The problem I have with Condoms

[Cum_again]

Ok, so firstly I never have unprotected sex…. Because I’m not mad…

However, I’ve always had a problem with condoms, I wonder if I’m the only one, or maybe someone knows a solution.

Essentially I cum quite a lot, and the end of a condom is nowhere near big enough to take all the cum I produce (unless I’m on the third cum of a session).  As a result, when I cum in a condom, I don’t ejaculate fully, I can only describe the feeling as like sticking your thumb over the end of a champagne bottle once it’s started flying out.

So, as a result, I very seldom cum in a condom and nearly always cum from a blow job or hand job.

Does anyone know if there are condoms that can take a bigger load? I know you can get narrow ones and thick ones… but ones that take more cum?  Are they a thing?

Any other solutions or fellow sufferers let me know

[IAmNotFamous]

Maybe the ones they use is too small and too tight.

You may have to buy and experiment and take them along with you to encounters. Yeah I know, buy our own condoms. But this is an exception.

I’m no penis doctor but maybe get a size larger than you normally use. Hopefully it’s less restrictive and can carry a larger load.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

That does seem rather odd, might suggest a word with your GP for  urology refferial in case there is a treatable cause for that!..

[FiveKnuckles]

Fuck that stud!  Jump on virgin and book a first class ticket to porn heaven.  Bag plenty coins with your fire hose 

Try a larger condom.  Unsure if different brands have a larger tip at the end, so search online.

[workinallweek]

 Bang one off first before leaving home maybe ?

[marc_hotsteppa]

Get the girl you are with to use a female condom which she inserts inside herself would be my solution to your problem.

[sim0256]

This won't help you but it's my experience. Some years ago, Durex made a condom called Gold that did not have a teat or reservoir end and I actually liked the feel of cum squeezing into the restricted space at the end.  I haven't seen them in a while so must be discontinued, it does prove again you can't please everyone.

I did a quick search online and there a lot more types of condoms than I thought but I didn't see any mention of one for a big cum load!

[Stevelondon]

Big enough ?

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[Colston36]

Ok, so firstly I never have unprotected sex…. Because I’m not mad…

However, I’ve always had a problem with condoms, I wonder if I’m the only one, or maybe someone knows a solution.

Essentially I cum quite a lot, and the end of a condom is nowhere near big enough to take all the cum I produce (unless I’m on the third cum of a session).  As a result, when I cum in a condom, I don’t ejaculate fully, I can only describe the feeling as like sticking your thumb over the end of a champagne bottle once it’s started flying out.

So, as a result, I very seldom cum in a condom and nearly always cum from a blow job or hand job.

Does anyone know if there are condoms that can take a bigger load? I know you can get narrow ones and thick ones… but ones that take more cum?  Are they a thing?

Any other solutions or fellow sufferers let me know

I've never been able to manage condoms. Fucked my way round the world without them for decades when younger - never caused a pregnancy unintendedly. Only one woman has been able to get me fucking with one on - Jazzy in Bristol

[JontyR]

Ok, so firstly I never have unprotected sex…. Because I’m not mad…

However, I’ve always had a problem with condoms, I wonder if I’m the only one, or maybe someone knows a solution.

Essentially I cum quite a lot, and the end of a condom is nowhere near big enough to take all the cum I produce (unless I’m on the third cum of a session).  As a result, when I cum in a condom, I don’t ejaculate fully, I can only describe the feeling as like sticking your thumb over the end of a champagne bottle once it’s started flying out.

So, as a result, I very seldom cum in a condom and nearly always cum from a blow job or hand job.

Does anyone know if there are condoms that can take a bigger load? I know you can get narrow ones and thick ones… but ones that take more cum?  Are they a thing?

Any other solutions or fellow sufferers let me know

Am I reading this right? You are concerned because the teat won't hold all your cum? Well no, it won't. Also if you think that its going to be perfectly aligned when you've been fucking for more than 0.2 of a second I think you are being unrealistic.

I thought the point of the teat was so that there was a space for expansion, thereby reducing the risk of splitting, rather than a cum reservoir.

I think your problem is psychological, don't worry a lot of us have an issue with johnnies one way or another. Treat yourself to a posh wank and see that its not an issue.

