I once innocently told the o h , it looked like she'd put a couple of pound on ! due to the following onslaught of hate, I decided never to comment on my o h's size, shape, waistline, bra size, hair colour, taste in music, quality of cooking or anything woman related ever again to Her ! this has put me I good stead for many years, to the point I have to punt due to the fact we haven't spoken for years !