First time, bad experience

[bruce]

Hi everybody,

So I'm 32, and I was always really curious about escort, and I wanted to have my first experience.

I went to see one, and I have to say that I was really excited about it. I chose one with some reviews, from another website. I was nervous, and really hard before I met her.

So I met her, and my first reaction was that she didn't look exactly like the pictures. I expected it that, but still I was quite disappointed. For me the face is really important, and the skin as well. I don't like make up, especially when it's to hide a bad skin. Well, she had make up, and I could see that her skin was not that beautiful. Anyway, she was still beautiful.

I told her it was my first time, I paid her, and asked for a shower. I got naked, and went into the shower. I was completely soft, and I have to say I have an average size. So when you're average, soft, and nervous, your penis isn't that impressive. She had a look at it, and it made me even more nervous. I made a joke about it, and she was really nice to me.

But that's the thing, I stayed soft, and she was really nice, but I felt like a virgin for his first time !
So I paid for one hour, and she tried different things. We kissed, but it didn't really excited me, as her face wasn't that attractive. She sucked me, and she was really good at it. I went hard, but by the time she put a condomn on it, I was soft. She sucked me with the condomn, but every time she swiped it to clean it (from what ? Her own saliva ?), and it turned me off.

Result, she sucked me till I came, but it was really difficult ! Worst experience ever ! I felt stupid, as it was the very first time in my life I couldn't get a proper boner with a lady !

But I want to do it again, but I have to say that I am afraid that it will happen again. Now I think that a good way to do it would be with a girl that you can recommend, your advice. Anyone has a good advice for me ? And a good punt in Central London ? I could put in it £100/150, but I don't want to mess it up again !

Thank you very much !

[wristjob]

Great. You know you can post reviews here right????

[Toshiba]

Relax, try a viagra or similar,

Happenend to me n many others so dont fret

[vogelcrystal]

Sorry you had a bad time.  A few ideas and perspectives:

I usually find I'm less excited with a WG that with my partner, unless I really really find myself attracted to the WG, and that's rare.  I also find the condom ritual off-putting, although it sounds like you had a particularly bad experience with the extra cleaning.  I have to say that a few WGs I've experienced have genuinely offered a true GFE, and the result was much better.  Reviews here definitely help - perhaps you could explain what kind of person really turns you on?

Why did you want to use a WG? Just curiosity? Lack of sex in current rel? Don't feel obliged to answer in public, but it's worth thinking about before you try again.

Depending on your reasons and your budget, one approach is to work up to it.  Go for shorter sessions (15 or 30), and hand-relief / massage only.  If you enjoy yourself, and find the WG attractive, book for a longer session, and try more.  A completely different approach would be to look into the tantric/massage side of things.  Bang for buck (so to speak) this often doesn't look like very good value, but again it depends on what you're trying to achieve.  These sessions have no expectations of actual penetration, or even oral, and no messing about with condoms, but you could end up spending an hour in the company of truly gorgeous woman, who makes you cum once or more times, in a very sensual and exciting way.  Sometimes they are experts at maintaining the excitement, and the final release can be spectacular.

I can't speak to the suggestion of chemical assistance.  I know there are options out there, and I've met men who have used (or are using) them, at 'parties'.  They seem to be very effective. Again, depends what you want - if you want to give a woman you fancy a really hard banging, and be sure of being rock hard, maybe they're a good idea.  One question I've wondered (and perhaps fellow members can tell me) is whether taking these has an adverse effect on your natural ability?  ie once you start to use them, does your natural performance deteriorate?

Long ramble - hopefully some wisdom.  Good luck.

[Rochdull lad]

But I want to do it again, but I have to say that I am afraid that it will happen again. Now I think that a good way to do it would be with a girl that you can recommend, your advice. Anyone has a good advice for me ? And a good punt in Central London ? I could put in it £100/150, but I don't want to mess it up again !

Thank you very much !

Here's a whole list of WGs in London to see [and some to avoid!], Bruce. https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?board=18.0

[sharpshoes78]

Don't worry. I happens to the best of us.
My first time I got it into my head that I was breaking the law and was so scared that the police would bust in any second I had the same thing. Planning a blowjob punt soon and won't be so scared.

