The coldness of hookers

[Hobbit]

I'm quite a newcomer to this scene and have only met a handful of girls, but most of those girls have been really lovely. I have been amazed actually how nice that are. Ok I'm not an idiot, I know their reason for seeing me is my money but I treat them with respect. I take an interest in them as people and as a result we have a great time together. I then look forward to seeing them again and hopefully they enjoy seeing me as a person as well as a cash cow.

Yes, but percentage-wise roughly speaking, How satisfied are you after the session?

[Home Alone]

Definitely not many, just a few.

You're not able to count how many posters on here who choose not interact on here with you because of what is perceived as the extreme positions you adopt.

[JamesKW]

Is it just that some girls enjoy sex more than others? Or whether they are holding back a more engaging and real experience for their partners and boyfriends and we are just getting a semblance of that? I understand chemistry is important and if a prostitute doesn't like a client, she may provide a lack-lustered performance but the best girls don't think like that and try to provide a satisfying experience to all clients.

I guess its a case of some girls enjoy it more than others. I find party girls are quite upbeat,friendly and engaged generally,especially once you get to know them (quite alot of party girls do alot of different parties so you see them around quite alot,they become like regulars).To do the low level parties you would have to enjoy it, because you have to get through alot of very demanding punters very quickly and these girls return time and time again.Many are not professionals and do it for extra money on top of their regular jobs.

[Mr Doodle]

I don't see why escorting is any different to any other industry.. There is a small amount of those who excel at their vocation; the majority are average and there is a small amount that are worthless (usually bigger amount than those who excel). Also, in other industries, you are likely to get better service if you click with the person providing the service than not; how many times have you gone out of your way to help someone you don't get on with in your business?  Also, you have to set your expectations accordingly - if the WG doesn't advertise GFE and it has not been discussed/agreed, why would you be unhappy that a GFE was not on offer? [edit] Or, more accurately, if she was not really making you feel like she mattered to you beyond the transaction?

I don't punt anywhere near regularly enough - about mid last year was the last time I punted.. (I sort of moved to strip clubs for a while, too). However, like in normal work dealings, I find that if I respect people, show interest in them and are sensitive to what makes them tick and what stops them ticking, more often than not they are receptive and adopt a far better disposition than not. And at work, the person with the BO general lack of hygiene isn't going to be the one people want to spend a lot of time with.

So much like RobT22, most of my punts have been quite good... even those that have started off precariously.. There was one in Euston about 15 years ago - it was a lunch time walk from the office needing to scatch an itch - no real due diligence except a tart card in a phone box. Called, went to the house, the madame trollied out a bunch of young skinny girls - never really been interested in that type even when I was young. I went with the one that I though would be least sterile... And I could tell she wasn't terribly impressed to be providing a service to me. But I simply treated we well and took interest in her.. her mood changed and it was a great punt.. she went from being very mechanical to at least giving the impression she was happy to provide the service quite enthusiastically, too. It was too long before I joined UKP to write a review (wouldn't have remembered who it was).

I am satisfied with most of my punts.. There have been a few that just didn't go well.. Some have been where I was probably a turn off to the WG and there has been at least two I can remember where in the end, the WG was just not for me and no coaxing from the WG would get me into action.

[Littlefoot]

Its an approach that is appreciated and yields results, its an approach that works both ways and leads to better experiences on both sides, assuming a punter has done due diligence and chosen an escort he feels will tick his boxes.

Some clients are easier to work with and some are easier to satisfy, the nature of what we do and the fact that escorts are human beings too dictates that.  While we try (or at least the good ones do) to ensure we are even handed in how we treat clients and the experiences we give them not all bookings are made equal.

It is much easier to deliver satisfaction to someone if.....
They kiss passionately with lips and tongue......rather than open their mouth like they are screaming and try to ram their tongue in your mouth while dribbling down your throat and breathing heavy
They are generally good with their hands and know where a clit is .........as opposed to having long nails and using their hands like claws, ramming their fingers up ya chuff and clawing at your insides in a vain attempt to make you squirt
They smell nice and have made an effort with hygine .........as opposed to having BO, bad breath and a  cock that stinks of piss and smeg

Looks don't count for much with me, I've had a fantastic time with some of my least attractive (to me) clients and orgasms with clients i never thought I would have but we obviously clicked sexually. This is a two way street, yes you are paying and we are providing but to make an 80% into a 100% the answer is often attitude of both parties.

