Letting An Escort down Gently

[SynDee]

What would you do if you turned up to a booking and wasn't attracted to the escort what would you say?

[fastnet]

What did the last one say to you

[SynDee]

few hurtful things and that i wasn't attractive, first one ever i was shocked and wanted to do what ever i could to make him at least like me.

[Stonedwolf]

I'd say something along the lines, "sorry, I was expecting something different so I'm going to leave. Best of luck"

In practise, I guess it depends on how horny I am and how unattractive she is...

[SynDee]

See thats acceptable in my eyes, thats not a rude comment.

[Munter84]

I'm a painfully polite and restrained guy, so even if I turned up and the girl was a pig, I think I'd probably go through with it, try to find some positive to take away, and chalk it up as experience. (If it was an outright bait and switch I might be a bit les sympathetic).

few hurtful things and that i wasn't attractive, first one ever i was shocked and wanted to do what ever i could to make him at least like me.

It's a business transaction. He isn't interested in buying? Fine, let him go, no hard feelings. Overcompensating by "doing whatever you could to make hime like you" is probably the worst thing you could do, and probably the intention behind his put down.

Maybe take this as an opportunity to reflect on whether your profile pictures are up to date and representative, but if they are, chances are the guy was being a manipulative scumbag.

[Payyourwaymate]

I would say sorry and leave. Although, I am aware other guys have done some pernicious or outright rude actions upon seeing them and then leaving. I think in the past I probably was among those guys, some WGs could see in my expression I would not touch them with a bargepole, although I would not say a word.

I would like to think I'm not so bad anymore, although my attention to detail in describing looks in reviews is enough to make a womans skin crawl, as I had the pleasure of finding out lol.

[Payyourwaymate]

few hurtful things and that i wasn't attractive, first one ever i was shocked and wanted to do what ever i could to make him at least like me.

That was probably his aim if he stayed, if he left probably what gets him off in a sadistic manner. It's low level manipulation to be fair.

Unless you really look terrible then erm my apologies, there is someone for everyone  .

[Cheltclient]

See thats acceptable in my eyes, thats not a rude comment.

In the past when I’ve walked, I’ve generally managed to use a lame excuse like ‘oh I left my wallet in the car’. On a few occasions, where I’ve turned up and the girl is clearly not the one in the profile - I’ve mentioned that they are not the girl advertised. These days, I tend to do my research so don’t often have a nasty surprise.

Can’t see any reason to be rude. Think some guys might be so if the girl is aggressive about the intention to walk, especially if you’re looking at a bait and switch. But if a girl has no face pics, is genuine, and the guy doesn’t fancy her, I think she should allow him to leave without a fuss (and whatever lame excuse is used) and the guy doesn’t have to be rude with his reasons.

Unless the girl is really really not anything like her profile, I’d tend to stay and have fun

[Adoniron]

I'm sorry I've changed my mind I can't do this.

[Straightsix]

This is probably why it's important for SPs to be honest in their profiles and more so with images.
I walked from at least ⅓ of my punts last year resulting in a high percentage (80% at least) of satisfactory punts. The poor images often paint a picture that is far from reality and the girls rely on this. Most of the times I will say "your images on your profile don't look like you" and this is generally the truth with most of my walkaways.
But then you do get the ones where there has been a serious misjudgement on my part or the house is a tip. "I've changed my mind" is the one I use.
I'm never rude. I wanna leave quietly, with my money and not a knife in my back.

[WelshClipper]

Probably wouldn’t say anything. Or a polite I’ve changed my mind and leave option.

As long as she gave me a good time as per her profile, I would probably let it go.

I have seen some pretty plain janes in my time who deliver a stellar performance so not really an issue.

 

[Lewis]

I generally only walk if the SP starts reeling off extra prices not mentioned over the phone or txt when first booking, despite me asking beforehand if there are any additional charges for services.

[Lou2019]

That was probably his aim if he stayed, if he left probably what gets him off in a sadistic manner. It's low level manipulation to be fair.

This!

It happened to me once, but I felt it was more a case of nerves.

[Moby Dick]

“You got any paper bags?”

“Ya what?”

