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Offline finn5555

no not at all, bloody hell  :scare: we need a facepalm emoji on here just for me I think lol

Some of your comments deserve it 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

Offline Lou2019

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Don’t share personal information with hookers they cannot be trusted  :hi:

don't tar us all with the same brush, like I said earlier it takes a special kind of evil

Offline Lou2019

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Some of your comments deserve it 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

I know happy to admit it too  :unknown: :D

Offline finn5555

don't tar us all with the same brush, like I said earlier it takes a special kind of evil

The “other” Lou was a real evil cunt but I still wouldn’t trust you, nothing personal but I don’t share personal info with prostitutes  :hi:

Your here to provide a service simple as that

Offline Marmalade

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again to avoid any possible misunderstanding: forum etiquette and bookings etiquette are entirely separate in my opinion. I’m super charming and considerate in bookings and in outcalls also go to some lengths to make her feel reassured, safe, comfortable etc. This is not just politeness it’s also the best way to help her give me her best service. (It’s polite psychology. It doesn’t involve tips or ignoring my own requirements, including getting the full time agreed.)

On the forum, I follow the standard of posts should be for the benefit of other punters, not the service provider. Reviews are to praise good performances and excoriate bad ones. (I prefer that wording as it is up to the punter reading it if he wants to compare my experience and opinions with that of other punters.) It’s a judgment of the performance not of the SP (she might be having a ‘good’ day or a ‘bad’ day — I don’t give a shit.)

To SPs (p4ps) who are members of the forum, I take a similar attitude as I do for punters: any post is simply a response to what has been written, it’s nothing personal, and there’s no attitude, emotion or attachment involved. The only difference is that prossies don’t always have a clear separation between their ‘work’ persona and their forum persona, and often tend to get uppity — in which case they get hammered and wonder if it’s ‘fair’.

It’s not a democracy. The mod’s decide: invoke them at your peril!  :)

Offline smiths

Don’t share personal information with hookers they cannot be trusted  :hi:

Great advice in my view. :thumbsup: Apart from trusting a WG to take a booking using my punting phone and then offer me a good service in exchange for my cash there is no reason to trust any with my real personal info as its not relevant for them to know it.

Offline Home Alone

Don’t share personal information with hookers they cannot be trusted  :hi:
Spot on, finn5555. You aren't wooing each other; you're paying her to shag her.

Offline Lou2019

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Spot on, finn5555. You aren't wooing each other; you're paying her to shag her.

I don't think anyone disputes that statement, there obviously is a big difference between for example talking about what breed your dog is compared to telling someone where you work. Saying that though guys I've seen for many years have divulged personal information (and I have too to a certain degree) because they know I'm trustworthy. Anyway that's just my thoughts.

Offline daviemac

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I don't think anyone disputes that statement, there obviously is a big difference between for example talking about what breed your dog is compared to telling someone where you work. Saying that though guys I've seen for many years have divulged personal information (and I have too to a certain degree) because they know I'm trustworthy. Anyway that's just my thoughts.
I think trust is the main factor in what information is disclosed, for me it's the same as who I would have an outcall with, I wouldn't just pick some random off AW who I knew nothing about.

I never ask any personal questions during a punt and as I have no way of knowing if it's true, I take anything I'm told with a pinch of salt. Not forgetting the SP has no way of knowing if what I tell her is true either.

Offline Lou2019

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I think trust is the main factor in what information is disclosed, for me it's the same as who I would have an outcall with, I wouldn't just pick some random off AW who I knew nothing about.

I never ask any personal questions during a punt and as I have no way of knowing if it's true, I take anything I'm told with a pinch of salt. Not forgetting the SP has no way of knowing if what I tell her is true either.