 

So we’ve met then. 

[JontyR]

I think the analogy of it being a business transaction fits only in some cases. It may work for you as a punter but I don't think it works for the SP.

I think a more apt comparison is in a retail or customer facing environment. If you have ever worked behind a bar or in a restaurant or shop you will know you have customers that you'll enjoy seeing and serving and those that don't. .

Those with an attitude, an air of expectation or entitlement will get a standard of service, but the smile will be painted and the one everyone else receives.

This doesn't apply in all cases. You get crap serving and shop staff as well who can't even manage the basics in a customer facing position. There may be other reasons for this and we all have bad days too, but basically I think a lot of the time you get the standard of service that you attitude deserves and not the amount of money you hand over.

[GreyDave]

  like Smiths in the 35 years of punting from Soho to Indys and parties and swingers spa events and many many shags with diffrent girls eack week up until March this year!!!

Only a few every wanted to shag me or gave the imperssion they did Curves unlimed s Holly , Karen of Karens Cocktails, a Busty 50 something Maltese lady and the Singaporean girl who took my cheery and maybe 3-4 others wanted to be shagged in the moment but after ...it was have a nice day BYE

[usroads]

Yes respect, hygiene and friendly disposition from both punter and provider wins the day every time.

No need to be concerned that its a money transaction. Like any other business, its a service and service has a cost to it.

Whether the sp actually likes the punter can never truly be discerned, even if you are a once a week regular, or she swears its true.
Best get over it and just enjoy.

I reckon you're spot on WelshClipper and you've summed up our hobby perfectly. I have a simple philosophy - Treat your whore like a princess whilst you're with her and you'll have a great time - and then move on. Punting is a hobby - not a quest for a girlfriend or wife

[hendrix]

I mostly stick to a small group of regulars who know what I like, and how I like it. Hence, 100% satisfaction for me. Whether they enjoy it really isn't my concern. The fact that they're happy to take repeat bookings regularly, suggests that the money at least, makes it worthwhile for them.

[Hobbit]

I mostly stick to a small group of regulars who know what I like, and how I like it. Hence, 100% satisfaction for me. Whether they enjoy it really isn't my concern. The fact that they're happy to take repeat bookings regularly, suggests that the money at least, makes it worthwhile for them.

That works fine until they retire or get too old and wrinkly. There is no guarantee you will find another group of regulars that can provide 100% satisfaction. Sometimes we end up going through a long barren patch, which I have for quite some time now ever since my favourites all retired. A lot of girls just have the "hole in the wall" mentality, which doesn't work for me.

I personally need a girl that will show great enthusiasm, engagement and passion. Otherwise, I might as well shag a tree.

[Grumpy Pumpy]

Personally, I'm amazed that some of the SPs I see are not more cold than they are. Even for the pretty decent amounts of money I pay them I wouldn't fancy shagging an old munter like me.

Those who are cold I don't see again. Those who are not, whether that's real or a performance, I return to. And, over the years, I've met a number who struck me as pretty decent human beings.

I don't overthink it, in terms of percentages. But I leave satisfied more than often than dissatisfied. Particularly since I've been on UKP

[Payyourwaymate]

Clearly he is delusional. A lot of girls provide good service without any attraction. However, only a minority provide outstanding service.

Where in my post are there delusions? My post gave a balanced view point of my personal experiences. I'm well aware WGs give good service without attraction but had only stated that attraction can have an effect aswell in which I have seen in my past experiences,  in both a positive and negative manner. If you want to be bitter about women thats fine but to call me deluded is funny, its not that serious. Its just having sex with sex workers not the meaning of life FFS.

[hendrix]

That works fine until they retire or get too old and wrinkly. There is no guarantee you will find another group of regulars that can provide 100% satisfaction. Sometimes we end up going through a long barren patch, which I have for quite some time now ever since my favourites all retired. A lot of girls just have the "hole in the wall" mentality, which doesn't work for me.

I personally need a girl that will show great enthusiasm, engagement and passion. Otherwise, I might as well shag a tree.