“One for your head and one for mine in case yours splits?”

 

[tynetunnel]

This is probably why it's important for SPs to be honest in their profiles and more so with images.
I walked from at least ⅓ of my punts last year resulting in a high percentage (80% at least) of satisfactory punts. The poor images often paint a picture that is far from reality and the girls rely on this. Most of the times I will say "your images on your profile don't look like you" and this is generally the truth with most of my walkaways.
But then you do get the ones where there has been a serious misjudgement on my part or the house is a tip. "I've changed my mind" is the one I use.
I'm never rude. I wanna leave quietly, with my money and not a knife in my back.

Exactly this, then there should be no surprises

[Blackpool Rock]

You see i've never walked but probably should have numerous times, by staying when I don't find the girl attractive or it's a B&S / she doesn't look like her profile pics i've been left with a shit punt that I haven't enjoyed and I end up feeling bad.
On such occasions i've also sometimes failed to perform so it's basically a waste of money 

So this really does also depend on your profile and whether you have clear and representative pics including face pics 
If your face can clearly be seen on your profile and the pic is recent / representative then the guy is out of order and probably only intended pissing you about which is out of order on his part.

If your profile isn't representative then you get what's coming

If your profile is subjective without face / body pics so left somewhat to the imagination to fill the gaps in then I guess you win some and lose some 

[Richthescouser]

What would you do if you turned up to a booking and wasn't attracted to the escort what would you say?

I generally wouldn’t - I tend to have a particular look I like and only meet people with pictures that show that look. I suppose if I chanced my luck on someone without decent pics and thought they didn’t look right I’d be polite but explain honestly that you didn’t look like I expected. No need to be rude (even if it’s a B&S).

[shed]

I generally wouldn’t - I tend to have a particular look I like and only meet people with pictures that show that look. I suppose if I chanced my luck on someone without decent pics and thought they didn’t look right I’d be polite but explain honestly that you didn’t look like I expected. No need to be rude (even if it’s a B&S).

Totally agree no need to be rude. It doesn't solve anything. However I can understand if a punter had high expectations (inexperience), had travelled some distance and was fucked about in guidance to the location. She then turned out to look nothing like the SP he was expecting, tempers and rudeness could result out of pure frustration. Lesson is not to get to that situation in the first place.

[FiveKnuckles]

I only book girls with facial pics and will walk if it's a B&S munter.  I just tell them I was expecting someone else and head off.

Girls with body shots and blurred face pics must see a few more walks.  Never go with nasty comments in case they kick off and make a scene

[Thephoenix]

I'm probably too easy going and polite.
Maybe a generation thing.
Generally I would carry on with the booking and make the best of it.
However there have been occasions on arrival when something really puts me off, I'll use the wallet left in the car routine and just scarper.
Less hassle that way.

[Steely Dan]

few hurtful things and that i wasn't attractive, first one ever i was shocked and wanted to do what ever i could to make him at least like me.

I would say 'I'm Batman, I can't be seen with you Catwoman'

[Marmalade]

I'd say something along the lines, "sorry, I was expecting something different so I'm going to leave. Best of luck"

In practise, I guess it depends on how horny I am and how unattractive she is...

Unfortunately, though that might be acceptable to Syndee, some prossies would go awol, shout and scream or put you on a blacklist. Left wallet in car is probably safer.

Basically the situation sucks. She could still go awol. One tactic is to only book half hours for a first meet and make the best of it. Like buying something in the market, getting it home and it falls to bits. They’re not going to give you you’re money back and the prossie might feel you’ve used a slot she could have sold to someone else. It’s also your time. You’ve made the booking, gone over there, now you have to face going home with a full sack unless there’s a plan b handy.

But then if you a) judge her as unattractive but not a loony, and b) can sound incredibly sincere, maybe the sorry babe line would indeed be ok. It’s a variation of knocking on a door in soho and saying you were really looking for a blonde/brunette (whichever she isn’t).

[s0whatsnew?]

I do sometimes think that EE/3rd world girls often don't even see their own profiles - controlled for them by sergeis/pimps - and so cannot realize that they are in a b&s situation, and can't understand why a customer might walk.  Sad for them. 

