Felt sorry for a working girl

[harrowcd]

Long story short
I went to meet a girl from adult work
She was in a flat with couple others and a guy who is the texter for the help of girls was hiding somewhere in the flat aswell

Anyway, I felt bad for the girl, she didn't enjoy it, she was new she didn't like being fingered, she was 18 and looked young
Talked to her she said she likes the money and will do it for a while then invest
She probably isn't too book smart and sounded like the typical council estate girl... Shes British

I have seen many working girls it's her being Indian like myself and young like myself that made me feel very bad for her, I stopped mid way and just chatted


I wish I could message her and say sorry! I won't be able to find her details...

She was fun to talk to and reminded me of a lot of my friends...

[Happyjose]

She was in a flat with couple others and a guy who is the texter for the help of girls

AKA The Pimp

Sad tale of woe this one. Call crimestoppers if you think she's at risk

Then make better choices and cheer up

[vw]

Sad tale of woe this one. Call crimestoppers if you think she's at risk

+1 and review to stop other punters being put in that position.

[scutty brown]

first impressions are usually right.
Do something about it. Which part of the country are you in?

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[harrowcd]

I don't think the pimp was abusing, I also think it might be because she was too much relateable to me (Indian and under 24)

I will think if I can find out who she is or visit again just to talk I dunno

Will also review yes

[Happyjose]

In addition to the advice you've been given here, maybe read up on EAS as well....

[harrowcd]

In addition to the advice you've been given here, maybe read up on EAS as well....

Sorry for my ignorance, what is EAS?

[scutty brown]

Sorry for my ignorance, what is EAS?

Emotional Attachment Syndrome
Used to describe a situation where a punter mistakenly becomes infatuated with a girl and believes its love........it can get embarrassing and expensive.
I don't think you've suffering from that: you're simply suffering from the guilt of being a decent bloke.
If you think the girl is being exploited then do something about it. You have the phone numbers above.
Or call the police. What county are you in?

[YidArmy]

She was fun to talk to and reminded me of a lot of my friends...

If she wasn't young and Indian like yourself would you give a shit?

Maybe i'm a cynic but to me it reads like you fucked a girl you would probably like to fuck as a civvy but can't. Now you want to get back in touch and try to save her.

[Bogof60]

Cynic #2 here

[harrowcd]

Emotional Attachment Syndrome
Used to describe a situation where a punter mistakenly becomes infatuated with a girl and believes its love........it can get embarrassing and expensive.
I don't think you've suffering from that: you're simply suffering from the guilt of being a decent bloke.
If you think the girl is being exploited then do something about it. You have the phone numbers above.
Or call the police. What county are you in?

i dont think shes being abused, i think its the guilt of being decent you're correct...
now to just get it out of my head!
i would like to go see her again once more and see whats she's like if i just sit there for an hour! and also see if i think she is being abused again, but again i dont want to get into this too much and i think ill now get over it and move on! nd mr texter/pimp will prob pop out his hiding place and tell me to fuck off

If she wasn't young and Indian like yourself would you give a shit?

Maybe i'm a cynic but to me it reads like you fucked a girl you would probably like to fuck as a civvy but can't. Now you want to get back in touch and try to save her.

i think you are correct as well, i do go out and meet girls around my age and ethnicity and i was dating regularly until last year.. i think this particular girl was 'too close to home' and its made me slightly emotionally attached, but not in a way that i would go and waste money pursuing her and trying to help, im still thinking rationally and i know that it would be reckless for me to do anything further!

i will get over it after a couple of days!

and again you're correct, all other young girls i have punted have been eastern european, brazilian, oriental and i havent given a shit...


moral of the story, dont see relate-able working girls! stick to the unrealistic pornstar ones or something...

[scutty brown]

you'll find that writing a review and identifying the girl here will help you rationalise this more objectively.
Get the visit down in writing - it helps to resolve the mind

[Brokenshed]

Leave her alone, she states "She likes the money and will invest."
So she is saving up for a deposit, her student fees, to fund her granny care home, for a car. You then tuck it up, by trying to do what? Tell her to get another job, that pays a tenth of what she is earning.
More info, even many experienced prostitutes don't like being fingered cos of risk of cuts from fingernails. Cocks and tongues don't tear pussies.
I have banged loads of Indian girls, no different to any other, so get the inverted racism out of your head, she ain't your cousin, and let her get on with earning some money and us having some fun.
The only girls I've felt sorry for are The ones who can't save money, but I ain't offering financial management, just finances. I also feel sorry for the shores that have mental health or drug issues. If you want to do us a favour, report those, so we can steer of them. And yea, report any suspected trafficking to crime stoppages. But don't feel sorry for a young whore, who opens her legs for money, cos you're fellow Indian is no different from any EE or Black or White Brit. She's found a way if earning money through her pussy. She is also no different from any of us who doesn't like her job.

[cueball]

Just put a bloody link up

She might be reviewed already on here 

Your yarn is going on too long now, either do something about it or don't, coming on here with this tale isn't gonna help.