Yes, my group of excellent regulars used to be 8-10 in the mid 2000's - nowadays it's more like 4-5 max (Seeking Arrangements options included)

[Hobbit]

Where in my post are there delusions? My post gave a balanced view point of my personal experiences. I'm well aware WGs give good service without attraction but had only stated that attraction can have an effect aswell in which I have seen in my past experiences,  in both a positive and negative manner. If you want to be bitter about women thats fine but to call me deluded is funny, its not that serious. Its just having sex with sex workers not the meaning of life FFS.

I am not bitter at all. Like many punters, I would like to receive great service and that's all we want. You may be a very attractive man and hookers may feel attracted to you physically and there could be some and I don't deny that, but not many as you made it sound. Not in my experience anyway. 

[mh]

One I used to see who has retired I was talking to for quite a long time this afternoon, and she invited me to come and have some fun, free, at her place. I spent a memorable weekend with her last year, again, free, and met her husband who has his own business.

Is his business selling hidden camera porn, consisting a variety of amateur males with his ex-hooker wife? 

Remember, in any "free" transaction situation, if you're not the seller and not the customer then you're the product.

[Rochelle]

Clearly he is delusional. A lot of girls provide good service without any attraction. However, only a minority provide outstanding service.

You agree with me? So you're not one of the so-called many punters I've fallen out with?

[king tarzan]

You agree with me? So you're not one of the so-called many punters I've fallen out with?

Handbags handbags and stilettos

[Hobbit]

You agree with me? So you're not one of the so-called many punters I've fallen out with?

For once I do agree with you. I think there's a full moon tonight.

[Rochelle]

You're not able to count how many posters on here who choose not interact on here with you because of what is perceived as the extreme positions you adopt.

My views are no more extreme than many of those here.

[Rochelle]

For once I do agree with you. I think there's a full moon tonight.

You've agreed with me a few times if memory serves.

Anyway, back on topic as I won't be responsible for derailing any further.

[Payyourwaymate]

I am not bitter at all. Like many punters, I would like to receive great service and that's all we want. You may be a very attractive man and hookers may feel attracted to you physically and there could be some and I don't deny that, but not many as you made it sound. Not in my experience anyway. 

Ok fair enough, I see where you are coming from. I didn't mean to come off as boasting if thats how it came of as. I did also state there were times where WGs didn't like me aswell quite a couple times and the difference in service I experienced because of what I perceived from them. I even have bad reviews where chick's were damn near digusted by me so its not like I'm some model. I was just saying attraction can help in certain circumstances with service but it seems I did not express myself clearly enough in my initial post. Apologies.

[OakTree]

I can fairly say over the years and number of girls I've seen I've never come away 100% satisfied. I've been close but the fact of the matter is it's paid sex. It's never going to be as good as fucking someone who is doing it because she really craves your cock in her against someone doing it just for whats in your wallet. That's the bare face truth of it.

On a very rare occasion I've come across a WG who for whatever reason appears genuinely horny and has fucked me as if she needs to but it is very rare and even then could be just good acting. Even if it is genuine lust, at the back of my mind is always the thought I bet she wouldn't let me fuck her for nothing.

That all said I still very much a kick out of banging a top looking woman who probably wouldn't take a second glance at me in the real world let alone fuck her.

As for it being a cold attitude? Who cares.

[Hobbit]

I can fairly say over the years and number of girls I've seen I've never come away 100% satisfied. I've been close but the fact of the matter is it's paid sex. It's never going to be as good as fucking someone who is doing it because she really craves your cock in her against someone doing it just for whats in your wallet. That's the bare face truth of it.

On a very rare occasion I've come across a WG who for whatever reason appears genuinely horny and has fucked me as if she needs to but it is very rare and even then could be just good acting. Even if it is genuine lust, at the back of my mind is always the thought I bet she wouldn't let me fuck her for nothing.

That all said I still very much a kick out of banging a top looking woman who probably wouldn't take a second glance at me in the real world let alone fuck her.

As for it being a cold attitude? Who cares.

Interesting. I always find a cold attitude usually comes across in the quality of service. For example, is it possible to show enthusiasm, engagement and passion whilst being cold? I don't think so.

[joninbristol]

in 40 years plus of punting I have only ever met 3 or 4 that were drugged up, a good punt is down to your due diligence as much as the SP giving a good service

Agreed. If you're paying people like that for meets, it's just as much, if not more, a question of your own judgement. I've had one obvious druggie and only 3-4 bad experiences.