[sublimetoridiculous]

Long, long time ago now, but exactly the same on my first punt. You will probably be OK from now on.

And I would advise that you don't look for perfection, as you will rarely, if ever, find it.

[vorian]

The only thing the OP did wrong was look at other sites for reviews. Now he has the resources of a real punters forum to utilise I'm sure his risk will be much reduced.

[Boundless]

Long, long time ago now, but exactly the same on my first punt. You will probably be OK from now on.

And I would advise that you don't look for perfection, as you will rarely, if ever, find it.

I bet most punters would say the same thing. It's not something you can take a training course in or chat to friends about usually. My first time was at a parlour and i told the maid when I picked the girl. The girl stripped off and gave me a massage but the old fella didn't want to know, I was just so nervous. Eventually managed to get semi hard with a BJ and managed entry but wasn't a great experience at all.
A few years down the line and many more girls than I can remember I still get the tingle when on final approach to seeing a new girl but that's part of the fun and long may it continue.

[gap1]

Use Viagra or equivalent (a lot cheaper these days now that the patent has expired). You still have to get turned on but once you're hard you should be able to maintain it to do the business. I use a Lloyds Pharmacy online, simple answer a few questions online, pay the money and you can pick up the prescription from any of their outlets within a couple of hours.

[NIK]

Hi everybody,

So I'm 32, and I was always really curious about escort, and I wanted to have my first experience.

I went to see one, and I have to say that I was really excited about it. I chose one with some reviews, from another website. I was nervous, and really hard before I met her.

So I met her, and my first reaction was that she didn't look exactly like the pictures. I expected it that, but still I was quite disappointed. For me the face is really important, and the skin as well. I don't like make up, especially when it's to hide a bad skin. Well, she had make up, and I could see that her skin was not that beautiful. Anyway, she was still beautiful.

I told her it was my first time, I paid her, and asked for a shower. I got naked, and went into the shower. I was completely soft, and I have to say I have an average size. So when you're average, soft, and nervous, your penis isn't that impressive. She had a look at it, and it made me even more nervous. I made a joke about it, and she was really nice to me.

But that's the thing, I stayed soft, and she was really nice, but I felt like a virgin for his first time !
So I paid for one hour, and she tried different things. We kissed, but it didn't really excited me, as her face wasn't that attractive. She sucked me, and she was really good at it. I went hard, but by the time she put a condomn on it, I was soft. She sucked me with the condomn, but every time she swiped it to clean it (from what ? Her own saliva ?), and it turned me off.

Result, she sucked me till I came, but it was really difficult ! Worst experience ever ! I felt stupid, as it was the very first time in my life I couldn't get a proper boner with a lady !

But I want to do it again, but I have to say that I am afraid that it will happen again. Now I think that a good way to do it would be with a girl that you can recommend, your advice. Anyone has a good advice for me ? And a good punt in Central London ? I could put in it £100/150, but I don't want to mess it up again !

Thank you very much !

So was she a minger or not? And is English you're first language?
Sounds like old Hans Christian Anderson and the brothers Grimm are out and about again. 

[gorge]

Nothing to worry about - I think it happens to all of us and it's all in out head. I always use viagra - just a small piece - not even quarter of a 100mg pill - about an hour beforehand - does wonders. My first time I was so no nervous I knocked on the door of the house next door to where I was meant to be - even thou I had the number written on my hand in pen. With time you will get confidence, be more in control and have some great times. It took me at least 6 times before I even became a little confident.

And 9 times out of 10 when you first see them you think 'oh - not quite as I imagined'

[pokenn]

Punting is always taking a chance. Just do good pre-punt research and checks to minimise the risks. Lots of advice elsewhere on UKP on how to do that.

Also important to remember that there is very rarely the perfect punt. There will always be something that's not quite right. Like most things in life, you can either make the best of it and have a fair/good punt or you can get all worked up and have a terrible time. Even with below average  punts where I would not want to see the girl again I can usually have some fun.