[Marmalade]

I do sometimes think that EE/3rd world girls often don't even see their own profiles - controlled for them by sergeis/pimps - and so cannot realize that they are in a b&s situation, and can't understand why a customer might walk.  Sad for them.

That’s true. But actually the process of filling in a bloody profile on AW is so time consuming and annoying that it’s no wonder some of them are happy for the sergioman to do it.

[mr.bluesky]

You see i've never walked but probably should have numerous times, by staying when I don't find the girl attractive or it's a B&S / she doesn't look like her profile pics i've been left with a shit punt that I haven't enjoyed and I end up feeling bad.
On such occasions i've also sometimes failed to perform so it's basically a waste of money 

So this really does also depend on your profile and whether you have clear and representative pics including face pics 
If your face can clearly be seen on your profile and the pic is recent / representative then the guy is out of order and probably only intended pissing you about which is out of order on his part.

If your profile isn't representative then you get what's coming

If your profile is subjective without face / body pics so left somewhat to the imagination to fill the gaps in then I guess you win some and lose some 

Like Blackpool Rock I've never walked out of a punt (too polite) but have gone through with it and just tried to get it done and dusted as quick as possible then felt bad about wasting my money.  This has  only happened to me once or twice though in all my years of punting. I never book with anybody who advertise  solely on Viva Street as it is more likely you won't be seeing that girl on the profile photos for that very reason. At least with a fbsm booking on a proper massage couch your laying face down for most of the time then when you turn over you can close your eyes and imagine it's someone like Kelly Brook doing the happy ending 

[Colston36]

"Wanting him to at least like you". Rather sweet.

[Straightsix]

"left my wallet in the car" was the excuse i used in Erdington, Birmingham when I was faced with a recent ex junkie - she had a stunning figure but then (in the light) i saw her black teeth, some of which were missing. She knew I weren't coming back and insisted I leave something to guarantee my return. Of course that wasn't happening and she started to get a bit rattled and progressively vocal. I was running out of ideas but then suggested she accompany me to my car just so I could get out of the house. The relief when she agreed!  Phew! As soon as I stepped through onto the street I sprinted the 100 yards to the car and could hear her fading shouts to me. I then couldn't get the keys into the ignition because I was laughing so much at the ridiculous situation I found myself in late this evening. My phone blew up as she text me to return with her money and threats to call the police. She may have put her 'fix' order in as soon as I confirmed our arrangement. 😄 I bet her dealer was pissed.
I had a similar experience in Wolverhampton before this and told the lady straight away "I've changed my mind".
There was nothing obvious from her profile and her images looked very nice but in person she was the epitome of a crack user. Although I was allowed to leave without incident, its uncomfortable to know that a 'drugs order' could be placed as soon as your imminent arrival is confirmed. You could run into the dealer. She also blasted my phone with texts calling for my return of her money. I'll never forget how attractive I thought she was in her photos before she hit the drugs.
Just some tips while I'm here:
Never park near the property. Only carry the agreed amount. If the greeting area is dark insist on some light before venturing deep into the property, the 'magic door' trick has a purpose.

[Stevelondon]

I’ve never been downright rude but have no problem with walking if I have been deceived (B&S……. And the switch is unacceptable) or the room/venue is sub standard.

I’m not there to make matters worse by having an argument but have had one or two instances in the good old cards in phone boxes days, I’d rather forget.

[Monk277]

In hindsight I should have walked from one the other week. She was a big girl which her pics didn't really show. I knew that she wasn't a size 8, but was expecting a size 12 and got a 16/18 but sadly my cock overtook my brain and I went ahead anyway  I would have been really polite about it as I don't see the need to be rude, I just needed bigger balls to be able to walk.

[pythondan]

For the past few years I have popped a blue pill before punts so generally I am well up for it before I get to the venue so things would have to be quite wrong to get me to walk.

The thing that really puts me off is horrible black teeth. I very rarely see EE girls so bait and switch not much of a problem. I agree to an extent about  "Plain Janes"  - had a few meets where I have initially been disappointed by a girl's appearance but then have had an amazing time due to the girl's skills in the sack. The opposite is also true - greeted by an absolute stunner who turns out to be as exciting as watching the test card once the action starts.