[smiths]

I can fairly say over the years and number of girls I've seen I've never come away 100% satisfied. I've been close but the fact of the matter is it's paid sex. It's never going to be as good as fucking someone who is doing it because she really craves your cock in her against someone doing it just for whats in your wallet. That's the bare face truth of it.

On a very rare occasion I've come across a WG who for whatever reason appears genuinely horny and has fucked me as if she needs to but it is very rare and even then could be just good acting. Even if it is genuine lust, at the back of my mind is always the thought I bet she wouldn't let me fuck her for nothing.

That all said I still very much a kick out of banging a top looking woman who probably wouldn't take a second glance at me in the real world let alone fuck her.

As for it being a cold attitude? Who cares.

Me I care greatly, a cold attitude off a WG is apart from fucking me over or stinking the worst thing and even more so if I have paid and the coldness comes out. I cant and don't wish to suck and fuck such WGs, its soft cock central so a total waste of my cash. The good thing is most cold WGs cant fool me long enough for me to have paid them, I detect it on the phone, or when I first meet them and walk.

I am not punting in the belief or hope a WG craves my cock up her, I am punting for my own sexual satisfaction, which is why I can walk away totally satisfied after a punt, if I couldn't do that I don't think I would bother punting as it wouldnt be worth it to me, but that remains to be proven to me. I do agree punting can never be anywhere near as good as being with a woman who is into me, even loves me, but I already know that, so my expectation level is just about getting a good service off the WG. If I have emptied my bollocks and walk away smiling which happens sometimes that itch has been scratched, for the moment.

[Hobbit]

Me I care greatly, a cold attitude off a WG is apart from fucking me over or stinking the worst thing and even more so if I have paid and the coldness comes out. I cant and don't wish to suck and fuck such WGs, its soft cock central so a total waste of my cash. The good thing is most cold WGs cant fool me long enough for me to have paid them, I detect it on the phone, or when I first meet them and walk.

I am not punting in the belief or hope a WG craves my cock up her, I am punting for my own sexual satisfaction, which is why I can walk away totally satisfied after a punt, if I couldn't do that I don't think I would bother punting as it wouldnt be worth it to me, but that remains to be proven to me. I do agree punting can never be anywhere near as good as being with a woman who is into me, even loves me, but I already know that, so my expectation level is just about getting a good service off the WG. If I have emptied my bollocks and walk away smiling which happens sometimes that itch has been scratched, for the moment.

A cold attitude is awful in any business. Even in a coffee shop if someone gives you coffee with a cold attitude, it's extremely offputting. So if you experience that during sex then that's going to have a significant negative effect and I certainly wouldn't return.

[smiths]

A cold attitude is awful in any business. Even in a coffee shop if someone gives you coffee with a cold attitude, it's extremely offputting. So if you experience that during sex then that's going to have a significant negative effect and I certainly wouldn't return.

I can put up with a cold attitude off someone in a shop as I know I wont be in their long, and I know I am not looking for them to suck and fuck me. I complain if its a big purchase as I expect good service, same as I do off WGs.

[Colston36]

Utter nonsense helping out a hooker financially.. they earn plenty.. sounds to me your there soggy sob story digestive biscuit in hot tea..

You live your life, I'll live mine.

In the meantime learn how to differentiate between hard words like "there" and "their". With your intellect it can't take more than a year or two.

[Grumpy Pumpy]

You live your life, I'll live mine.

In the meantime learn how to differentiate between hard words like "there" and "their". With your intellect it can't take more than a year or two.

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[Picti]

I've rarely experienced the coldness referred to. Neither do I experience 100% satisfaction as it's an arrangement based on only a small subset of qualities and activities I'd want in a civvy partner.

I've always considered that I (as punter) have equal and shared responsibility and influence on the course and quality of a punt. The nature of the arrangement is transactional, but the quality of the interaction and service / experience is reliant on degrees of reciprocity and mutual appreciation.

So beyond the basics of being reliable, clean, respectful, etc I attempt to be engaging, personable, get some banter going, make things playful and fun, etc. This is primarily for her to feel safe, comfortable, relaxed, and to develop the communication between us, rather than anything personal or based on attraction. In the sex I'll adhere to her stated boundaries, gauge her responses (verbal and non-verbal) to what we're doing and adapt accordingly, and try to make it fun and enjoyable.

If she can't respond positively to that type of effort and approach then I don't return.