[bigden40]

A condom can take A LOT of cum, it’s able to expand.

As others have said it’s not the size of the teat that’s relevant. 

But try Durex Comfort XL if you want something bigger.

[Dipper]

Let’s get this right.. he just wanted to start a thread discussing his MEGA LOAD

 

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Let’s get this right.. he just wanted to start a thread discussing his MEGA LOAD

 

Well i'd never have thought i was in the catorgory but the number of service providers who exclaim "You make too much stuff" is legion!..

[myothernameis]

Seen an escort a few months back, and the condom she gave me, was just to small, and think it could have come of during sex.  The girl was on top, so we were going at a slow pace, and once I had cum withdrew, and condom, was half way up my cock

Now hate to think, if we went at it doggy style and at a vigorous pace, the condom would have come off

[MysteryManNo.7]

I shoot a large load and haven't had issues with it being too much for the condom. The teat isn't going to hold all of your ejaculate, that's not what it's designed to do. I use SKYN large condoms and they fit me perfectly.

[Punting2022]

Seen an escort a few months back, and the condom she gave me, was just to small, and think it could have come of during sex.  The girl was on top, so we were going at a slow pace, and once I had cum withdrew, and condom, was half way up my cock

Now hate to think, if we went at it doggy style and at a vigorous pace, the condom would have come off

Has 9 months gone down the line. No surprises around

[IAmNotFamous]

Seen an escort a few months back, and the condom she gave me, was just to small, and think it could have come of during sex.  The girl was on top, so we were going at a slow pace, and once I had cum withdrew, and condom, was half way up my cock

Now hate to think, if we went at it doggy style and at a vigorous pace, the condom would have come off

Three years ago I met a WG in Cardiff. She provided the thinnest of condoms. She said I’ve never used this before but want to see what it was like. It ripped during mish and when I mentioned it she asked did I cum? Don’t worry I’ve been tested.

[lamboman]

Thinly veiled I cum a lot thread.

[Chazz]

I use SKYN large condoms and they fit me perfectly.

Well I use SKYN Humungonormous XXXL Big Boy condoms, and if I'm honest they're a little bit too tight on me.

 

[IAmNotFamous]

Thinly veiled I have a big one response 😜🤣

[Colston36]

Thinly veiled I have a big one response 😜🤣

How many members can give a toss about how big his member is?

[KatieEdinburgh]

Correct application of the condom will massively help with this problem.

I don’t know if they make special condoms with more space for the cum to go (it’s called the teat lol) although I’ve never seen anything like that being sold so your best bet is to search online.

You just need to pinch the top properly and allow enough space that however much cum you make can fill that. I’m sure if you explain that, most SPs will understand or you can put the condom on yourself. She may be wary if you bring your own “weird” condom brands and insist on those in case they’re tampered but also, personally I’ve never minded that.  I realise not all SPs are organised to carry all sizes of condoms.

You can get different fits of condom as well. More or less tapered, different widths but also head size

I’ve seen a lot of penises, and my ex could come buckets and buckets but never had this problem so I think correct application of the condom will be your answer.



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[MissWolf]

A few questions? are you circumcised or do you have a full foreskin, does it draw back fully, is the head significantly bigger than the shaft, all this will have an influence on the fit, movement and way a condom behaves on you as well as how its put on.

A slightly larger condom should help,  unless of course along with the big pay load the hose is above average and you are already using XL ones.

I find Skyns XL better than durex but that's because I don't like latex they irritate me,  you can also try learning to put it on yourself with an extra bit of loose at the teat end before rolling down to allow a little more room.

The other option is to measure yourself accurately and get some custom made with extra large teats on the end. But then you have the issue of asking a wg to trust your condoms which may not be easy.

[Steely Dan]

You just need to pinch the top properly and allow enough space that however much cum you make can fill that.

This.

Just unroll a bit more and have a big space at the top.  Then unroll.  It does not matter when you unroll if it get all the way to the base - more space at the top is safer.

[MysteryManNo.7]

It does appears to be the case that you're not putting the condom on correctly. I've encountered a worrying number of supposedly professional SPs who have no idea how to apply on correctly: 'stretch & snap', not pinching the tip before rolling down etc and it's an important thing to get right. Getting the size right is also essential as personally I've had even correctly applied regular doms break on me multiple times now.

