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Offline S1MPLEK1NG

I've been contemplating about this for a bit and just genuinely curious what you guys think.

Had (or should I say, supposed to have a booking) a booking on Tuesday with an SP - comms were great couple days before, everything was confirmed to a T and then on the day I was 5 minutes away from the postcode before receiving a call. I missed it so tried to call back like 3 minutes later... no response. I must've called like 5 times and sent at least 10 messages to no avail, I was fuming at this point - to think I've actually been stood up truly pissed me off but then unexpectedly (literally an HOUR LATER, NO JOKE) she messages me telling me she had a period and that was reason why she ended the booking.

Could this even be remotely fucking true, what's the likelihood that she had a "period" roughly 5 minutes before the punt... in all my years of punting, not once has this happened so idk  :(

Should I try again next week or not bother?
« Last Edit: September 02, 2021, 06:33:12 pm by S1MPLEK1NG »

Offline PaulRuff

She was sucking another cock for that hour...she double booked and the other guy got there first.

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Your post sounds like you haven't had a lot of experience with women generally. Some can almost set their watch/clock by the regularity of their periods, others are all over the place. It is not unreasonable to assume that it could have happened that way. she could have expected it tomorrow and it came today. that is not unusual.

What will make some guys question it is the fact that she is a WG and some (not all) WG's will tell any story if they want to change their minds or the time/date etc.

Are her reviews good? if so maybe it was true.

Offline S1MPLEK1NG

Your post sounds like you haven't had a lot of experience with women generally. Some can almost set their watch/clock by the regularity of their periods, others are all over the place. It is not unreasonable to assume that it could have happened that way. she could have expected it tomorrow and it came today. that is not unusual.

What will make some guys question it is the fact that she is a WG and some (not all) WG's will tell any story if they want to change their minds or the time/date etc.

Are her reviews good? if so maybe it was true.

I've had my fair share of experiences I would say but that doesn't mean I'm always correct. You're probably right and from what I've seen, her reviews are stellar so perhaps I'm just typing out of frustration due to the amount time that was wasted  :unknown:
« Last Edit: September 02, 2021, 06:45:23 pm by S1MPLEK1NG »

Offline tynetunnel

Since you had a booking accepted, you can (and should) review her  :hi:

Offline S1MPLEK1NG

Since you had a booking accepted, you can (and should) review her  :hi:

I don't think I should - If the excuse was anything but regarding a period (which is completely natural) I would but not this

Maybe I'll rebook and try again

Offline GingerNuts

I don't think I should - If the excuse was anything but regarding a period (which is completely natural) I would but not this

Maybe I'll rebook and try again

And you can work rebook avoiding dates around her period.

Offline Tricks

I don't think I should - If the excuse was anything but regarding a period (which is completely natural) I would but not this

Maybe I'll rebook and try again

it's the nature of the beast, so have a solid plan B next time.

Offline S1MPLEK1NG

And you can work rebook avoiding dates around her period.

yeah true, plus if all goes well, I can post a review of her and people will steer clear away from that week  :lol:

Offline S1MPLEK1NG

it's the nature of the beast, so have a solid plan B next time.

I generally don't like to, once I have an SP in mind - it's pretty much set in stone, and if it goes to hell then my appetite is ruined, so to speak.

Offline MrT222

This kind of shit happens all the time with escorts. All the time. Excuses I've heard are period, problem with the boiler and most recently something weird about a police car being nearby (whatever that means). Or just straight up ghosted.

From past experience I would say 1/5 chance of cancellation with any booking (possibly more depending on the escort, there are some notoriously unreliable).

Offline S1MPLEK1NG

This kind of shit happens all the time with escorts. All the time. Excuses I've heard are period, problem with the boiler and most recently something weird about a police car being nearby (whatever that means). Or just straight up ghosted.

From past experience I would say 1/5 chance of cancellation with any booking (possibly more depending on the escort, there are some notoriously unreliable).

