Punting while black is hard

[Metalgear2018]

As a black punter. I find myself being overly friendly to put the escort at ease. I over communicate during the punt by saying “are you okay?” “I’m I allowed to touch you here?” Or “you don’t mind me being black?” This is stressful  because I know black male punters have a bad reputation from the size of the manhood to bad attitude. Also I find myself super anxious punting while black. Also searching on AW is hard work. I read through profiles such as the interview to look for black friendly terms. Such as, favourite holiday destination? Jamaica or favourite celebrity? Will Smith. Favourite music? Hip hop and RnB

[southcoastpunter]

hey i am not black so maybe don't understand the issues you face and i don't mean to play them down  - but are you over thinking things? if there is nothing on her profile then it seems (at least to me) ok to assume she will be happy to see you but if you wanted to double check, can't you just ask her?

but you do need to re-think something! - according to your reviews, only 4 out of 16 are positive! Have you thought why that is - or are you thinking that is (at least in part) because of your ethnicity?

[Ron89]

I sympathise. Why overthink it though? Just say you’re black in your text to ensure the w/g doesn’t have a problem - if she says that’s fine then assume there’s no problem and don’t feel the need to be overly nice. Go about the punt as normal.

[Payyourwaymate]

Not again lol.

[chadpitt]

Not again lol.

IKR. Like #firstworldproblems

[daviemac]

As a black punter. I find myself being overly friendly to put the escort at ease. I over communicate during the punt by saying “are you okay?” “I’m I allowed to touch you here?” Or “you don’t mind me being black?” This is stressful  because I know black male punters have a bad reputation from the size of the manhood to bad attitude. Also I find myself super anxious punting while black. Also searching on AW is hard work. I read through profiles such as the interview to look for black friendly terms. Such as, favourite holiday destination? Jamaica or favourite celebrity? Will Smith. Favourite music? Hip hop and RnB

This has been done to death, there's threads all over the forum about NBA policies.

There's one here from last month but there aren't many replies as everything that can be said has been said very recently.  https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=349804.0

[Trex]

only 4 out of 16 are positive!

Well at least his not leeching, so I’m going to help him out. Hey metalgear the problem is the highest you paid is about £60 and most of the services you go for is a 15 mins quicky. Which is not good.

Maybe go for someone well reviewed on here and go for £100-120 for 30 mins. If you can’t do that then might as well quit punting because you will go though the same issues.

[southcoastpunter]

Trex - that was my point. with such a ratio, something is not right. whether that is his colour or something else, i did not speculate on but maybe your comments can be part of an explanation!

[CrashingSea]

black guy here. You are overthinking it. If clearly stated that she doesn't see black people do not proceed with punt. Confirm do's and donts before the punt on phone and in person. Simple.

[MissWolf]

As a black punter. I find myself being overly friendly to put the escort at ease. I over communicate during the punt by saying “are you okay?” “I’m I allowed to touch you here?” Or “you don’t mind me being black?” This is stressful  because I know black male punters have a bad reputation from the size of the manhood to bad attitude. Also I find myself super anxious punting while black. Also searching on AW is hard work. I read through profiles such as the interview to look for black friendly terms. Such as, favourite holiday destination? Jamaica or favourite celebrity? Will Smith. Favourite music? Hip hop and RnB

Best get used to it or give up cos last time I looked medical science hasn't worked out a way to change your colour 

A dick of any colour is still a dick and you come across as a massive one 

[Drcoco]

I feel nervous if they have a nba.
I'm not black but also can't say I'm white so most of the time I avoid them if they have nba and remember trying to clarify with one if she would see me in pre texts her response was she would only see white British = fair enough.
Sometimes a nba doesn't mean no blacks it just means white guys only and generally now avoid any girl that has one.
But the good thing about this game is there are plenty who will and give a good time.

[Ali Katt]

As a black punter. I find myself being overly friendly to put the escort at ease. I over communicate during the punt by saying “are you okay?” “I’m I allowed to touch you here?” Or “you don’t mind me being black?” This is stressful  because I know black male punters have a bad reputation from the size of the manhood to bad attitude. Also I find myself super anxious punting while black. Also searching on AW is hard work. I read through profiles such as the interview to look for black friendly terms. Such as, favourite holiday destination? Jamaica or favourite celebrity? Will Smith. Favourite music? Hip hop and RnB

More race baiting bollocks from you. The problem isn't your skin colour, it's you; you're the common denominator in every punt. If you go in thinking this girl's racist, she doesn't like me etc then you are going to set yourself up for disappointment, doubly if you are treating her like a psychologist.

Loads of black, mixed raced and Asian punters on this board who aren't as unlucky as you.

[StingRay]

Best get used to it or give up cos last time I looked medical science hasn't worked out a way to change your colour   
I thought Michael Jackson worked out a way?   

[RAJEC]

Punting in general is hard for you because you’re a complete ****.

[alabama1]

Punting "while black' makes you sound like a cameleon. Can you change colour at will ? 

[sensualencounter]

Punting in general is hard for you because you’re a complete ****.

You beat me to it  the OP is a total wanker. He thinks he’s always the victim yet his posts have proved that he’s dodgy as fuck.

