt some time ago I arrived at the wg's house only to be told she's ran out of condoms and I can do it without, when I pulled my condoms out she looked genuinely pissed off!

I would of turned and run! 

[potata72]

I always bring a couple with me just in case, on one punt some time ago I arrived at the wg's house only to be told she's ran out of condoms and I can do it without, when I pulled my condoms out she looked genuinely pissed off!

Bloody hell, cares about her health then?!

[billyjo]

I would of turned and run! 

Yes it was a learning experience, next time I'll be running too!

[smiths]

Condoms are the tools of a WGs job so all should provide condoms every time.

I always have condoms on me in case i get lucky though.

[victor407]

It made me question myself and thought am I being an arse here or what.

I don't think I was, if I am paying some £100 per hour the least I expect is a few condoms supplied, for round 1, 2 and possibly no 3 too!

She will be asking to bring lube next!

[smiths]

It made me question myself and thought am I being an arse here or what.

I don't think I was, if I am paying some £100 per hour the least I expect is a few condoms supplied, for round 1, 2 and possibly no 3 too!

She will be asking to bring lube next!

Irrespective of what her fee is an off-street WG should always have condoms, its base 1 basics.

I also always take my own Lube as what some WGs supply, Durex Play isnt any good, Maximus or Pjur are far better in my experience.

[Kram]

All was should provide condoms

As a tool of the trade they are also tax deductible

[victor407]

I aint supplying jack shit.

If I go and the lovely lady has no condoms, I quickly say bye.

[victor407]

All was should provide condoms

As a tool of the trade they are also tax deductible

Actually, they are free at the clinic!

[Marmalade]

A prossie intending to work without having her own condoms - what a useless piece of trash! On the other hand, I always carry at least two of mine own. Having a high quality condom (such as Skyns) that fits your cock perfectly, can greatly improve the overall experience, especially if you have a sensitive cock. I don't always use two, but letting the prossie choose reassures some of them.

Skyns are among the most expensive condoms you can buy, but compared to what you're spending on the punt, it's nothing.

[Horizontal pleasures]

If they keep the receipts they could claim them as allowable expenses from HMRC

[sucky2dollar]

I don't think so!

I was asked yesterday to make sure I had condoms with me. I thought what a cheeky bitch. I asked if she was joking and she was not. She said she could not be expected to cater for all sizes and she never knows how big the client will be. I told her I was 5ft 2" but that did not go down well. 

A very cheeky bitch and to be honest a lazy one too.  The only thing it will cost her is effort, effort to get her arse out the house and pick some up from the clinic for free.

[lovingfacials]

Now that is tricky as I have no need of them at home so it would be strange having Mrs LF find a couple in the wallet, my motto is if I turn up and she hasnt got them I walk..............

And if I am offered bb then I run as it shows her standards

And as others put here it is a simple tool of her trade - as is her mouth/twat!!!!!!!!!

[Berks Bloke 32]

I take my own because then I know what I am using, a lot of WGs buy their condoms in bulk from places like eBay and there is no way of knowing if they are genuine or counterfeit External Link/Members Only.

Also how many of you check that they are within their use by date?

[victor407]

I take my own because then I know what I am using, a lot of WGs buy their condoms in bulk from places like eBay and there is no way of knowing if they are genuine or counterfeit External Link/Members Only.

Also how many of you check that they are within their use by date?

Very good point.

Note too self, when rock hard wanting to fuck her senseless, first sit down and study condom packet, make sure in date. 

[Louise 100% British]

I take my own because then I know what I am using, a lot of WGs buy their condoms in bulk from places like eBay and there is no way of knowing if they are genuine or counterfeit External Link/Members Only.

Also how many of you check that they are within their use by date?

I buy mine from SuperDrug or tesco, spending a bit extra to make sure they are genuine is fine with me.
I wouldn't use a clients condom.

[lovingfacials]

Louise

why not if its sealed and in date?

what about Smiths and his lube would you use a clients lube - I suspect not

[Louise 100% British]

Louise

why not if its sealed and in date?

what about Smiths and his lube would you use a clients lube - I suspect not

No because there are weridos out there who stick tiny holes in the packets, even if sealed I'm not sure I would notice a tiny pin hole.
No to lube as well.