It's beyond aggravating to experience, I stood outside for almost an hour looking like a complete dickhead, luckily the street was quiet. I just took a corner and stayed there for a bit.

Online Fuzzyduck

It's beyond aggravating to experience, I stood outside for almost an hour looking like a complete dickhead, luckily the street was quiet. I just took a corner and stayed there for a bit.

You really must have wanted to see her if you'd put yourself through the indignity of waiting an hour. Better IMO to take ownership of the situation and leave. 10 or 15 minutes max depending on the situation and I'm off. No way do I want to be dangling off a SP's fishing line.

I don't believe for a second she had a sudden period. She had ample time to call you back to apologise, mitigate etc etc  What was she doing all that time? Yet miraculously literally an hour later she finds her phone voice? Bollocks. She was doing someone else. You are being naive if you think otherwise. I can understand why you don't want to review/identify her at this point if you want to try again, but one of the purposes of this forum is to help other punters be aware of how a SP can behave, even if her other reviews are stellar.

One positive though it that she doesn't take calls during a booking. :lol:

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It's beyond aggravating to experience, I stood outside for almost an hour looking like a complete dickhead, luckily the street was quiet. I just took a corner and stayed there for a bit.
This site is all about sharing information with fellow members, if you have a good punt you post a positive review so others know about her, but more importantly if you get pissed about or get radio silence when you turn up or otherwise waste time or money you post a negative review to warn others that they may well be wasting their time trying to book.

Without at least naming the escort concerned this thread is a waste of time. 

Offline S1MPLEK1NG

You really must have wanted to see her if you'd put yourself through the indignity of waiting an hour. Better IMO to take ownership of the situation and leave. 10 or 15 minutes max depending on the situation and I'm off. No way do I want to be dangling off a SP's fishing line.

I don't believe for a second she had a sudden period. She had ample time to call you back to apologise, mitigate etc etc  What was she doing all that time? Yet miraculously literally an hour later she finds her phone voice? Bollocks. She was doing someone else. You are being naive if you think otherwise. I can understand why you don't want to review/identify her at this point if you want to try again, but one of the purposes of this forum is to help other punters be aware of how a SP can behave, even if her other reviews are stellar.

One positive though it that she doesn't take calls during a booking. :lol:

I may have exaggerated a little, posted for about 20mins then made my way to a café and just chilled there.

Offline S1MPLEK1NG

This site is all about sharing information with fellow members, if you have a good punt you post a positive review so others know about her, but more importantly if you get pissed about or get radio silence when you turn up or otherwise waste time or money you post a negative review to warn others that they may well be wasting their time trying to book.

Without at least naming the escort concerned this thread is a waste of time.

I understand, I still feel like I want to rebook and try again to save a negative review and group both together for a neutral perhaps, but if it comes around to it and by next week I decide not to rebook her, I'll post the negative review.

"Without at least naming the escort concerned this thread is a waste of time. " If you believe the thread is a waste of time, you're more than welcome to delete it. I was just curious to hear opinions on the matter, fairly new to the whole punting scene so trying to collect infinity stones of excuses for future cases. 

All is well  :drinks:

« Last Edit: September 02, 2021, 08:56:40 pm by S1MPLEK1NG »

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I understand, I still feel like I want to rebook and try again to save a negative review and group both together for a neutral perhaps, but if it comes around to it and by next week I decide not to rebook her, I'll post the negative review.

"Without at least naming the escort concerned this thread is a waste of time. " If you believe the thread is a waste of time, you're more than welcome to delete it. I was just curious to hear opinions on the matter, fairly new to the whole punting scene so trying to collect infinity stones of excuses for future cases. 

All is well  :drinks:
That's not the way the site works mate, she pissed you about by waiting an hour before telling you. That is the experience you had with this booking so that is what you review. By all means rebook but then you can review again.

Like this example.

Got cancelled last minute so got a negative. - https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=254377.0

Rebooked had a good time so she got a positive. - https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=283027.0

That's the way the site works.

Online Fuzzyduck

... in all my years of punting...