Completely, an outcall to your home is probably as vulnerable (couldn't think of a better word sorry)  as you can make yourself. That takes a lot of trust as you say. Whilst it's nice to build a rapport with regulars there's still boundaries. Sorry I'm going off topic now Davie (just for a change)

Offline finn5555

I don't think anyone disputes that statement, there obviously is a big difference between for example talking about what breed your dog is compared to telling someone where you work. Saying that though guys I've seen for many years have divulged personal information (and I have too to a certain degree) because they know I'm trustworthy. Anyway that's just my thoughts.

Pro$$ies lie punters lie so I have no interest in discussing anything personal.
I want the pro$$ie to deliver what’s agreed, at the agreed rate and that’s about it.
I am not interested in anything more  :hi:

You say they know you are trustworthy but that’s you saying we have to take your word for it, I for one wouldn’t trust you which is academic as we wouldn’t meet anyway.

Offline Lou2019

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Pro$$ies lie punters lie so I have no interest in discussing anything personal.
I want the pro$$ie to deliver what’s agreed, at the agreed rate and that’s about it.
I am not interested in anything more  :hi:

You say they know you are trustworthy but that’s you saying we have to take your word for it, I for one wouldn’t trust you which is academic as we wouldn’t meet anyway.

we are all entitled to our opinion, like I said I don't dispute your comments and views.  I'm not your demographic or fancy so it doesn't matter anyway, just talking from experience. There must be a good reason why someone will see me still for over for 10 years ? doesn't that imply I'm trustworthy  :unknown:
« Last Edit: August 29, 2021, 02:26:03 pm by Lou2019 »

Offline Marmalade

On the “because she’s trustworthy” issue:

Not questioning whether a particular p4p is “trustworthy” but it’s still a crap belief for a punter to take. If you want to engage in small talk (other than inventing something), talk about her. We had a group of student prossies in my area for a while who were quite open about being students. One of them was studying a subject that interested me a bit so we could spend five minutes chatting about it, simples. Women love to talk. More than men. If it’s a long call and you want to try and ‘interest’ her then invent a fairy tale about dogs or an imaginary brother or some such shit. Save your personals (if you need to share them) for non-p4p contacts.

There was a case of a first class prossie who, yes, was considered “trustworthy” and reasonably so by many clients: then one of her clients gave a strongly negative review to a friend of hers and she went full-on righteously fucking ballistic.

Moral: just because a p4p is “trustworthy” it isn’t a reason to trust her.


Offline Marmalade

Pro$$ies lie punters lie so I have no interest in discussing anything personal.
I want the pro$$ie to deliver what’s agreed, at the agreed rate and that’s about it.
I am not interested in anything more  :hi:

Voice of experience. But the whole thing about “trust” — IMO and in dealing with p4ps or anyone you don’t know well personally and openly — is about being bulletproof. Newbie punters go to a meet and then worry if they’ve left their wallet in the room as they take a shower. The thing is to have your routine well-worked out without any holes. Then you can relax.

I used to go to a lot of lowlife areas abroad, places that included crims as well as p4ps. There was always a high chance that any given p4p would be a thief as well. Did that make her a bad shag? Not necessarily. Go bulletproof then concentrate on why you’re there. More than once a p4p would try to rob me. I’d bat her hand away, telling her she was naughty and laugh, or even see how many places she searched out of curiosity. If you’re safe, it’s all fun.

I don’t mean I’ve never trusted anyone. But generally I don’t need to trust or not trust. Just try to stay safe. It’s like the old virtue signalling over ‘respect’ — respect doesn’t come into it, politeness does. What do I say, “wow I really respect that you’ve pulled yourself up by flogging your fanny”? It’s none of my business. I generally don’t need to respect or disrespect (both of which are value judgments). Respect your teacher, some people respect their parents, also good, or great men and women who achieved something truly remarkable. What I do need to do is to be polite and courteous. A gentleman basically.

Offline Lou2019

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Voice of experience. But the whole thing about “trust” — IMO and in dealing with p4ps or anyone you don’t know well personally and openly — is about being bulletproof. Newbie punters go to a meet and then worry if they’ve left their wallet in the room as they take a shower. The thing is to have your routine well-worked out without any holes. Then you can relax.