[Wiltsboy01]

Louise

why not if its sealed and in date?

what about Smiths and his lube would you use a clients lube - I suspect not

What if her condoms are like super shit looking and you are in a relationship so want the real deal i.e. extrasafe ?

[lovingfacials]

No because there are weridos out there who stick tiny holes in the packets, even if sealed I'm not sure I would notice a tiny pin hole.
No to lube as well.

so as always it comes down to trust or lack of (on both sides) due to the few (?) wierdos out there


fair enough makes sense - just like i would never see a w/g who had 'just' ran out of condoms, not worth the risk

[Louise 100% British]

so as always it comes down to trust or lack of (on both sides) due to the few (?) wierdos out there


fair enough makes sense - just like i would never see a w/g who had 'just' ran out of condoms, not worth the risk

If the man is seeing a girl with enough feedback, I think the guy should have trust that the girl is trustworthy in that respect. I have only had a handful of guys bring their own to a booking.

[Thepacifist]

I think the girls should provide the Jonnys and they always have in my experience 

[lovingfacials]

by that rationale then if a punter (ala Smiths) turns up with good f/b should he not be classed as trustworthy?

I understand the item is going into your body so you set the boundries but the thinking is somewhat skewed!

I would add I never take condoms/lube myself and would never do b/b............so in essence the problem will never occur for me

[lovingfacials]

What if her condoms are like super shit looking and you are in a relationship so want the real deal i.e. extrasafe ?

Sorry Wilts you lost me............I dont follow your thinking prob me being a twat

[victor407]

May be the solution is to bring your own and wear 2.

Double protection. 

[smiths]

so as always it comes down to trust or lack of (on both sides) due to the few (?) wierdos out there


fair enough makes sense - just like i would never see a w/g who had 'just' ran out of condoms, not worth the risk

Indeed it does, but in practice most WGs are prepared to use the Lube i bring, up to them if they dont wish to of course, but they must have an alternative.

[smiths]

by that rationale then if a punter (ala Smiths) turns up with good f/b should he not be classed as trustworthy?

I understand the item is going into your body so you set the boundries but the thinking is somewhat skewed!

I would add I never take condoms/lube myself and would never do b/b............so in essence the problem will never occur for me

I punt anonymously nowadays so no newbie WG to me knows anything about me.

I always take my own stuff such as deodorant, shower gel, a towel, tissues, wipes, fresh breath spray, all in my punting bag.

[smiths]

If the man is seeing a girl with enough feedback, I think the guy should have trust that the girl is trustworthy in that respect. I have only had a handful of guys bring their own to a booking.

Certainly not, i dont just trust complete or virtual strangers. I view FB unless i know, trust and/or respect the punter who has given it as made-up bollocks, too many SPs are scumbags sadly to just believe FB.

[ampersand]

I've never got to a punt and the WG's said they haven't got any condoms.

I have. That turned out to be a very expensive BJ as she didn't tell me until the moment I was expecting her to roll one on for me. She then declined to refund any of the money. 

[sarahjayneleeds]

by that rationale then if a punter (ala Smiths) turns up with good f/b should he not be classed as trustworthy?

I understand the item is going into your body so you set the boundries but the thinking is somewhat skewed!

I would add I never take condoms/lube myself and would never do b/b............so in essence the problem will never occur for me

In a word No!. Same rule applies for everyone regardless of feedback, AW booking or phone booking.

As said feedback means nothing really and will only show when the Client has booked through AW. How would I know that he doesn't just ring the BB girls and not bother with a AW booking? How would I know he doesn't just ring some girls, not bother with an AW and behave like a twat? How many of us do the booking by phone and email and if all goes well on both sides do a retrospective booking to ensure we both get good feedback? How many of us don't leave a negative for fear of getting a negative back? Feedback is worthless.

Personally I wouldn't use a condom supplied by anyone other than me  I won't be trusting my health based on another WG saying he's a decent guy I'll decide that for myself thanks.   As Lou said some nutters prick them etc and would be impossible to know just by looking. A WG should be able to provide a range of condoms to suit all requirements and as for running out well that says it all really!

[lovingfacials]

In a word No!. Same rule applies for everyone regardless of feedback, AW booking or phone booking.