[Kelgon85]

I have had a couple of cold ones here and there, but by and large, the vast majority of WGs I have seen over the last five years have been lovely people. You know, its pretty simple really. I've found that if you treat them like human (that is, after all, what they are), then they will treat you the same right back. I have "clicked" with a couple of them over the years, and its no coincidence that these are the ones that have resulted in my best experiences. I have one main regular who I haven't seen since January (for obvious reasons), but I like to think there is a mutual "click" there when we get together. Does she fancy me? Almost definitely not. She has repeatedly called me handsome and good looking, though, even calling me Mr. Handsome a few times when messaging me. It gives me a chuckle, but I accept the compliment. I've been called handsome a few times in the "real world", so it is what it is (at least I like to think so!).

The only appointment I can safely say left me 100% satisfied, or at least very close to (as in 98-99%), was with the regular I have just mentioned. It was in September 2019. I think I've probably had four or five other encounters I can say have left me close to 100% satisfied, so its not a common occurrence. Saying that, ones that have left me pretty close to 0% satisfied are also just as elusive. For me, the worst ones are the ones that are just very "middle of the road". They always leave me feeling empty and like I've just blown loads of money at the bookies.

[Jerk Chicken]

I too have rarely experienced the coldness/dead fish type punt.

Always gives me a little chuckle in these debates when some post “opinions” but state them as “facts”.

What we can say with a reasonably degree of certainty is some punters regularly get a better service and/or extract better value out of their punt than others.

Now that could be down to physical attraction, better due diligence or they are just simply nicer people when they arrive in the room hence the WG responds and puts her all in to the session so they leave fully satisfied. Attraction comes in many forms.

Over on he other site many WGs admit to fancying punters or attracted to the punter because he has a certain “thing” about him. Why some would want to even challenge that is beyond me.

[Rochelle]

I too have rarely experienced the coldness/dead fish type punt.

Always gives me a little chuckle in these debates when some post “opinions” but state them as “facts”.

What we can say with a reasonably degree of certainty is some punters regularly get a better service and/or extract better value out of their punt than others.

Now that could be down to physical attraction, better due diligence or they are just simply nicer people when they arrive in the room hence the WG responds and puts her all in to the session so they leave fully satisfied. Attraction comes in many forms.

Over on he other site many WGs admit to fancying punters or attracted to the punter because he has a certain “thing” about him. Why some would want to even challenge that is beyond me.

I don't think anyone actually said that it never happens.

[Jerk Chicken]

I don't think anyone actually said that it never happens.

A challenge is not the same as saying it never happens.

Saying to @payyourwaymate that he was “fooled/lied to in terms of a WG being attracted to him” when you have no idea of the WGs he met or the encounters he had as you wasn’t there feeds the old stereotype of punter/WG interactions that you like to challenge so much!

[OakTree]

Me I care greatly, a cold attitude off a WG is apart from fucking me over or stinking the worst thing and even more so if I have paid and the coldness comes out. I cant and don't wish to suck and fuck such WGs, its soft cock central so a total waste of my cash. The good thing is most cold WGs cant fool me long enough for me to have paid them, I detect it on the phone, or when I first meet them and walk.

I am not punting in the belief or hope a WG craves my cock up her, I am punting for my own sexual satisfaction, which is why I can walk away totally satisfied after a punt, if I couldn't do that I don't think I would bother punting as it wouldnt be worth it to me, but that remains to be proven to me. I do agree punting can never be anywhere near as good as being with a woman who is into me, even loves me, but I already know that, so my expectation level is just about getting a good service off the WG. If I have emptied my bollocks and walk away smiling which happens sometimes that itch has been scratched, for the moment.

I might not have got that over clearly. I meant cold as in her personal feelings and non real pleasure of the act of fucking with a punter. How she behaves in the room obviously is paramount to a good punt. I accept that the vast majority are acting and that as long as she does that well I couldn't care less about her inner disinterest or even dislike of me.

[Rochelle]

A challenge is not the same as saying it never happens.

Saying to @payyourwaymate that he was “fooled/lied to in terms of a WG being attracted to him” when you have no idea of the WGs he met or the encounters he had as you wasn’t there feeds the old stereotype of punter/WG interactions that you like to challenge so much!

No it doesn't. I think you need to read it again. I said some of them would have lied or fooled him.