[hendrix]

Given your other thread.. No. Punting whilst YOU is hard. Thankfully.

[Crockers]

Having read your other thread as well, I agree the prob is you.

I've been with almost 40 escorts in about 2.5 years. All White.

Would've been more but I'm into regs, some who have now moved into an arrangement with me on days they are not working.

I'm not White.

You are that cockwomble twat that escorts hate.

[hendrix]

The OP is some sort of masochist lmao

[Colston36]

Punting while white can be hard. About 4 years ago one white girl who owed me favours had invited me to breakfast as a thank you. Instead at the last minute she decided to go off to be fucked by 3 black guys. Quite a few girls prefer black.

[alabama1]

Punting while white can be hard. About 4 years ago one white girl who owed me favours had invited me to breakfast as a thank you. Instead at the last minute she decided to go off to be fucked by 3 black guys. Quite a few girls prefer black.

Except you weren't attempting a punt, you were going for breakfast. 

[Colston36]

Except you weren't attempting a punt, you were going for breakfast. 

You really are a dreary smart arse. I had already had several sessions with her and a dominatrix.

[Ali Katt]

Punting while white can be hard. About 4 years ago one white girl who owed me favours had invited me to breakfast as a thank you. Instead at the last minute she decided to go off to be fucked by 3 black guys. Quite a few girls prefer black.

I've seen a girl who prefers black. No worries still had a great time and a good laugh.

[puntingpumping1920]

I read through profiles such as the interview to look for black friendly terms. Such as, favourite holiday destination? Jamaica or favourite celebrity? Will Smith. Favourite music? Hip hop and RnB

She may have all those answers in her interview section and still be a bad provider

Just seek good professional SPs that see black men

Leave your worries at the door

[Ali Katt]

She may have all those answers in her interview section and still be a bad provider

Just seek good professional SPs that see black men

Leave your worries at the door

Or photos and videos of her sucking on a couple of blackwoods.

[mills_and_bhuna]

Except you weren't attempting a punt, you were going for breakfast. 

Yes. But black pudding wasn't on the menu.....

[mills_and_bhuna]

Given your other thread.. No. Punting whilst YOU is hard. Thankfully.

word probably gets around if one pushes boundaries. 
If I was a WG I'd avoid cheapskates too

[Colston36]

Yes. But black pudding wasn't on the menu.....

Funny thing is that one of the girls I like best - KellyAnnKink - does prefer black pudding. But so did I - was married for 20 odd years to an African-American.

[Milfman1112]

Back to the op's post,
Think it is more to do with attitude than colour,
Going by your other post.

[adamza]

Agree with some of the comments above, think you're overthinking it OP.

I'm Asian and have faced similar issues r.e. profiles stating "no Asian clients" etc. But you just move on. It's great when a profile says "all races, ages, sizes etc are fine" as this puts you at ease...but unless there's anything to indicate that the WG has a NBA policy, proceed as normal.

Also the punting name that I use is a pretty clear indicator that I'm Asian, which helps as I would expect them to raise any concerns as soon as I tell them the name.

Happy punting 

[Belgarion]

As a black punter. I find myself being overly friendly to put the escort at ease. I over communicate during the punt by saying “are you okay?” “I’m I allowed to touch you here?” Or “you don’t mind me being black?” This is stressful  because I know black male punters have a bad reputation from the size of the manhood to bad attitude. Also I find myself super anxious punting while black. Also searching on AW is hard work. I read through profiles such as the interview to look for black friendly terms. Such as, favourite holiday destination? Jamaica or favourite celebrity? Will Smith. Favourite music? Hip hop and RnB

Punting is not hard. Find tbe person who is happy to take your money and offer services.

I'm black and I've punted all over tbe world.

[Kevin Boss]

I myself am black and initially when I first started it was tough with policies but funny enough I found even some with NBA's will see you if you call them over the phone and they just like how you sound as weird as it is. I've accidentally run into WGs I never knew had NBAs who have allowed return visits after. However there are plenty of women around that will not have an NBA, so instead of fretting just avoid that one and go to another. I find a lot of polish and Dominican WGs from experience have had no issue.

Don't go into punts already assuming they have a target on you or mindset that you're black, you're already showing prejudice yourself which just fucks up the mood of the punt before you're in thru the door. Act yourself and go with the vibes, some WGs will have limits on their page that can help else go with the flow.

[Home Alone]

Punting in general is hard for you because you’re a complete ****.

I've been trying restrain myself, @Metalgear2018; but you really come across as probably the biggest whinger on this Board.

I've no idea - nor any wish to know - how old you are; but try putting yourself in the shoes - in my case, surgical boots and caliper - of another punter before the next time you want to paint yourself as the spoilt brat that came across in your OP.

I was 58 with a hideous scar, which has been across my spine since the day I was born; and a left leg which had been immobilised in a groin-to-heel caliper before I went for my earliest punts with SPs, all of whom were young enough to be my daughter. So, not black; but by no means a physically attractive specimen for a client.

