How does it work?
Does one, after sorting out payment and discussing limits, stay in character throughout the session? Or drifting in and out between different activities?
It must be quite hard work to stay in character for the whole hour session? Dom/Sub is not a genre that I understand but I am curious.
I had the odd WGs who enjoyed being a sub, and was happy to engage in spanking, choking, slapping etc, but I’ve never experienced a full on ‘dom’ (me being the ‘dom’) session.
Anyone got any tips or experience to share? Or any good ‘Dom/sub’ reviews here so I can have a read? Thanks.
Read my reviews. That's a good start. My review with
Celeste talks about subbing, characters and negotiation.
But to answer the question:
* I usually email and ask limits and tell a bit about myself and what I am into, if it is roleplay or I am bottoming\subbing I talk about the scene I want.
* A good female domme will discuss YOUR limits with you before the scene starts, possibly the same with roleplay as well. When I dom I discuss limits before meeting the girl, usually they are on her profile and if she is a serious sub they probably should be anyway.
* If roleplay or I am acting bratty I will stay in character. With female dommes they only break character in the inbetween stages - that is before the scene and if there is a break for toilet breaks, refreshments etc or you need to stop. You should always keep hydrated BTW.
* No it's piss easy to stay in character. An hour isn't really a longtime, certainly I wouldn't recommend a quickie booking unless it is say just one or two activities like over the knee spanking on you and a BJ.The key to it all for me is I'm sort of naturally dominant so don't find it too difficult, what I learnt is my own style which is more playful, but firm when needed. My substyle is playing a college boy brat which is also me. Most subby girls will have their own style which ties in with their "real life" personalities and also dommes vary some are the iron fist velvet gloves, others are your worst nightmares and some are like a mummy role.
I had the odd WGs who enjoyed being a sub, and was happy to engage in spanking, choking, slapping etc, but I’ve never experienced a full on ‘dom’ (me being the ‘dom’) session.
I class that as rough sex. Rough sex can be part of subbing, but it isn't the only way. I can dom without doing all the things you list including manhandling; it's more a mental state. People have seen Pascal's sub sluts who is no doubt good at what he does, but that's not me. I mainly dom using voice, tone and eye contact.
That said there's people way more dom than me, but like I say my style is my own and hard to imitate (or maybe that's my ego talking). The main thing is to be safe and make sure the girl is comfortable or if you sub that the domme makes sure you are comfortable. Also, ask yourself why you think you should be this way.