I used to go to a lot of lowlife areas abroad, places that included crims as well as p4ps. There was always a high chance that any given p4p would be a thief as well. Did that make her a bad shag? Not necessarily. Go bulletproof then concentrate on why you’re there. More than once a p4p would try to rob me. I’d bat her hand away, telling her she was naughty and laugh, or even see how many places she searched out of curiosity. If you’re safe, it’s all fun.

I don’t mean I’ve never trusted anyone. But generally I don’t need to trust or not trust. Just try to stay safe. It’s like the old virtue signalling over ‘respect’ — respect doesn’t come into it, politeness does. What do I say, “wow I really respect that you’ve pulled yourself up by flogging your fanny”? It’s none of my business. I generally don’t need to respect or disrespect (both of which are value judgments). Respect your teacher, some people respect their parents, also good, or great men and women who achieved something truly remarkable. What I do need to do is to be polite and courteous. A gentleman basically.

Having read your posts Marmalade I'm thinking something unpleasant has happened to you with a SP ?

Offline Lou2019

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Having read your posts Marmalade I'm understanding that something unpleasant has happened to you with a SP I'm sorry this has happened to you

Offline Marmalade

Oh ffs Lou do you know how daft that sounds?

I’d keep that well-worn line for Mumsnet of saaaaaafe!

It’s none of your business, but no. I’ve had amazing relationships. Through just under 1000 episodes, none have been really bad beyond the occasional negative review, and those were less important than real things (like missing a plane or getting food poisoning.

Punting is not an important part of life: just an add-on. Like semi-skimmed milk.

Offline Marmalade

Can someone find Lou an emoji — I can think of another SP member who like one — that says “Please God, I think this thread should be all about me.” :crazy: :wacko: :wackogirl: :rose:

No offence hen.  :angelgirl:

Offline Lou2019

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Oh ffs Lou do you know how daft that sounds?

I’d keep that well-worn line for Mumsnet of saaaaaafe!

It’s none of your business, but no. I’ve had amazing relationships. Through just under 1000 episodes, none have been really bad beyond the occasional negative review, and those were less important than real things (like missing a plane or getting food poisoning.

Punting is not an important part of life: just an add-on. Like semi-skimmed milk.

wow that was uncalled for! sorry for being pleasant  :unknown:
« Last Edit: August 29, 2021, 07:41:00 pm by Lou2019 »

Offline finn5555

Punting is not an important part of life: just an add-on. Like semi-skimmed milk.

Sums it up perfectly  :hi:

I think Lou wants you to have gold top  :sarcastic: :sarcastic:

Offline lamboman

Don’t share personal information with hookers they cannot be trusted  :hi:

So what do you say when they ask you a question?Give them your usual BS,lie,plead the 5th or play mute?
Asking for a friend.
Banned reason: Shit stirrer and blocking moderator's PMs
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Offline finn5555

So what do you say when they ask you a question?Give them your usual BS,lie,plead the 5th or play mute?
Asking for a friend.

It really depends what they ask, I try to keep any conversations mundane and away from anything personal

Offline Marmalade

Answer a question with another question. (Old Jewish saying).

Offline Atrueyorkie

So what do you say when they ask you a question?Give them your usual BS,lie,plead the 5th or play mute?
Asking for a friend.

+1, if they ask a personal question I always ask how it’s going help you (in a joking way). Been asked am I single, do I live by myself. All these kind of questions are in my opinion too intrusive to my personal life.

You’d be surprised the things they just randomly tell you. Like a WG said to me a punter came to her and effectively told his life story about he recently got divorced and was depressed. To me that’s personal and how easy was it for that information to be shared to myself who has no interest knowing this other punters business. The less information you disclose the better

Offline Bonker

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again to avoid any possible misunderstanding: forum etiquette and bookings etiquette are entirely separate in my opinion. I’m super charming and considerate in bookings and in outcalls also go to some lengths to make her feel reassured, safe, comfortable etc. This is not just politeness it’s also the best way to help her give me her best service. (It’s polite psychology. It doesn’t involve tips or ignoring my own requirements, including getting the full time agreed.)