[Punterperson1971]

The problem I have are the ones that fit me like a glove and not like a condom must be picking the wrong ones
 

[Mkhelen]

Most have a good adequate teat

Cheap brands don't

XL Skyns and Durex both stretch out well

Or the Femidoms are a fantastic alternative

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[Cum_again]

It does appears to be the case that you're not putting the condom on correctly. I've encountered a worrying number of supposedly professional SPs who have no idea how to apply on correctly: 'stretch & snap', not pinching the tip before rolling down etc and it's an important thing to get right. Getting the size right is also essential as personally I've had even correctly applied regular doms break on me multiple times now.

Thanks for all the responses folks… a bigger condom isn’t an option I reckon, I’m pretty much average size….

Now, the putting the condom on properly bit? Well there’s something in that. But as I’ve said in other threads, prozzies are fucking  incapable of putting them on properly….
They pull them right over your jap’s eye!  And they are very reluctant to let me put one on despite them almost all having zero fucking idea of how to fit them

I have to say though, even put on properly it doesn’t help.  So, I think the people who have said that the teat isn’t supposed to take all the cum are probably right …. And it’s probably this that I just find inherently uncomfortable … backing up my ejaculation just isn’t cricket 

One last thing..  this is in some ways an “I cum a lot thread”. But to be fair, I do, and although it’s got less of an issue over the years, I still feel it affects my experience when I cum in a condom.

Guess I will just have to cum on more faces?

[Dipper]

Ok then.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Most have a good adequate teat

Cheap brands don't

XL Skyns and Durex both stretch out well

Or the Femidoms are a fantastic alternative

How do you get on with those femidoms?, no girl i've asked has said thy'd heard of them let alone used one!?..

[EvilS]

Cum on their tits. Problem solved 😂

[Cum_again]

Cum on their tits. Problem solved 😂

Yeah, I think it’s the solution…

[SnakeForeskin]

I’m with the OP on this, i find cumming in the bag less satisfying than letting fly on the WG’s body or in their mouth. I do think a lack of volume in the end of the condom is a contributing factor as i do seem to have a larger than average load (it has been commented on by WGs / GFs in the past). I think due to the lack of volume at the end of the condom causes an increase in back pressure during orgasm, a lack of flow and a less satisfying and stimulating orgasm.

Just my tuppence worth.

[maxxblue]

I’m with the OP on this, i find cumming in the bag less satisfying than letting fly on the WG’s body or in their mouth. I do think a lack of volume in the end of the condom is a contributing factor as i do seem to have a larger than average load (it has been commented on by WGs / GFs in the past). I think due to the lack of volume at the end of the condom causes an increase in back pressure during orgasm, a lack of flow and a less satisfying and stimulating orgasm.

Just my tuppence worth.

3 points. (1) How do you know? (2) Do you think anyone here cares? (3) WGs will say ANYTHING - doesn't mean its true. 

[Cum_again]

3 points. (1) How do you know? (2) Do you think anyone here cares? (3) WGs will say ANYTHING - doesn't mean its true. 

1. Porn ..
2. Gang bangs
3. Do they say it to everyone?

[Strawberry]

I have not yet encountered anyone who has mentioned this, however I use a range of condom sizes choosing one I think will be the best fit taking into account girth as well as length. As already mentioned some people some punters, pull the condom tight over the penis head this has always been associated with splits so very good reason to avoid doing this.

I am also wondering do you feel restricted by condoms, is there a psychological element at play?

[whiskyfan]

"There isn't enough room in the condom for my spunk." Aye right.

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[FiveKnuckles]

"There isn't enough room in the condom for my spunk." Aye right.

Those links don't prove much.  The end of the teat is only around 1cm away from the jap eye.  It either pops or there's some back pressure if he's cumming buckets.

[whiskyfan]

Those links don't prove much.  The end of the teat is only around 1cm away from the jap eye.  It either pops or there's some back pressure if he's cumming buckets.

Condoms expand. Back pressure, it's not a penis not a fire hose.

[FiveKnuckles]

Condoms expand. Back pressure, it's not a penis not a fire hose.

You do realise his dick is inside the dom near the end?   