As said feedback means nothing really and will only show when the Client has booked through AW. How would I know that he doesn't just ring the BB girls and not bother with a AW booking? How would I know he doesn't just ring some girls, not bother with an AW and behave like a twat? How many of us do the booking by phone and email and if all goes well on both sides do a retrospective booking to ensure we both get good feedback? How many of us don't leave a negative for fear of getting a negative back? Feedback is worthless.

Personally I wouldn't use a condom supplied by anyone other than me  I won't be trusting my health based on another WG saying he's a decent guy I'll decide that for myself thanks.   As Lou said some nutters prick them etc and would be impossible to know just by looking. A WG should be able to provide a range of condoms to suit all requirements and as for running out well that says it all really!

Sarah

I totally understand your point of view as I said earlier it is going into your body so therefore you set the rules, it just seemed Louises comments were a tad flawed, and as I say as I would never b/b myself so I can understand why a w/g would refuse  a condom from a client

as yuu say the aw f/b system is so flawed everyone takes it with a pinch of salt, and I would expect the situation is rare i/e w/g's running out of condoms, your point of having a range for selection is always the case ive found, just pure common sense

[Louise 100% British]

Sarah

I totally understand your point of view as I said earlier it is going into your body so therefore you set the rules, it just seemed Louises comments were a tad flawed, and as I say as I would never b/b myself so I can understand why a w/g would refuse  a condom from a client

as yuu say the aw f/b system is so flawed everyone takes it with a pinch of salt, and I would expect the situation is rare i/e w/g's running out of condoms, your point of having a range for selection is always the case ive found, just pure common sense

Possibly a tad flawed, but the feedback system is a tad flawed, however sometimes feedback is the only thing wg's/men have to go by. That's all I meant.
You can generally assume that a lady with plenty of good fb will supply the condoms etc, obviously there are exceptions to the rule...
Personally I think if I was a client I would feel more comfortable in seeing an escort with a good reputation.

[victor407]

Feedback on AW is worthless IMO.

Which is why I would rather come on a site like this or others and read reviews. Here, if you leave a negative review then the WG has a chance to respond if they so wish and there is no worry of being left negative feedback.

For me as a punter, I am not interested in feedback or what a WG thinks about me. I like to keep things private.

I will not supply condoms and fully expect the WG to have some. If not, I walk. Simple.

[NIK]

In thirty years of punting I was asked for the first time last year.  She was in a hotel and claimed she'd run out. I put £3 in a machine in a pub and lost it, no condoms coming forth.
I knew I wouldn't be up for full sex anyway so didn't risk another £3 and went condom less.
Needless to say she was crap and had I had condoms I wouldn't have been up for it.
This was my first punt after abstaining for six months too.
I am currently on eight months now without a punt!

[smiths]

Possibly a tad flawed, but the feedback system is a tad flawed, however sometimes feedback is the only thing wg's/men have to go by. That's all I meant.
You can generally assume that a lady with plenty of good fb will supply the condoms etc, obviously there are exceptions to the rule...
Personally I think if I was a client I would feel more comfortable in seeing an escort with a good reputation.

Having a good reputation doesnt necessarily equate with having lots of good A/W feedback though as that F B is so flawed and open to manipulation in my experience as to be virtually worthless. FB on here or by private recommendation is far preferable in my view.

As to punters needing it to get a punt, its a totally ridiculous scenario UNLESS as a punter you need FB to get a punt as i know some punters in punting deserts do and in other scenarios. I dont and never have needed any, and wont be part of such a rotten to the core system that A/W is. As the service buyer me needing FB is utterly laughable to my mind. I can see why it suits SPs, it certainly doesnt suit me.

[Tibbs]

I always take condoms with me, or have them on me just in case.

I've had a couple of girls turn up without them, and they used mine no problem, and for another we switched onto mine when we ran out of hers!

Now I've started using Passante Unique condoms I always ask if I can use them instead of regular condoms. They're so much better that all the other ones I've tried (Skyns, Avanti, featherlite etc etc) that it's worth asking. They look sufficiently different that most girls want to try them. I've only had one WG not stop me during sex to make sure the condom is still on they're so much like wearing nothing.

[Jimmyredcab]

I always take my own stuff such as deodorant, shower gel, a towel, tissues, wipes, fresh breath spray, all in my punting bag.

Plus your "toys" obviously.     