On the forum, I follow the standard of posts should be for the benefit of other punters, not the service provider. Reviews are to praise good performances and excoriate bad ones. (I prefer that wording as it is up to the punter reading it if he wants to compare my experience and opinions with that of other punters.) It’s a judgment of the performance not of the SP (she might be having a ‘good’ day or a ‘bad’ day — I don’t give a shit.)

To SPs (p4ps) who are members of the forum, I take a similar attitude as I do for punters: any post is simply a response to what has been written, it’s nothing personal, and there’s no attitude, emotion or attachment involved. The only difference is that prossies don’t always have a clear separation between their ‘work’ persona and their forum persona, and often tend to get uppity — in which case they get hammered and wonder if it’s ‘fair’.

It’s not a democracy. The mod’s decide: invoke them at your peril!  :)

This is probably the most sensible, rational, relevant post I've read on this site. Exactly what I believe and articulated so well.

Offline stevedave

Why is Lou seemingly determined to get into an argument?

Always has to have the last word... typical bloody woman  :lol:

Offline tidytuz

That’s just harassment and they have the right to report you and highlight this forum as the source behind the bullying and harassment.
This site has already been highlighted by the police, in the past year for hoarding rapists (jerk chicken) and crazy stalkers. Please keep your contempt for badly reviews escorts to yourself.

4 years on this site, 700 posts, 0 reviews.
If I was a mod I would've offed you by now.  :bomb:

Offline Marmalade

4 years on this site, 700 posts, 0 reviews.
If I was a mod I would've offed you by now.  :bomb:

C'mon, I think Dj Dope deserves a fucking award. So much trash (mostly posting pictures of people he hasn't fucked), not a single review, probably not a real punter, how the fuck has he lasted so long without getting kicked off? That must an Olympic Gold (or dopey gold) award!!

 :cool:

Offline Punterperson1971

That’s just harassment and they have the right to report you and highlight this forum as the source behind the bullying and harassment.
This site has already been highlighted by the police, in the past year for hoarding rapists (jerk chicken) and crazy stalkers. Please keep your contempt for badly reviews escorts to yourself.
You should do us a favour and just fuck off

Offline stevedave

C'mon, I think Dj Dope deserves a fucking award. So much trash (mostly posting pictures of people he hasn't fucked), not a single review, probably not a real punter, how the fuck has he lasted so long without getting kicked off? That must an Olympic Gold (or dopey gold) award!!

 :cool:

He's got a hell of a long way to go before he breaks James999's world record  :D

Offline Marmalade

He's got a hell of a long way to go before he breaks James999's world record  :D

True.  :cool: Though James also called dodgy whores to rights and exposed fake punters. I think he'd have been on to dopydj ages ago. He was also rather skilled at pissing people off – especially the esteemed JimmyRedCab! Dopydy just seems a bit silly – probably got hair all over his right hand.  :cry:

Offline Payyourwaymate

C'mon, I think Dj Dope deserves a fucking award. So much trash (mostly posting pictures of people he hasn't fucked), not a single review, probably not a real punter, how the fuck has he lasted so long without getting kicked off? That must an Olympic Gold (or dopey gold) award!!

 :cool:

I think he is a real punter. In the past he has said some things a seasoned punter would know/have attained from vast experience. As to why he does not review, I have no idea. To be fair on him he's not like other members with no reviews that just leech and ask for information out of the blue, it's more he has info but rarely divulges it. He also has been posting more on other threads recently aswell I guess, although a review would be better of course.

Offline Marmalade

He also has been posting more on other threads recently aswell I guess, although a review would be better of course.

Yes but it's mostly pictures taken from the Internet copied from AW or Vivastreet. I glanced through his posting history but that's more or less all I could see and I got bored after a few pages.