A mystery girl from a mystery poster telling a mystery story..... I'm not convinced

[shagmore]

post a link, or shut up and move on. No point giving tales of woe and then not giving all the  facts to we can offer the advise and help you seek.

[notcalledchris]

Very few prossies like being fucked to the extent that they would do it without the money.   If you think she is being abused report it.  If she just was a bad SP review her here so we can aviod.   

[henrynorth]

I think this guy just felt like posting something.....ANYTHING. 

[Gooner]

Feeling sorry for a WG is one of the biggest mistakes you can make. Been there and done that. Once you realise its her choice to do what she does and how she earns and she doesn't give a rats ass about you and only cares about your wallet the better off you will be.

[Bangers and Gash]

Feeling sorry for a WG is one of the biggest mistakes you can make. Been there and done that. Once you realise its her choice to do what she does and how she earns and she doesn't give a rats ass about you and only cares about your wallet the better off you will be.

Sooo cynical and bitter. I'm glad I'm not like you. 

[george r]

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[Apu]

Link?

I want to feel sorry for her as my cock slides down her throat and she clenches the cash I just handed over.

[Gooner]

Sooo cynical and bitter. I'm glad I'm not like you. 

I wish I wasn't me too mate. 

[Marmalade]

It’s a purchase. Like any other. It wasn’t satisfactory. Therefore do not repeat the purchase. Simple.

Feeling sorry for her is crap. Either report to police or move on.

A WG I was close to for a while said she had one regular customer who just came to talk. She’s tried to initiate something but he insisted he just wanted to talk. He was paying, so she let him.

If you accept it and repeat the purchase it reinforces to her that she can charge without giving good service. Why should she bother? You are a customer, you pay her. If you were her shrink, or social worker, she (or someone else) would pay you. You are not in a position to be both.

[Randy Mcknob]

I will think if I can find out who she is or visit again just to talk I dunno

Don't do this, paying to talk why would you do that?

[purple_t]

Sooo cynical and bitter. I'm glad I'm not like you. 

Yeah but he's bang on the money. You might feel sorry for a younger WG who seems trapped or no other prospects, but to her you are just another punter she will have forgotten about by the next week, just a walking ATM... I would only feel sorry if I felt they were working against their will, in which I case I would go beyond just feeling sorry for them and do something about it i.e. report it. Would also feel sorry if there were obvious drugs /mental health issues, but have a good sense for these kind of things and so would walk instead of going ahead with the booking if I felt this was the case. But the girls who are doing it of their own free will? I find it hard to feel sorry for them. I feel more sorry for the girls fresh out of school / college working shit minimum wage retail jobs to make ends meet

[Marmalade]

Sooo cynical and bitter. I'm glad I'm not like you. 

 

[Marmalade]

she will have forgotten about by the next week

Next day more like.

A fun game is to ask them at the end of the session if they can remember your name (ie the name you use for the punt).

I find most can’t. The one or two that can often give a big smile like they’ve won a gold star or something. But they’ll have a nickname for you. Things like Stalky, or Briefcase-man, Talker-guy, Little cock. But tell them your name at the start of the session and very few can be arsed to remember it.

She’ll probably remember the OP’s for a bit cos she’s pissed him about. But he’ll also become a nickname eventually, good (or probably) bad, depending how much he makes a complete tit of himself.

Even the highly business-like ones mostly don’t. They’ll have a nickname for you on their phone next to your number.

[Phaedrus]

@marmalade +1000 pmfl 

[Deepstroker]

Message her and tell her its the wrong time to invest as there is a crash just around the corner. Suggest a fixed term ISA?

[Horizontal pleasures]

Long story short
I went to meet a girl from adult work
She was in a flat with couple others and a guy who is the texter for the help of girls was hiding somewhere in the flat aswell

Anyway, I felt bad for the girl, she didn't enjoy it, she was new she didn't like being fingered, she was 18 and looked young
Talked to her she said she likes the money and will do it for a while then invest
She probably isn't too book smart and sounded like the typical council estate girl... Shes British

I have seen many working girls it's her being Indian like myself and young like myself that made me feel very bad for her, I stopped mid way and just chatted


I wish I could message her and say sorry! I won't be able to find her details...

She was fun to talk to and reminded me of a lot of my friends...

simple mister newbie,
make a review
provide a link
then we all know where we stand and you will have broken the ice and more reviews will follow.
I hope your next punt is more successful.

[cotton]

If i had written the OP myself i would self analyse and think that i am simply attracted by her seeming vulnerability and i want to possess her for myself.
if she is there voluntarily she probably wont thank you for calling the police , the only real thing you can do is square up to the reality of how you feel and go back and tell her how you feel and ask her to go on a date. Obviously , ignoring the infinitesimly small chance that shes been pining for you in the same way that youve been pining for her since your visit, she will politely refuse, you will leave and you will forget about her.
its just your mind playing tricks on you.