Think logically or do a practical with a hose and doms.   
It goes out the front or works it way down the shaft.  Definitely not going to balloon out.

[whiskyfan]

You do realise his dick is inside the dom near the end?   

Think logically or do a practical with a hose and doms.   
It goes out the front or works it way down the shaft.  Definitely not going to balloon out.

So no back pressure either way then.

[FiveKnuckles]

So no back pressure either way then.

A balloon will try to push back before it pops.  If it can overcome the pressure, it either stopped the flow or the flow directed through another channel.  If his cum decides to go down the shaft, it would had been the weakest route. 

Too early in the morning (and too late in your life) to teach you engineering/science/logic.   

[whiskyfan]

A balloon will try to push back before it pops.  If it can overcome the pressure, it either stopped the flow or the flow directed through another channel.  If his cum decides to go down the shaft, it would had been the weakest route. 

Too early in the morning (and too late in your life) to teach you engineering/science/logic.

Fluid will always take the line of least resistance so of course it will fill any voids around the shaft first. If the condom is fully sealed and there's any more to cum (so to speak) it's then perfectly capable of expanding to accommodate it. All of which means the OP's point is null and void. Happy to help.

[FiveKnuckles]

Fluid will always take the line of least resistance so of course it will fill any voids around the shaft first. If the condom is fully sealed and there's any more to cum (so to speak) it's then perfectly capable of expanding to accommodate it. All of which means the OP's point is null and void. Happy to help.

You're right.  The girls pussy is just an unlimited void and the dom will balloon. #smfh

[MysteryManNo.7]

I have not yet encountered anyone who has mentioned this, however I use a range of condom sizes choosing one I think will be the best fit taking into account girth as well as length. As already mentioned some people some punters, pull the condom tight over the penis head this has always been associated with splits so very good reason to avoid doing this.

I am also wondering do you feel restricted by condoms, is there a psychological element at play?

Personally I have actually encountered several experienced SPs doing this to me particularly as they use the incorrect 'stretch and snap' technique' and as someone who has had regular sized condoms break multiple times this is concerning. Glad you've mentioned girth as well, I'm not sure why but the condoms I use (SKYN Large) aren't much longer than most average condoms but they are larger in girth and they fit me so much better and I have had no breakages since switching to them. Regular doms are way too tight especially at the base and leave an aggressive red ring that many WGs have commented on so it seems getting the correct girth is just as important as getting the correct length in preventing breakages.

I find many SPs want to apply the condom themselves which is fine but many don't like being told they've put it on incorrectly and to try again or let me do it correctly.

[MysteryManNo.7]

You're right.  The girls pussy is just an unlimited void and the dom will balloon. #smfh

He's an idiot no point trying to reason with him. Purely anecdotal but as someone who has had regular condoms break on me multiple times and as someone who ejaculates more than most (yes I have actually measured and I cum more than 5ml which is the high end of average) it's not BS to say getting the correct condom size is very important.

Side note I really hate these dangerous false equivalences claiming 'no condom is too small as I can get my foot into one'. Yes it's true that any man saying no condoms fit him is bullshitting and can literally go fuck himself but there is a reason condoms come in many different sizes and finding ones that fit you whether you're hung like a horse or a door mouse is incredibly important.

[FiveKnuckles]

He's an idiot no point trying to reason with him.

he seems to think you're having an open air wank or the vagina has zero resistance and will expand.       takes loose pussy to a different level 

[MysteryManNo.7]

he seems to think you're having an open air wank or the vagina has zero resistance and will expand.       takes loose pussy to a different level 

It's not even about the vagina tbh, if a condom is too tight girth wise and has not enough room at the end you effectively create a seal and ejaculating could cause a breakage. I have had breakages due to condoms being way too tight and I believe that is due to the constant friction of thrusting in and out despite liberal use of lube and the tightness of the dom.

[whiskyfan]

he seems to think you're having an open air wank or the vagina has zero resistance and will expand.       takes loose pussy to a different level 

Escort has clients all day with dicks of all sizes but how will her vagina ever cope with the few extra mls of volume of cum in a condom.

[MysteryManNo.7]

Escort has clients all day with dicks of all sizes but how will her vagina ever cope with the few extra mls of volume of cum in a condom.

You're either trolling or a complete moron and I'm confident it's the latter