Once I graduated from seeing young girls in the Massage Parlours of Greater Manchester and started arranging appointments with SPs via texts. I used to send them texts explaining what I looked like and would understand if they didn't want to see such an unattractive specimen. Without exception, none of them refused the opportunity to take some of my cash off me.

So all I'd say to you, @ Metalgear2018, is "FFS, grow a pair; and stop whinging!"

[Thephoenix]

Well said HA!

[tynetunnel]

I’m glad you shed those shackles of restraint HA, it wanted saying! 

[lillythesavage]

I've been trying restrain myself, @Metalgear2018; but you really come across as probably the biggest whinger on this Board.

I've no idea - nor any wish to know - how old you are; but try putting yourself in the shoes - in my case, surgical boots and caliper - of another punter before the next time you want to paint yourself as the spoilt brat that came across in your OP.

I was 58 with a hideous scar, which has been across my spine since the day I was born; and a left leg which had been immobilised in a groin-to-heel caliper before I went for my earliest punts with SPs, all of whom were young enough to be my daughter. So, not black; but by no means a physically attractive specimen for a client.

Once I graduated from seeing young girls in the Massage Parlours of Greater Manchester and started arranging appointments with SPs via texts. I used to send them texts explaining what I looked like and would understand if they didn't want to see such an unattractive specimen. Without exception, none of them refused the opportunity to take some of my cash off me.

So all I'd say to you, @ Metalgear2018, is "FFS, grow a pair; and stop whinging!"

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=351762.0

You may have missed the above thread HA, his punting problems are of his own making, as that thread confirms.

I have a punting mate, not together, our wants are very different. Must be a good friend  , he borrowed my car more than 3 years ago and still has it  .

In the civvy stakes he blows me out of the water, big time, with all sorts of women  . Never mentioned being refused a punt either. Though we all know it happens.

I think the answer to @metalgear2018 is a twat is a twat, growing balls will not change it, a brain transplant might 

[tynetunnel]

Must be a good friend  , he borrowed my car more than 3 years ago and still has it  .

Cracked me up! 

[lillythesavage]

Cracked me up! 

    Not so funny if I added up the insurance and RFL costs   

Only money and tbf he helps me out a lot and does not always get paid 

[Milfman1112]

I've been trying restrain myself, @Metalgear2018; but you really come across as probably the biggest whinger on this Board.

I've no idea - nor any wish to know - how old you are; but try putting yourself in the shoes - in my case, surgical boots and caliper - of another punter before the next time you want to paint yourself as the spoilt brat that came across in your OP.

I was 58 with a hideous scar, which has been across my spine since the day I was born; and a left leg which had been immobilised in a groin-to-heel caliper before I went for my earliest punts with SPs, all of whom were young enough to be my daughter. So, not black; but by no means a physically attractive specimen for a client.

Once I graduated from seeing young girls in the Massage Parlours of Greater Manchester and started arranging appointments with SPs via texts. I used to send them texts explaining what I looked like and would understand if they didn't want to see such an unattractive specimen. Without exception, none of them refused the opportunity to take some of my cash off me.

So all I'd say to you, @ Metalgear2018, is "FFS, grow a pair; and stop whinging!"

Well said,
Though I doubt there will be any explanation from Metalgear,
He is probably on holiday with mum and dad just now and will have too much homework when he returns.

[Home Alone]

Well said,
Though I doubt there will be any explanation from Metalgear,
He is probably on holiday with mum and dad just now and will have too much homework when he returns.

Unlikely, @Milfman1112; he does have 17 Reviews, after all.

[pewpewpew]

Been loads of times when I've text a girl for a meeting and they send me the price list etc and ask where I'm from. I usually just reply "I'm white" and they agree to meet. Next time I might say that I'm a white guy born in China and adopted by black foster parents who moved us to India

[Topgun1]

If asked I usually tell them I’m a panda. Never had any issues at all.

Manners, money and hygiene.

[JustaPunter]

Unlikely, @Milfman1112; he does have 17 Reviews, after all.

You should read his reviews.

Might give you some context

[Milfman1112]

You should read his reviews.

Might give you some context

Certainly did....

[Jerboa]

Why did this thread remind me of this scene in FMJ?  External Link/Members Only

[Nagilum]

You are overthinking it. Just go in and relax, they do not care what you look like, only the money you give. Treat it for the transaction that it is.

[p4ds]

Most of the girls I like have NBA policy so to some extent I agree.. we have less options.

[tynetunnel]

The OP doesn’t seem to have had much luck with his punts

16 reviews:

10 Negative
2 Neutral
4 Positive

Maybe he’d do well to read other reviews for better a positive punt ratio? 

[Ali Katt]

The OP doesn’t seem to have had much luck with his punts

16 reviews:

10 Negative
2 Neutral
4 Positive

Maybe he’d do well to read other reviews for better a positive punt ratio? 

Seeing the cheapest EEs on the market for quickies probably doesn't help. You get good and bad at all price ranges though.

[JonasG]

A quick glance at his reviews and the main issue seems to be he either TOFTT's a lot or is seeing WGs who already don't exactly have good review rates by the time of his review.

But some punters like TOFTTing and taking chances, which is fine I used to do that.