[Marmalade]

“Sorry, wrong door.” is one I think I’ve used in the past.

[Marmalade]

What would you do if you turned up to a booking and wasn't attracted to the escort what would you say?

One never knows, you see Syndee, whether the person on the other side of the door is nice, respectable service provider or a drug-fuelled nutter. (Just as you maybe never know whether the person knocking on the door will be nice gentleman or a nasty abusive freak.)

So as one gets experience (either side of the door) hopefully one’s reactions and responses quickly tune in to say something appropriate. Probably better than a one-size-fits-all — though a few handy phrases are doubtless good preparation.

Shoe on the other foot, have you ever turned someone away gently and what did you say?

[Doc Holliday]

“Sorry, wrong door.” is one I think I’ve used in the past.

Did they believe you? Would sound a bit wooden to me?

I think I have been fortunate, because I have never seen any reason to walk.



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[Marmalade]

Did they believe you? Would sound a bit wooden to me?

I think I have been fortunate, because I have never seen any reason to walk.



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I suppose you could just poke ‘em with your stick ;-)

Yes, it’s worked. Said over the shoulder while beating a hasty retreat. Or maybe just the first part. A place in London near Kings X comes to mind, a burly pimp opening the door and from the sound of it as I got down the stairs, getting quite angry. Have also used the blonde/brunette excuse in London where that would fly or just ‘expecting someone else’ if a clear B&S. Showed an Asian woman her profile picture once to explain she was not who I’d booked and the wee besom retorted that it was indeed her — about 30 years ago. She didn’t think there was anything wrong with that. Started hectoring me about I’d made the booking with her. I thought, not in my books, and walked. Quickly. Also abroad — just an ooops, sorry. They tend to be civilised enough to take a more civilised excuse up here though. Maybe as there’s less police pressure.

[Charliehutton]

Funnily enough, I walked from one this morning. It wasn't a b & s, and her profile pics weren't that misleading, but I knew from the word go I just didn't fancy her.

It can't be good for a girl's self esteem to be turned down in those circumstances, so I said my stock excuse, "I'm terribly sorry about this, but I haven't done this before, and I'm afraid I've got cold feet, and I can't go through with it, sorry."

Whether they ever believe it I wouldn't know, but it's just an effort to try to leave us both with a bit of dignity intact.

[Moby Dick]

Funnily enough, I walked from one this morning. It wasn't a b & s, and her profile pics weren't that misleading, but I knew from the word go I just didn't fancy her.

It can't be good for a girl's self esteem to be turned down in those circumstances, so I said my stock excuse, "I'm terribly sorry about this, but I haven't done this before, and I'm afraid I've got cold feet, and I can't go through with it, sorry."

Whether they ever believe it I wouldn't know, but it's just an effort to try to leave us both with a bit of dignity intact.

If you booked using a phone your number may end up on Clienteye of SAAFE as being a look and go timewaster.

[finn5555]

If you booked using a phone your number may end up on Clienteye of SAAFE as being a look and go timewaster.

Just change your sim 

[Crockers]

When I walked...

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=296711.0

[Thephoenix]

"left my wallet in the car" was the excuse i used in Erdington, Birmingham when I was faced with a recent ex junkie - she had a stunning figure but then (in the light) i saw her black teeth, some of which were missing. She knew I weren't coming back and insisted I leave something to guarantee my return. Of course that wasn't happening and she started to get a bit rattled and progressively vocal. I was running out of ideas but then suggested she accompany me to my car just so I could get out of the house. The relief when she agreed!  Phew! As soon as I stepped through onto the street I sprinted the 100 yards to the car and could hear her fading shouts to me. I then couldn't get the keys into the ignition because I was laughing so much at the ridiculous situation I found myself in late this evening.

I could have legged it many moons ago but that's not an option now. I'd be knackered after twenty yds.

I remember staying in a hotel in Benidorm and phoning to arrange a visit from a lady living in Altea who had to travel by train.
When she arrived we had a drink in the gardens then went up to my room.

