Ive done this with Sugar Babies quite a lot, shop, dine, walks, even appointments etc, but sex is always on the cards sometime later at other meets,but that all come sunder the same "arrangement" fee. Stopped off at the side of a quiet side road once on the way back from an appointment, and fucked & sucked like rabbits in the doorway of the car, watching all the traffic zoom by on the motorway 40 yards away.
I knew an SB, for a while who when her guy turns up , he likes to just sit, chat and brush her hair FFS...she sacked it, said he was weird for not wanting to pound her.
I also know about the fella who likes to turn up, get the girl in sussies, and squash bugs he brings with him with her arse, by sitting on em for him ????!!!!!