[SeekingtheTruth]

So was she a minger or not? And is English you're first language?
Sounds like old Hans Christian Anderson and the brothers Grimm are out and about again. 

Glad I'm not the only one who picked up on that.

[MancSean]

First time I used AW about 5 years ago I spent ages looking for a WG, a polish bird in acton. I was late coz of traffic and then finding somewhere to park. Got in there was very nervous and other people in there. Whole thing was a blur but I came really quick from oral in a rubber. When I left I felt a knob but she didn't do much to help. Anyway 4 days later I met the famous Dee in Hendon and had the best 90 mins in my life WG wise. Came 3 times and left happy. Was still hot by tho and went and met Cute Anne in Golders Green now Red haired cutie at maida vale for an hour. Another good punt much more of a GFE than Dee. I just think the next time you will enjoy it better. Try giving Dee or Platinum Cindy a go they will relax you much more as they know what a good service really is

[bruce]

Hi,

Thank you for replying !

@vogelcrystal:
Yes the attraction is less important. The thing that really turns me on is during foreplay, when I give pleasure to the other... and in that case, of course, a WG has to fake it or really feel some. I could tell she was faking everything, you know the kind who fakes before you've done anything. She was overdoing it, too much talking. And I couldnt finger her, so I felt like I couldn't do anything apart from touching her boobs.

The reason I went to a WG is that I was curious. Like for real. I wouldn't be ashamed to say that I lack sex, if it was the case. Truth is I am single, and I have a sex buddy who is absolutely amazing in bed. So no, definitely not the lack of sex (well I didn't see my friend for 2 months... but I'm not going to a WG because I'm desperate. )

As for help, I really don't want to take anything. I was hard before I saw her, and I never experienced such a failure before ! So I think it's all in my head, and I need to solve this. I'm the kind of guy who can't take a leak next to another guy in the bathroom!

@sharpshoes78:
Yeah, the problem I had I think was that I was disappointed by her face, and the fact she was cleaning me all the time, that I couldn't finger, etc. It reminded me that I really was with a WG, and all the cleaning reminded me of all the diseases you can get having unprotected sex. Even if it was protected, once you get that in your head, it's a complete turn off ! :/

@sublimetoridiculous:
Yeah, that's what I am thinking. The pictures were gorgeous, photoshopped style. The reviews were good, saying the pictures were accurate...

@vorian:
Yeah, I stick to this one now. The fact that you have different reviews, and discussions about the girls really help to get one that is really good and reliable. I actually booked for one... and I am waiting for her to contact me and confirm... Fingers crossed if she's available... It's Platinum Cindy. :p

@Sam55:
Yeah, I got hard when she gave the BJ, and I came eventually... so I think it will get better next time... It's just that with my sex buddy, we fuck for 2 or 3 hours, and having to fight myself to get a boner for an hour is really frustrating!

@Nik: English is not my first language... But I know how to speak English.
As said, she was beautiful (beautiful body), but her face was not that attractive... I think that's clear enough.

"Sounds like old Hans Christian Anderson and the brothers Grimm are out and about again." -> but I don't know what that means. Ahah!

@Mancsean: Exactly what I did ! Well, still waiting for an answer from Cindy, but defintitely my next one !


Anyway, thank you again ! Sorry about the beautiful/not that attractive... but I was talking about the body, and the face. I will leave a review. I can't really leave one for this WG because I don't remember the website. She was romanian, from an agency.
I feel more comfortable dealing with girls like Cindy who seems to be independent. And Also, I prefer doing it in a hotel, than to her place... The place of the WG was clean and everything, but maybe too clean. I mean, it was smelling some strawberry scent, I couldn't forget it for days.

[Dani]

So was she a minger or not? And is English you're first language?
Sounds like old Hans Christian Anderson and the brothers Grimm are out and about again. 

This was the first thing I noticed too.  One moment she is still beautiful and the next she isn't.  Guess someone forgot when telling porkies one needs a good memory especially when on the same post

[wristjob]

This was the first thing I noticed too.  One moment she is still beautiful and the next she isn't.  Guess someone forgot when telling porkies one needs a good memory especially when on the same post

guy joins, starts a thread with his 1st ever post - pretty much a giveaway innit.