... fairly new to the whole punting scene...

You're backtracking all over the place aren't you? I'd be embarrassed, too.

Offline S1MPLEK1NG

You're backtracking all over the place aren't you? I'd be embarrassed, too.

Embarrassed of what? I meant in all my years with going out girls, didn't specifically mean the escort side, just an accidental typo

Offline S1MPLEK1NG

That's not the way the site works mate, she pissed you about by waiting an hour before telling you. That is the experience you had with this booking so that is what you review. By all means rebook but then you can review again.

Like this example.

Got cancelled last minute so got a negative. - https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=254377.0

Rebooked had a good time so she got a positive. - https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=283027.0

That's the way the site works.

Yeah that's fair, I'll look to doing that then, thanks. Not trying to show hostility around here, just trying my best is all.  :drinks:

Offline alabama1

Embarrassed of what? I meant in all my years with going out girls, didn't specifically mean the escort side, just an accidental typo
But that's not punting is it  :unknown:

Offline S1MPLEK1NG

But that's not punting is it  :unknown:

Yeah I know, I was just referring to the fact that I've never really had a girl bail out due to a period 5 minutes before meeting up punt or no punt (believe it or not)

Offline alabama1

Yeah I know, I was just referring to the fact that I've never really had a girl bail out due to a period 5 minutes before meeting up punt or no punt (believe it or not)
So, you go on a civie date with a girl (maybe go see a movie), she later tells you that she is on her period, and you accuse her of bailing out  :unknown:

Offline S1MPLEK1NG

So, you go on a civie date with a girl (maybe go see a movie), she later tells you that she is on her period, and you accuse her of bailing out  :unknown:

no as in she calls me to her house and 5 minutes before I get to hers she ghosts me for almost an hour to only hear that she had a period for that duration, never happened

Offline alabama1

no as in she calls me to her house and 5 minutes before I get to hers she ghosts me for almost an hour to only hear that she had a period for that duration, never happened
I have had a very good/reliable reg cancel at the last minute due to an "unpredicted" period. It happens  :unknown:

Offline Fkk

Double booked or session extended.

I know that some WG’s work though their period. I heard of story stuffing a sponge up there.




Offline S1MPLEK1NG

I have had a very good/reliable reg cancel at the last minute due to an "unpredicted" period. It happens  :unknown:

well there you go ty, that's exactly what my aim was with this post, to figure out whether situations like this occur or if it's usually a ploy for something else

Offline Faraday

well there you go ty, that's exactly what my aim was with this post, to figure out whether situations like this occur or if it's usually a ploy for something else

It’s the fact she ghosted you for an hour which makes this seem less than believable.  If the Scarlet Lady had indeed come to visit, there would be no excuse not to answer your call or reply to your txts for a whole hour, especially as you literally missed a call from her by a few minutes.

Just doesn’t add up.

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well there you go ty, that's exactly what my aim was with this post, to figure out whether situations like this occur or if it's usually a ploy for something else
Read the negative reviews posted by members who have had this happen to them and the excuses given.

You should take the example set by this poster. -
I have a zero tolerance policy nowadays so a WG who cancels a booking she accepts off me WILL get a negative review. I don't just blindly believe excuses and I have heard them all over the years.

Offline S1MPLEK1NG

It’s the fact she ghosted you for an hour which makes this seem less than believable.  If the Scarlet Lady had indeed come to visit, there would be no excuse not to answer your call or reply to your txts for a whole hour, especially as you literally missed a call from her by a few minutes.

Just doesn’t add up.

I'll be posting a review with pictures of the phone records and messages, I'm not here to bs and don't think for a second I'm not as confused as you are
« Last Edit: September 02, 2021, 10:41:32 pm by S1MPLEK1NG »

Offline S1MPLEK1NG

Read the negative reviews posted by members who have had this happen to them and the excuses given.