As she undressed I noticed there was some kind of a rash on her body.
I couldn't believe she would turn up in that state.

Even though she was attractive and friendly and promised to give me a good time, there was no way I wanted to go near her.
Again not wanting to cause a scene the only thing I could think of was to say I'd suddenly felt guilty and couldn't go through with it.

I paid for her train fare and part of the fee...(I would have even paid the whole amount just to get rid of her)

[Straightsix]

Ah yeah. No getting away from that one 😄.

[pbrown355]

Can't walk if it's your place. Walked from what would have been my first punt. Parlour, just bottled it. Lots of research (and low expectations) has reduced the number of poor punts, as has the balls to walk if I don't fancy the lady. Usually it's the fault of the SP for misrepresenting herself. If I just don't fancy her anyway I'd just apologise and leave, but always politely.
Syndee, you sound very sweet, and your reaction is very human, but if (when) it happens again just open the door, let him go with a smile, even if he's a shitbag. Life's too short, move on.

[GingerBoy11]

hahaha

"I left my wallet in the car, let me go get it". . .then run. . .

"I forgot to get cash out, where is the closest cash machine". .. then run again hahaha

[Trotter671]

I've walked a few times (not too many thankfully). When it's been B&S. Couple of times when unfortunately just didn't fancy the lass - just said sorry I'm too nervous/this isn't for me - last thing I would want to do is hurt her feelings (I'm a softy!!)

[Charliehutton]

I've walked when unfortunately just didn't fancy the lass - just said sorry I'm too nervous/this isn't for me - last thing I would want to do is hurt her feelings (I'm a softy!!)

I'm with you, Trotter. The nervous/first time/cold feet story lets you walk while leaving both parties with a reason to feel their dignity is still intact. No need to be unnecessarily cruel about it.

[SynDee]

That was probably his aim if he stayed, if he left probably what gets him off in a sadistic manner. It's low level manipulation to be fair.

Unless you really look terrible then erm my apologies, there is someone for everyone  .

I was dressed to impress x

[SynDee]

Can't walk if it's your place. Walked from what would have been my first punt. Parlour, just bottled it. Lots of research (and low expectations) has reduced the number of poor punts, as has the balls to walk if I don't fancy the lady. Usually it's the fault of the SP for misrepresenting herself. If I just don't fancy her anyway I'd just apologise and leave, but always politely.
Syndee, you sound very sweet, and your reaction is very human, but if (when) it happens again just open the door, let him go with a smile, even if he's a shitbag. Life's too short, move on.

Thankyou so much xx so chasing after him half naked down the street shouting why dont you like me wasn't the right option? 

[SynDee]

For the past few years I have popped a blue pill before punts so generally I am well up for it before I get to the venue so things would have to be quite wrong to get me to walk.

The thing that really puts me off is horrible black teeth. I very rarely see EE girls so bait and switch not much of a problem. I agree to an extent about  "Plain Janes"  - had a few meets where I have initially been disappointed by a girl's appearance but then have had an amazing time due to the girl's skills in the sack. The opposite is also true - greeted by an absolute stunner who turns out to be as exciting as watching the test card once the action starts.

you lejend x

[SynDee]

I could have legged it many moons ago but that's not an option now. I'd be knackered after twenty yds.

I remember staying in a hotel in Benidorm and phoning to arrange a visit from a lady living in Altea who had to travel by train.
When she arrived we had a drink in the gardens then went up to my room.

As she undressed I noticed there was some kind of a rash on her body.
I couldn't believe she would turn up in that state.

Even though she was attractive and friendly and promised to give me a good time, there was no way I wanted to go near her.
Again not wanting to cause a scene the only thing I could think of was to say I'd suddenly felt guilty and couldn't go through with it.

I paid for her train fare and part of the fee...(I would have even paid the whole amount just to get rid of her)

Fair play, she shouldnt of turned hsvr followed thru with the booking if she had a rash...specially if its contagious x

[Deeplove]

I've only done this once, many other times I have just gone through with the punt!

I told her I was married and couldn't do this sorry.

Pretend to be nervous and shaking then just leave.

Works for me