[webpunter]

guy joins, starts a thread with his 1st ever post - pretty much a giveaway innit.

+1     Bruce or Brenda ?

[Siadwel]

Hi,

Thank you for replying !

@vogelcrystal:
Yes the attraction is less important. The thing that really turns me on is during foreplay, when I give pleasure to the other... and in that case, of course, a WG has to fake it or really feel some. I could tell she was faking everything, you know the kind who fakes before you've done anything. She was overdoing it, too much talking. And I couldnt finger her, so I felt like I couldn't do anything apart from touching her boobs.

<SNIP>

If it was your first time, how do you know about 'the kind who fakes before you've done anything'?

Don't mind me, I'm new here too, but just askin'.

[bruce]

Wow,

I don't really understand all these comments to be honest. Give away of what?
And what's this "bruce" or brenda?

To answer Siadwel, I meant the one who are saying stuff like "oh yeah baby, you're going to make me come", this kind of talking that absolutely no girl is saying before you even start anything! I guess this girl thought it would turn me on somehow, but it was just too much, and sounded fake, so it didn't work at all.

Anyway, my purpose was not to start a thread, or anything else... I don't like the comments of some, so I won't reply anymore. I will leave an honest review when I have my next experience, with this time the name of the girl, etc.

[Siadwel]

That reply raises more questions to me.

But hey, fair enough, I'll leave it there. Like I say, I'm new here too.

Better Luck with your future punts. 

[abad]

Hi everybody,

So I'm 32, and I was always really curious about escort, and I wanted to have my first experience.

I went to see one, and I have to say that I was really excited about it. I chose one with some reviews, from another website. I was nervous, and really hard before I met her.

So I met her, and my first reaction was that she didn't look exactly like the pictures. I expected it that, but still I was quite disappointed. For me the face is really important, and the skin as well. I don't like make up, especially when it's to hide a bad skin. Well, she had make up, and I could see that her skin was not that beautiful. Anyway, she was still beautiful.

I told her it was my first time, I paid her, and asked for a shower. I got naked, and went into the shower. I was completely soft, and I have to say I have an average size. So when you're average, soft, and nervous, your penis isn't that impressive. She had a look at it, and it made me even more nervous. I made a joke about it, and she was really nice to me.

But that's the thing, I stayed soft, and she was really nice, but I felt like a virgin for his first time !
So I paid for one hour, and she tried different things. We kissed, but it didn't really excited me, as her face wasn't that attractive. She sucked me, and she was really good at it. I went hard, but by the time she put a condomn on it, I was soft. She sucked me with the condomn, but every time she swiped it to clean it (from what ? Her own saliva ?), and it turned me off.

Result, she sucked me till I came, but it was really difficult ! Worst experience ever ! I felt stupid, as it was the very first time in my life I couldn't get a proper boner with a lady !

But I want to do it again, but I have to say that I am afraid that it will happen again. Now I think that a good way to do it would be with a girl that you can recommend, your advice. Anyone has a good advice for me ? And a good punt in Central London ? I could put in it £100/150, but I don't want to mess it up again !

Thank you very much !

Listen. I agree....you need to like a WG.
But tell me, what kind of girls you like....British, Polish, Spanish, French, Arab, Indians, Italian. You must specify this because only then someone can recommend you a couple of girls.
Second..Are you ok with OWO, and CIM girls, because this is also something important. I would strongly advise you to go with girls who go with OWO without discretion.

On the onset, I can recommend you Scottish sarah..Highly unprofessional till the time she is in your room. She doesn't respond to your bookings, ignores for no reason whatsoever.  But once she has arrived, she gives her best. See also has a face which can be easily liked by many regardless of your ethnic preference. Does oral without discretion and can be really dirty.  If you are not happy with her, then I would advise you should find a girlfriend and stop exploring here.
Just remember, this recommendation is a general one without knowing your ethnic preference. She is not beautiful, but has a face which can be liked by most of us around here.
can recommend you a few more if you can share your preferences