You should take the example set by this poster. -

I would agree with smiths almost all the time but seeing as it was hormonal related, I tried to give it the benefit of the doubt but that's just me  :unknown:

Offline Faraday

I'll be posting a review with pictures of the phone records and messages, I'm not here to bs and don't think for a second I'm not as confused as you are

I’m not that confused tbh.  She double booked seems entirely likely here.

Try booking her from another number.  You will soon find out if her crimson wave has magically disappeared.

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I would agree with smiths almost all the time but seeing as it was hormonal related, I tried to give it the benefit of the doubt but that's just me  :unknown:
You are just coming across as an attention seeker.

She told you her period was the reason, you are very naive if you think that is, without doubt, the genuine reason.


Offline Fkk

How many times would you be stood up?

Take it at face value that she was telling the truth.  Cough cough

Offline S1MPLEK1NG

You are just coming across as an attention seeker.

She told you her period was the reason, you are very naive if you think that is, without doubt, the genuine reason.

what? am I really coming across that way? i really dont mean to be, i'm just trying to learn as i go, fuck me right?

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what? am I really coming across that way? i really dont mean to be, i'm just trying to learn as i go, fuck me right?
You have posted 16 out of the 34 posts on this thread, you won't name her and you are just making excuses for her.

As far as learning as you go, you have been given advice but have chosen to ignore it. You were asked about her reviews in reply #2 you could have posted a link to her AW then and we could see what her history is.

Offline S1MPLEK1NG

You have posted 16 out of the 34 posts on this thread, you won't name her and you are just making excuses for her.

As far as learning as you go, you have been given advice but have chosen to ignore it. You were asked about her reviews in reply #2 you could have posted a link to her AW then and we could see what her history is.

Fine, I'll no longer respond and post the review tomorrow.

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Fine, I'll no longer respond and post the review tomorrow.
But still no name or link to her AW.   :unknown:

Offline PaulRuff

Double booked or session extended.

I know that some WG’s work though their period. I heard of story stuffing a sponge up there.

Yep, have seen this (and felt it up there whilst fingering too) first hand.  One time I got the girl in question to whip it out & then we carried on fucking...ended up with us both covered in her blood.

That was novel, made a mess of the duvet cover too...shared shower to clean up afterwards was definitely required!

Offline Colston36

This site is all about sharing information with fellow members, if you have a good punt you post a positive review so others know about her, but more importantly if you get pissed about or get radio silence when you turn up or otherwise waste time or money you post a negative review to warn others that they may well be wasting their time trying to book.

Without at least naming the escort concerned this thread is a waste of time.

I have only been fucked about twice in 6 years - once back in 2015 and yesterday mildly by BlueSienna who just didn't confirm after agreeing. I think she had a problem as I saw she hadn't even logged in. Frankly, my bank (NatWest) is far less reliable than the average whore. It takes 45 minutes for them to even answer the phone. 

Offline LLPunting

The period excuse would be believable if it weren't for the fact she went radio silent straight away and then resumed contact an hour later.  Too much of a coincidence, rather than a double booking she bounced you for the punter already in her gaff, who may've been a regular or just offered her a wedge.  If she's a popular girl with good services then all the more likely that a greedy fucker would try to extend.  You are an unknown to her and until you actually knock on her door you could be a flake; a reasonable if disrespectful practice by SPs who have to deal with all kinds of nutters.

Next time tell the girl you don't mind period play and you're coming anyway.  IF she blows you out then post the neg straight away so other punters booked for the day are forewarned.  They might well come back and say they aren't being waved off, in which case we'll better know her true colours.

If she reads this site or one of her fluffies sees this then she'll already know who you are so your re-booking may or may not be in jeopardy anyway.  Best you can do is tell everyone who this SP is.

Most SPs I've encountered work despite their period, they might tell you once you arrive or as you're about to get into a particular act either as a courtesy or a means to avoid delivering services after taking your cash.  I've had "honest" girls call me hours before so I don't bother travelling; some have been genuinely surprised and apologetic when we both find she's come on as we're getting into things; others have agreed services and then let me find out for myself, presenting what they think is a quandary, if we agree to continue you know she's a keeper, if she tries to avoid services then refuses to refund a curtailed encounter then you know she's an opportunist that needs to be outed and binned.

