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Author Topic: Will she, won’t she?  (Read 2896 times)

Offline bigmelons

Now I usually go for a guaranteed FSBM but am I the only one who likes to book a massage just for the will she, won’t she buzz ?

Offline standardpostage

If I go for massage, I want guaranteed happy ending  :)

Unless I'm going for an injury massage eg backache, frozen shoulder, stiff neck etc, etc. Then I won't expect any extra's.

For me, will she won't she ? is a waste of time and money  :(

I appreciate some people like WSWS.
« Last Edit: November 27, 2021, 04:06:00 pm by standardpostage »

Offline Buenos2006

I love the WSWS buzz. I enjoy punting and FBSM just as much but WSWS is just a different type of experience. Depends on what mood I’m in as to what I go for.

I use legit massage agencies such as the massage people and enjoy the game of judging whether the masseuse is trying to subtly turn you on or not. The buzz is in not knowing whether you’ll get extras. If you don’t then worse case scenario is just end of up with a nice massage for basic cost.. which could still be arousing anyway depending on the masseuse. If you do get extras I enjoy the fact it’s unofficial and haggling on price to see how far they’ll go. Whereas FBSM you know exactly what you’re getting before you start - not that this is bad but it doesn’t have the uncertainty with WSWS which seems to create an extra thrill sometimes.

Offline sparkus

WSWS was part of the thrill/attraction at the beginning as I was operating by myself with no reviews or intel to guide, so each shop experience all fed into my mindmap of FBSM experiences.  My first couple of massages I got nothing offered as I kept boxers on, hands by my side and told them I'd not been before when asked.  Rookie errors.

I honestly can't remember the last time I walked away from a massage shop without extras...

Offline Stevelondon

I guess the WSWS vibe is an ok thing. The anticipation etc.
Its a bit of a puzzle to me though. I sort of get what its all about.
But isn't it a tad wasteful of dosh if what your hoping for is extras....but then not getting any.
Or is that the thrill. ?

It is strange to me because it should actually be appealing. I love tie and tease and I love (in some dom sessions) tease and denial.
Its part of the game. Am I going to get relief or not. Or sometimes the choice (depending on pro dom)....."You get to lick pussy but you forfeit cumming.
Actually there is more to it than that.

Its just I don't fancy that particular thrill when booking a massage. WSWS not for me when it comes to massage then.

Offline Buenos2006

WSWS was part of the thrill/attraction at the beginning as I was operating by myself with no reviews or intel to guide, so each shop experience all fed into my mindmap of FBSM experiences.  My first couple of massages I got nothing offered as I kept boxers on, hands by my side and told them I'd not been before when asked.  Rookie errors.

I honestly can't remember the last time I walked away from a massage shop without extras...

Yes very easy to get extras in a massage shop and in my experience the masseuse will make it quite obvious they are available so WSWS isn’t really a thing there.

The WSWS game in my experience only really works with outcall non-erotic massage agencies where some masseuses offer extras and some don’t. It’s therefore the anticipation and not knowing which way it’s going to go which is the thrill. But if you enjoy a standard massage anyway you can’t really lose.

Offline sparkus

Yes very easy to get extras in a massage shop and in my experience the masseuse will make it quite obvious they are available so WSWS isn’t really a thing there.

The WSWS game in my experience only really works with outcall non-erotic massage agencies where some masseuses offer extras and some don’t. It’s therefore the anticipation and not knowing which way it’s going to go which is the thrill. But if you enjoy a standard massage anyway you can’t really lose.

I was recently popped the infamous question of 'Have you been here before?', which I'd not been asked in a long time tbf.  I did want to reply "Yeah, I've decorated walls in both treatment rooms." but she didn't seem the brightest...

The first time's often the best: asked if she could remove my boxers for a better massage, later told me to turn then immediately ran her index finger down from my shoulder and all the way to the tip of my dick before asking coyly if I'd be interested in a tug.

Offline LLPunting

Wander into any Chinese "Massage" shop and you'd have to be pretty inept or undesirable to not be propositioned unless you're in your copper's uniform.

We are talking budget end punting here, no point comparing versus 150+ ph escorts who are offering looks and services, even if they still disappoint.
Not considering  the clip joint "masseuses" demanding 100+ for extras on top of 50+ entry and who almost uniformly have next to no massage skills.

Genuine WSWS only occurs for me if I happen to try what looks like a genuine spa or pamper parlour, the kind where there are female clients on the premises.  Current "frustration" is a nail bar that's always busy with ladies getting their nails done and the massage is done in a room in the basement, the lovely lady delivering those has never strayed her hands near my groin from front or back but she doesn't object to me being naked under a towel.  She has pressed her pudenda against my foot most times I've been in and grazed her covered breasts with my fingers when working my hands.  She's even mentioned working at other shops where we both know extras are offered but said she doesn't do that. :dash:

The "adulterated" WSWS experience in parlours, known or unknown, becomes WSWSBAG ("Be Any Good") or WSWSGATW ("Go All The Way") and there's still reward in that for me because any half decent masseuse is still more sensual than a regular budget escort and just as likely to be fun or a disappointment with the sex acts.  So whilst you lose "sexy time" to the (attempts at) massage you could get a therapeutic or erotic tease from it.  An escort might allow you time on target for twice as long but then unless you're punting one with a good rep or a regular you know then you could be pissing the entire sexy time money away on a no hoper.  With massage joints you only waste the house fee as purchasing the extras is not obligatory.

Also if you choose your parlours right then the girls aren't doing more than HR/B2B for much/most of the day and so some can be quite appreciative of the extra attention (and cash).  If you do find a lovely who's willing to indulge then your mileage can be very good value, especially if you don't "make it rain" in your fluffiness.  A regular (or randy stranger) may well be hot to trot from the start and a full hour of fun might be had for under a ton.  There's even the prospect of getting some private arrangement away from the shop.

Getting past 3rd base in a small room on an uncomfortable table may be awkward and off-putting for some but if you get a charge from being overheard, trying to stifle your ecstasy, having the occasional cramp in close quarters, banging the walls or having the receptionist knocking the door because of the noise then parlour antics can be fun.  It's all very Carry On or tempting discovery in public or shared home places.

I see the visiting services as more of a scam as the woman can easily claim to be a pro masseuse only (despite much reporting here indicating that few are really much good at it) and then demand inflated prices for their menu of less than full escort services from an excited man in his own home or hotel room.  With no rent to pay they still make a tidy sum from the booking fee with minimal additional expenses if they're declined or choose not to indulge the ugly, horny punter.  Some of the girls are pretty and most are younger than most parlour girls but few compare to escorts that you'd be paying the same price for @ 150+ ph with no ambiguity of services wanted.