[Jerk Chicken]

No it doesn't. I think you need to read it again. I said some of them would have lied or fooled him.

That’s my very point “some”  ... you base that on what?

Just accept the basis for your “some” is flawed and your subconscious mindset of the stereotype that not even you can get away from. Take note he does not say how many of the WGs were attracted to him. No stats have been offered. Based on his reviews/posts he punts often. The ones that were genuinely attracted to him could be a very small percentage of his punts we simply do not know. If this is so then his statement to me, on face value, has some merit.

But you still conclude that “some” of those that he says were attracted to him fooled him.

[Greenchilli]

Make that effort, spread your legs, get your tits, pussy and arse out, kiss me, suck my cock OWO and it could be a good punt.

Crash course in what makes punter happy 

[Rochelle]

That’s my very point “some”  ... you base that on what?

Just accept the basis for your “some” is flawed and your subconscious mindset of the stereotype that not even you can’t get away from. Take note he does not say how many of the WGs were attracted to him. No stats have been offered. Based on his reviews/posts he punts often. The ones that were genuinely attracted to him could be a very small percentage of his punts we simply do not know. If this is so then his statement to me, on face value, has some merit.

But you still conclude that “some” of those that he says were attracted to him fooled him.

No stereotyping here. I simply stated that some of those who claimed to be attracted to him would have been putting on an act/lying/whatever you want to call it. I'm not sure what the issue is with me stating that. It's obvious that some would have been genuine and some wouldn't have been.
 
Unless of course you've always believed that WGs always tell the truth? And that they always mean it when they give you a compliment?

He actually said that he's been left satisfied many times and that they all either found him attractive or pleasant to be around and they told him so. He said they ended up making more of an effort.
He said that the times they weren't attracted to him, the service was perfunctory. He also said it's easy to tell when an escort is faking genuine enthusiasm and physical attraction.

I'm simply saying that some of those times he left satisfied because they were apparently into him, it would have been an act. I don't know why that seems so difficult to swallow for some of you.

[Bonker]

I've had my fair share of coldness - A modicum of response, a mere smidgin of attention, an erg of energy, obsession with money 

Why do bother to keep trying? She's good the kids and divorce is very expensive.

[Hollywell]

I have only been enjoying this hobby for a short time, I'm always on time clean and respectful, I have found great assistance from this site as you can see from my reviews, I'm under no illusions  that these ladies would possibly decline my advances in a normal setting however I have found a few I feel I click with and see them regularly as the sp makes the experience enjoyable, I do however believe that if you treat a lady like whore you will be treated like a punter,

[smiths]

I might not have got that over clearly. I meant cold as in her personal feelings and non real pleasure of the act of fucking with a punter. How she behaves in the room obviously is paramount to a good punt. I accept that the vast majority are acting and that as long as she does that well I couldn't care less about her inner disinterest or even dislike of me.

Thanks for the clarification.

[smiths]

Crash course in what makes punter happy 

I am easily satisfied as long as those things are on offer.

[Jerk Chicken]

No stereotyping here. I simply stated that some of those who claimed to be attracted to him would have been putting on an act/lying/whatever you want to call it. I'm not sure what the issue is with me stating that. It's obvious that some would have been genuine and some wouldn't have been.
 
Unless of course you've always believed that WGs always tell the truth? And that they always mean it when they give you a compliment?

He actually said that he's been left satisfied many times and that they all either found him attractive or pleasant to be around and they told him so. He said they ended up making more of an effort.
He said that the times they weren't attracted to him, the service was perfunctory. He also said it's easy to tell when an escort is faking genuine enthusiasm and physical attraction.

I'm simply saying that some of those times he left satisfied because they were apparently into him, it would have been an act. I don't know why that seems so difficult to swallow for some of you.

It’s a sweeping stereotypical generalisation and/or an assumption with no facts to back it up based on maybe your own experiences, the industry norm or what other WGs have told you. There will always be exceptions to the rule in any profession.

Just accept you do not know if some were into him or not. You also do not know if it was genuine fondness in a brief encounter or an act. Some guys have a knack of making WGs feel
good about themselves in the murky world of cock and paid pussy. This can lead to being attracted to the punter so an excellent punt follows unscripted no acting involved.

Any claim that you do know he was lied to or fooled as fact rather than your own assumption (you were not there) is absolute poppycock.