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I have only been fucked about twice in 6 years - once back in 2015 and yesterday mildly by BlueSienna who just didn't confirm after agreeing. I think she had a problem as I saw she hadn't even logged in. Frankly, my bank (NatWest) is far less reliable than the average whore. It takes 45 minutes for them to even answer the phone.
I'm not sure how you can compare you phoning your bank's, or any other company's, call centre to an escort who has agreed to set a specific time aside for the OP to meet her.  :unknown:

Quite frankly it's a rediculas comparison and sounds like you are making excuses for the escort.

The facts in this instance are the OP had an agreed appointment but she kept him waiting for an hour past the agreed time before coming up with an excuse and that is out of order.


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I have to agree with some of the statements made so far, you most likely got double booked or worse cancelled last minute. Either way is a bit scummy in my opinion as she knew you were coming and you gave notice, especially how it was a last minute cancellation which therefore is more likely an excuse. A ref flag for professionalism.

I’m sorry if you re-book then you only have yourself to blame if she (and she most likely will) cancel again. Plus I’m not sure how much respect for yourself you have if you re-book after she clearly shafted you. Is she worth that much struggle?

I think you’re obliged to make a review. Not only to warn other punters who have probably suffered the same fate but also to highlight her time wasting and unprofessionalism. If you don’t you’ll let her get away Scot free to do it to the next punter. ntel is vital and you should share your experience whether good or bad.
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Offline Stevelondon

We wait with baited breath for the review.
I for one can't wait to see what the OP writes.  :P

Offline tynetunnel

We wait with baited breath for the review.
I for one can't wait to see what the OP writes.  :P
+1 - I’m beside myself with excitement  :dance:

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+1 - I’m beside myself with excitement  :dance:
Well apparently he’s was  contemplating wether to start this post for some time so doubt he will do one any way

Offline smiths

I've been contemplating about this for a bit and just genuinely curious what you guys think.

Had (or should I say, supposed to have a booking) a booking on Tuesday with an SP - comms were great couple days before, everything was confirmed to a T and then on the day I was 5 minutes away from the postcode before receiving a call. I missed it so tried to call back like 3 minutes later... no response. I must've called like 5 times and sent at least 10 messages to no avail, I was fuming at this point - to think I've actually been stood up truly pissed me off but then unexpectedly (literally an HOUR LATER, NO JOKE) she messages me telling me she had a period and that was reason why she ended the booking.

Could this even be remotely fucking true, what's the likelihood that she had a "period" roughly 5 minutes before the punt... in all my years of punting, not once has this happened so idk  :(

Should I try again next week or not bother?

Very very highly unlikely to be true and in reality she probably got what she saw as a better offer off another punter for example a regular she knew would 100% turn up whereas she may of thought you might not. I have had the period excuse myself off some WGs over the years. :rolleyes: Only if a WG was a good regular may I give her the benefit of the doubt, otherwise it would be a negative review on here for being a timewaster. :thumbsdown: :thumbsdown: :thumbsdown: I would avoid her like the plague if it were me.

Offline JPin

I've had two recent experiences where a little bit of blood appeared on the condom when I pulled out during a punt and both times the SP was like, "I'm not supposed to be having my period today!"...

As others have said, these things can happen. They're usually way more annoyed than you as that's a few days business out the window if they weren't expecting it.

Offline norwichfunseeker

Ive been in a similar position as the OP & reviewed here  (as has been suggested he should have done - i see no review has been forthcoming as yet)

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=282853.0

but whilst I was pissed off and she knew it - having travelled for the meet too. I returned and gave a green review here.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=284021.0

That, in my view gives a full and honest account of what happen and the circumstances for all to make their own judgement.
leaving a negative review, does not mean you cannot rebook.
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It's part of the game kid moral of the story women are dicks