[Ali Katt]

I've seen some escorts listing a punter should provide their own if they are latex intolerant. Technically an organized escort should have a range of condoms, in the same way any tradesperson should have a range of tools. Of course, some escorts balk at paying a few quid for a pack of johnnies and IMHO they should go back to being full time mothers.

[ladyofthemansion]

May be the solution is to bring your own and wear 2.

Double protection. 

Unfortunately if you wore two that can cause both to split.

[ladyofthemansion]

When you put a condom on the top of it should be like a little balloon and the lady at that point would squeeze out the air. I don't think that would happen of the condom was pricked.

I heard that men can go in to gay bars and clubs to ask for condoms and that they are stronger than normal condoms because they are meant for men to men.

[Ali Katt]

When you put a condom on the top of it should be like a little balloon and the lady at that point would squeeze out the air. I don't think that would happen of the condom was pricked.

I heard that men can go in to gay bars and clubs to ask for condoms and that they are stronger than normal condoms because they are meant for men to men.

There are indeed stronger condoms they are designed for anal sex, not gay men per se. Whether they are given out in clubs would depend on the club, in the same way some clubs give tap water for free, some don't.

[Marmalade]

ffs it's your leisure time ... there's no 'should' about it. If you think prossies with no condoms are the pits, fine. If you want or don't want to take your own condoms, fine. The very nature of the question is a stupid fluffy self-accusation and if you are takingt the thread too seriously then get a life.

[Dani]

Condoms are the essential tool of our trade so we should always have a good supply of different sizes as well as latex free.
I cant imagine a builder coming to fix my wall and expecting me to supply his tools nor any other service provider.  If it is your trade then you should supply the equipment needed.

If buying in bulk from somewhere like freedoms nhs then they are so cheap it is hardly worth worrying about.  I normally have trim, normal, slightly bigger than normal (pasante halo come up a little larger) and extra large plus I also have latex free. 

If you buy in bulk then you find you only need to order one or two as you never use all of the sizes in one month.  So what is £20 - £30 a month.  It is nothing so any good prossie should have condoms at all times and should never run out as should keep a check on them and re order when down to half a box of each size and they are delivered within 48hours

[Warwick]

No because there are weridos out there who stick tiny holes in the packets, even if sealed I'm not sure I would notice a tiny pin hole.
No to lube as well.

Cor, that takes some believing actually. That anyone would do that. What I mean is I do believe you, but it's amazing.

It's a hygiene issue isn't it. Most girls worth their salt won't let you touch yourself in that area at all once it's reached condom time. I'm always reassured when they do a thorough penis check early in the session, but it's surprising how many hardly bother to look at it at all.

Running out of condoms is a sign of a potential barebacker. I always look to see if there are condoms lying around in strategic places.

[DG]

That does seem totally bizarre of her.  I do take my own Condoms with me on Punts just in case but I've never got to a punt and the WG's said they haven't got any condoms.

I've never arrived at a punt when the girl had no condoms, but did receive a text from a girl just before I was about to leave to say she had run out. I guess she was going to ask if I could get some on the way but before she could I told her I had some anyway and would bring them. I know she doesn't drive so didn't want to wait for her to go in to town to get some.

However as a rule the WG should provide all the equipment and accessories required to provide the services she offers. The exception being you request something not on her likes list that she agrees to do so long as the punter provides anything she doesn't have.

[cueball]

I had one prossie say to me she'd run out of condoms just after I'd paid her and had my tongue down her throat, had to settle for owo to finish (I wanted a fuck) she came from aw but I can't remember who it was, if I did if bang a negative review up, she were shite at owo too.

But, to answer op, no, I don't think you should take your own condoms. That is the prossies job to provide and a lot wouldn't let you use your own in case you'd tampered with them AND its another thing to get busted by the Mrs with, I can't think of a likely excuse for having condoms in my sock drawer.

[JV547845]

I bring my own, and lube too.  I think it's a good idea.  I can use condoms I like, that I know I can get on.  She can't use the excuse of only having the one to mean I can only fuck her the once.  I'm happy giving their condoms a go if they prefer.

A WG made sure I had some before an out call once.  I told her not to worry, I was well stocked.  She was disappointed I didn't have any flavoured ones.  I didn't use that as an excuse to suggest OWO if she really had to suck my cock.  So bring condoms, but not flavoured ones if you want OWO.