As I said in my first post on this thread I do chuckle when some posters post statements and then try to dress them up as punting facts.

[Rochelle]

It’s a sweeping stereotypical generalisation and/or an assumption with no facts to back it up based on maybe your own experiences, the industry norm or what other WGs have told you. There will always be exceptions to the rule in any profession.

Just accept you do not know if some were into him or not. You also do not know if it was genuine fondness in a brief encounter or an act. Some guys have a knack of making WGs feel
good about themselves in the murky world of cock and paid pussy. This can lead to being attracted to the punter so an excellent punt follows unscripted no acting involved.

Any claim that you do know he was lied to or fooled as fact rather than your own assumption (you were not there) is absolute poppycock.

As I said in my first post on this thread I do chuckle when some posters post statements and then try to dress them up as punting facts.

No. It's called common sense that I understand that some were actually into him and some pretended they were into him.
Reading comprehension clearly isn't your forte so I won't bother with you any further.

[Hobbit]

It’s a sweeping stereotypical generalisation and/or an assumption with no facts to back it up based on maybe your own experiences, the industry norm or what other WGs have told you. There will always be exceptions to the rule in any profession.

Just accept you do not know if some were into him or not. You also do not know if it was genuine fondness in a brief encounter or an act. Some guys have a knack of making WGs feel
good about themselves in the murky world of cock and paid pussy. This can lead to being attracted to the punter so an excellent punt follows unscripted no acting involved.

Any claim that you do know he was lied to or fooled as fact rather than your own assumption (you were not there) is absolute poppycock.

As I said in my first post on this thread I do chuckle when some posters post statements and then try to dress them up as punting facts.

The only thing I would say about his statement is that if he is so attractive then why is he seeing escorts? Surely he can pick up any girl if he is that attractive, unless he has a confidence issue which is a different issue in itself.

[Rochelle]

The only thing I would say about his statement is that if he is so attractive then why is he seeing escorts? Surely he can pick up any girl if he is that attractive, unless he has a confidence issue which is a different issue in itself.

I've met hot guys in this job, I've met guys I've been into. I've never denied that it happens.

[JontyR]

The only thing I would say about his statement is that if he is so attractive then why is he seeing escorts? Surely he can pick up any girl if he is that attractive, unless he has a confidence issue which is a different issue in itself.

Long ago I was asked this by one escort after we had done the deed early on a Saturday evening (I was younger and fitter). I pointed out that the chance of there being a slim, 6 foot tall, curly haired blonde when I went out were slim.

It could be a requirement of a particular service, it could be time, it could be not wanting to explain why you don't want to see them again.

[JonasG]

I've left happy many times with different WGs tbh, in terms of pure satisfaction. Whether that's 99% satisfaction I dunno but as long you're walking off ecstatic is good enough for me.

Obviously some come and go, some girls start off great and then tail off in their service and then you stop seeing them. And of course you have the outright awful WGs.

But in 3 years of punting I'm pretty happy with the truly good WGs I've seen who have put up a great pretence and show.

[JonasG]

As much as punters would like to believe that escorts do this because the really love the job, love meeting people and stuff (all of which may be true), the bottom line is...they doit for the money. Without the money that "really loves doing her job" wouldn't really be there, it's hard to "really love your job" no matter what when it physically and emotionally drains you. And make no mistake it is draining because even putting on am act requires a lot of effort, it requires blocking off certain emotions. This is all because sex itself is such an intimate and personal act that you simply can't do it 5 days a week 5-8 times a day without it draining you both emotionally and physically no matter how sex crazy and sex positive you are.

What punters should be concerned about is whether that escort did a good job at putting up her work persona or not rather than whether she was "really into it" because the latter is just not possible. Some escorts may say they don't act and yea that may be true but it still requires putting on a person's where only the positive aspects of your personality show up and suppress any of the negative aspects of your personality. Which is a really really hard thing to do humans have both positive and negative aspects...it's what makes them human and natural. If every escort was just "totally natural" for real...the way they are with people in their personal life then that wouldn't be good business.

Exactly. Punters worrying about the WG actually truly being into it are nuts and they're in the wrong hobby or are looking at getting something different from this.

It's all about if she puts up a good illusion and makes it SEEM like she's into it.

That's it.

Whenever I read review and it says I made her orgasm it makes me laugh.